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Offline 1234

Evening maa'm  :hi:

Feelings...hmmmm.....did those feelings involve an axe?  :diablo:
    :kissgirl:

You mean they had affection for you.

What did you say?


I didn't say I wanted to fall in love with anyone else (no not at all) , just feeling left out that no-one has ever declared their undying love for me  :D I've had some crazed stalkers and some clients have said they "have feelings" for me, but no-one has ever used the love word in all these years!  :cry:

Like Strawberry, I never lead customers on. It just creates havoc and problems both ways. I'm friendly (which would surprise some people!) but that's where it ends. I'm not a sugar-baby or whatever you call them. I've always found it strange how some people can get possessive/develop 'feelings' for or invent a whole deep and meaningful relationship with a service provider who is not hinting at reciprocation in any way. Seems a bit unhinged to me, but it may be orgasm-hormones or extreme denial or something (you can tell I'm soooo romantic here can't you! haha)

Offline Matium

I would have thought that for girls like Fatprossie and GlasgowGirl, the solution was easy, just respond to any declarations of love with:

"I'm a married woman"  - and they'll leave you alone.

It's all the single girls who have to find the correct form of words so that they can let clients down easily without hurting them.

Offline Strawberry

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If someone asks me out on a date, and I don't wish to take the relationship further, I simply say “No thank you”. I don't need a partner as an excuse, also considering we already participate in liaisons with people who often are doing so without their partner's knowledge
 - well it makes slight mockery of the idea a partner as an excuse. Don't you think?

Offline Matium

I think if a woman says:

"I'm married"

then that's the universal signal for men to leave her alone.

It's not an excuse when it's the truth.

Offline cunnyhunt

Just say you have an STD. that would work.. :D :D

It CAN be a bit difficult if you see someone loads and you genuinely like them and enjoy being with them AND having sex with them.... and I'm happily married too   :blush:

Offline Matium

It CAN be a bit difficult if you see someone loads and you genuinely like them and enjoy being with them AND having sex with them.... and I'm happily married too   :blush:

So when they say they love you, you say what,,,,,?

I just smile and give them a big kiss, deflect from the actual statement.

Offline mattylondon

I would have thought that for girls like Fatprossie and GlasgowGirl, the solution was easy, just respond to any declarations of love with:

"I'm a married woman"  - and they'll leave you alone.

It's all the single girls who have to find the correct form of words so that they can let clients down easily without hurting them.

I'd agree up to a point. A quick "I'm married" should be it, end of story. As you say, the single girl could have a harder time.

Of course, a misty eyed punter may think a married working girl is still "fair game", on the grounds that "well, she's having sex with other men anyway", so hardly committed to that person totally, body and soul, so why not with me?

Now the answer to that may depend on lots of things, I guess, such as the nature of that marriage, openness on the prostitution side of things with the other half and so on. I'm sure it could be a very complicated matter, but I suspect that being married alone would not stop a determined and "loved up" punter!

Its harder if there are feelings on both sides (although I always try and hide mine) and the guy says something along the lines of, 'I can't see you anymore because this is getting too deep/painful/difficult etc for me' and just disappears out of my life!!  Its almost like a mini grieving.  OK it doesnt last long ( maybe a week) but it still hurts!!  Maybe thats just me ....

Offline philuk1uk

Its harder if there are feelings on both sides (although I always try and hide mine) and the guy says something along the lines of, 'I can't see you anymore because this is getting too deep/painful/difficult etc for me' and just disappears out of my life!!  Its almost like a mini grieving.  OK it doesnt last long ( maybe a week) but it still hurts!!  Maybe thats just me ....

I think that is a natural human reaction, we get comfortable and accustomed to seeing certain people.  I worked for the same company for a number of years and over that time I found that if someone left after a few years I did miss them and I suppose a mini grieving period ensues where you have to get used to without their face, banter, etc, in the office, or in the case of one young lady, her fabulous chest which I did miss dearly!  :D :P

Offline mattylondon

Its harder if there are feelings on both sides (although I always try and hide mine) and the guy says something along the lines of, 'I can't see you anymore because this is getting too deep/painful/difficult etc for me' and just disappears out of my life!!  Its almost like a mini grieving.  OK it doesnt last long ( maybe a week) but it still hurts!!  Maybe thats just me ....

Yes, I've heard that a few times.

I don't think you could afford, emotionally, for that to last any length of time, could you? Otherwise, you'd be in the wrong business.

At least you're honest about it. It would be nothing for any working girl to be embarrassed about, not that I was suggesting you were.


Offline smiths

I have been entangled emotionally with WGs over the years but with age has come a more just wanting a no strings good punt and leave attitude. It works for me and even though its with regulars that emotions can arise in my experience i dont let it happen nowadays.


Offline mattylondon

I have been entangled emotionally with WGs over the years but with age has come a more just wanting a no strings good punt and leave attitude. It works for me and even though its with regulars that emotions can arise in my experience i dont let it happen nowadays.

I agree with that.

When I first did it, I used to ask myself questions, such as "if only"?! And... why is she doing this?!

