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Offline Marmalade

This thread was a great read. I think what has worked for many of you will not work for a guy of 73 years old. I never go to bars and do not have a cleaner. I do only occasionally now go to professional conferences but there everyone knows me so I arrange an incall on the way there or home or an outcall (usually RB) to the bedroom late evening.

I don't really rate a conference a total success unless I get a shag. A lot of professional women are equally fucking bored by the meaningless blah and want a cuddle and shag that no-one will know about. If the hotel bar is open late that's usually where they hang but better is between conference meetings when they want some meaningful non-work chat or gesture that recognises them as a "person" rather than a conference badge with fanny attached. Then find excuse to look something over in the room.

If I don't get a shag then I'll visit a prossie afterwards to even the balance in my balls.

Offline Marmalade

Women don't need sex in the way men think they do. We don't get ball ache or similar. The only time our body will say we need it will be when our lock is ticking and we need sex to have a baby
However that doesn't mean we don't want it. Although we can be happily satisfied by a toy. Most women rather than want the sex crave the intimacy that sex brings. The touching kissing stroking. After all do that for a woman and have her an orgasm and no sex and she won't complain or moan there was no actual sex. She will roll over and go to sleep quite happily
Men don't crave the intimacy but the physicality of sex
Asking a civvie is likely to either get you slapped or arrested. Not because she wouldn't think about it as every woman has her price even if some are stupidly high. It's because by asking her she is assuming you are saying she looks like a whore. Women can take insults in the smallest of things

Well said as usual Dani. Like anything, if you are selling a deal you talk the language of the buyer.

She wants intimacy, I want sex. Fair trade. Naturally we both may place limits on what we are prepared to offer in the exchange but that's basically it.

It's weird how this translates into prossying & punting. Men mostly pay to skip the intimacy and avoid time-wasting in the search.

Yet its not a complete quid pro quo. Most prostitutes would want very high fees for male-urge total. Imagine making a booking with the instruction: Leave the door open, and be naked with your arse in the air. Don't move, speak or look. The money will be thrown on the floor where you can see it then I'll put a condom on and fuck your brains out and leave.

To get that it would have to be a role play (ie previous intimacy) or higher fees. For what? Ignoring minimal female needs. Intimacy's less expensive I think as long as one doesn't go too over the score.

aerofan5

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A couple of years ago, spending summer in Italy, regularly had a pizza and spaghetti in a small local restaurant. One waitress was a tall blonde girl, late 20's, who spoke passable English and came from Czech Republic. She always thanked for any tip.

A chance meeting in a small supermarket and had a chat. She had split with her boyfriend and was renting a room in a flat with some other girls. She was short of cash and I paid for her groceries, suggesting, joking, that I could be a occasional paying boyfriend until she met someone else.

She gave out a big smile and accepted.

We sorted out money which was very reasonable, by the meet, not by the hour, and I had great sex with her for the whole summer. She was inexperienced, but totally enthusiastic and up for anything I suggested!!

Offline HappyandLucky

A couple of years ago, spending summer in Italy, regularly had a pizza and spaghetti in a small local restaurant. One waitress was a tall blonde girl, late 20's, who spoke passable English and came from Czech Republic. She always thanked for any tip.

A chance meeting in a small supermarket and had a chat. She had split with her boyfriend and was renting a room in a flat with some other girls. She was short of cash and I paid for her groceries, suggesting, joking, that I could be a occasional paying boyfriend until she met someone else.

She gave out a big smile and accepted.

We sorted out money which was very reasonable, by the meet, not by the hour, and I had great sex with her for the whole summer. She was inexperienced, but totally enthusiastic and up for anything I suggested!!


:drinks:
You dirty dog you, well done

spkmstr48

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I've got female friends who say the same thing. One in particular who can't seem to keep a female friend for more than a few weeks without falling out with her in some way. It's always the others' fault of course. I don't really get what's going on there.

Didn't know you knew my OH Aspen :lol: :lol: :lol:

spkmstr48

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 Imagine making a booking with the instruction: Leave the door open, and be naked with your arse in the air. Don't move, speak or look. The money will be thrown on the floor where you can see it then I'll put a condom on and fuck your brains out and leave.

That happens often enough for me, when that's what I want, I just ask, some will some won't. Some on a first meet.

