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Offline NIK

Just been perusing the fluffy feedback bollocks on the Northern Belles site (not to single them out - all feedback on agency sites is fluffy shite that I wouldn't trust with somebody else's money). There was the usual 'Wow! Best most beautiful girl ever,' type bollocks, but I was most amused to see one guy saying. 'Thankyou for seeing me.'

Shouldn't the prossy be thanking him for his business, or did she see him for free?  :rolleyes:

Offline 385North

The cynic in me kind of agrees with you, but then again perhaps the punter was disabled or something and was genuinely grateful. Unlikely maybe, so perhaps that's just me being fluffy too.

justfornow

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The cynic in me kind of agrees with you, but then again perhaps the punter was disabled or something and was genuinely grateful. Unlikely maybe, so perhaps that's just me being fluffy too.

I have seen escorts that agreed to see me after conversation via email despite their preferences and so on.
If i received good service i would write thank you for seeing me. Just in those circumstances though.

Offline NIK

In my slightly fluffier days (I have never remotely been a true fluffy) I used to occasionally think I was lucky to see some of them.
Now I think they will be lucky to see me, or more specifically my cash!  :D

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I say thank you afterwards - mummy always told me to be polite to working girls that were a good fuck!  :dance:

Offline barnstorm123

I can't see why I'd say thanks, unless I got some free time or an extra service. I do always tell a girl if I had a good time.

Offline punk

She should say thanks, if i see her as a regular, regular cash in hand for her.

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Except in dire cases I always thank the girl and always get an appreciative reply. I like to think of myself as a gentleman. If that makes me fluffy do be it.

Offline cueball

Well I always say thanks on my way out, the same way I say thanks when I buy a box of matches from the newsagent

Offline Denholm

If someone does their job well I'll thank them for their good service. Waiter, bus driver, prostitute, whoever.

aerofan5

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I don't know if this would be regarded as fluffy.

I do most of my punting in USA as I travel there to see friends and family.

I take small items such as fridge magnets and small souvenirs from places I visit in Europe.

The WG's I see across the pond absolutely adore these and it gives a friendly feel to the punts.

Maybe it would work with UK based WG's?

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Maybe it would work with UK based WG's?
They prefer tinnies and a few bags of weed.

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I always greet and say thanks in a shop. I've never thanked a prossie and never would, because it's cringeworthy and sycophantic. Some men just seem happy to fuck a woman even an ugly one, sit down and have a quiet word with yourself.

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If someone does their job well I'll thank them for their good service. Waiter, bus driver, prostitute, whoever.

+1 Politeness costs nothing and smooths the way for next time we meet.  :hi:

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+1 Politeness costs nothing and smooths the way for next time we meet.  :hi:
"Oh thank you for sucking my nob oh I'm sorry I got a bit of semen on your fake eyelashes".

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Do you mean feedback like this...

:kiss:

Wow!!! Totally stunning!!! This girl has it all!! Gorgeous!
Stunning body and the best sense of humour ever!
I'll bring the champagne next week !
CAN'T WAIT :-) xxxxxxxx

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Saying "thank you" is nice manners, cos it means you appreciate a job well done. It would be bordering on the sociopathic not to thank a plumber, builder, dentist, teacher, fireman, ticket seller etc etc for doing the job - in a polite, respectful way- for which you have paid them. Just giving people the money owed to them isn't felt, surely, to be enough: logically (if you were Mr Spock, say) there's no need to thank them, as the money is "thanks" enough; but most people would feel it was bad manners/ rude/ graceless/ even borderline autistic not to acknowledge the humanity of the service provider by, in addition to paying, thanking them. Although you've paid for the service, they've decided to give that service to you when they needn't have done, so they've done a nice thing, so you say thanks.

I don't understand why the OP thinks that the provision of sexual services is any different. And since what a sexual service provider is doing is "meeting" you, it seems to me that thanking them for this meeting is just ordinary, pleasant, unremarkable good manners and politeness. Unless you think that the provision of sexual services is somehow morally objectionable, in which case you probably shouldn't be buying it in the first place, surely?

