Offering non-escorts money for sex

[JoeFiddleSticks]

Hi, have any of you had success offering non-escorts money for sex?  If so, any tips, like what type of girls to approach and how you should communicate.  I find the idea kinda fun.

Thanks

[HappyandLucky]

Everyone does it, it's described as a girlfriend = paying for flowers, perfume, meals, clubs etc all in the vain hope you can get your leg over.  If you are thinking of just approaching a civvie and offering money for a fuck then don't forget to video it and post it on her, we need a good 

[bensonhedges20]

Most girls become prossies as they are short of cash

This then becomes a lifestyle they want and love...

Rest is history

[Hungarian Lover]

Good luck with that one! Pictures of your facial injuries please.

[Convince Me]

No, no, the probabilities are you will find a girl who will take you up on the offer just for the thrill or out of necessity. I suppose it's down to how much of a Cad you are & the size of your wallett. I think start point has to be £250 (visible in wallet) anything lower may be regarded as an insult!

[doc14]

Many years ago I once asked a girl, sat on her own in a bar, if she was on the game..... she wasn't! after her insults and abuse I promptly left.

As a pub regular we did ask the bar maid (gorgeous 20 something girl) would she for cash and always got a stupid response such as would cost at least £500

[anyfucker]

Many years ago I once asked a girl, sat on her own in a bar, if she was on the game..... she wasn't! after her insults and abuse I promptly left.

As a pub regular we did ask the bar maid (gorgeous 20 something girl) would she for cash and always got a stupid response such as would cost at least £500

So, she's a prossie, you're just discussing the fee.

[walking dead]

Technically maybe.
but I Would find it secure paying a woman for sex who hasn't done that before or rarely does it.
If anyone has any success or hints I would love to hear them

[hendrix]

It's half term isn't it?

[smiths]

Hi, have any of you had success offering non-escorts money for sex?  If so, any tips, like what type of girls to approach and how you should communicate.  I find the idea kinda fun.

Thanks

Why on earth would I want to offer a non-WG cash for sex when I can offer a WG cash and know she will offer me a good service assuming she is honest.

I would be risking a slap or worse, most certainly not something I would do.

[AnthG]

or hints I would love to hear them

Its not strictly related to the topic, but I really and I do mean really, want to try this one out for myself. I just so much hope it is real.

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[restless_native]

Craigslist can be a great place to do this kind of thing. I've had a fair bit of success on there myself over the years.

The only downside is that you have to wade through an awful lot of fakes, scammers and timewasters. They become quite easy to spot after a while though.

[Swsnapper]

I travel away with work with a female colleague who is a good looker with cracking tits but happily married etc.

I often daydream on the road trips if I had a decent lottery win (not large enough to give up work) and put the suggestion to her for a slightly silly amount eg 5k.

Think it's the thrill of making them do it for the money that you flash under their noses, and after a bottle of wine with a meal reckon a few would be swayed

[Swsnapper]

Appreciate you could get several quality WGs for that price but it's just the thought of it with someone you know and would like to bang whilst they're married

[myothernameis]

Theres around 20 young girls in my work place, aged under 30, of which most I would like to offer them money for sex, but they have boy friends or are married

There one girl, who it is rumoured is a slut, and its also the way she dresses, she works in a club at night time

she is very lazy in the work place, but likes having lots of money to spend

[Steely Dan]

Ask your teacher or any of the girls in your Maths or Science class. 

[Qwerty]

Craigslist can be a great place to do this kind of thing. I've had a fair bit of success on there myself over the years.

The only downside is that you have to wade through an awful lot of fakes, scammers and timewasters. They become quite easy to spot after a while though.

Have tried craigslist a couple of times, had some nibbles but no bites

Any tips?

[sublimetoridiculous]

There one girl, who it is rumoured is a slut, and its also the way she dresses, she works in a club at night time

she is very lazy in the work place, but likes having lots of money to spend

No point telling us, tell her how much she could earn!

[yorkshire123]

Hi, have any of you had success offering non-escorts money for sex?  If so, any tips, like what type of girls to approach and how you should communicate. I find the idea kinda fun.

Thanks

Its strange how different people see situations differently as I find it kind of creepy 

[RNinePunter]

Its strange how different people see situations differently as I find it kind of creepy 

I think he was suppose to word it as wanting to do it because it's often challenging. There is no fun when you can't spend your money on a punt! 

[threechilliman]

Many years ago I once asked a girl, sat on her own in a bar, if she was on the game..... she wasn't! after her insults and abuse I promptly left.

