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Author Topic: Kavita Lipstick - Booking Cancelled  (Read 5179 times)


9 review(s) for kavita_lipstick (7 positive, 1 neutral, 1 negative) [Indexed by Admin]


Offline Expl1cit

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I was very much looking forward to seeing Kavita, I was one of the first to successfully get a confirmed booking with her shortly after her first UKP review and the 3 week anticipation was almost too much for me.  She was to be my first Indian WG and my first Outcall booking.

Comms were excellent, on AW, phone and text, until the day before the booking when she had to cancel for personal reasons. 

Although very disappointed, I don't think she quite realised how much out of my comfort zone I stepped to arrange the booking at my own home, at least I was given reasonable notice and a reason for the cancellation.

The neutral review is because subsequent to this, trying to reschedule the booking has been unsuccessful by way of no replies to texts, calls or AW messages, yet she continues to log into AW and receive positive feedback so is or has been working around our original booking. 

I would have hoped, or rather expected, that due to the fact we had a confirmed booking, more effort would be made on her part to try to reschedule this, but I guess now quite some time has passed and for me she has lost that raw newbie appeal.
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9 review(s) found for kavita_lipstick linked to in above post (7 positive, 1 neutral, 1 negative)

In the final analysis; very few prostitutes run good businesses with a focused approach; especially OCGs. Most of them do this in quite a chaotic way, with a few exceptions.

Offline citynight

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I was very much looking forward to seeing Kavita, I was one of the first to successfully get a confirmed booking with her shortly after her first UKP review and the 3 week anticipation was almost too much for me.  She was to be my first Indian WG and my first Outcall booking.

Comms were excellent, on AW, phone and text, until the day before the booking when she had to cancel for personal reasons. 

Although very disappointed, I don't think she quite realised how much out of my comfort zone I stepped to arrange the booking at my own home, at least I was given reasonable notice and a reason for the cancellation.

The neutral review is because subsequent to this, trying to reschedule the booking has been unsuccessful by way of no replies to texts, calls or AW messages, yet she continues to log into AW and receive positive feedback so is or has been working around our original booking. 

I would have hoped, or rather expected, that due to the fact we had a confirmed booking, more effort would be made on her part to try to reschedule this, but I guess now quite some time has passed and for me she has lost that raw newbie appeal.


I've had similar communication issues with her - sent her messages early on, where she was very jolly and polite & this continued in the lead up to her incall day. But once I tried to book there was no response either on here (where I first emailed) or on AW (where she'd asked me to subsequently email her).

Was really interested in meeting her but the lack of communication and the fact that she has fluctuating prices, at the higher end of my budget, has meant I've taken her off the HL. Real shame.





9 review(s) found for kavita_lipstick linked to in above post (7 positive, 1 neutral, 1 negative)

at least I was given reasonable notice and a reason for the cancellation.

The neutral review is because subsequent to this, trying to reschedule the booking has been unsuccessful by way of no replies to texts, calls or AW messages

Why don't wgs understand that cutting communication dead is one of the most frustrating aspects of punting. If she has a reasons for not booking you again, why not just say so. Perhaps she feels it is a lose, lose situation.. damned if she ignores you, damned if she explains she no longer wants to see you.

I once had a booked wg email me after I tried to clarify services (all on her enjoys) and say she felt a bit unsure about going ahead, and cancelled the next day. I would FAR prefer this to suddenly being ignored for unexplained reasons.

Having said all that, I personally don't think a booking deserves a ukp review (but a thread is justified) if it is cancelled THE DAY BEFORE, unless the punter had booked an outcall hotel that he could not get a refund on. I'm sure others will disagree  :hi:
 
« Last Edit: February 12, 2015, 09:03:10 AM by Silver Birch »

Offline NightKid

In the final analysis; very few prostitutes run good businesses with a focused approach; especially OCGs. Most of them do this in quite a chaotic way, with a few exceptions.

OCGs?


Offline mrx007

I haven't had a reply from messages sent through AW or this forum. And I sent pretty polite messages asking about availability. I guess couple this to an AW profile that shows a restricted range of services to the original list and higher rates and her appeal is diminishing to me anyway.