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Prostitution is an anomaly as a business, service and trade. It's never discussed openly and would be downright embarrassing if it came out, for that reason alone normal rules don't apply. You're not thanking someone for a meeting you're thanking them for a fuck for money.

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Prostitution is an anomaly as a business, service and trade. It's never discussed openly and would be downright embarrassing if it came out, for that reason alone normal rules don't apply. You're not thanking someone for a meeting you're thanking them for a fuck for money.

Even more reason why you should thank them, seems to me. And if by "normal rules don't apply" you mean that that nature of prostitution is such that the punter is under no obligation to treat a girl with a "normal world" amount of politeness, respect and gratitude for a job well done, then I'd say you're simply dehumanising them and yourself.

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Even more reason why you should thank them, seems to me. And if by "normal rules don't apply" you mean that that nature of prostitution is such that the punter is under no obligation to treat a girl with a "normal world" amount of politeness, respect and gratitude for a job well done, then I'd say you're simply dehumanising them and yourself.
I wouldn't thank a one night stand would you? If you watch a video on realpunting and the like it's just embarrassing.

Offline Denholm

I wouldn't thank a one night stand would you?
A one night stand isn't providing you a service, they're doing it for their own enjoyment

unclesweetheart

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I wouldn't thank a one night stand would you? If you watch a video on realpunting and the like it's just embarrassing.

Yea but a one night stand is different - you're both up for it, no-one's paying, it's not a service. You're having sex with someone who wants to have sex with you. Thanking a one-night stand would turn you into Forest Gump. Apart from anything else, thanking a prostitute is acknowledging that you've just enjoyed something that you've had to pay for. Keeps it professional. I've never watched the RealPunting videos. Am just off to watch Stoya in a gangbang, though.

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A one night stand isn't providing you a service, they're doing it for their own enjoyment
But doesn't every prossie do it for her enjoyment every adulwork profile says they enjoy sex and love it. They couldn't be lying could they?

Offline Denholm

But doesn't every prossie do it for her enjoyment every adulwork profile says they enjoy sex and love it. They couldn't be lying could they?
Most AW profiles are full of bullshit I agree. Tbf though, what are they supposed to put?
'Willing to tolerate being fucked by men I find unattractive because I really love money and the local Aldi doesn't pay very well'
Mind you, maybe some punters would appreciate the honesty?

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Prostitution is an anomaly as a business, service and trade. It's never discussed openly and would be downright embarrassing if it came out, for that reason alone normal rules don't apply. You're not thanking someone for a meeting you're thanking them for a fuck for money.

I'm struggling with this one. So because you see prostitution as an anomaly as a service it's fine to not treat the prostitute with some basic politeness?

unclesweetheart

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I'm struggling with this one. So because you see prostitution as an anomaly as a service it's fine to not treat the prostitute with some basic politeness?
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Offline NightKid

Saying "thank you" is nice manners, cos it means you appreciate a job well done.

There's a difference between being polite and being downright fluffy. By opening with a line like "most beautiful girl ever!", the context of what the OP has highlighted is a clear example of the latter.
Another case in point:

It would be bordering on the sociopathic not to thank a plumber, builder, dentist, teacher, fireman, ticket seller etc etc for doing the job - in a polite, respectful way- for which you have paid them.

Edit: I'll give you a moment to realise the absurdity of that statement and your own level of fluffiness.  :rolleyes:
« Last Edit: February 15, 2015, 12:24:48 am by NightKid »

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Nightkid thank Christ someone's on my level. Usually the thank you on FRs are barbed they want a freebie or good feedback in return preferably saying how big their nob is. If a prossie wants to hold the door open for me I will thank them, I will give praise in a report, but I will never thank a prossie for letting me use their tramp stamps as target practice. My return custom or a nice report is thanks enough. As Nik pointed out one review NB the man said thank you for seeing him; at the end of the day if punters are so grateful just to fuck a woman and in a lot of cases not even an attractive one then is there anyone some prossies make men jump through hoops like a tamed lion. I want the market to work in the punters favour not against them.
« Last Edit: February 15, 2015, 12:27:57 am by Ali Katt »

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There's a difference between being polite and being downright fluffy. By opening with a line like "most beautiful girl ever!", the context of what the OP has highlighted is a clear example of the latter.

