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To be honest, I'm not quite sure what this fluffy thing is.

Does fluffy mean being polite?

If you're English, you're pretty much conditioned to say thank you after any thing. Or excuse me.

So is the done thing to just walk out without saying fuck all? Awkward.

Two clear schools of thought, those that value and respect the role of the wg and those that don't. It is only a question of your own personal values. If they earned as much as bankers I would have one view, as it is they earn as much as tube drivers and deserve the same respect.

Offline Denholm

From the punting wiki

Fluffy: Often derogatory term to describe a punter who sees all prostitutes through rose tinted glasses and can become too emotionally attached, in severe cases may be suffering from EAS

I don't feel a basic level of politeness falls into this category personally

Offline cueball

From the punting wiki

Fluffy: Often derogatory term to describe a punter who sees all prostitutes through rose tinted glasses and can become too emotionally attached, in severe cases may be suffering from EAS

I don't feel a basic level of politeness falls into this category personally

Thanks for that denholm

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Offline Gordo987

It's about striking a balance. I'm always polite but I certainly wouldn't say I treat WGs like my girlfriend, or even a friend tbh. Like to make it clear that I'm there for the service I paid for. I'd say my demeanour during a punt is similar to when I'm with clients at work; pleasant enough (I hope) but very much focussed on the business at hand.

What do you do at work? English teacher are you? Anyway, like I said before, you gets out what you puts in. I usually get an hour of fun, pleasure and relaxation. What do you get?  :unknown:
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Offline Denholm

What do you do at work? English teacher are you? Anyway, like I said before, you gets out what you puts in. I usually get an hour of fun, pleasure and relaxation. What do you get?  :unknown:
Wasn't having a go at you, simply stating my perspective on the matter. You'll notice I wasn't insulting anyone in my post so I'm not sure why you felt the need for the spiky tone. For someone who claims to be so concerned with manners you certainly haven't shown much of that here.

Offline Loverat

Strange that  there are people who have an issue with saying thank you.
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Online Jimmyredcab

To be honest, I'm not quite sure what this fluffy thing is.

Does fluffy mean being polite?


In relation to prostitution it means that you will always make the pro$$ie right no matter what she does, it has absolutely nothing to do with being polite.

When I saw Michelle Independant I treated her with the utmost respect ------------ but at no time did it enter my head to "thank her" for accepting my £xxx.    :rolleyes:

Offline BeesKnees

I've never said thank you post sex with any girl, civvy or wg. It doesn't sound or feel right.

I'd gladly say thanks for someone leaving a door open for me or giving me a seat on the train, but after sex?

I think everyone has their own boundaries to politeness

Offline StPunt

they say you're never more than 10 meters away from a fluffy

Online Jimmyredcab

I've never said thank you post sex with any girl, civvy or wg. It doesn't sound or feel right.

I'd gladly say thanks for someone leaving a door open for me or giving me a seat on the train, but after sex?

I think everyone has their own boundaries to politeness

There are many circumstances where I would say thank you --------------- for example if a courier brought me a parcel -------- or if a bus driver waited while I ran for the bus ------------------- thanking a prostitute is something I have never done and I am most unlikely to do any time soon.   :hi:

Offline vt

Let me put it this way...

I sell technical services to a regular set of clients, some are miserable, pay grudgingly and never say thank-you or acknowledge the effort I expend in return for my fee, others are cheery, polite, pleasant and grateful for my service even though they are paying the going rate for it.

Guess which ones I look forward to meeting again and working for??

Guess which ones I would be willing to do a small extra task for or go the extra mile for or help out if they were in need??

If out of nothing but self-interest, be polite to anyone who provides a paid service to you. Don't go over the top, but it's in your interest to make them feel good about you!!  :dash:
« Last Edit: February 16, 2015, 12:02:26 AM by vt »

Whilst I'm not for the over the top fluffy talk and reviews some people do here I think it doesn't hurt to be polite and mannered. Yes it is business which they need but like most businesses I will still thank them for their good service be it to waiter in a restaurant, fellow colleague at work or someone in a shop fetching my size jeans I thank them for there service. Same applies here and it can go a long way, it has done for me a few times.

 

Online Jimmyredcab

Whilst I'm not for the over the top fluffy talk and reviews some people do here I think it doesn't hurt to be polite and mannered.

I am polite, I simply draw the line at thanking a prostitute for giving her my business, she should be thanking me.  :hi:

Offline NIK

I am polite, I simply draw the line at thanking a prostitute for giving her my business, she should be thanking me.  :hi:

Couldn't have put it better. You can be polite and respectful without being a raving fluffy, and talking about 'the most wonderful girl ever' nonsense. I have never been less than polite and respectful. Despite this I haven't always received the same back.

Offline jackdaw

I am polite, I simply draw the line at thanking a prostitute for giving her my business, she should be thanking me.  :hi:

I can see where you're coming from Jim, but aren't there times when its appropriate to thank a prossie for really good service?

Put it this way, last couple of times I had a substantial amount of work done on house...I ended up thanking the builder and plumber. Not for turning up, and giving quotes...or for relieving me of several grand. No... I thanked them for always turning up on time, doing exactly what they said they'd do, and doing the work well. All things you (or I) could argue that any builder or plumber should do...but in reality we both know is quite rare.

Similarly last time I punted (an increasingly distant memory)...at end of punt I thanked the WG... she turned up on time, looked as per photo, provided the agreed services with apparent enthusiasm, and left me really satisfied. To me it would seem almost churlish not to thank her. Yes...I take your point that "she just did her job"... but she did it really well, and a goodly proportion didn't.