The AW message isn't read despite her logging in nearly every day and people are leaving feedback who must have seen her after my messages so with so many other hot girls who do more for less money who knows, or cares?

For example: Jade £80 half hour. Xena £50 half hour, both lovely engaging girls who make you feel great and include CIM in those rates. I rest my case.
« Last Edit: February 12, 2015, 05:37:19 PM by mrx007 »

Offline naz

Looks like she's a part time WG student.. When she first came on the AW scene I thought wow finally a decent Indian girl. You will normally struggle to find an Indian with decent GFE  services. And being local to me wouldn't have minded paying higher prices. Until I read her profile: no asians or black  guys.. her preferance..  :dash:
Now she picking and choosing who and when she sees and replies to comms.. I think she thinks shes gods gift..

Plenty of fish out there...


Offline petite_kav

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Now she picking and choosing who and when she sees and replies to comms.. I think she thinks shes gods gift..



How dare I pick and choose who I see and have sex with?!  :dash:

I am a part time WG, my focus is on earning a degree, I do this for extra cash, and fun. That means I pick and chose who sounds the most genuine, and suited to the kind of sexual encounter I want to have. This means that I dont view this as a business but a paid hobby of sorts. Cancellations happen, when real life gets in the way. My feedback speaks volumes about the level of service I provide when the meetings happen. Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

OP, my apologies for cancelling and subsequently, not replying to your AW messages/texts.



Offline SamLP

Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

Not really. This site is for the benefit of the punter rather than the WG. Useful info relating to a girls reliability and attitude after cancelling helps gauge and form our own views on whether to book that girl or not. Whatever your excuse is and whether it was genuinely real or not, the review is helpful. Your reply was also helpful in giving further insight into your attitude towards punters and has added credibility to the OP's review.

Offline NightKid

Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

Not really. This site is for the benefit of the punter rather than the WG. Useful info relating to a girls reliability and attitude after cancelling helps gauge and form our own views on whether to book that girl or not. Whatever your excuse is and whether it was genuinely real or not, the review is helpful. Your reply was also helpful in giving further insight into your attitude towards punters and has added credibility to the OP's review.

Hear hear ... I was thinking the same thing, and you beat me to it.  :thumbsup:

Offline johnny34

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I would have hoped, or rather expected, that due to the fact we had a confirmed booking, more effort would be made on her part to try to reschedule this


OP, my apologies for cancelling and subsequently, not replying to your AW messages/texts.


If you had replied to the OP's messages/texts & rearranged the booking this review may well have been 'positive'.


9 review(s) found for kavita_lipstick linked to in above post (7 positive, 1 neutral, 1 negative)

Offline Expl1cit

OP, my apologies for cancelling and subsequently, not replying to your AW messages/texts.
Kav,
Appreciate the apology.  I wasn't intending to leave anything other than a positive feedback, as I was very excited about the booking, comms were excellent prior to the agreed meet.

I do personally agree to an extent that usually reviews shouldn't be allowed if a meet hasn't taken place, although UKP allows it, but unfortunately for reasons I have mentioned, I felt a neutral was fair on this occason.  A booking confirmed three weeks prior, and cancelled 24 hours before the actual meet without a hint of trying to schedule in a revisit was very disappointing for me.

I punt very infrequently so not just a case of booking someone else at short notice.  Too late now to think of attempting another booking, i'm not prepared to wait several weeks and the newbie appeal is gone.
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Offline unclesweetheart

How dare I pick and choose who I see and have sex with?!  :dash:

I am a part time WG, my focus is on earning a degree, I do this for extra cash, and fun. That means I pick and chose who sounds the most genuine, and suited to the kind of sexual encounter I want to have. This means that I dont view this as a business but a paid hobby of sorts. Cancellations happen, when real life gets in the way. My feedback speaks volumes about the level of service I provide when the meetings happen. Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

OP, my apologies for cancelling and subsequently, not replying to your AW messages/texts.

