Offering non-escorts money for sex

[threechilliman]

I have found many "carer's" do this line of work.

A lot of 'nieces' offer it as well.

tcm

[Marmalade]

I remember a 'peacemaker' cunt in a mixed flat from my 'studenty' days who brokered a deal with two other people with "Look, he needs a shag, she needs some money, what's the problem?"

In spite of my earlier post, I can think of occasions where the cash incentive at very least managed to "close the deal."

I suppose the attractiveness of such a situation is that the woman is at least toying with the idea of shagging him rather than pewking or sewing her fanny shut at the thought. ..

[Marmalade]

I have found many "carer's" do this line of work.

And a great service that they offer. All respect to them.  

 Probably makes an immense difference to the persons so affected.

[charming_red]

I have found many "carer's" do this line of work.

If you're thinking Filipinos, then yes you're right 

[Sailormack]

The majority of women will sleep with you for cash.

It's just the amount that's negotiable 

[Marmalade]

The majority of women will sleep with you for cash.

It's just the amount that's negotiable 

Not only that, most of them do. Genetic. Find male to provide secure nest and food while female busies 'erself dropping puppies. Only a few women rise above their cavewoman mental programming.

[Sailormack]

Not only that, most of them do. Genetic. Find male to provide secure nest and food while female busies 'erself dropping puppies. Only a few women rise above their cavewoman mental programming.

Of course and if they get offended, that's because you haven't offered enough 

[goodboy13]

You'd be better off just asking for sex straight up without offering any money, there's a guy on YouTube who asked 100 random women if they wanted to go and have sex with him. Total strangers, all shapes and sizes, he got some angry responses but on the whole most just laughed &/or were too shocked to know how to respond but he did get a few 'yes' replies as well.

Why bother giving money away when you'll probably get a few shags just by asking as many girls as you can, to do it for free.

[Pauli]

Check these sites out
seeking arrangement.com
What's your price.com

[Sailormack]

You'd be better off just asking for sex straight up without offering any money, there's a guy on YouTube who asked 100 random women if they wanted to go and have sex with him. Total strangers, all shapes and sizes, he got some angry responses but on the whole most just laughed &/or were too shocked to know how to respond but he did get a few 'yes' replies as well.

Why bother giving money away when you'll probably get a few shags just by asking as many girls as you can, to do it for free.

The point of the cash offer is to keep you out of jail 

[Marmalade]

Why bother giving money away when you'll probably get a few shags just by asking as many girls as you can, to do it for free.

Why not give us the benefit of your experience and review some of your time consuming freebies then since you are so inactive on the punting scene.

[Cornish sub]

Check these sites out
seeking arrangement.com
What's your price.com

This makes me laugh; on whatsyourprice.com (notice no apostrophe in whats) there's a note at the bottom saying escorts aren't welcome, yet the whole modus operandi of that site is women naming their price for men to 'date' them. 

[Marmalade]

This makes me laugh; on whatsyourprice.com (notice no apostrophe in whats) there's a note at the bottom saying escorts aren't welcome, yet the whole modus operandi of that site is women naming their price for men to 'date' them.

what are we supposed to think: who wants to pay the most to watch them eat??

[mf_1101]

In my line of work I deal with loans and I am always thinking when a young single mother with a shit credit record gets a bit flirty with me in conversation...."if we could just go next door for a few minutes, I might be able to sort you out with a loan"...

Had one on the emails flirting away, sending me little winks and kisses and such. Walking disaster though, but I started to think about getting her under my desk for 10 minutes....

People can do desperate things in desperate situations. 

[Marmalade]

In my line of work I deal with loans and I am always thinking when a young single mother with a shit credit record gets a bit flirty with me in conversation...."if we could just go next door for a few minutes, I might be able to sort you out with a loan"...

Had one on the emails flirting away, sending me little winks and kisses and such. Walking disaster though, but I started to think about getting her under my desk for 10 minutes....

People can do desperate things in desperate situations. 

ever thought you might be in the wrong job 

[Dave2014]

I got very cheeky texting my cleaner (who's from Bulgaria). started off asking her if she did anything apart from cleaning, like massage.
Then offered her money for a massage, in a flirty text way.
When she didn't tell me to fuck off, I got really bold and offered her £40 for a BJ!

Bearing in mind she only earns about £8 an hour. She accepted.
Am thinking of getting another cleaner now, to see if lightning will strike twice.

Not tried it with anyone else to be honest.
I'd like to ask some girls at work that, but imagine if they told everyone at work what you'd said then you'd basically lose your job/rep.

So? Did you/she go through with the BJ? Has it become a regular part of the services she provides for you? Review?

[Deepstroker]

You'd be better off just asking for sex straight up without offering any money, there's a guy on YouTube who asked 100 random women if they wanted to go and have sex with him. Total strangers, all shapes and sizes, he got some angry responses but on the whole most just laughed &/or were too shocked to know how to respond but he did get a few 'yes' replies as well.

