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Author Topic: Are prostitutes damaged goods?  (Read 6659 times)

thanks for comments. i know all of what you are saying and are totally right. i'm terribly hungover from a few nights out late, last night was longer than usual, so feeling sorry for myself. i'm sure i'll pull myself together once i've got some sleep - but not until i get my leg over later!

I woke up this morning feeling a little sad! realised I'm falling for a prossie! I see her quite a lot. I get special treats, going over time, extras free etc etc. We obviously get on and have good sex, but more than anything we have such a laugh - time with her is such a perfect illusion of being young, carefree, dirty and crazy - think maybe i'm having a midlife crisis or maybe it's my come down from last night!

I'm trying to think of all the reasons to make me realise I'm mad and must knock it on the head. One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle! A bit mean but just need to make myself realise who I'm dealing with. I've read all the threads about EAS - but this one has just crept up on me without me realising! need to spend more time with my mates rather than these gorgeous, dirty women every night!

It could be that shes breeding you for the long slow milking. This is how it usually starts. Pretty soon there will be tears and a bad luck story..

I wouldnt say prostitutes are damaged goods but many are used to that lifestyle and would not want to give it up for normality. Anyway what would they do for a living if they gave up the lifestyle to be with you?

Offline StPunt

some are some arent like in all walks of life really

Offline Aspen

More than average I'd say.

Most of them are crafty and nasty. The problem is finding the ones that aren't. A very small proportion of the total unfortunately.
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Offline Dani

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The quickest way to cure your EAS and get a very quick sharp reality check is ask her to go on a free date with you.  Her reaction will cure you as she will either look horrified, pissed off or make some excuse about not mixing business with pleasure and never dating a client blah blah.  Basically she will mean not a chance in hell will she give up a regular amount of money to see you for free.  Its the same as any business, they treat you well, maybe give you discounts or the odd freebie (costa do a points card, some places do a buy 9 get one free etc) however if you went in and said you want it all free from now on they would tell you to piss off.  Its exactly the same thing
as a client she may like you, she may even enjoy your company but remember she probably wouldn't give you the time of day if you were not handing her cash everytime


thanks for comments. i know all of what you are saying and are totally right. i'm terribly hungover from a few nights out late, last night was longer than usual, so feeling sorry for myself. i'm sure i'll pull myself together once i've got some sleep - but not until i get my leg over later!

After a heavy drink testosterone plummets. Some feel soft an emotional as a result, but don't see what it is. Might be worth keeping in mind

Offline smiths

I woke up this morning feeling a little sad! realised I'm falling for a prossie! I see her quite a lot. I get special treats, going over time, extras free etc etc. We obviously get on and have good sex, but more than anything we have such a laugh - time with her is such a perfect illusion of being young, carefree, dirty and crazy - think maybe i'm having a midlife crisis or maybe it's my come down from last night!

I'm trying to think of all the reasons to make me realise I'm mad and must knock it on the head. One of those reasons is to remember she is fucking hundreds of men a month and is just a sperm receptacle! A bit mean but just need to make myself realise who I'm dealing with. I've read all the threads about EAS - but this one has just crept up on me without me realising! need to spend more time with my mates rather than these gorgeous, dirty women every night!

Yes this can creep up on you as it did me once. Time to move on when such feelings form in my view.

Offline Sylvester

I think that EAS can be pretty tricky to guard against, particularly if, like me, you enjoy the GFE experience and are not just looking for a cock holster.

I have had a (brief) episode where I think I lost perspective a little, but was very quickly put straight by the girl.  It was a useful experience for me.
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Offline bensonhedges20

Some of the best punts i have had is with people who only escort for extra cash.

In reality, i dont have eas but for the longer punts there is a desire to see the same girl again

Luckily, i get one good punt and then bad then good again. Very rarely i get two or even three good punts.
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Offline bensonhedges20

The quickest way to cure your EAS and get a very quick sharp reality check is ask her to go on a free date with you.  Her reaction will cure you as she will either look horrified, pissed off or make some excuse about not mixing business with pleasure and never dating a client blah blah.  Basically she will mean not a chance in hell will she give up a regular amount of money to see you for free.  Its the same as any business, they treat you well, maybe give you discounts or the odd freebie (costa do a points card, some places do a buy 9 get one free etc) however if you went in and said you want it all free from now on they would tell you to piss off.  Its exactly the same thing
as a client she may like you, she may even enjoy your company but remember she probably wouldn't give you the time of day if you were not handing her cash everytime

Any smart prossie would offer her time at half price on an evening where she has no bookings.

She would in turn tell the eas victim that she is cancelling other appointments for him to keep him clinging.