Completely agree

Edit: I'll give you a moment to realise the absurdity of that statement and your own level of fluffiness.  :rolleyes:

Can you out point the absurdity out me as I just don't understand it. If you pay someone for a service, prostitute or not, and they meet or exceed your expectations, why is it wrong to say 'Thank you'.

My return custom or a nice report is thanks enough.

Why do you find it so hard to say a simple 'Thanks' at the time, and why do you (and I mean you, not the rest of society) feel that prostitution is an anomaly and therefore basic politeness is irrelevant.
« Last Edit: February 15, 2015, 12:48:39 am by d00fer »

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Can you out point the absurdity out me as I just don't understand it. If you pay someone for a service, prostitute or not, and they meet or exceed your expectations, why is it wrong to say 'Thank you'.



Ok I'm obviously really thick. Can you please explain to me and dOOfer why saying thank you to a service provider is so obviously absurd.

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Why do you find it so hard to say a simple 'Thanks' at the time, and why do you (and I mean you, not the rest of society) feel that prostitution is an anomaly and therefore basic politeness is irrelevant.
I've answered it in the previous post. Why would I thank someone for fucking me, not companionship or any other bollocks? In real life I'm actually quite well-spoken and I do not feel it is basic politeness to thank a prossie just because you do it. I don't find it hard I just don't do it; the prossie doesn't do the punter a favour by letting him see her or do you think she does? She does it for cash. I do not care if the prossie thanks me for handing over the "consideration". I pay for a fuck, nothing more.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Ok I'm obviously really thick. Can you please explain to me and dOOfer why saying thank you to a service provider is so obviously absurd.

Thank you for what exactly, for accepting £120 from me.    :dash:

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Thank you for what exactly, for accepting £120 from me.    :dash:
Don't forget the extra calories and protein  :hi:

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I've answered it in the previous post. Why would I thank someone for fucking me, not companionship or any other bollocks? In real life I'm actually quite well-spoken and I do not feel it is basic politeness to thank a prossie just because you do it. I don't find it hard I just don't do it; the prossie doesn't do the punter a favour by letting him see her or do you think she does? She does it for cash. I do not care if the prossie thanks me for handing over the "consideration". I pay for a fuck, nothing more.

You didn't. So to make it easier, would you say 'Thanks' or offer any type of verbal praise to any other non-prossie service provider if they did a good job that you'd paid them?

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I really side with the 'thank you' on here.

i thank the bus driver and the taxi driver or the doctor.
Don't buy in to old school christian values that: prostitution bad... because sex bad.
Unless you got EAS or something it is indeed a service like any other...dentist or a massage.
If i'm leaving happy and feel good there is nothing out of the ordinary to say 'thank you'.
I am NOT saying to buy her flowers, read her a poem, bring her gifts or compliment her until the room is pink...it's really just basic politeness.

Maybe i'm missing something as i am new to the game. I just don't see the big deal that's all.

unclesweetheart

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Thank you for what exactly, for accepting £120 from me.    :dash:

You say thank you to anyone who provides a good service. Unless you're a cunt, or on the spectrum. It really doesn't matter whether you've paid £120 for a blow job or 90p for a solero. Unless you resent the £120 for the blow job. In which case: don't fucking pay it. Simples.

Offline NightKid

Can you out point the absurdity out me as I just don't understand it. If you pay someone for a service, prostitute or not, and they meet or exceed your expectations, why is it wrong to say 'Thank you'.

Ok I'm obviously really thick. Can you please explain to me and dOOfer why saying thank you to a service provider is so obviously absurd.

