Popular media on UKEscorting.com (free site!)

UKPunting is a free, independent and not-for-profit paid sex buyer site.


Author Topic: Plenty of Fish, how to use it to find ......  (Read 8452 times)

Offline SirFrank

Fabswingers is not the place for married or attached guys to get a free shag. The following are all reasons I was given for not getting meetings on Fabswingers;

- If you advertise as a single guy and state you are unable to accommodate, you must be married (usually true)

- Won't meet dirty, cheating married men. Come back when you're divorced or bring your wife with you.

- All married men on this site are scum bags.

- I know I'm married but my husband knows I'm on Fab

- I might be a married women playing away, but I don't want caught up in your deceit.

If you do get a meet it will usually cost you the price of a hotel room or you end up shagging in the back of your car. (I've done it)

As has been mentioned before, if you want a guaranteed shag, pay for it!!

+1. Used to do a fair bit of Swinging back in the day but for the most part it's ballache. Sites are full of timewasters and it's generally too much effort. There's also some very weird set ups, especially with couples, where one is usually in it simply to please their partner. I gave up about 5-6 years ago
Banning reason: Shitstirring against admin on behalf of banned member

Giving this a try at the minute.
Managed to get a very normal woman to meet for coffee initially

Seems exactly what I was looking for. She doesn't get any, has her head screwed on and is an attractive Milf.  She seems open to a regular thing too. Exactly what I have been looking for.

It's  numbers game. Maybe 10 percent biting a little. Some of them rough chavs though

I've found a few local escorts on dating sites, the most recent on POF on the mobile 'nearby' section when I found out an escort and porn stars real name and that she lives within a mile of me... Oh, and I've shagged her sister  :scare:

Offline Andre 3000

Couldn't agree  more. Most women on fab think they are special as they get so much attention from the oversubscribed male population. Most of them I wouldn't even try to pull on a night out if I were single.

Would you care to share your other source?  :thumbsup:

The other source is OKCupid. Which like POF is supposed to be a dating site but a lot of women are just on their to have anonymous sex, the main draw of OKC is the attractiveness of the women is much higher imo. As a good looking,semi interesting man you can clean up on there. But if you're a decent looking couple you can clean up even more. I never would have thought that so many modern professional women would be into threesomes this much. But it makes sense.


Offline Hantsolo

POF has always been a bit hit and miss in my opinion, as others have said there are always more men than women on most sites and it seems to be that the free sites are even worse.

Have had a couple of meets from Fabswingers that were very good, but the last meet was a disaster and I legged it from the pub when I saw her come (she thought she was "curvy", but she was out of breath by the time she'd squeezed herself out of her car)

The best site (although it's a pay site) for me seems to be Sugardaddie which I know has been discussed on here. But I've had some absolutely beautiful women from there (ranging from early 20's to late 40's) and the most it's cost me in terms of the dates has been a few drinks and dinner.

But I agree, if you want to shag a good looking woman, with no strings who is going to be looking to please you more than herself AW is the place.

Offline richie

I've lurked on POF but never really bothered trying to pull on there. What put me off was the thought of putting my picture and personal info up on a dating site for the world and my wife to find...

Offline shrewsmale

+1. Used to do a fair bit of Swinging back in the day but for the most part it's ballache. Sites are full of timewasters and it's generally too much effort. There's also some very weird set ups, especially with couples, where one is usually in it simply to please their partner. I gave up about 5-6 years ago

I did say something on another thread concerning fabswingers. In short, its not the magic site guys think it is. Also so many minging couples have inflated egos due to it.

The fact I'm still escorting despite being relatively successful on FS tells you a lot.

Offline shrewsmale

I did say something on another thread concerning fabswingers. In short, its not the magic site guys think it is. Also so many minging couples have inflated egos due to it.

The fact I'm still escorting despite being relatively successful on FS tells you a lot.


Can I ask, of the attached guys on here, how have you dealt with the issue of showing your face? Assume no profile photo?

Offline Clarkson


Can I ask, of the attached guys on here, how have you dealt with the issue of showing your face? Assume no profile photo?

I was wondering about this, when I signed up I got to the final stages and a profile photo was a no choice requirement. It even mentions no fake or celebrity photos or profile is refused so that's me stumped.  So now I get emails every day asking why I didn't complete the profile is there a way around this?
Banning reason: Previously banned (marty) + Sending admin daft paranoid PMs demanding his warnings be deleted so other punters are put at risk

Offline JV547845

I just used to add a celebrity mug shot to search women i my area.  Your avatar will be too obvious though I'd be interested to know what sot of replies you got.

Offline DG


Can I ask, of the attached guys on here, how have you dealt with the issue of showing your face? Assume no profile photo?

Although I had a face pic in my private photos, I only ever showed it to women after a good deal of chat who seemed genuine, ie. Not very often. Eventually I took it off and if a woman wanted to see a face pic I told her I would text it to her. If she was prepared to give her mobile number then she was probably genuine, otherwise didn't show a face pic.