I'm biased, as I've seen Kav and had a wonderful time. I hope to have more. For me, knowing that she - surely rightly - chooses who she will see and who she won't makes the meeting all the more authentic. I sympathise with the OP, since I have been "rejected" by a WG who didn't want to carry on seeing me after our first meet, which I thought had gone well. But you have to respect a girl's right to see who she chooses. An abundance of fish in this particular sea, after all.
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I've not seen her - my cock's too big!  :wackogirl: (so don't accuse me of being a white knight) but I think we all need to get a bit of perspective about when to do a negative review. (I know this isn't a negative) In my opinion if I travel or take time out to do an outcall and the WG doesn't let me know until very short notice on the day then this would be a negative. Email fails or communication issues where I don't expent much effort then I don't see this justifying a negative or even a review.

If someone wastes and I mean really wastes my time then it's a negative on here and AW. I am not worried about false feedback as their revenge!

I have cancelled a few days before an appointment and I have also ballsed up an appointment due to misunderstanding communications issues so I take the rough with the smoothe and expect to a degree that the girls do the same!

Let's not throw people under the bus unless they deserve it! If they do then I am first in the queue to do so!

Just my humble opinion!

 :hi:

Offline naz

How dare I pick and choose who I see and have sex with?!  :dash:

I am a part time WG, my focus is on earning a degree, I do this for extra cash, and fun. That means I pick and chose who sounds the most genuine, and suited to the kind of sexual encounter I want to have. This means that I dont view this as a business but a paid hobby of sorts. Cancellations happen, when real life gets in the way. My feedback speaks volumes about the level of service I provide when the meetings happen. Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

OP, my apologies for cancelling and subsequently, not replying to your AW messages/texts.

Kav ofcourse you are allowed to pick and choose, just like we are. Totally respect every WG's wish, part time or full, but don't treat us like idiots. Simple comms reply when you do need to cancel and perhaps a rebooking or a reply to say sorry I dont think you are my type will gain you respect. 

Attitude goes a long way, you have definetly shown yours here.

I don't  even Qualify as I'm an asian, so why am I so upset?  I was happy to see an indian girl providing such great service which in my experiance is quite rare. And then you go and spoil it with you attitude.  :dash:

I've not seen her - my cock's too big!  :wackogirl: (so don't accuse me of being a white knight) but I think we all need to get a bit of perspective about when to do a negative review. (I know this isn't a negative) In my opinion if I travel or take time out to do an outcall and the WG doesn't let me know until very short notice on the day then this would be a negative. Email fails or communication issues where I don't expent much effort then I don't see this justifying a negative or even a review.

If someone wastes and I mean really wastes my time then it's a negative on here and AW. I am not worried about false feedback as their revenge!

I have cancelled a few days before an appointment and I have also ballsed up an appointment due to misunderstanding communications issues so I take the rough with the smoothe and expect to a degree that the girls do the same!

Let's not throw people under the bus unless they deserve it! If they do then I am first in the queue to do so!

Just my humble opinion!

 :hi:

The voice of reason IMO. And no, I haven't tried to get a booking with Kav and have no connection to her in any way. I just think this is fair comment.

Offline Expl1cit

I'm biased, as I've seen Kav and had a wonderful time. I hope to have more. For me, knowing that she - surely rightly - chooses who she will see and who she won't makes the meeting all the more authentic. I sympathise with the OP, since I have been "rejected" by a WG who didn't want to carry on seeing me after our first meet, which I thought had gone well. But you have to respect a girl's right to see who she chooses. An abundance of fish in this particular sea, after all.
You don't need to sympathise with me, I wasn't rejected by any WG, and all this bullshit about respecting girls rights doesn't apply in my case.  I made a booking, spoke to Kav, she seemed very enthusiastic and booked me in at the first available slot, 3 weeks later.  A day before the booking, she had to cancel due to personal reasons.  Hardly rejection, and there is no reasons I can think of or any circumstances that may have arisen within those 3 weeks to make her change her mind.