Offline StPunt

does thanking them make you sound like a fluffy? i think it shows you put it into perspective and that you realise its a service they provide so no i dont think its makes you look a fluffy, you may argue the opposite

Offline unclesweetheart

does thanking them make you sound like a fluffy? i think it shows you put it into perspective and that you realise its a service they provide so no i dont think its makes you look a fluffy, you may argue the opposite

Yes absolutely. It would feel very weird thanking a "real life" partner for having mutually consensual sex. And no matter how much I pay, I know that as I've just been fucking a beautiful girl who's young enough to be my granddaughter, and hugely out of my league in real life, I'm grateful to the girl in question for services rendered (and always offered with a smile and a chat and laughs too). In a very similar way to my gratitude to the shit-smelling sewerman who unclogged my pipes (see earlier post). Dirty jobs (the Woody Allen joke about sex) but I'm extremely glad someone's chosen to do it?
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Offline Marmalade

I must be a cunt then, I can honestly say that I have never said "thank you" to a prostitute, never felt the need to.  :unknown:

I will say "thank you" if someone holds the door open as I enter a shop ------------- but that is because they are doing me a favour, a prostitute is being paid for a service and does not need to be thanked.    :crazy:

Well put, although Nightkid has also said it all, cheers, mate.

What fluffycunts don't seen to realise is that there is a difference between social politeness and coming and UKP to sending grovelling reviews like plaintive messages in a fucking bottle.

Would you go down to the pub and eulogise about the binman to your mates? "Ooooh you know, he emptied every bin! Truly amazing service! I can't thank him enough!" You'd be locked up!  :D

Even talking about a hairdresser like that is pretty girlie. People all deserve a modicum of politeness should you need to speak to them. This is not a forum for speaking to prostitutes. It's more akin to speaking to your male friends (if you have any) down the pub.

People should be acknowledged, where and when appropriate, for doing the job that is expected of them. A company director might say to a cleaner or the locksmith, "Great job!" as means of acknowledgement and a display of magnanimity. He (or she) wouldn't put it in the company report. The office manager or person responsible for sourcing the cleaner or locksmith might say that they seemed reliable and efficient if asked, simply as a means of keeping tabs if such services were required again. Or the opposite, if they weren't. And that is where UKP reviews and talk of prossies should really be at.

Offline NightKid

I must be a cunt then, I can honestly say that I have never said "thank you" to a prostitute, never felt the need to.  :unknown:

I will say "thank you" if someone holds the door open as I enter a shop ------------- but that is because they are doing me a favour, a prostitute is being paid for a service and does not need to be thanked.    :crazy:

Well put, although Nightkid has also said it all, cheers, mate.

What fluffycunts don't seen to realise is that there is a difference between social politeness and coming and UKP to sending grovelling reviews like plaintive messages in a fucking bottle.

Would you go down to the pub and eulogise about the binman to your mates? "Ooooh you know, he emptied every bin! Truly amazing service! I can't thank him enough!" You'd be locked up!  :D

Even talking about a hairdresser like that is pretty girlie. People all deserve a modicum of politeness should you need to speak to them. This is not a forum for speaking to prostitutes. It's more akin to speaking to your male friends (if you have any) down the pub.

People should be acknowledged, where and when appropriate, for doing the job that is expected of them. A company director might say to a cleaner or the locksmith, "Great job!" as means of acknowledgement and a display of magnanimity. He (or she) wouldn't put it in the company report. The office manager or person responsible for sourcing the cleaner or locksmith might say that they seemed reliable and efficient if asked, simply as a means of keeping tabs if such services were required again. Or the opposite, if they weren't. And that is where UKP reviews and talk of prossies should really be at.

And yet, you've put it way more eloquently then I have.  :lol:

 :thumbsup:  :hi:

Offline Ali Katt

Yes absolutely. It would feel very weird thanking a "real life" partner for having mutually consensual sex. And no matter how much I pay, I know that as I've just been fucking a beautiful girl who's young enough to be my granddaughter, and hugely out of my league in real life, I'm grateful to the girl in question for services rendered (and always offered with a smile and a chat and laughs too). In a very similar way to my gratitude to the shit-smelling sewerman who unclogged my pipes (see earlier post). Dirty jobs (the Woody Allen joke about sex) but I'm extremely glad someone's chosen to do it?
To me it sounds like you are simply grateful to fuck a woman. The prossie should be grateful you chose her given there are always other options.

Offline west8

I think the only girl I ever sent a post-coital 'thank you' sms to was Adele .. though it was really 'thanks .. can I see you on Tuesday?' or such.

Don't really see the point in (effectively) saying 'thanks for taking my money and letting me fuck you'. Seems faintly ridiculous to be frank.

However, I usually say 'it was nice to meet you' upon leaving a WG. Why not, that's simple politeness.

But last night I arrived 15 mins late (council estate) to see a new WG and left more an hour over time.

THAT deserved a 'thanks for tonight' message because it was highly unusual and a fucking good punt.

I think the only girl I ever sent a post-coital 'thank you' sms to was Adele .. though it was really 'thanks .. can I see you on Tuesday?' or such.

Don't really see the point in (effectively) saying 'thanks for taking my money and letting me fuck you'. Seems faintly ridiculous to be frank.

However, I usually say 'it was nice to meet you' upon leaving a WG. Why not, that's simple politeness.


But last night I arrived 15 mins late (council estate) to see a new WG and left more an hour over time.

THAT deserved a 'thanks for tonight' message because it was highly unusual and a fucking good punt.

Yet your fluffy reviews tell a different story that borderline a deceleration of love written by Shakespeare himself.

Yet your fluffy reviews tell a different story that borderline a deceleration of love written by Shakespeare himself.

Declaration  :dash:

Fucking auto correct.


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