Why bother giving money away when you'll probably get a few shags just by asking as many girls as you can, to do it for free.

I think this approach has some merit. Think about Nigerian/419 scams. Who would think that if you got an email saying you'd won a lottery that you hadnt entered or that the governor of bonga bonga land who has taken over in a coup wants to deposit $5m in your account,that people would fall for it but then do.

Thats why they keep sending them.

Bulk approach,catch a few fish.

Secretly women want and need cock and its just the thin veneer of societal norms that prevent them from being so obvious bout it.

But get a woman naked in your bed and see how much she wants and needs it..

[bbwtease24xx]

I actually think there is alot of women that would take you up on that offer. Look on pof.

[Sailormack]

Ask yourself this question...

If a woman had the choice of the man and the money or just the money, what would she choose.?

Why do think "no fault" divorce is so popular.?

Once she has popped out the little golden egg, then he is just an ATM 

[Dani]

Women don't need sex in the way men think they do. We don't get ball ache or similar. The only time our body will say we need it will be when our lock is ticking and we need sex to have a baby
However that doesn't mean we don't want it. Although we can be happily satisfied by a toy. Most women rather than want the sex crave the intimacy that sex brings. The touching kissing stroking. After all do that for a woman and have her an orgasm and no sex and she won't complain or moan there was no actual sex. She will roll over and go to sleep quite happily
Men don't crave the intimacy but the physicality of sex
Asking a civvie is likely to either get you slapped or arrested. Not because she wouldn't think about it as every woman has her price even if some are stupidly high. It's because by asking her she is assuming you are saying she looks like a whore. Women can take insults in the smallest of things

[Aspen]

Men don't crave the intimacy but the physicality of sex

Both are important, more so than women think. But it's the physicality that nags at you all the time.

Women can take insults in the smallest of things

You bet! Especially when they are looking for something to get angry about.

[hockogrockle]

I was thinking something similar, sounds a bit dodge legally to me .... is it not soliciting?

It's certainly not soliciting. Soliciting involves importuning  people to get them to pay you for sex. What you are describing sound more like "Conspiring to Corrupt Public Morals", a ridiculous offence which is still law.

[Sailormack]

Women can take insults in the smallest of things

Maybe when you're married or in a relationship with them and they have you by the goolies. 

But not in my experience if they're not and trying to get access to your cash.

[Bikerboy]

Women don't need sex in the way men think they do. Although we can be happily satisfied by a toy. Most women rather than want the sex crave the intimacy that sex brings. The touching kissing stroking. After all do that for a woman and have her an orgasm and no sex and she won't complain or moan there was no actual sex. She will roll over and go to sleep quite happily
Men don't crave the intimacy but the physicality of sex

I can't speak to what women's needs are; but for many men, I agree it's true to say the physical side is dominant. Others, myself included, find the whole experience far more satisfying if intimacy is involved too.

[Connoisseur93]

I think you really need to consider it from her point of view. Someone who isn't familiar with the WG world, has just been offered money from a random guy she doesn't know for sex, especially online. With no security why on earth would she agree? And for that matter why would you not just try asking for nsa?

[tongueready]

i have some experience with this over the years, back in the good old days of Yahoo chat rooms when you could make up your own room names, often created rooms offering rewards, over the years had a few good meets with students looking for extra cash, were they also WG's unknown but for the price they met for I doubt it !!

also had some luck in other chat rooms just blatantly offering rewards for meets and had some luck, most of those I met aged 18-24 at a guess cannot think of anyone older

[Swsnapper]

Ha the yahoo chat rooms brings back memories.  Hundreds if not thousands of people in there all hoping the sexy girl they were chatting too (before web cams) wasn't really Norman, lorry driver from Rotherham.

Did manage a few meets myself but was a rariety

[tongueready]

Ha the yahoo chat rooms brings back memories.  Hundreds if not thousands of people in there all hoping the sexy girl they were chatting too (before web cams) wasn't really Norman, lorry driver from Rotherham.

Did manage a few meets myself but was a rariety

lol yes went through that quite a few times but that's where I had my first encounter with a student on there, saw her quite a few times too at £100 for 3-4 hours why not !!! overnight a few times £200

[KentAde]

Throughout last year I was using Craigslist to meet non-escorts for 'rewards' in exchange for oral and sex, etc., and met around 8 girls. I am still seeing 3-4 now - all now convinced to swallow my cum and wear stockings, etc and meet me on an outcall basis. Technically, they are all just acting like escorts with me, but are normal girls just wanting paid fuck-buddies!  Suits me anyway!