I was just disappointing by the fact she didn't make more of an effort to try to reschedule a booking asap after this, as I make it clear I was still interested in a booking despite the setback of the cancelled meet.  With hindsight, perhaps the neutral was a little harsh.  I didn't specifically request a date for a re-booking, it was more a loose when can we reschedule question.
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Offline smiths

How dare I pick and choose who I see and have sex with?!  :dash:

I am a part time WG, my focus is on earning a degree, I do this for extra cash, and fun. That means I pick and chose who sounds the most genuine, and suited to the kind of sexual encounter I want to have. This means that I dont view this as a business but a paid hobby of sorts. Cancellations happen, when real life gets in the way. My feedback speaks volumes about the level of service I provide when the meetings happen. Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

OP, my apologies for cancelling and subsequently, not replying to your AW messages/texts.


Its NOT a shame at all that reviews are allowed if a meeting hasn't happened, some of us incur a travel cost only for the WG to not answer her phone when in her area or turn out to be a lying scumbag. If you don't like it tough shit, this IS a punters forum NOT a WGs forum. :rolleyes:

Kav ofcourse you are allowed to pick and choose, just like we are. Totally respect every WG's wish, part time or full, but don't treat us like idiots. Simple comms reply when you do need to cancel and perhaps a rebooking or a reply to say sorry I dont think you are my type will gain you respect. 

Attitude goes a long way, you have definetly shown yours here.

I don't  even Qualify as I'm an asian, so why am I so upset?  I was happy to see an indian girl providing such great service which in my experiance is quite rare. And then you go and spoil it with you attitude.  :dash:


I don't quite follow what you mean regarding the paragraph highlighted in bold? She's made it clear on her profile "no Asians and
no Blacks",  so why should you be so upset about it?

Or let me put it in another way, as I am of Asian heritage myself:  I see a profile like this one which has an exclusion list
which mentions Asians as well as Afro-Caribbean gents, the first thought that comes to my head is this: "Excellent, one
to avoid as I rather spend my £££££s on a WG who has no issues about taking my booking".

My advice to you is simply let it go and don't get so worked up about it. It's just NOT WORTH it in the end.

Coming back to what the OP has mentioned, it's disappointing that you get a cancellation (my understanding is that
Kavita gave you a day's notice) as well as not making amends regarding re-scheduling the booking later for a
mutually convenient date. It's a fair review to mark it as Neutral due to the fact that advance notice was provided,
hopefully she learns to improve her service delivery, where timely communications is a crucial component.










« Last Edit: February 13, 2015, 11:01:19 PM by laidbackasiandude »

Offline west8

How dare I pick and choose who I see and have sex with?!  :dash:

That is your right absolutely. Anyone who claims otherwise is misguided.


I am a part time WG, my focus is on earning a degree, I do this for extra cash, and fun. That means I pick and chose who sounds the most genuine, and suited to the kind of sexual encounter I want to have. This means that I dont view this as a business but a paid hobby of sorts. Cancellations happen, when real life gets in the way. My feedback speaks volumes about the level of service I provide when the meetings happen. Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

I'm sorry but the above statement is not just misleading, it's a lie.


In your message to me, you wrote:

Quote from: petite_kav
Please accept that this is more of a astute business move


Now, I know you fuck for money and not because it's 'fun' or a 'paid hobby' or 'a laugh' and you know you fuck for money and not because it's 'fun' or a 'paid hobby' or 'a laugh'.

You made a business decision.


My feedback speaks volumes about the level of service I provide when the meetings happen.

The Negative and Neutral Reviews also speak volumes about certain aspects of your 'service' which are clearly in need of improvement.



Its a shame that reviews are allowed, when the meeting hasnt taken place.

You mean it's a shame that the forum rules are what they are? Or you mean it's a shame that WGs aren't allowed to fuck us punters about with no comeback?

Come on, you're a smart girl. No way you really believe that. If you do believe that, this is clearly the wrong forum for you to be touting your wares.


Offline naz


I don't quite follow what you mean regarding the paragraph highlighted in bold? She's made it clear on her profile "no Asians and
no Blacks",  so why should you be so upset about it?

