Are prostitutes damaged goods?

[MrSmiley]

I woke up this morning feeling a little sad! realised I'm falling for a prossie! I see her quite a lot. I get special treats, going over time, extras free etc etc. We obviously get on and have good sex, but more than anything we have such a laugh - time with her is such a perfect illusion of being young, carefree, dirty and crazy - think maybe i'm having a midlife crisis or maybe it's my come down from last night!

I'm trying to think of all the reasons to make me realise I'm mad and must knock it on the head. One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle! A bit mean but just need to make myself realise who I'm dealing with. I've read all the threads about EAS - but this one has just crept up on me without me realising! need to spend more time with my mates rather than these gorgeous, dirty women every night!

[fredpunter]

I cant relate the title of this thread with what you have written. How are they connected?
Regarding your infatuation, ask her out for the evening unpaid and she will cure you of your delusion.

[MancSean]

It happens dude wg's have feelings and emotions too. Question you have to ask yourself is the folk owing
Are you prepared to go out with someone that's shagging hundreds of blokes a month or are you able to financially support her if she was doing a job for £7 per hour? If the answer is no to both then it's best to avoid

[Dani]

EAS is never good however I'm trying to work out how you having EAS has anything to do with the title of prossies being damaged goods?  Especially considering it is you that has the oriblem and not her?

[Dave2014]

You need to take a step back. She charges you cash to spend time with her. This is a business transaction only. Forget the little freebies etc. all good business models offer customers inducements (money off, freebies, buy one get one free, etc.) to promote loyalty.

Here's a tip: just stop calling her - if she starts calling you, begs you to see her outside of the bedroom and offers to see you for free, then see how it goes. As you can imagine, she will not do that - because you are a customer, and a customer only.

[Jimmyredcab]

Regarding your infatuation, ask her out for the evening unpaid and she will cure you of your delusion.

+1000       

[MrSmiley]

I cant relate the title of this thread with what you have written. How are they connected?

EAS is never good however I'm trying to work out how you having EAS has anything to do with the title of prossies being damaged goods?  Especially considering it is you that has the oriblem and not her?

I'm trying to think of her bad points! 

[Regarding your infatuation, ask her out for the evening unpaid and she will cure you of your delusion./quote]


i'll try next week and let you know how i get on!

[raylondoner]

To use the term that many shops have now, how about ''pre-owned''? 

[MrSmiley]

To use the term that many shops have now, how about ''pre-owned''? 

that's too nice a way to put it! need something stronger!

[GreyDave]

 
Take care its quite a bite when you wake up to the fact she is a cash only girl, have almost had the dreded EAS a few times last one was with a latvian girl who I would arrive early and wait I knew the maid and she always chatted to me I would go and get lunch or an evening snack for her often got a free shag . But one day I was told to be on my way by the maid ( obviosly the split of cash was expected 
Funnily enough the place was busted ..Think there were quite a few Sergi`s involved and the neighbours complained..

[BillyBackDoor]

How about putting a link up and we'll help cure you with a dozen or so reviews.

[fredpunter]

How about putting a link up and we'll help cure you with a dozen or so reviews.

My guess is mia

[MrSmiley]

How about putting a link up and we'll help cure you with a dozen or so reviews.

she has quite a few. one was left by the punter after me the other night! i'm beginning to run out of options for where i need to punt, time, budget, services. a lot of my other favourates are away.

by the way, does anyone think that prossies are damaged goods? does anyone know women who used to be prossies when they were younger?

[MrSmiley]

she has quite a few. one was left by the punter after me the other night! i'm beginning to run out of options for where i need to punt, time, budget, services. a lot of my other favourates are away.

by the way, does anyone think that prossies are damaged goods? does anyone know women who used to be prossies when they were younger?

which mia? ## or **?

[fredpunter]

which mia? ## or **?

Aren't you sure? 
 

[Wilson85]

Commiserations mate.

I don't think all prossies are damaged goods, the same question could be asked about punters. I think you have to be fairly resilient and robust to last in this game as both prossie and punter. 

I had a good read of SAAFE when feeling weak last year. This thread is a recent good eye opener: External Link/Members Only  Shows the mercenary, cold, businesslike attitude of prossies. Including, I'm sure, the prossie you are sweet on.

It almost makes me want to cancel my next punt!

You'll get over her with time if nothing else works.

[MrSmiley]

Aren't you sure? 
 

 not sure today! !

[MrSmiley]

Commiserations mate.

I don't think all prossies are damaged goods, the same question could be asked about punters. I think you have to be fairly resilient and robust to last in this game as both prossie and punter. 