The absurdity lies in what unclesweetheart is saying i.e. it's almost sociopathic not to say "thank you". It isn't, because you're never obliged to do so.
Next comes the argument about being polite, which again boils down to context. If you're going to use manners as defence, then let me ask you this ...

Have you first thanked every single one of the more deserving but unsung service providers in your life, from the binman to the bloke who handles your sewage?

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Have you first thanked every single one of the more deserving but unsung service providers in your life, from the binman to the bloke who handles your sewage?

For those that I've met, and have provided a good service, yes.

Your comment on context is interesting though. In the examples that you choose I'd argue that context is different as there isn't the same level of personal contact and interaction and there is an 'agency' effect. If I met them though, of course I'd thank them on a job well done
« Last Edit: February 15, 2015, 02:53:44 am by d00fer »

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The absurdity lies in what unclesweetheart is saying i.e. it's almost sociopathic not to say "thank you". It isn't, because you're never obliged to do so.
Next comes the argument about being polite, which again boils down to context. If you're going to use manners as defence, then let me ask you this ...

Have you first thanked every single one of the more deserving but unsung service providers in your life, from the binman to the bloke who handles your sewage?

No, because the binmen come while I'm asleep. Obviously, contextually, I haven't thanked all the service providers who make my middle-class life what it is. But if, another context, I was with them socially I would feel that i was being a cunt if I didn't in some way express my gratitude. Because I am, and should be, grateful. A guy came to unblock the sewer in my backyard (Brighton: long story) and I was really grateful. Didn't have to be - I'd paid my council tax, I was entitled to the service, but the individual chap turns up, smelling a bit, and did a great job. So I said thanks. Because he's a human being and my obligation to him doesn't end with my having paid him.

There seems to be some really odd assumption that because you pay whores a lot of money to do something potentially gross the nature of the service - swallowing your spunk, say - and the price - which is large - render normal sociable human obligations towards service providers null and void. But I needed to get the back-up of shit in my Victorian sewer cleared, and I was grateful to the - smelly - guy who did it. So I was grateful (very). The fact that luxury services (spunk swallowing etc) are less vital, and optional, doesn't alter the fact that this is a service provider/ service purchaser relationship, and the normal conventions governing those relationships should appy. I needed someone to clear my drains of shit: you don't need someone to swallow your spunk. But in either case, gratitude for the service provided is a not unreasonable expectation. In the case of luxury, non-essential services (spunk swallowing, etc) there's a strong case for thinking that the obligation to be grateful is more rather than less.

Offline NightKid

For those that I've met, and have provided a good service, yes.

But not every single one of them, so, no. Which is fine, because that is usually the case.

Your comment on context is interesting though. In the examples that you choose I'd argue that context is different as there isn't the same level of personal contact and interaction and there is an 'agency' effect.

Exactly. And in the same way that you would not prioritise seeking them out just to thank them, you would not prioritise thanking a prossie either.
Because doing so implies personal motives, and thus validates the criticism of one being a fluffy.

*Wall of text*

Edit: See above reply. But I note that many others, except you yourself, have acknowledged your fluffiness so if you can't help yourself then I'm certainly not going to waste my time with you.
« Last Edit: February 15, 2015, 03:13:16 am by NightKid »

unclesweetheart

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But not every single one of them, so, no. Which is fine, because that is usually the case.

Exactly. And in the same way that you would not prioritise seeking them out just to thank them, you would not prioritise thanking a prossie either.
Because doing so implies personal motives, and thus validates the criticism of one being a fluffy.

Edit: See above reply. But I note that many others, except you yourself, have acknowledged your fluffiness so if you can't help yourself then I'm certainly not going to waste my time with you.

Well. Not listening/ reading what someone has to say is certainly the best way of avoiding the painful obligation to think. But on a point of logic, others can't acknowledge my fluffiness - they'd have to accuse me of it. Only I could acknowledge it. And if fluffy means not being a cunt: well - guilty.

Offline NightKid

Well. Not listening/ reading what someone has to say is certainly the best way of avoiding the painful obligation to think.

