Several things going on here in this thread I can relate to, and comment on.
1. Younger women are more open minded and less likely to turn he tap odd later in life.
Don't bank on it, several guys on here have skas what their missus got up to in earlier times, mine was the same, but time changes them as it does all of us, and modern society or not, that fact won't change.
Cock isn't as important to them as fanny is to us, in later life, its a natural fact.
Sex is usually a pointer to the health of a relationship, so if other things are not in equilibrium, then sex will be off of the menu.
So in my case married 30 years + haven't boned the OH for several years, I got used tot he idea, and watched porn and wanked a lot.
Found AW last autumn, and saw some terrific WG's that will do virtually anything near by, so thought fuck it, why not, and now I am a much more contented person, and probably better to be around!?
But there is no way I will tell the OH, only make the job even worse.
And for you young guys, there is a lot to be said for marriage and a stable relationship, especially if you have family, and divorce / separation/ re marrying etc, from what I can see from mates who have gone through it, certainly isn't the end of the rainbow!
But IMHO punting gets you pretty damn close!