I had a good read of SAAFE when feeling weak last year. This thread is a recent good eye opener: External Link/Members Only  Shows the mercenary, cold, businesslike attitude of prossies. Including, I'm sure, the prossie you are sweet on.

It almost makes me want to cancel my next punt!

You'll get over her with time if nothing else works.

Thanks Wilson 

[Dave2014]

by the way, does anyone think that prossies are damaged goods?

With all respect mate, the premise of the question is flawed. You cannot lump them all together merely because they have a common profession of selling sex, just as you cannot presume all accountants share the same psychology because they have a common profession of crunching numbers. All WGs are different. Some have issues, some don't.

[MrSmiley]

With all respect mate, the premise of the question is flawed. You cannot lump them all together merely because they have a common profession of selling sex, just as you cannot presume all accountants share the same psychology because they have a common profession of crunching numbers. All WGs are different. Some have issues, some don't.

fair enough 

[Quesadilla]

With all respect mate, the premise of the question is flawed. You cannot lump them all together merely because they have a common profession of selling sex, just as you cannot presume all accountants share the same psychology because they have a common profession of crunching numbers. All WGs are different. Some have issues, some don't.

Well, there are certain professions that you can presume have the same psychology...it's a well known fact that all lawyers are...oh, hi Puntico, didn't recognise you there....

[Aspen]

To use the term that many shops have now, how about ''pre-owned''?

Or as in some cases - pre-loved.

[Dave2014]

Well, there are certain professions that you can presume have the same psychology...it's a well known fact that all lawyers are...oh, hi Puntico, didn't recognise you there....

 

[CBPaul]

Some are damaged and somewhat nutty, some are outright bunny boilers, some are insecure and some are definitely not damaged in any way. Much like most of society really.

Quite what this has to do with an attack of EAS I don't know, unless of course you feel that your favoured prossie is in some way damaged goods.

EAS is a bastard and does have a habit of creeping up on you. Go cold turkey. Shagging other prossies is a dangerous one as you'll only be comparing them to this one and no doubt they won't get close and you'll feel the urge to visit her even more strongly. You may well have a connection, get on very well and she might well consider you one of her preferred clients - because you get on but more likely because you are good for the money, don't push the boundaries, are happy to talk rather than shag and are clean and polite etc etc.

Have a good read through her feedback, OK it's 99% bollocks on AW but you'll get an idea of how she views other punters, what she does for them and how other punters view her. That should being you crashing back to the right planet. 

[Stealthshagger]

I woke up this morning feeling a little sad! realised I'm falling for a prossie! I see her quite a lot. I get special treats, going over time, extras free etc etc. We obviously get on and have good sex, but more than anything we have such a laugh - time with her is such a perfect illusion of being young, carefree, dirty and crazy - think maybe i'm having a midlife crisis or maybe it's my come down from last night!

I'm trying to think of all the reasons to make me realise I'm mad and must knock it on the head. One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle! A bit mean but just need to make myself realise who I'm dealing with. I've read all the threads about EAS - but this one has just crept up on me without me realising! need to spend more time with my mates rather than these gorgeous, dirty women every night!

I go to a local restaurant often, for meals, coffee etc. As I go often, I get freebies. I don't think they love me, I don't love them and they do it because it's good business. Admittedly I don't put my penis in any of them, but prostitution is a business too. EAS comes in part from the inherently intimate and pleasurable aspects, but it's business. Remember....getting extras free isn't the same as her fucking you because she wants your meat. She does it as it is her job. Move on.

[MrSmiley]

thanks for comments. i know all of what you are saying and are totally right. i'm terribly hungover from a few nights out late, last night was longer than usual, so feeling sorry for myself. i'm sure i'll pull myself together once i've got some sleep - but not until i get my leg over later!

[Deepstroker]

I woke up this morning feeling a little sad! realised I'm falling for a prossie! I see her quite a lot. I get special treats, going over time, extras free etc etc. We obviously get on and have good sex, but more than anything we have such a laugh - time with her is such a perfect illusion of being young, carefree, dirty and crazy - think maybe i'm having a midlife crisis or maybe it's my come down from last night!

I'm trying to think of all the reasons to make me realise I'm mad and must knock it on the head. One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle! A bit mean but just need to make myself realise who I'm dealing with. I've read all the threads about EAS - but this one has just crept up on me without me realising! need to spend more time with my mates rather than these gorgeous, dirty women every night!

It could be that shes breeding you for the long slow milking. This is how it usually starts. Pretty soon there will be tears and a bad luck story..