Oh, I've listened/read what you've said alright ... it's just that I think what you've said is a load of tosh. And the problem is I cannot argue with nonsense.
Here's a couple of examples:

1) You purposely ignored addressing your initial claim that "not saying thank you to people you've paid is borderline sociopathic behaviour" & instead rambled about something else.
2) You think we should be obliged to be more grateful for non-essential services as opposed to the ones we need to live.

As much as I'd like to believe in difference of opinions, even I would have to be crazy to say that sort of thinking isn't batshit insane. Therefore, I've decided the best way to go about it is to not debate with nutters ... happy?

But on a point of logic, others can't acknowledge my fluffiness - they'd have to accuse me of it. Only I could acknowledge it. And if fluffy means not being a cunt: well - guilty.

On a point of logic, acknowledge can be used in the context of recognition. And others have certainly acknowledged your fluffiness, like so:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=36666.msg499207#msg499207

And if fluffy means not being a cunt: well - guilty.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but I'm thinking you're both after what you have to say thus far.  :rolleyes:

Offline NIK

Well. Not listening/ reading what someone has to say is certainly the best way of avoiding the painful obligation to think. But on a point of logic, others can't acknowledge my fluffiness - they'd have to accuse me of it. Only I could acknowledge it. And if fluffy means not being a cunt: well - guilty.

Fluffies like you act as though prossies are doing you a favour by seeing you. If they see you for free then I could understand your sycophancy (I'd probably be sycophantic too!), but they aren't so I can't.

Offline Jimmyredcab

You say thank you to anyone who provides a good service. Unless you're a cunt.

I must be a cunt then, I can honestly say that I have never said "thank you" to a prostitute, never felt the need to.  :unknown:

I will say "thank you" if someone holds the door open as I enter a shop ------------- but that is because they are doing me a favour, a prostitute is being paid for a service and does not need to be thanked.    :crazy:

Offline punk

I must be a cunt then, I can honestly say that I have never said "thank you" to a prostitute, never felt the need to.  :unknown:

I will say "thank you" if someone holds the door open as I enter a shop ------------- but that is because they are doing me a favour, a prostitute is being paid for a service and does not need to be thanked.    :crazy:

The above quote sums it up nicely, don't be rude to the women in question unless she is a right nasty bitch to you but in reality you are paying to fuck a woman:

its NOTHING ELSE.

All you are is a working £ sign.

Offline iPad3

I make a point of thanking anybody for a job well done, I don't think it makes me fluffy and in my view is basic courtesy.

If we all demonstrated a bit more respect for each other the world would be all the better for it and cunts like Putin and Isis wouldn't be killing innocent people for the sake of it!

Offline punk

I make a point of thanking anybody for a job well done, I don't think it makes me fluffy and in my view is basic courtesy.

If we all demonstrated a bit more respect for each other the world would be all the better for it and cunts like Putin and Isis wouldn't be killing innocent people for the sake of it!

Putin puts the interests of russia first as he see's it and i.s are fighting for the true belief and whether we are polite or not makes no difference to them.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I make a point of thanking anybody for a job well done, I don't think it makes me fluffy and in my view is basic courtesy.

If we all demonstrated a bit more respect for each other the world would be all the better for it and cunts like Putin and Isis wouldn't be killing innocent people for the sake of it!

What has that got to do with thanking a prostitute for accepting your £120  -------------- sorry, I just don't get it.

When I drive a customer home they don't thank me -------------------- I thank them for the business.    :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab

Putin puts the interests of russia first as he see's it and i.s are fighting for the true belief and whether we are polite or not makes no difference to them.

Sorry, I disagree slightly -------------

Putin puts the interests of Putin first, his people come next.     :hi:

He is a thief, a bully and a gangster.    :hi:

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if you say thank you it costs you nothing and
 if you think forward rather than back if you see that girl again you may get a better service ?
however when i take my car for repair and it costs £80 hour plus vat i dont say thank you  especially if they have done a shit job ,
 but next time i need to i still have to take it back there as i dont have a mot test center at home
nor a pussy to fuck .
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