Regarding profile pics it didn't have to be a face pic. Neither did your verification pic. Pics was one of the biggest issues with FS. It was a hit and a miss whether or not a potential date wanted to see a full body/cock pic or not. The ones that were really up themselves had a three page profile with loads of conditions and usually included "cock pic means instant block" and "no face pic, no meet" yet they, using a woman's perogative, of course didn't have a face pic.
Banning reason: White-knight

Offline DG

I just used to add a celebrity mug shot to search women i my area.  Your avatar will be too obvious though I'd be interested to know what sot of replies you got.

I remember one woman on FS, quite hot as it happens, but up herself, used to Google Image the pics of new members, men and woman, and out any fakes.
Banning reason: White-knight

Offline JV547845

Just change them ever so slightly in photoshop so google RIS doesn't give any hits

What I find amazing about fab is the ones that are on there plus on AW but have such stringent criteria about the age/looks etc of a guy they will meet from there but probably see people in there AW life that don't meet that criteria.


The greater majority of people on fabswingers must be either independently wealthy or on state benefits since the same profiles are showing on line day in day out at the same times often live at varying times of the day. Thats why its clearly mostly fake. I think someone in a back office actually manages lots of female profiles, answers some emails to them and writes feedback for them from other fake profiles. It keeps the whole thing churning on. You can tell that happens because the same formulaic language,common words and phrases keep turning up in reviews. Of course there are one or two genuine gems..not saying there isnt. Ive fucked two of them.

Offline Andre 3000

The greater majority of people on fabswingers must be either independently wealthy or on state benefits since the same profiles are showing on line day in day out at the same times often live at varying times of the day. Thats why its clearly mostly fake. I think someone in a back office actually manages lots of female profiles, answers some emails to them and writes feedback for them from other fake profiles. It keeps the whole thing churning on. You can tell that happens because the same formulaic language,common words and phrases keep turning up in reviews. Of course there are one or two genuine gems..not saying there isnt. Ive fucked two of them.

Yeah a lot of profiles reek of behind the scenes chicanery especially the particularly good looking women. From reading the forums most men have never had a sniff of one or it was just webcam fun, a few have gotten so desperate that they've lowered themselves to see one of the many randy old women on there  :vomit:. But I would also garner a lot of women on the site are either very bored housewives or more likely have no job. So can sit on the site all day fantasising and chatting. Me and missus have come very close to a meet on FS but when she sent newer pictures she was a little too skanky looking and not in a good way.

Offline akauya

What I find amazing about fab is the ones that are on there plus on AW but have such stringent criteria about the age/looks etc of a guy they will meet from there but probably see people in there AW life that don't meet that criteria.


Looks like you don't understand the difference between a swinger and a prostitute.

Apart from the fakes there are women on FS who also advertise as prostitutes on AW. The same pictures.  I have also had the odd woman on FS offer sex for money which of course is against the websites rules.

It is quite clear that for males, FS is almost always a complete waste of time. It is nothing more than a big hard drive in a server rack. A trick of the mind simple built on the most basic of human emotions ,hope..backed up by manufactured profiles and feedback. All designed to keep you hooked and coming back. The hope is that you will become a site supporter and pay money in the hope of bettering your chances.

You look at the fit women and see all those faked feedbacks by those lucky guys who have fucked them..the ones that usually start with a line like.."well what can i say..blah blah blah..".

You think to yourself, well if all those guys have knobbed her..surely i can too..but it never happens and why? becuase niether she nor the guys exist and no no-one ever knobbed her.


True there are some real women but they are mostly huge tattoed munters. You see them on the cams with all the sycophants fawning over them telling them they are beautiful.

Then there will be people who say,,well you have had no success because you dont understand swinging.

Now i have fucked two women off FS. Neither were the stunners who you see. They were both purely opportunistic shags where the girls were probably hot and horny. Both were living what i can only describe as slightly edgy lifestyles but hey, a shags a shag.

As an experiment i sometimes flood all the females on the sitte that are live at the time i go one, with a nice message. It takes ages for them all to reply and inevitably they all say oh sorry, at work/have the kids at home (not even school hols) etc etc..in short,there is always an excuse and why? Becuase someone is paid to provide those replies and it takes them time to write them all but they all sound the same because they are all coming from the same person !

And strangely, despite all those women being busy,their profile stays live day in and day out.

An almost total fake website based on manipulation of the mind..

Offline akauya

Yet again a bunch of men mistaking swinging as an easy way to get a leg over. As I said it multiple times before; swinging is a lifestyle; it's not a way to get an easy fuck. If that's what you want then you pay a prostitute!

Time and time again I see men bitching about what a waste of time swinging sites are... that's because YOU ARE NOT SWINGERS, get that into your heads!

Take this as a test, would you be willing to see your wife/girlfriend fucked by a number of unknown men and be happy about it? Would you mind seeing her sucking another man's cock right in front of you? How about three guys fucking her in all her holes at the same time, would you be happy with that? If your answer is no then fuck off you're not a swinger.

Swinging is a lifestyle, you really have to immerse yourself into it. You have to join their forums, attend munches (non-sex parties), get yourself known as a bona fide person into the swinging lifestyle not another man trying to get his leg over, there are hundreds of time wasters so if you are known as a reliable guy the word spreads, you get invited to parties and then the fun starts. All that takes time and effort and of course not all swingers are pretty 20 years olds. Swinging women come in all ages and sizes.

Also if you are married and you think of yourself "a swinger" but "swing" behind you wife's back then forget it, swingers will smell you a mile off.

Stick to prostitutes and quit messing about in swingers sites.

Offline Diehard

POF is impossible to get a fuck with a hot woman on unless you are seriously good looking .

I hadn't thought of offering money so may rejoin. At least some english women there!!!

They seem to be getting better at spotting the profiles with the fake pictures as my old profiles were deactivated

POF is impossible to get a fuck with a hot woman on unless you are seriously good looking .

I hadn't thought of offering money so may rejoin. At least some english women there!!!

They seem to be getting better at spotting the profiles with the fake pictures as my old profiles were deactivated

They are a mixed bunch on POF,mostly single mums hunting their next meal ticket,the odd widow looking for a new husband and the odd genuine girl looking for a date who should really be on a better quality pay dating site.

Offline JV547845

Stick to prostitutes and quit messing about in swingers sites.

Amen.  Even if you're paying for sex as a man, rule 1 about finding women on the internet, is to not come across as a yet another creepy guy on the internet.

Offline Dirty_Dogg

Yeah, if you're looking for free sex, POF is where to go. Success is guaranteed. One thing I would say is it's better if you're single. If you're married like me there's always a chance of bumping in to one of the girls u meet with your wife. But if like me it's worth the risk go for it.

To give an example, when I want free sex, I typically mail bomb the overweight women telling then how gorgeous they r. Pretty much guaranteed a response. Last week within an hour of first messaging a girl, she was telling how she wanted to swallow my load that night. I drove to sighthill to pick her up after telling my wife I was popping round to my dads. After getting her in the car she said she wanted to go to Krispy kremes - she was fat for a reason. Anyway after getting her a doughnut she gave me a BJ in the car and swallowed my load. I was ready to go home but then she said she wanted me to fuck her in the ass. Not only that but that she wanted to lick my asshole. Now I was thinking what a dirty bitch but what the hell. I then said I needed to pick up some condoms but she said she didn't want any and that they irritated her. Warning bells were going off in my head but no girl had ever said such things to me on my life before. Now 3 hours earlier we hadn't even known each other existed. Anyway I went back to hers and had the dirtiest sex of my life. I fucked her pussy and came in her ass bareback but the best thing was her sticking her tounge in my ass. She didn't lick it but actually tamed her tounge in as far as it would go. Unfuckingbelievable.

Now the girl was a total dog, must have been 16 stone but dirty as they cum. I've had other experiences on pof but this was the dirtiest. Basically it's got lots of ugly women looking for cock if that's your cup of tea.
Banning reason: 40 times banned troll

Offline cueball

Yeah, if you're looking for free sex, POF is where to go. Success is guaranteed. One thing I would say is it's better if you're single. If you're married like me there's always a chance of bumping in to one of the girls u meet with your wife. But if like me it's worth the risk go for it.

To give an example, when I want free sex, I typically mail bomb the overweight women telling then how gorgeous they r. Pretty much guaranteed a response. Last week within an hour of first messaging a girl, she was telling how she wanted to swallow my load that night. I drove to sighthill to pick her up after telling my wife I was popping round to my dads. After getting her in the car she said she wanted to go to Krispy kremes - she was fat for a reason. Anyway after getting her a doughnut she gave me a BJ in the car and swallowed my load. I was ready to go home but then she said she wanted me to fuck her in the ass. Not only that but that she wanted to lick my asshole. Now I was thinking what a dirty bitch but what the hell. I then said I needed to pick up some condoms but she said she didn't want any and that they irritated her. Warning bells were going off in my head but no girl had ever said such things to me on my life before. Now 3 hours earlier we hadn't even known each other existed. Anyway I went back to hers and had the dirtiest sex of my life. I fucked her pussy and came in her ass bareback but the best thing was her sticking her tounge in my ass. She didn't lick it but actually tamed her tounge in as far as it would go. Unfuckingbelievable.

Now the girl was a total dog, must have been 16 stone but dirty as they cum. I've had other experiences on pof but this was the dirtiest. Basically it's got lots of ugly women looking for cock if that's your cup of tea.

Ha ha, that's quite a review dogg, only thing missing is her pof link

Offline Dirty_Dogg

Her name on POF was nickymiddlemass but I notice she's taken down her profile. I'm sure she will be back on again soon though. She's the sort of girl who gets very depressed about being a minger and she's seing a councillor for her low self esteem and due to her husband leaving her. Who the fuck can blame him though! She told me she gets upset at the fact men only want her for sex but get embarrassed to be seen out in public with her. Told me one story of a guy who shagged her and wouldn't even let her have a glass of water before he kicked her out of his flat.
Banning reason: 40 times banned troll


Latest videos on UKEscorting.com (free site!)

Latest images on UKEscorting.com (free site!)