I wouldnt say prostitutes are damaged goods but many are used to that lifestyle and would not want to give it up for normality. Anyway what would they do for a living if they gave up the lifestyle to be with you?

[StPunt]

some are some arent like in all walks of life really

[Aspen]

More than average I'd say.

Most of them are crafty and nasty. The problem is finding the ones that aren't. A very small proportion of the total unfortunately.

[Dani]

The quickest way to cure your EAS and get a very quick sharp reality check is ask her to go on a free date with you.  Her reaction will cure you as she will either look horrified, pissed off or make some excuse about not mixing business with pleasure and never dating a client blah blah.  Basically she will mean not a chance in hell will she give up a regular amount of money to see you for free.  Its the same as any business, they treat you well, maybe give you discounts or the odd freebie (costa do a points card, some places do a buy 9 get one free etc) however if you went in and said you want it all free from now on they would tell you to piss off.  Its exactly the same thing
as a client she may like you, she may even enjoy your company but remember she probably wouldn't give you the time of day if you were not handing her cash everytime

[Deepstroker]

Wise words Dani....

[Stealthshagger]

thanks for comments. i know all of what you are saying and are totally right. i'm terribly hungover from a few nights out late, last night was longer than usual, so feeling sorry for myself. i'm sure i'll pull myself together once i've got some sleep - but not until i get my leg over later!

After a heavy drink testosterone plummets. Some feel soft an emotional as a result, but don't see what it is. Might be worth keeping in mind

[smiths]

I woke up this morning feeling a little sad! realised I'm falling for a prossie! I see her quite a lot. I get special treats, going over time, extras free etc etc. We obviously get on and have good sex, but more than anything we have such a laugh - time with her is such a perfect illusion of being young, carefree, dirty and crazy - think maybe i'm having a midlife crisis or maybe it's my come down from last night!

I'm trying to think of all the reasons to make me realise I'm mad and must knock it on the head. One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle! A bit mean but just need to make myself realise who I'm dealing with. I've read all the threads about EAS - but this one has just crept up on me without me realising! need to spend more time with my mates rather than these gorgeous, dirty women every night!

Yes this can creep up on you as it did me once. Time to move on when such feelings form in my view.

[Sylvester]

I think that EAS can be pretty tricky to guard against, particularly if, like me, you enjoy the GFE experience and are not just looking for a cock holster.

I have had a (brief) episode where I think I lost perspective a little, but was very quickly put straight by the girl.  It was a useful experience for me.

[bensonhedges20]

Some of the best punts i have had is with people who only escort for extra cash.

In reality, i dont have eas but for the longer punts there is a desire to see the same girl again

Luckily, i get one good punt and then bad then good again. Very rarely i get two or even three good punts.

[bensonhedges20]

The quickest way to cure your EAS and get a very quick sharp reality check is ask her to go on a free date with you.  Her reaction will cure you as she will either look horrified, pissed off or make some excuse about not mixing business with pleasure and never dating a client blah blah.  Basically she will mean not a chance in hell will she give up a regular amount of money to see you for free.  Its the same as any business, they treat you well, maybe give you discounts or the odd freebie (costa do a points card, some places do a buy 9 get one free etc) however if you went in and said you want it all free from now on they would tell you to piss off.  Its exactly the same thing
as a client she may like you, she may even enjoy your company but remember she probably wouldn't give you the time of day if you were not handing her cash everytime

Any smart prossie would offer her time at half price on an evening where she has no bookings.

She would in turn tell the eas victim that she is cancelling other appointments for him to keep him clinging.

You would be surprised as to how many girls have a sugar daddy, taxi allowance, clothes allowance etc. Especially in areas like london.

[StPunt]

i think its very important that you visit wgs for SEX only, its plain to see that some clients see them for the whole girlfriend experience, even taking them on dates which i personally think is really unhealthy because the whole environment is false and i think its inevitable that you're going to get hurt. Visit them for hot sex but as soon as it starts getting mushy you really need to snap yourself out of it and remind yourself this is a business transaction. try dating sites if its a girlfriend you want. You really dont want to be the guy thats lying awake at night thinking about the wg that probably hasnt given you a second thought since you left her apartment because you feel she is 'different' around you...her other 80 clients are thinking the same thing.