[Sailormack]

Throughout last year I was using Craigslist to meet non-escorts for 'rewards' in exchange for oral and sex, etc., and met around 8 girls. I am still seeing 3-4 now - all now convinced to swallow my cum and wear stockings, etc and meet me on an outcall basis. Technically, they are all just acting like escorts with me, but are normal girls just wanting paid fuck-buddies!  Suits me anyway!

In my experience, this is much more common than you think 

[Qwerty]

I've tried Craigslist a couple of times, and never got more than a few emails that led nowhere - 2 were from established pros, and one was underage - "no-one will know"! Yeah, right, as the handcuffs click on - and not in a nice way!

So does anyone have any suggestions as to how to make it work?

[SirFrank]

This one is perhaps borderline but here goes. On a stag do in west Wales in late 90s when stripper and her mate turn up for a show for the groom at our b&b (kind of small hotel and best man had squared it with the owner beforehand. He was also there for the gig). Anyhow me and the best man sort out the cash and we ask the girl if she would also do a show. She said she would for an extra £££ (can't remember how much now but I realised she was game). Anyhow the rest of the do didn't want to chip in extra so it was a one girl show but the strippers mate was sat next to me. We'd been on the piss all day (British Lions v South Africa, second test, Jerry Guscott drop goal) so were well tanked up.

After about 10 mins of stripping I asked her if she fancied a trip up to my room. We agreed on £40 which was pretty good value even back then. I had to borrow £20 off a mate as I was spent out at that point but went up to my room for a pretty decent fuck. Later that night Tyson bit Holyfields ear off - we were watching in some club - and I pulled a civvie from camarthen and went back to her hotel and got jiggy with it. Cost me a couple of bottles of two dogs or whatever alcopops were in at the time. Also had to stop on the hard shoulder of the m4 near port talbot on the way home on the Sunday to throw my guts up. Good weekend though

[JV547845]

Even if you manage to tempt a nooby you're very unlikely to get platinum service.  You've got to really fancy her to make it worth trying.  And in that case I'd just try to pull her instead of risking blowing it straight away.

[webpunter]

This one is perhaps borderline but here goes. On a stag do in west Wales in late 90s when stripper and her mate turn up for a show for the groom at our b&b (kind of small hotel and best man had squared it with the owner beforehand. He was also there for the gig). Anyhow me and the best man sort out the cash and we ask the girl if she would also do a show. She said she would for an extra £££ (can't remember how much now but I realised she was game). Anyhow the rest of the do didn't want to chip in extra so it was a one girl show but the strippers mate was sat next to me. We'd been on the piss all day (British Lions v South Africa, second test, Jerry Guscott drop goal) so were well tanked up.

After about 10 mins of stripping I asked her if she fancied a trip up to my room. We agreed on £40 which was pretty good value even back then. I had to borrow £20 off a mate as I was spent out at that point but went up to my room for a pretty decent fuck. Later that night Tyson bit Holyfields ear off - we were watching in some club - and I pulled a civvie from camarthen and went back to her hotel and got jiggy with it. Cost me a couple of bottles of two dogs or whatever alcopops were in at the time. Also had to stop on the hard shoulder of the m4 near port talbot on the way home on the Sunday to throw my guts up. Good weekend though

This is what memories are made of.  You've managed to combine rugby & shagging.  Paid for and civvie.  Me thinks priors to you getting into into punting big-styley.  My rugby shagging in comparison is v.limited.  Getting wanked off by some french hooker in Paris on an away fixture for 200 francs.  Dreadful i do remember - had to finish myself after she got bored with my inability to come.  Well i was wankered at the time

[fredpunter]

This is what memories are made of.  You've managed to combine rugby & shagging.  Paid for and civvie.  Me thinks priors to you getting into into punting big-styley.  My rugby shagging in comparison is v.limited.  Getting wanked off by some french hooker in Paris on an away fixture for 200 francs.  Dreadful i do remember - had to finish myself after she got bored with my inability to come.  Well i was wankered at the time

Well at least it wasn't one of the prop forwards

[webpunter]

Well at least it wasn't one of the prop forwards

It could have been.  Although thankfully back then they didn't have women's matches after the main event.  Or if they did no-one noticed [like now].  So probably not ? 

[spkmstr48]

You bet! Especially when they are looking for something to get angry about.

Why do some women ask you why you are angry at them when you're clearly not, then keep digging until you are, thus proving their point?

Dani, any female insight?

[plow.]

Personally, I wouldn't even attempt it. Kinda rude and pimpesqué... But if the thought of doing it, and succeeding is getting you off then I totally understand where you are coming from!

Think i'll keep it upstairs for now though

[Dogfather]

Even if you manage to tempt a nooby you're very unlikely to get platinum service.  You've got to really fancy her to make it worth trying.  And in that case I'd just try to pull her instead of risking blowing it straight away.