Offline hunnieme

Tried twice on Craigslist this week, carefully worded. Both ads got pulled down quicker than a whore's drawers.

Offline webpunter

:drinks:
You dirty dog you, well done
+1
AeroF - any motorhome romping in the diary this summer ?

aerofan5

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To WebP.

No, this summer my ex-escort girlfriend that I met and had a three way with on my American motorhome holiday, is coming to Europe in July (on my dollar).

We are visiting German castles this holiday, from Basel to Kiel, driving and staying at nice hotels.

It sounds a bit fluffy now as we are becoming regular companions. But we both know that with the age and lifestyle difference, our meetings are twice yearly and are just what they are - no possibilty of permanent attachment, just wild and enjoyable sex romps.  I am always amazed how many orgasms we manage, but I take both Viagra and Levitra with me and they certainly keep the bits functioning. We know each other's preferences very well now, and her enthusiasm is awesome!

Offline webpunter

To WebP.
No, this summer my ex-escort girlfriend that I met and had a three way with on my American motorhome holiday, is coming to Europe in July (on my dollar).
We are visiting German castles this holiday, from Basel to Kiel, driving and staying at nice hotels.
It sounds a bit fluffy now as we are becoming regular companions. But we both know that with the age and lifestyle difference, our meetings are twice yearly and are just what they are - no possibilty of permanent attachment, just wild and enjoyable sex romps.  I am always amazed how many orgasms we manage, but I take both Viagra and Levitra with me and they certainly keep the bits functioning. We know each other's preferences very well now, and her enthusiasm is awesome!
Evening Aero - reading your exploits on the other side of the pond was an inspiration showing that there is a future out there, when in due course i enter the autumn of my punting career.  Just a little bit of fluffiness is good for the soul.  My observation is that you both know the score - and enjoy the time spent together.  If she didn't like you then she wouldn't come over for the trips.  Bet you're looking forward to July.  May i suggest a non FAP period in the 2nd half of June.  Then she'll deffo get 'both barrels'.  Maybe a warning would be considerate - or you can just surprise her.  My experience is that no fapping benefits more than just with the 1st pop - it continues a good few times after that.  My favourite 'enhancer' is Kamagra & in sachet form works more quickly than viagra.  And its cheaper.  But best to drink water before taking it.  Maybe worth getting some & give it a road-test prior to her arrival   :D   Have fun and be sure to post up a review for us all

Offline pianodave

Craigslist used to be great for finding civvies for this - I once paid a cute 18 year old to take it up the ass for the first time. I believe her when she said she hadn't done it before - the combination of fear, horniness and disbelief on her face was very arousing. But craigslist seems very hard now to get an ad onto without it being pulled very fast. The odd one slips through, but however carefully worded it is, they seem to spot it now.

Oberyn1

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why offer a non-escort a money for a shag?! That is crazy talk. If she finds you attractive and your game is tight, why wouldn't she fuck you for free? Anyway, most normal women won't accept money for sex, and if they did, they would ask for crazy money unless she is a druggie or alcoholic (in which case you're hardly going to fuck her) and is desperate for the money  :D the kind of money you would need to offer a normal woman, you could use to meet with an even hotter woman, who is a working girl.
« Last Edit: April 08, 2015, 12:45:33 pm by Oberyn1 »

Offline Marmalade

Well there's some advice there lads, from a troll wankbag, asking for advice on a foursome, who admits he hasn't had his first punt. :rolleyes:

Offline HappyandLucky

Well there's some advice there lads, from a troll wankbag, asking for advice on a foursome, who admits he hasn't had his first punt. :rolleyes:
Have to agree that Ob1 is coming across more and more as a fantasist, but seems to lack the memory of what he posted last. :hi:

Offline Freundlich

So having punted for a few years, I find myself walking through London and to wile away the time - price up those walking past me. I'm sure I'm not alone in this am I ?

I was at the ideal home exhibition last week, a lady perhaps 5'3 tall tiny waist and the largest most unfeasible boobs walked past. Now I would have dropped four figures on her straight off, but I think my wife - on my arm at th etime - may have asked questions.....