[Aspen]

i think its very important that you visit wgs for SEX only, its plain to see that some clients see them for the whole girlfriend experience, even taking them on dates which i personally think is really unhealthy because the whole environment is false and i think its inevitable that you're going to get hurt. Visit them for hot sex but as soon as it starts getting mushy you really need to snap yourself out of it and remind yourself this is a business transaction. try dating sites if its a girlfriend you want. You really dont want to be the guy thats lying awake at night thinking about the wg that probably hasnt given you a second thought since you left her apartment because you feel she is 'different' around you...her other 80 clients are thinking the same thing.

I couldn't agree more. Apart from the bit about dating sites. They are largely a complete waste of time

There's nothing wrong with being friendly and having an interesting chat etc, but don't get distracted from the real purpose. I have a lot of female friends, some of them really good and close, but sex is never a possibility with any of them, so there's only one solution. I'm sure there are many guys in the same situation.

[cueball]

I see we've gone into eas from damaged goods (fair enough, that's what's great about threads on forums).

The thing to remember is that she is your girlfriend for the time you're with her and not a second longer, I go for gfe every punt and ride the fantasy wave for the duration of the punt BUT at the end of the punt the fantasy is over and I walk away a happy man with empty bollocks.

I read quite a lot about lads getting attached, I've said before that ask her out on a free date and you'll see what she really feels like but most won't do that, best thing to do is ride another prossie and don't stick to the same one.

[306]

yes i have done that come to a show with me answer
 no answer
so .real answer
 not interested
 dont mix work with free time
 wg mindset , sad but true i guess

[cueball]

yes i have done that come to a show with me answer
 no answer
so .real answer
 not interested
 dont mix work with free time
 wg mindset , sad but true i guess

Got that now, it took a couple of times of reading but yep, I understand you now

[NIK]

Some of the best punts i have had is with people who only escort for extra cash.

Very true.
Although you actually mean 'prossy for extra cash.' 

[cueball]

Some of the best punts i have had is with people who only escort for extra cash.

I thought extra cash is why they all do it

[Third Man]

There's nothing wrong with being friendly and having an interesting chat etc, but don't get distracted from the real purpose. I have a lot of female friends, some of them really good and close, but sex is never a possibility with any of them, so there's only one solution. I'm sure there are many guys in the same situation.

exactly my situation and thoughts.

[Marmalade]

Over the years I've dated a couple of prossies. Neither of them wanted money after the initial encounter and were downright bloody insistent about it.

The fact that the punter even thinks in terms of damaged goods enough to name the thread is evidence that he views her 100% as a prostitute. The fact that she keeps taking cash from him is evidence that she views him 100% as a client.

Any prossie worth her salt would probably have told him to fuck off or fuck off nicely by now.

If it wasn't an experienced poster/punter/reviewer, most of the forum would have told the OP to fuck off by now. And he still doesn't have the balls to post the link.

So he is really asking, "Should I carry on being a stoopid cnut?" Errrr no, you dufus! Look at yourself,  and her, through the eyes of everybody else and stop it. Do what you would tell someone else to do in the same circumstances!

Even trying putting the nicest interpretation on it: a prossie he enjoys so much as a regular that he prefers his evenings with her to the exclusion of all else, is a non-starter given his shame at providing an honest link.

Love is the mutual attraction between two people. Punting is just slightly better than falling in love with your hand when you wank a bit too often.

[Marmalade]

For the other threads on the same subject just use UKP Wiki and scroll down to the EAS Section:
External Link/Members Only

[StPunt]

i think this thread has got muddled up, its happened to a few threads lately.

[Denholm]

I think the link between the OP's heading and their post is that he's trying to ask whether forming a romantic relationship with this WG (if this were possible) be a bad idea.
The answer is yes, it would be a fucking terrible idea.

[PumpAction]

If a punter wanted to start a romantic relationship with a WG i'd suggest he's damaged goods.

[badsin]

I couldn't agree more. Apart from the bit about dating sites. They are largely a complete waste of time

There's nothing wrong with being friendly and having an interesting chat etc, but don't get distracted from the real purpose. I have a lot of female friends, some of them really good and close, but sex is never a possibility with any of them, so there's only one solution. I'm sure there are many guys in the same situation.

Im in exactly the same position as the above, loads of female friends but not one to fcuk Thus I punt

Ive certainly formed a bit of a relationship with a pro' in the past(about 5 years ago now). Great whilst it lasted, in my mind at least. However I couldn't deal with her still screwing about....... so that was that, after a few weeks.

As some other posters have stated: ask her out without fee's involved and see what happens?.

In answer to the thread title: Are prostitutes damaged goods?
A: Depends on the individual prossie, and the person asking the question. We're all a bit screwed up, its whether others can cope with / overlook  other peoples pasts.