As a pub regular we did ask the bar maid (gorgeous 20 something girl) would she for cash and always got a stupid response such as would cost at least £500

Nice starting point as she's already got the idea in her mind. Then take her somewhere private and show her a 100 quid. If she's a proper slag, she won't be able to resist!

tcm

[fredpunter]

Nice starting point as she's already got the idea in her mind. Then take her somewhere private and show her a 100 quid. If she's a proper slag, she won't be able to resist!

tcm

Bugger that, start with 50

[restless_native]

Have tried craigslist a couple of times, had some nibbles but no bites

Any tips?

I found that the wording of the ad was everything. If you avoid direct sexual reference and imply that you're generous or can reward you'll get nibbles from students etc who just need a little financial help. It's still a numbers game though so you just need to leave the ad up for a while and see what happens.

[Wilson85]

Isn't this sailing dangerously close to incitement to prostitution? 

[fredpunter]

Isn't this sailing dangerously close to incitement to prostitution? 

I was thinking something similar, sounds a bit dodge legally to me .... is it not soliciting?

[Wilson85]

I had a quick Bing and from what I can work out...... It is soliciting if done in a public place. It's also an offence to incite some one into prossying for gain, either money or goods.

So it's illegal depending on where you are when you ask and if you get some substantial sum of money from the new prossie.

It's not something I'd do, it's hard enough finding a decent prossie amongst the known providers. And I wouldn't want to be the man that leads a woman into the rabbithole of prossying, so to speak.

Each to their own though.

[fredpunter]

I had a quick Bing and from what I can work out...... It is soliciting if done in a public place. It's also an offence to incite some one into prossying for gain, either money or goods.

So it's illegal depending on where you are when you ask and if you get some substantial sum of money from the new prossie.

It's not something I'd do, it's hard enough finding a decent prossie amongst the known providers. And I wouldn't want to be the man that leads a woman into the rabbithole of prossying, so to speak.

Each to their own though.

Seems another example of the craziness and ambiguity of legislation around prostitution. What is the definition of a public place? And why should it make any fucking difference whether you try and corrupt them in a private place or a public place anyway?

[Outcallguy]

I got very cheeky texting my cleaner (who's from Bulgaria). started off asking her if she did anything apart from cleaning, like massage.
Then offered her money for a massage, in a flirty text way.
When she didn't tell me to fuck off, I got really bold and offered her £40 for a BJ!

Bearing in mind she only earns about £8 an hour. She accepted.
Am thinking of getting another cleaner now, to see if lightning will strike twice.

Not tried it with anyone else to be honest.
I'd like to ask some girls at work that, but imagine if they told everyone at work what you'd said then you'd basically lose your job/rep.

[superchamp]

Perhaps if the OP made in known to colleagues and friends that he pays for sex he might find some of these civvies naming their price - or maybe not.

[threechilliman]

...I got really bold and offered her £40 for a BJ!

That's not bold. £20 would have been bold.....

tcm

[Cornish sub]

Isn't this sailing dangerously close to incitement to prostitution? 

He could always use the 'Anything that happens during a meeting is between consensual adults' disclaimer bollocks that a lot of escorts use.

[fredpunter]

I got very cheeky texting my cleaner (who's from Bulgaria). started off asking her if she did anything apart from cleaning, like massage.
Then offered her money for a massage, in a flirty text way.
When she didn't tell me to fuck off, I got really bold and offered her £40 for a BJ!

Bearing in mind she only earns about £8 an hour. She accepted.
Am thinking of getting another cleaner now, to see if lightning will strike twice.

Not tried it with anyone else to be honest.
I'd like to ask some girls at work that, but imagine if they told everyone at work what you'd said then you'd basically lose your job/rep.

My cleaner is from bulgaria!

But mine charges 9 quid an hour. Any chance you can fix me up?

[anyfucker]

Many years ago I once asked a girl, sat on her own in a bar, if she was on the game..... she wasn't! after her insults and abuse I promptly left.

Many years ago i saw an American prossie working a bar in Amsterdam and pretended not to know she was on the game.
At the end of the night after she didn't "get lucky" bit more flirting & i got her back to my room.
We fucked 4/5 times, she stayed for breakfast then left "to go to work"   

[RandyF]

Propositioning civvie females, what could possibly go wrong???  Brilliant idea

[Aspen]

I got to know a girl years ago on a Yahoo group who was offering herself as a photographer. She said she would be willing to film intimate scenes. So I exchanged a few messages with her - as you do. She enjoyed watching and eventually we got around to discussing paid sex and she said that she'd never done it but was turned on by the idea. This was a married woman who didn't really want to go behind her husbands back. Inevitably though we met up just so that she could try the experience. And about another dozen times as well.

[jsparky]

Well not me, but some of my friends who being a non-white/non-Caucasian foreigners, they know they're not getting any actions by the end of the night will proposition some girls for sex with payments. They have been successful in some instances.

May be being non-Caucasian were easier to get away with it?

 

[ram2184]

tried it in thailand.. in phuket to be exact.