Offline Marmalade

I think 4 figures is out of order personally, otherwise I agree with your post. I not only ask myself, at current rates, how much I'd pay her for a shag, I even imagine her saying yes or negotiating a price to a yes. It's a nice mental exercise while talking all that meaningless woman shite that they like while deciding if they might drop their knickers.

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Offline GalaxyMan

Try it when looking at your OH...... what you decide might be interesting........

GM

BiggishSi

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Loosely linked: a WG I was seeing regularly (but then stopped as she quit) hooked me up with a. Non- WG friend of hers who was struggling money-wise. Gorgeous girl with great tits in her early 20s. Agreed 120 quid and that was that. Met a few times until she was sorted and then things faded out. Shame really as she was hot and pretty filthy!

spkmstr48

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Try it when looking at your OH...... what you decide might be interesting........

GM

Did that, answer:

 :scare: :scare: :scare:

Which is a shame as it wasn't always thus.

Offline riskytimes

craigslist is one huge big scam !!! reply to any ad and you will be bombarded with spam emails from euro girls and agencys

Offline Deepstroker

There are plenty of profiles on fabswingers who are also either
a)prosssies advertising on AW
or
b)pseudo prossies saying they only meet in clubs but are really hookers working with the club to lure mug punters

So if there are so many women wanting cock on Fab,,why is it you cant even offer them money for it? Answer.because most are fake anyway and dont really exist or have a hidden agenda/other motives.

Andre 3000

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craigslist is one huge big scam !!! reply to any ad and you will be bombarded with spam emails from euro girls and agencys

Your main problem is you're answering ads. Most of the ads in the W4M section are fake generated spam or are men trawling for dick pics. Post your own advert and you'll get better results.

I've been fairly successful on CL, but you will be paying for pussy. Even then it usually works out much cheaper than AW and it's ilk.


Offline Marmalade

True but you do have to post an exceptionally good ad.

Offline Horizontal pleasures

How can you go onto one of these sites and not give yourself away in case some non-punter acquaintance (male or female) is there and will tell your family about it? This may seem a naïve question but truly it bothers me

Offline pianodave

Posting your own ad on CL can reap great rewards if you are very lucky and it doesn't get pulled straight down - which is hard now, as they seem to look for any mention or hint of rewards even if disguised or whatever. But most ads just get timewaster responses. I had some very memorable meets from this method in the past, but now it just isnt worth the hassle - you still get bombarded with spam, guys fishing for dick pics, bored girls just messing around and girls expecting 1000s. Most ads go no where. so you need to post a lot of ads, just to get one up, and then get loads up to get a viable reply, and also trawl through all the junk. And you are still paying. In the end, it probably isn't worth it.

i got very lucky with my first ever ad, a very cute teen stunner replied, met up that day with no hassle, and had a great session. But I had hit a big win early on by chance - after that it became rarer and rarer to even get a reply, and now it's very hard even to get the ad listed. Something to try only if you have a lot of time on your hands.

Offline riskytimes

because your email address is not shown to the others you get a craigslist generated link !!

ive posted genuine ads for single women and couples strongly asking not to be replied to by agency , euro and any other profit making scammers but guess what yep its all crap that you get !! so inmho leave well alone. simples

Offline pianodave

Got chatting to a gorgeous alt-looking young lithuanian the other day who said was struggling for cash. She suggested a paid quickie, which I accepted, and it turned into a whole afternoon of shagging! She really got into it, and was dripping wet and cumming over and over. CIM, DFK, lots of RO and some kinkiness too. Gave her her first rimming, which she enjoyed once she got used to the strange feeling. Afterwards she said she felt guilty taking any money, as she had so much fun. Hopefully she will be up for a repeat session next time she has a bill to pay  :drinks:

Offline thebadooboy

Keep the stories coming up. Had a good time and few ideas reading through them.  :yahoo:

Hatcher

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I don't get it. What's the logic of offering a civvie money for sex? Surely is much easier to hire an escort.

Did you read the OP?

Hi, have any of you had success offering non-escorts money for sex?  If so, any tips, like what type of girls to approach and how you should communicate.  I find the idea kinda fun.

Thanks :)

Try putting this on a tee shirt:

Hidden Image/Members Only

It might start a conversation or two.