You would be surprised as to how many girls have a sugar daddy, taxi allowance, clothes allowance etc. Especially in areas like london.
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Offline StPunt

i think its very important that you visit wgs for SEX only, its plain to see that some clients see them for the whole girlfriend experience, even taking them on dates which i personally think is really unhealthy because the whole environment is false and i think its inevitable that you're going to get hurt. Visit them for hot sex but as soon as it starts getting mushy you really need to snap yourself out of it and remind yourself this is a business transaction. try dating sites if its a girlfriend you want. You really dont want to be the guy thats lying awake at night thinking about the wg that probably hasnt given you a second thought since you left her apartment because you feel she is 'different' around you...her other 80 clients are thinking the same thing.
« Last Edit: February 13, 2015, 11:52:20 PM by StPunt »

Offline Aspen

i think its very important that you visit wgs for SEX only, its plain to see that some clients see them for the whole girlfriend experience, even taking them on dates which i personally think is really unhealthy because the whole environment is false and i think its inevitable that you're going to get hurt. Visit them for hot sex but as soon as it starts getting mushy you really need to snap yourself out of it and remind yourself this is a business transaction. try dating sites if its a girlfriend you want. You really dont want to be the guy thats lying awake at night thinking about the wg that probably hasnt given you a second thought since you left her apartment because you feel she is 'different' around you...her other 80 clients are thinking the same thing.

I couldn't agree more. Apart from the bit about dating sites. They are largely a complete waste of time

There's nothing wrong with being friendly and having an interesting chat etc, but don't get distracted from the real purpose. I have a lot of female friends, some of them really good and close, but sex is never a possibility with any of them, so there's only one solution. I'm sure there are many guys in the same situation.

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Offline cueball

I see we've gone into eas from damaged goods (fair enough, that's what's great about threads on forums).

The thing to remember is that she is your girlfriend for the time you're with her and not a second longer, I go for gfe every punt and ride the fantasy wave for the duration of the punt BUT at the end of the punt the fantasy is over and I walk away a happy man with empty bollocks.

I read quite a lot about lads getting attached, I've said before that ask her out on a free date and you'll see what she really feels like but most won't do that, best thing to do is ride another prossie and don't stick to the same one.

Offline 306

yes i have done that come to a show with me answer
 no answer
so .real answer
 not interested
 dont mix work with free time
 wg mindset , sad but true i guess
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Offline cueball

yes i have done that come to a show with me answer
 no answer
so .real answer
 not interested
 dont mix work with free time
 wg mindset , sad but true i guess

Got that now, it took a couple of times of reading but yep, I understand you now

Offline NIK

Some of the best punts i have had is with people who only escort for extra cash.



Very true.
Although you actually mean 'prossy for extra cash.'  :)

Offline cueball

Some of the best punts i have had is with people who only escort for extra cash.


I thought extra cash is why they all do it

Offline Third Man



There's nothing wrong with being friendly and having an interesting chat etc, but don't get distracted from the real purpose. I have a lot of female friends, some of them really good and close, but sex is never a possibility with any of them, so there's only one solution. I'm sure there are many guys in the same situation.
exactly my situation and thoughts.

Offline Marmalade

Over the years I've dated a couple of prossies. Neither of them wanted money after the initial encounter and were downright bloody insistent about it.

The fact that the punter even thinks in terms of damaged goods enough to name the thread is evidence that he views her 100% as a prostitute. The fact that she keeps taking cash from him is evidence that she views him 100% as a client.

Any prossie worth her salt would probably have told him to fuck off or fuck off nicely by now.

If it wasn't an experienced poster/punter/reviewer, most of the forum would have told the OP to fuck off by now. And he still doesn't have the balls to post the link.

So he is really asking, "Should I carry on being a stoopid cnut?" Errrr no, you dufus! Look at yourself,  and her, through the eyes of everybody else and stop it. Do what you would tell someone else to do in the same circumstances!

Even trying putting the nicest interpretation on it: a prossie he enjoys so much as a regular that he prefers his evenings with her to the exclusion of all else, is a non-starter given his shame at providing an honest link.

Love is the mutual attraction between two people. Punting is just slightly better than falling in love with your hand when you wank a bit too often.

Offline Marmalade

For the other threads on the same subject just use UKP Wiki and scroll down to the EAS Section:
http://www.puntingwiki.com/wiki/Useful_Threads_on_UKP

Offline StPunt

i think this thread has got muddled up, its happened to a few threads lately.

Offline Denholm

I think the link between the OP's heading and their post is that he's trying to ask whether forming a romantic relationship with this WG (if this were possible) be a bad idea.
The answer is yes, it would be a fucking terrible idea.

Offline PumpAction

If a punter wanted to start a romantic relationship with a WG i'd suggest he's damaged goods.

Offline badsin

I couldn't agree more. Apart from the bit about dating sites. They are largely a complete waste of time

There's nothing wrong with being friendly and having an interesting chat etc, but don't get distracted from the real purpose. I have a lot of female friends, some of them really good and close, but sex is never a possibility with any of them, so there's only one solution. I'm sure there are many guys in the same situation.

Im in exactly the same position as the above, loads of female friends but not one to fcuk :scare: Thus I punt :thumbsup:

Ive certainly formed a bit of a relationship with a pro' in the past(about 5 years ago now). Great whilst it lasted, in my mind at least. However I couldn't deal with her still screwing about....... so that was that, after a few weeks.

As some other posters have stated: ask her out without fee's involved and see what happens?.

In answer to the thread title: Are prostitutes damaged goods?
A: Depends on the individual prossie, and the person asking the question. We're all a bit screwed up, its whether others can cope with / overlook  other peoples pasts.


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