What about way out of my league?
I've a civvy who is in the perfect look category for me (I spend what little time around her thinking "don't get a boner, don't get a boner",  ).
I think she just wants to kick me in the balls with the look on her face (and I've not even attempted anything with her). 

[Dani]

Why do some women ask you why you are angry at them when you're clearly not, then keep digging until you are, thus proving their point?

Dani, any female insight?

No Idea, I don't understand some women any better than men do?  It has to be hormones as some will pick and pick and pick until there is a problem just for the sake of having an argument and will then sit and cry because you are arguing.  I don't get it and don't even try to understand it anymore and just pass it off as some women are just crazy

[Gothic D]

No Idea, I don't understand some women any better than men do?  It has to be hormones as some will pick and pick and pick until there is a problem just for the sake of having an argument and will then sit and cry because you are arguing.  I don't get it and don't even try to understand it anymore and just pass it off as some women are just crazy

Aint that the fucking truth.
I refuse to argue anymore and just either go for a drive or in the summer get the motorbike out and go for a blast.
Nine times out of ten she will be waiting for me to get back and  try to carry on the argument.
But I love her all the same.

[squeezebox]

No Idea, I don't understand some women any better than men do?  It has to be hormones as some will pick and pick and pick until there is a problem just for the sake of having an argument and will then sit and cry because you are arguing.  I don't get it and don't even try to understand it anymore and just pass it off as some women are just crazy

I've always put it down to some sort of test.

1. If you take the bait, and argue the point, let her have the last word, then go to bed and have sex. 

2. If you ignore her, it remains unresolved and will invariably be resumed at some point in the future, then revert to 1.

[spkmstr48]

I've always put it down to some sort of test.

1. If you take the bait, and argue the point, let her have the last word, then go to bed and have sex. 

2. If you ignore her, it remains unresolved and will invariably be resumed at some point in the future, then revert to 1.

Or in my case...

No sorry can't say, too revealing, sound of alarm bells from somewhere.

Thanks for input Dani 

[FCB]

I don't get it. What's the logic of offering a civvie money for sex? Surely is much easier to hire an escort.

[spkmstr48]

I don't get it. What's the logic of offering a civvie money for sex? Surely is much easier to hire an escort.

1 - because you want her but won't get her any other way

2 - for the thrill

3 - to tick it off the bucket list

[Horizontal pleasures]

This thread was a great read. I think what has worked for many of you will not work for a guy of 73 years old. I never go to bars and do not have a cleaner. I do only occasionally now go to professional conferences but there everyone knows me so I arrange an incall on the way there or home or an outcall (usually RB) to the bedroom late evening.

[Andre 3000]

I don't get it. What's the logic of offering a civvie money for sex? Surely is much easier to hire an escort.

Easier is boring a lot of the time especially if you regularly hire escorts.  Anyone with the readies can hire an escort, after a while there's no challenge in punting as it's done on a strictly money basis.

It's much more challenging to grab a 'civvie' The end thrill is a lot bigger and better. Of course asking women you know and interact with daily for this kind of thing is a quick way to being known as a creep if they take it the wrong way.

I personally prefer the craigslist way. Advertise for young women up for meeting for rewards or gifts.

[HappyandLucky]

Easier is boring



I personally prefer the craigslist way. Advertise for young women up for meeting for rewards or gifts.

I am obviously missing the point you are making. This seems like what all WG's do anyway and I don't know but would consider women that reply to such adverts are classed as WG's 

[Aspen]

No Idea, I don't understand some women any better than men do?  It has to be hormones as some will pick and pick and pick until there is a problem just for the sake of having an argument and will then sit and cry because you are arguing.  I don't get it and don't even try to understand it anymore and just pass it off as some women are just crazy

I've got female friends who say the same thing. One in particular who can't seem to keep a female friend for more than a few weeks without falling out with her in some way. It's always the others' fault of course. I don't really get what's going on there.

[Marmalade]

I prefer "willingness to consider paying" myself.

If it looks like a prossie, talks like a prossie, smells like a prossie . . . But one can never assume. And why pay if she doesn't want payment?

What I think a prossie senses is "willingness and ability to pay" and that's the signal that a lot of nice slags look for as well. On more than one occasion I've simply gone through the same motions as with a prossie and waited for her to ask for the cash and she's shagged without asking for cash (which means she would've been offended at the offer as well).

This business like frame of mind works for me, as has done anyway, with the occasional civvy shag. I have a figure in my head which I will be willing to pay if asked outright in return for sex. This also reminds me that paying for drinks is not included. Public place: coffee. Buy her drinks and she thinks you're stupid anyway so avoid. I'll pay for a taxi back to my place and she's welcome to drink booze I make available while shedding her clothes. Same as for an outcall.

I've never been asked for money afterwards that wasn't previously agreed. A large proportion of women are prostitutes at heart but wouldn't lower their street cred by admitting it.