200 quids for overnight and anything goes. she was a student well at least that was what she told me. i popped her anal cherry according to her and frankly speaking i believed he.

it was 5 years ago though.

[Marmalade]

I think the whole idea sucks. Why waste your time doing what the guy in the video did? How does it benefit you to prove some lowlife-mentality woman is a lowlife-mentality woman? It doesn't.  It is simply ego -vaunting.

However this video is much better
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The guy has great form here and gets away with it (he has probably edited out the knockbacks).

As for trying to pay a civvie in real life I also think that is a demeaning exercise personally.

[bensonhedges20]

Why not email pof girls from your area or nearby who you would be interested to fuck. Im sure you would get some replies.

Bear in mind if you get five girls to block you within 24h they block yoir account

Just word it properly And select your age group that you want.

[HappyandLucky]

Many years ago i saw an American prossie working a bar in Amsterdam and pretended not to know she was on the game.
At the end of the night after she didn't "get lucky" bit more flirting & i got her back to my room.
We fucked 4/5 times, she stayed for breakfast then left "to go to work"   

Review ? 

[jsparky]

tried it in thailand.. in phuket to be exact.

200 quids for overnight and anything goes. she was a student well at least that was what she told me. i popped her anal cherry according to her and frankly speaking i believed he.

it was 5 years ago though.

So, you pop the cherry of a he? 

[richie]

On a slightly different tangent a number of years ago back in his early 20's a friend of mine was due to go to work and he got a call off his missus basically asking him over for a shag. He refused on the grounds that he needed to get to work so she offered to pay him for the evening if he threw a sickie. Obviously he did, so does that make him a man whore or just lucky?

[sublimetoridiculous]

I got very cheeky texting my cleaner (who's from Bulgaria). started off asking her if she did anything apart from cleaning, like massage.
Then offered her money for a massage, in a flirty text way.
When she didn't tell me to fuck off, I got really bold and offered her £40 for a BJ!

Bearing in mind she only earns about £8 an hour. She accepted.
Am thinking of getting another cleaner now, to see if lightning will strike twice.

Thought that so many times, and never had the courage to try it with my rather sexy cleaner from Lithuania. Hats off to you for pulling it off, so to speak.

Now dare I ... ?

[Lynx]

A friend does this regularly, with the girls going along with it a few times. The last time was a month ago. We went out clubbing, and got talking to some girls. One of them being a young, unemployed single mum. We started quizzing her about how she feeds her 2 kids, how she could still go clubbing etc etc, and she gave us a sob story. He could have probably got it for free, but to cut a long story short, he offered her cash to help her out, if she went back to his place there and then. She said yes, said goodbye to her friends, and off they went.

Looking back on previous experiences, i'm sure a couple of women i was sleeping with wanted me to suggest this, for us to keep on seeing each other, but as i was already getting what i wanted, i didn't offer it, and they were too ashamed to ask for cash themselves. I was seeing a married EE for a bit, who i later found out was sleeping with half of the town (ugly guys, and she was stunning) for material goods. I also met a young English girl last year, who complained about financial difficulties a fair bit. I didn't clock on, and we soon drifted apart.

[irwell]

Its strange how different people see situations differently as I find it kind of creepy

One man's creepy is another man's fetish

[threechilliman]

Thought that so many times, and never had the courage to try it with my rather sexy cleaner from Lithuania. Hats off to you for pulling it off, so to speak.

Now dare I ... ?

Go for it. Even if she tells you to fuck off, there are plenty of EE cleaners about. You could make it part od the interview process. I want this amount of cleaning at x per hour and then discuss additional services. Bet it won't take long to find one......

tcm

[Deepstroker]

Slightly related but i visit peoples homes in my work and i have been offered pussy for free in the past. I have also struck up promising relationships whilst chatting with housewives/women. I think its possible to get some free pussy that way and i also think its possible to get free pussy elsewhere. Many woman are very shallow. Just buy or hire a nice car,get a good quality suit, scrub up,some nice aftershave and hang around a little... Women will smell money,feed anytakers as much BS as they will swallow and see if you can get your dick wet..

See here

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It shows how cheap they are and how easily they are manipulated..

[bensonhedges20]

Used to watch the tv show hustle and there was a saying " you cant cheat an honest man" - i think that applies in this instance.

I think its jumping the gun a little and getting too carriee away with the legalities.

Under the right circumstances what the op suggested can be done but the signs need to be there i reckon.

[cueball]

I know it's covered in another thread and slightly off topic but I do look at civvies and think what I'd pay her eg she's an 100 quid an hour or  twenty quid blow job only but I don't think I'd walk up to one and offer it.

I do like the cleaner idea though ha ha

[bensonhedges20]

I have found many "carer's" do this line of work.