Offline ryandunn

i'm sure the hot chav girls in my town would be down to make a quick £50  :diablo:

Offline purple_t

Craigslist used to be great for finding civvies for this - I once paid a cute 18 year old to take it up the ass for the first time. I believe her when she said she hadn't done it before - the combination of fear, horniness and disbelief on her face was very arousing. But craigslist seems very hard now to get an ad onto without it being pulled very fast. The odd one slips through, but however carefully worded it is, they seem to spot it now.

Yeah the one time I tried this on Craiglist my as was pulled very quickly, and I was very careful with my wording. I may try again at some point.

Hatcher

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Yeah the one time I tried this on Craiglist my as was pulled very quickly, and I was very careful with my wording. I may try again at some point.


Just glancing through Craigslist Manchester

External Link/Members Only

Some very explicit ads.

Tried Vivastreet for some pretty tame stuff (sensual masseuse wanted) but got only one reply and that was from a woman in New York! I suppose there are risks and dangers.


Hatcher

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Yeah the one time I tried this on Craiglist my as was pulled very quickly, and I was very careful with my wording. I may try again at some point.

Just noticed this gem of a typo  :lol:

Offline purple_t


Offline Deepstroker


Just glancing through Craigslist Manchester

External Link/Members Only

Some very explicit ads.



Yes,they are 99% fake. If you reply you will receive some BS about following a link,normally to a paid webcam show site. The clue is that there is no mention of location in the headline of the ad..

Hatcher

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A few years ago I 'joined' a local NW dating club or whatever. I hooked up once with a young fat chick who was looking for a 'true love' relationship. I probably could have shagged here but I didn't. I did notice a few females on the list included the phrase 'generous older man' in their blurb, and I took this to mean that they were not averse to getting paid for sex. I might try "Generous older man looking for a sweet, understanding and sympathetic younger female companion."  :cool:

Offline pianodave

I've met this "civvie" about 20 times now. I originally bumped into her, and she said she needed £50 for something specific, we got chatting, and somehow ended up agreeing a quick BJ for £50, which turned into a 4 hour shagathon. I am giving her token amounts now, she doesn't even seem bothered about the money any more. £20 for 3 or 4 hours is normal.

I'm really not sure about her though, so many things she says are starting to make no sense. I think it's possible she is actually an escort (she is EE) and just wants to get out of the house of something.  Or maybe there is some other story. Sometimes she actually spends money on me. On one occasion we spent about 15 hours together, fucked about 7 or 8 times, and I offered her £150 - she refused it and eventually took 50, grudgingly. I'm pretty sure if I never mentioned money, she wouldn't ask for any. She is very very keen to meet constantly, messaging me at all hours asking when we can meet next.

She seems bright enough, but I don't believe for one second she is actually wanting to shag me - 20 years younger, stunning, and claims to have a number of friends with benefits around her own age, in far better shape than me - has shown me some photos of them. At first she seemed very into the sex, but now I'm not sure at all - I think she might just be a great actress. Also seems to have a boyfriend, who she seems fond of. I've no idea what she is getting out of it. She is incredibly cautious with her personal details, meets me in random locations so I cannot work out where she lives, for example. She also has two phones, at least one of which vibrates constantly.

Am just going to go with it until it comes to an end. Would definitely do this again though, given the chance.

Curious to know any ideas regarding why she is doing this. First thought is that she is an escort, but then why on earth spend so much time making so little cash???
« Last Edit: September 03, 2015, 12:06:54 am by pianodave »

Expl1cit

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I've met this "civvie" about 20 times now. I originally bumped into her, and she said she needed £50 for something specific, we got chatting, and somehow ended up agreeing a quick BJ for £50, which turned into a 4 hour shagathon. I am giving her token amounts now, she doesn't even seem bothered about the money any more. £20 for 3 or 4 hours is normal.

I'm really not sure about her though, so many things she says are starting to make no sense. I think it's possible she is actually an escort (she is EE) and just wants to get out of the house of something.  Or maybe there is some other story. Sometimes she actually spends money on me. On one occasion we spent about 15 hours together, fucked about 7 or 8 times, and I offered her £150 - she refused it and eventually took 50, grudgingly. I'm pretty sure if I never mentioned money, she wouldn't ask for any. She is very very keen to meet constantly, messaging me at all hours asking when we can meet next.