These days, after a punt, I can honestly say I forget about the working girl, as soon as I leave. And I don't mean that in a bad way. The only time it will occur to me to remember, is if I want to make a return visit.

I think you have to, by necessity, be a little desensitised to working girls due the nature of the encounter, as I'm sure they must do. I'm sure plenty of people forget one-night stands or want to!
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Offline smiths

I agree with that.

When I first did it, I used to ask myself questions, such as "if only"?! And... why is she doing this?!

These days, after a punt, I can honestly say I forget about the working girl, as soon as I leave. And I don't mean that in a bad way. The only time it will occur to me to remember, is if I want to make a return visit.

I think you have to, by necessity, be a little desensitised to working girls due the nature of the encounter, as I'm sure they must do. I'm sure plenty of people forget one-night stands or want to!

One aspect that has changed is the GFE being on offer, this can be misconstrued by some as the WG fancying the punter as she is so convincing, in reality its likely she is just very good at her job. I was fooled years ago by this with a WG who it turned out tried to tap me for a "loan", she was very very convincing but i wouldnt fall for it now.

Punts have certainly generally got warmer in my experience over the years from the no kissing at all freezer treatment of the 80s post AIDS to what we have now. I can see how a newbie could think its more than just a punt and a real connection has been made, perhaps it has on occassion but its unlikely to be more in most cases and in my opinion its best to view it as what it is, a paid for shag, and a very good service offered. ;)

Offline mattylondon

I was fooled years ago by this with a WG who it turned out tried to tap me for a "loan", she was very very convincing but i wouldnt fall for it now.

I've had that happen to me too. The first time, it was "could you grab me some fags on your way". Stupidly, I still went through with this booking. Service was good enough, but the next time around it was "my gas bill is due, but....". So she took me for a mug, the first time around. I made my excuses and left, the second time.


Punts have certainly generally got warmer in my experience over the years


Could this not also be due to the increased competition from foreign girls, rather than an increase in warmth, as such? I doubt there was such variety, when you started out punting?

An attitude like that now would put a lot of girls out of business very quickly.

Offline smiths

I've had that happen to me too. The first time, it was "could you grab me some fags on your way". Stupidly, I still went through with this booking. Service was good enough, but the next time around it was "my gas bill is due, but....". So she took me for a mug, the first time around. I made my excuses and left, the second time.

Could this not also be due to the increased competition from foreign girls, rather than an increase in warmth, as such? I doubt there was such variety, when you started out punting?

An attitude like that now would put a lot of girls out of business very quickly.

Without doubt the competition from foreign WGs cut prices and increased services on offer, kissing and OWO became the norm, they are a great example of the free market in action, to the punters advantage. Competition is a wonderful thing. :D

Whether its seeming warmth or real warmth i dont care as long as its convincing enough but as you say having a bad attitude and letting it show could put WGs out of business so if smart they will at least try to act warm and friendly. ;)

Offline mattylondon

Whether its seeming warmth or real warmth i dont care as long as its convincing enough but as you say having a bad attitude and letting it show could put WGs out of business so if smart they will at least try to act warm and friendly. ;)

Yes, genuine warmth from a WG outside of a booking doesn't interest me, as that's not what the GFE should be about!

As long as they are able to 'switch it on' and produce the goods during the booking, I walk away a happy punter!

The GFE is where I sometimes think Thai and South East Asian girls have the edge. That is, their ability to switch on and make you believe that they are your girlfriend during the duration of the booking. We all know it's an act, but to my mind, they are the best. What are your thoughts on this, as you've been punting a lot longer than I?

Offline smiths

Yes, genuine warmth from a WG outside of a booking doesn't interest me, as that's not what the GFE should be about!

As long as they are able to 'switch it on' and produce the goods during the booking, I walk away a happy punter!

The GFE is where I sometimes think Thai and South East Asian girls have the edge. That is, their ability to switch on and make you believe that they are your girlfriend during the duration of the booking. We all know it's an act, but to my mind, they are the best. What are your thoughts on this, as you've been punting a lot longer than I?

I cant call individual nationalities to be honest. The click factor and/or a great GFE which always leads to great punts can come out of the blue from a WG from anywhere i have found.

Its very much an individual trait that i have seen no pattern to, with punting at Parties which can be like the united nations its shown me this. One time i have found a Russian WG to be the typical cold as a freezer stereotype only to meet another who is the opposite. Preconceptions are natural as you go on what you have experienced or heard before but in punting i find it best not to have any apart from expecting good service of course.

Another point here is i dont ask to see a WGs ID so it has many times been the case where she has said she was say Polish only to say she is Hungarian the next time so i take a WGs real nationality with a pinch of salt. As i am not bi-lingual i often wouldnt know the difference, always makes me chuckle though when she has forgotten what she told me originally but as it doesnt affect her service i am not bothered.

I will punt with anyone from anywhere, variety is and always has been my spice. :D ;)

Hogan

Ladies, what do you do when...

For a second there I thought I was on ProssieNet, half the threads there begin with the above words by fluffies who treat the site as a platform to chat and flirt with prostitutes.


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