Or let me put it in another way, as I am of Asian heritage myself:  I see a profile like this one which has an exclusion list
which mentions Asians as well as Afro-Caribbean gents, the first thought that comes to my head is this: "Excellent, one
to avoid as I rather spend my £££££s on a WG who has no issues about taking my booking".







My advice to you is simply let it go and don't get so worked up about it. It's just NOT WORTH it in the end.

Coming back to what the OP has mentioned, it's disappointing that you get a cancellation (my understanding is that
Kavita gave you a day's notice) as well as not making amends regarding re-scheduling the booking later for a
mutually convenient date. It's a fair review to mark it as Neutral due to the fact that advance notice was provided,
hopefully she learns to improve her service delivery, where timely communications is a crucial component.

So just to clarify yes exclusions are fine with me as this understandable and very common. As I said it was so refreshing to see an Indian girl providing good service. Neutral is not a negative but a reflection of the situation. So in way agree with your points.

Offline Mr Br1ghts1de

That is your right absolutely. Anyone who claims otherwise is misguided.


I'm sorry but the above statement is not just misleading, it's a lie.


In your message to me, you wrote:


Now, I know you fuck for money and not because it's 'fun' or a 'paid hobby' or 'a laugh' and you know you fuck for money and not because it's 'fun' or a 'paid hobby' or 'a laugh'.

You made a business decision.


The Negative and Neutral Reviews also speak volumes about certain aspects of your 'service' which are clearly in need of improvement.



You mean it's a shame that the forum rules are what they are? Or you mean it's a shame that WGs aren't allowed to fuck us punters about with no comeback?

Come on, you're a smart girl. No way you really believe that. If you do believe that, this is clearly the wrong forum for you to be touting your wares.

Quote from: west8 on January 27, 2015, 07:36:38 pm

The point is that part of the 'service' is efficient communication. A simple 'Hi, I'd just like to let you know that I have cancelled our appointment' is all it takes. We all know how 'communicative' they are when the readies are there on the sideboard. It takes all of 5 seconds.


True, but if she did, would you let it be ?

In my experience,  and I've no personal axe to grind, you tend to respond to every contrary opinion to your own, so if she did say no, would you just accept it or would you carry on trying to get a booking with her ?
« Last Edit: January 27, 2015, 10:36:24 pm by Mr Br1ghts1de »


Needless to say, you wouldn't let it lie!

Offline west8

Quote from: west8 on January 27, 2015, 07:36:38 pm

The point is that part of the 'service' is efficient communication. A simple 'Hi, I'd just like to let you know that I have cancelled our appointment' is all it takes. We all know how 'communicative' they are when the readies are there on the sideboard. It takes all of 5 seconds.


True, but if she did, would you let it be ?

In my experience,  and I've no personal axe to grind, you tend to respond to every contrary opinion to your own, so if she did say no, would you just accept it or would you carry on trying to get a booking with her ?
« Last Edit: January 27, 2015, 10:36:24 pm by Mr Br1ghts1de »


Needless to say, you wouldn't let it lie!


Ahh, how little you know. I spoke with Kavita by PM some weeks ago and we 'parted' as friends.

But I think it's very clear that I will ALWAYS call out bullshit on this forum. Whether that be from a WG or a punter.

Kavita decided to come on here and write bollocks about it 'not being business' when it most certainly is business.

So don't you get on your fucking high horse and try and white knight her to me before you know the full facts.

Quote
Comms were excellent, on AW, phone and text, until the day before the booking when she had to cancel for personal reasons.

I am a part time WG, my focus is on earning a degree, I do this for extra cash, and fun. That means I pick and chose who sounds the most genuine, and suited to the kind of sexual encounter I want to have.

I don't think this is about her choosing whom to see/not see. This is about cancelling a booking that was confirmed a long time ago. And that's definitely a negative for me. Also understandably, her giving 24hr notice and having good comms might take it up to a neutral. I sympathize with the OP as I also like to do outcalls but they are tricky to arrange. So I value reviews like this one, even thought the meeting didn't take place.




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