She seems bright enough, but I don't believe for one second she is actually wanting to shag me - 20 years younger, stunning, and claims to have a number of friends with benefits around her own age, in far better shape than me - has shown me some photos of them. At first she seemed very into the sex, but now I'm not sure at all - I think she might just be a great actress. Also seems to have a boyfriend, who she seems fond of. I've no idea what she is getting out of it. She is incredibly cautious with her personal details, meets me in random locations so I cannot work out where she lives, for example. She also has two phones, at least one of which vibrates constantly.

Am just going to go with it until it comes to an end. Would definitely do this again though, given the chance.

Curious to know any ideas regarding why she is doing this. First thought is that she is an escort, but then why on earth spend so much time making so little cash???

I have an idea, she lives as a figment of your imagination.  You may not realise but you have contradicted yourself many times in your post, to the point where you are trying to convince yourself that your story is true.  I have a very similar relationship with a civvie, which is not in my imagination.  The only problem is, she is inflatable and it takes me at least 20 minutes to pump her up, every time I want a shag which after about 20 times now is exhausting.  I'm going to go with it until she gets another hole in her I cannot mend.

vw

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I've met this "civvie" about 20 times now. I originally bumped into her, and she said she needed £50 for something specific, we got chatting, and somehow ended up agreeing a quick BJ for £50, which turned into a 4 hour shagathon. I am giving her token amounts now, she doesn't even seem bothered about the money any more. £20 for 3 or 4 hours is normal.

I'm really not sure about her though, so many things she says are starting to make no sense. I think it's possible she is actually an escort (she is EE) and just wants to get out of the house of something.  Or maybe there is some other story. Sometimes she actually spends money on me. On one occasion we spent about 15 hours together, fucked about 7 or 8 times, and I offered her £150 - she refused it and eventually took 50, grudgingly. I'm pretty sure if I never mentioned money, she wouldn't ask for any. She is very very keen to meet constantly, messaging me at all hours asking when we can meet next.

She seems bright enough, but I don't believe for one second she is actually wanting to shag me - 20 years younger, stunning, and claims to have a number of friends with benefits around her own age, in far better shape than me - has shown me some photos of them. At first she seemed very into the sex, but now I'm not sure at all - I think she might just be a great actress. Also seems to have a boyfriend, who she seems fond of. I've no idea what she is getting out of it. She is incredibly cautious with her personal details, meets me in random locations so I cannot work out where she lives, for example. She also has two phones, at least one of which vibrates constantly.

Am just going to go with it until it comes to an end. Would definitely do this again though, given the chance.

Curious to know any ideas regarding why she is doing this. First thought is that she is an escort, but then why on earth spend so much time making so little cash???
Link please ? It sounds like a nice little treat for you !

Offline HappyandLucky

I've met this "civvie" about 20 times now. I originally bumped into her, and she said she needed £50 for something specific, we got chatting, and somehow ended up agreeing a quick BJ for £50, which turned into a 4 hour shagathon. I am giving her token amounts now, she doesn't even seem bothered about the money any more. £20 for 3 or 4 hours is normal.

I'm really not sure about her though, so many things she says are starting to make no sense. I think it's possible she is actually an escort (she is EE) and just wants to get out of the house of something.  Or maybe there is some other story. Sometimes she actually spends money on me. On one occasion we spent about 15 hours together, fucked about 7 or 8 times, and I offered her £150 - she refused it and eventually took 50, grudgingly. I'm pretty sure if I never mentioned money, she wouldn't ask for any. She is very very keen to meet constantly, messaging me at all hours asking when we can meet next.

She seems bright enough, but I don't believe for one second she is actually wanting to shag me - 20 years younger, stunning, and claims to have a number of friends with benefits around her own age, in far better shape than me - has shown me some photos of them. At first she seemed very into the sex, but now I'm not sure at all - I think she might just be a great actress. Also seems to have a boyfriend, who she seems fond of. I've no idea what she is getting out of it. She is incredibly cautious with her personal details, meets me in random locations so I cannot work out where she lives, for example. She also has two phones, at least one of which vibrates constantly.

Am just going to go with it until it comes to an end. Would definitely do this again though, given the chance.

Curious to know any ideas regarding why she is doing this. First thought is that she is an escort, but then why on earth spend so much time making so little cash???
If it's true she needs to seek help, if it's not you do  :hi:

Offline regular_guy

I was out with a friend (female) once and her older divorced Milf friend came along,  we had a few drinks, got chatting and she said she was after a new pair of Ugg boots,  I looked her straight in the eye and said i'd get her some if she sucked me off.

she genuinely thought about it for a few seconds and said ok.

I chickened out unfortunately  :(

TheNewSeeker

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Hi, have any of you had success offering non-escorts money for sex?  If so, any tips, like what type of girls to approach and how you should communicate.  I find the idea kinda fun.

Thanks :)

Any knob who does this needs locking up.

Firstly, enter these words into Google: man arrested for offering woman money for sex (actually use duckduckgo.com - it doesn't track anything).
Secondly, this sort of shit gives punting and punters a bad name. Giving punters a bad name helps detractors accelarate the imposition of the Swedish model in the UK. And no, that isn't a fucking blond babe. If you're confused, look it up.
Thirdly, and this might come as a shock to schoolboys, but, the porn videos fueling this fantasy are faked. Yes, really.

The rule is punters see WGs. These have clearly advertised sexual services for cash. End of. Go get help, or stick to porn, or find a good roleplay girl.

 :timeout:


Offline G.Raff

I have an idea, she lives as a figment of your imagination.  You may not realise but you have contradicted yourself many times in your post, to the point where you are trying to convince yourself that your story is true.  I have a very similar relationship with a civvie, which is not in my imagination.  The only problem is, she is inflatable and it takes me at least 20 minutes to pump her up, every time I want a shag which after about 20 times now is exhausting.  I'm going to go with it until she gets another hole in her I cannot mend.
:lol: :lol:

vw

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Hi, have any of you had success offering non-escorts money for sex?  If so, any tips, like what type of girls to approach and how you should communicate.  I find the idea kinda fun.

Thanks :)
What about the foodbanks, that I am yet to see but are everywhere, must be some prospects there.

Offline muffherwell91

What about the foodbanks, that I am yet to see but are everywhere, must be some prospects there.
I like your style, combining some charity work with paid for sex. I see you as a punting angel, who is giving something back to the poor unfortunate women in society who need it most. :angelgirl:

Offline arthur

Go get help, or stick to porn, or find a good roleplay girl.

 :timeout:

Or offer a non-escort money for sex  :hi:

harry_aw

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Well my wife's friend who is a very pretty Asian girl and a bit of a slut did do this to some guy on Facebook but stupidly went through an online pimp (who was prob the guy who fucked her) and didn't get any money for her services.
She agreed with the pimp on £1000...the guy turned up and said he paid the pimp, after she asked the pimp for her money he said he would give it to her after she's been with a few more guys....that's when she realised she wasn't getting the money and she was being a Moron for going along with his bs.
You can find her on tinder even though she has long term bf..like I said she's a bit of a slut.
There are girls out there, if the price is right they will oblige.


Peterpack

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Seeking Arrangement is right in this space (What i call Prostitution adjacent)

You get plenty of young uni girls who would not even consider working as a prostitute but will have sex for money with guys they quite like and feel safe with

I actually think if you line up every 18 to 21 year old in the country, over 50% would have sex for money with say a 30 year old they found not unattractive if they knew no one else would find out about it.

But only a tiny percentage of these same girls would go to the trouble to set themselves up for prostitution (ads, venue, risk of dodgey clients etc)

If you go upto a girl in a shopping centre and ask "will you fuck me for 300 quid", your asking to get arrested

But if you talk to girls in nightclubs and say "would you like to come over my place and hang out ? i'll make it worth your while", you can get away with asking the question and not get into too much trouble

« Last Edit: September 05, 2015, 09:14:19 am by Peterpack »

Offline Rich42

I have an idea, she lives as a figment of your imagination.  You may not realise but you have contradicted yourself many times in your post, to the point where you are trying to convince yourself that your story is true.  I have a very similar relationship with a civvie, which is not in my imagination.  The only problem is, she is inflatable and it takes me at least 20 minutes to pump her up, every time I want a shag which after about 20 times now is exhausting.  I'm going to go with it until she gets another hole in her I cannot mend.

That is a brilliant response  :drinks: :lol: :lol: