Do you believe the bollocks about loving being an escort?

[RedKettle]

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?

[SmackmaBitchUp]

I think our female friends on here .... Danni & Miss Bronze would be best placed to give there thoughts on this ? 

[smiths]

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?

Its a way of making money of course first and foremost but I think some WGs can enjoy it sometimes depending on the punter. The thing is obviously in most cases with newbie punters to them they have no idea if the punter is old, fat, smelly or young, slim and good looking.

A good WG will offer a good service to ALL her punters assuming they have done the basics, arrived clean with the right money. I certainly don't believe a WG who says to me i really enjoyed that, highly unlikely with my sexual technique, as ever i take it with a huge pinch of salt. The flattery or old  flannel as i consider it to be is in the hope of getting my return custom which they may get if they offer me a good service.

[smiths]

I think our female friends on here .... Danni & Miss Bronze would be best placed to give there thoughts on this ? 

Sienna Bronze has been banned.

[maxxblue]

If you check SAAFE it is quite clear that some WG's do enjoy their work.

However, it is also clear from SAAFE that for others it is a means to an end.

[SmackmaBitchUp]

Sienna Bronze has been banned.

Wow! What did I miss???

[Ben4454]

Biggest motivator is that it is easy money.

I believe a portion do enjoy their job and the sex as well.

[Dani]

This job has its good points and bad points.  I enjoy my work for the most part.  Obviously some clients are better than others and make the time enjoyable.  At the end of the day its a job  that is done mainly for the money but it doesn't mean you cant make the most of the situation and take pleasure from doing your work well or enjoying the company of some of your clients. 
Obviously we get some clients that we really don't want to see again so we don't (if we are sensible).  However we get some clients we look forward to seeing as they are genuinely nice men and we enjoy our time with them. 
Its like any job, some parts you love, some parts you like and some parts you never want to repeat.

Truthfully I enjoy meeting new people so that part of the job I love, I enjoy sex with well over half my clients so that part of the job I like.  some clients make having sexual contact with them seem hard and unnatural so I dislike that part.  I have met some clients that are not very nice for one reason or another and that part of the job I dislike especially if they try to book again as some people don't take refusal well.  I don't like the stupid texts or calls as its timewasting and annoying after a while (thank god for iphone block function).  we cant love every aspect of this job and anyone who says they do is lying as we cant possibly enjoy every person we meet as the odds are there will always be someone we dislike for some reason.  Its human nature not to like everyone. 
However as a whole we can love our work as the good does outweigh the bad.  For the most part it is actually a fairly good job to have once you learn how to spot the idiots and timewasters and those you wouldn't want to see. 
However to enjoy this work I feel you have to look at sex differently to most people.  You have to see it as a fun past time rather than a big issue. 

[justfornow]

they key word here is : WORK

If i were shagging birds for money i would pull through the fat and ugly ones and enjoy the odd pretty one that needs to punt

Not sure what kind of answer do you expect. You may love playing tennis for free but there will be a day where you just don't give a fuck and would rather be doing something else.

I rather hear them saying: "your cock is huge, you were great and i love my job" as oppose to: "your dick is nonexistent, you're and awkward son of a bitch and i can't wait till you get the fuck out of my flat."

Personally i think it would be great if everyone would be doing something they like for a living but that's just not how world works
If you're a female and have right attitude you can earn 100ph. If on top of that there's one that loves getting fucked ALL the time than good for her

[cueball]

I rather hear them saying: "your cock is huge, you were great and i love my job" as oppose to: "your dick is nonexistent, you're and awkward son of a bitch and i can't wait till you get the fuck out of my flat."

Good point,

 I think some over think the prossie punter thing, as long as you're clean, polite and on time there should be very little problem.

Good points made by dani too, it's a job, we all have good and bad parts to our jobs

[Trevor12]

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

My collegues and clients believe I love the nature of my job. If my clients thought I didn't, they'd go elsewhere. I think whether a prossie loves the nature of her job or not, telling us that she does is good business sense.

[unclesweetheart]

Good post from Dani which mirrors my experience. Before a punt I wash/ shower, pay especial care to the obvious bits, shave the day before etc etc. I wish I looked like George Clooney but I don't: however I'm old enough and have read/thought enough to be a reasonably sensible, empathetic and genuine bloke. On this basis - i.e. of not being a complete fuck-up, of being pretty ordinary - I have a few regulars who are prepared to see me again and who I believe enjoy my company. If they didn't, they wouldn't let me book them again. "Enjoy" might be pitching it a bit high: but at the very least my company is tolerable. And by "company" I mean that they are ok with my being, as Homer Simpson says, "intamate" with them. They would obviously prefer it was George Clooney presenting them with a cock to suck rather than me, but given that I've washed said cock and am not (quite) Quasimodo, the bottom line for them must be that I've given them c £100 and am not a fuck-up so they will go ahead and suck my cock and think it fair exchange.

If someone truly loved sucking strangers' cocks they'd do it for free. Since escorts don't do it for free the "loving being an escort" bit must mean, not unreasonably, that they like BEING PAID to suck cock. Dani must be right - that successful escorts see sex differently to most people, who link it to desire/love etc. There surely will always be people - currently the minority - who can separate sex from feelings and who would therefore love being/ using an escort. So I think it's very possible that escorts love escorting: what this doesn't mean is that they actually love sucking your cock (in and of itself). They like, not unreasonably, being paid very well for sucking your cock.

[cueball]

Good post from Dani which mirrors my experience. Before a punt I wash/ shower, pay especial care to the obvious bits, shave the day before etc etc. I wish I looked like George Clooney but I don't: however I'm old enough and have read/thought enough to be a reasonably sensible, empathetic and genuine bloke. On this basis - i.e. of not being a complete fuck-up, of being pretty ordinary - I have a few regulars who are prepared to see me again and who I believe enjoy my company. If they didn't, they wouldn't let me book them again. "Enjoy" might be pitching it a bit high: but at the very least my company is tolerable. And by "company" I mean that they are ok with my being, as Homer Simpson says, "intamate" with them. They would obviously prefer it was George Clooney presenting them with a cock to suck rather than me, but given that I've washed said cock and am not (quite) Quasimodo, the bottom line for them must be that I've given them c £100 and am not a fuck-up so they will go ahead and suck my cock and think it fair exchange.

If someone truly loved sucking strangers' cocks they'd do it for free. Since escorts don't do it for free the "loving being an escort" bit must mean, not unreasonably, that they like BEING PAID to suck cock. Dani must be right - that successful escorts see sex differently to most people, who link it to desire/love etc. There surely will always be people - currently the minority - who can separate sex from feelings and who would therefore love being/ using an escort. So I think it's very possible that escorts love escorting: what this doesn't mean is that they actually love sucking your cock (in and of itself). They like, not unreasonably, being paid very well for sucking your cock.

Good, accurate post uncle

[smiths]

Wow! What did I miss???

Banned for trolling it says.

[Jimmyredcab]

Prostitutes love the money, how can they love being fucked by fat, old and ugly men, they simply prefer it to stacking shelves for minimum wage.   

[willie loman]

Girls find shagging punters and cocksucking, far easier than you think. The punters may be crappy looking, but so are their partners, most men are crappy looking, have you not noticed?

[Turtle Z]

Well lets turn the question on its head... do i love being a punter? Yes, on the rare occasion I meet a new girl who is fun, attractive and tries to provide a good service. Or obviously when I see my regulars who are a known quantity. Then there the times I've seen the bait and switches, the girls who are significantly older or significantly fatter than their profiles suggest, the girls who don't even enjoy sex but just want the money, the girls who cut short your appointments, the girls who wipe your cock with a wet wipe like you're some diseased object... Bottom line is that I don't really want to be a punter but it serves a purpose; similarly I don't believe that most WG's really want to be WG's but it serves a purpose. Not that different really is it.

[unclesweetheart]

Prostitutes love the money, how can they love being fucked by fat, old and ugly men, they simply prefer it to stacking shelves for minimum wage.   

Yes but it's only the minority of women who escort. Everyone loves money. Everyone would get as much of it for as little effort as possible if they could. In order to escort you have to be able to separate sex from emotions in a way that the majority of people find difficult or objectionable. We've all been with girls who have thrown themselves into the session and have been aroused. In order to do this job you have to view sex differently to most people. The best escorts really do seem to "love" their job in the way the OP addresses, but I think the key thing is to see that in order to be a good escort you need to both love or need money in the way that everyone does AND to have a non-sentimental attitude to sex.

[smiths]

Yes but it's only the minority of women who escort. Everyone loves money. Everyone would get as much of it for as little effort as possible if they could. In order to escort you have to be able to separate sex from emotions in a way that the majority of people find difficult or objectionable. We've all been with girls who have thrown themselves into the session and have been aroused. In order to do this job you have to view sex differently to most people. The best escorts really do seem to "love" their job in the way the OP addresses, but I think the key thing is to see that in order to be a good escort you need to both love or need money in the way that everyone does AND to have a non-sentimental attitude to sex.

Or are good at acting they are enjoying it which is good enough for me. WGs have a lot of time punting to refine their act to get it really convincing, that's not to say some don't really enjoy being WGs at least some of the time though of course.

[willie loman]

The idea that woman have to be emotionally engaged to enjoy sex, who still believes that? Ever been in  the city centre at the week-end?

[Blackpool Rock]

If a girl genuinely loves sex for sex rather than sex with someone they love or find attractive then I don't see why they wouldn't enjoy it, some people swing for nothing and can't fancy all the guys they have sex with but still do it so why not get paid well for doing your hobby?

The girls I've seen who volunteered to tell me how much they loved escorting always gave me a really good service which tends to suggest they were not only happy to have sex but enjoyed it.
OK so maybe some of those girls were good actresses / liars but one thing is for sure you can tell a girl who really doesn't like her job

[GreyDave]

 
Yep I think as others have said I have met a few who say they love it and the lifestyle it gives them...
Not one they can share with their famillys though
Some are really into it on a numbers way weather its cash or at parties I have seen girls compete with others 
Been at swingers events and been turned down by working girls "just doing bbc`s today lv its my hobby
one said to me...

[Jimmyredcab]

If a girl genuinely loves sex for sex rather than sex with someone they love or find attractive then I don't see why they wouldn't enjoy it.

You haven't seen the state of me.     

[unclesweetheart]

The idea that woman have to be emotionally engaged to enjoy sex, who still believes that? Ever been in  the city centre at the week-end?

Yes you're right. But the girls who are fucking in the street are, though drunk, doing it for free with someone they fancy. Escorts don't choose who will come through the door - on the first visit, anyway.

[Jimmyredcab]

Yes you're right. But the girls who are fucking in the street are, though drunk, doing it for free with someone they fancy. Escorts don't choose who will come through the door - on the first visit, anyway.

Spot on, the drunk girl in the City Center on a Friday night will choose who fucks her, a prostitute has very little choice, of course she can turn munters away but she won't earn much money.   

[NelsonH]

I had a small business and earned half as much as I did later on in an overpaid Corporate job.

But working for myself I could piss off if it was a nice day, punt when it suited, look after kids etc

Nobody argued or ordered me about. No managers, time sheets, HR etc.

I would guess these are the things that make WGs say they love the job.

[Malvolio]

I can imagine several love the pay and hours compared to the mundane minimum-wage jobs they'd previously been doing.  That's not the same thing as loving the job; being realistic, there's not much to love about sucking off random blokes to make a living.

[Blackpool Rock]

Spot on, the drunk girl in the City Center on a Friday night will choose who fucks her, a prostitute has very little choice, of course she can turn munters away but she won't earn much money.   

Bit like a cabby getting stuck with a fare he knows is going to be a pain in the arse or the choice of diving off and not earning!

[RedKettle]

Girls find shagging punters and cocksucking, far easier than you think. The punters may be crappy looking, but so are their partners, most men are crappy looking, have you not noticed?

every time I use a mirror!!

[Denholm]

There's only 3 ladies I've ever punted with who I've got chatting to about why they escorted. Their answers were quite interesting.
One seemed to see it from a very businesses minded perspective. She realised that sex is big business, that she had a valuable commodity (her looks) and wanted to capitalise. She had ambitions of eventually running her own agency, organising swinging nights etc.
The second admitted that part of it was that it's an ego boost for her. Said she got married very young to a guy who wasn't particularly affectionate and as a result had never seen herself as being attractive. Admitted she started escorting simply because she was in dire financial straits at one point but claimed that what kept her at it was being lusted after by men. She has a cadre of regular punters and apparently they all treat her very well, make her feel like she's hot stuff and she gets off on that.
The last one said she just like cock and cash lol. This one genuinely did seem to really enjoy sex tbf and I've no doubt about the money part.

[DG]

For those of you have read some of my posts will know I prefer part time escorts with a day job. They definitely seem to enjoy their second occupation. Two in particular, one single and one attached, have both told me that they really do enjoy the sex. I'm guessing that's not the case with every punt as Dani discussed earlier, but you can spot a fake smile or orgasm a mile off. These girls are definitely into it and their faces don't lie! I actually had a conversation on this very subject during my last visit, specifically asking if she got fed up seeing the same guys again and again (that was my 8th visit). She replied "well I have great sex and get to buy a new dress". Fair play I say, everyone's a winner.

[SUMO61]

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?

Look, loads of women marry right knobheads because they either want the money or don't want to be left on the shelf. Lots of married women wiuld rather have sex with George Clooney, but  don't stand a chance.

Plenty of married women turn off the sex tap, once married. Hence, why most of us punt.

Sex for many women is either liked or a necessary chore. So, WGs are just the same. They can act out the sex, or really enjoy it, just liked civvy women.

[DeWallenFan]

IMO they enjoy the money...If they could make the same amount of money doing anything else they would do that faster than a heartbeat.

Cheers!

[XTC2]

Surely this goes for just about any job. I once met a guy who absolutely loved (and I really mean LOVED) working at McDonald's, like it was the best job on earth. I knew another who worked in a mental health ward where the patients would regularly try to assault him and each other in a variety of different ways, and he loved that so much you couldn't make him shut up about it. Some people are fortunate enough to find their forte and actually enjoy it, even if you or I can't quite wrap our heads around why that is.

[DeWallenFan]

I also don't believe a prostitute wakes up in the morning and says "Ahh, what a lovely day to suck cock"    ........But then again I could be completely wrong 
Are nymphos actually real??
It shall remain one of life's greatest mysteries 

Cheers!

[itk]

Surely must be it's the easiest way to earn a stack of cash tax free. Some may enjoy the ocassional punt, but there aren't too many jobs that pay in excess of £100p.h.

[Blackpool Rock]

Surely this goes for just about any job. I once met a guy who absolutely loved (and I really mean LOVED) working at McDonald's, like it was the best job on earth. I knew another who worked in a mental health ward where the patients would regularly try to assault him and each other in a variety of different ways, and he loved that so much you couldn't make him shut up about it. Some people are fortunate enough to find their forte and actually enjoy it, even if you or I can't quite wrap our heads around why that is.

Ironic really I punt as it's one of my few pleasures to help me through the fact I hate my job 

[Marmalade]

1. How many of you would say you love your job, ie you would do it even if you weren't paid?

2. How many of you can say that it's an attitude of mind?

But to put the whole thing in a punters' context, the only thing that is relevant is when the prossie says it in a way that convinces you she 'means' it. When a check-out assistant at the supermarket engages me with a smile says she "quite enjoys" the job I take it at face value. She might be a studying full-time, very intelligent, and finding pleasure in the psychological interaction or just the break from reading legal turning points on mens rea . Or she might be thick as shit but such a warm loving character that she can find joy in everything she does. I doubt that anyone is thinking, "I love sitting here all day, mindlessly scanning groceries, so some nameless fat oligarchs can put my sister's grocery store out of business."

All this crap about sucking old cocks and liking not liking it is silly mind games and totally pointless. What's more, not really any of our business if she chooses to do it. Presumably she loves doing it more than the alternative. She either has a good attitude or doesn't.  If she says she loves the job but acts like a miserable cunt it's fair to think of her as a lying cow.

[Qwerty]

If someone truly loved sucking strangers' cocks they'd do it for free. Since escorts don't do it for free the "loving being an escort" bit must mean, not unreasonably, that they like BEING PAID to suck cock.

Not necessarily: for example there are many musicians, perhaps most,who love playing music, but they need to make a living and are paid for it. Likewise, as per a later post there are some people who like working at MacDonalds, but we don't expect them to do it for free.

No reason you shouldn't do something you love doing, and as an added bonus get paid for it.

Talked about this with 2 WGs recently, both quite young, they're not as worried about the stigma, seems like among younger people this is less of a thing than it used to be. They both do other things, but for them it's a convenient way to have lots of sex without the hassle of a boyfriend, and get paid into the bargain. One of them did say that it only suits certain kinds of people, but she clearly felt it was right up her....


...street 

[Jimmyredcab]

All this crap about sucking old cocks and liking not liking it is silly mind games and totally pointless.

That is easy for you to say, you are not the one sucking on some old grandad's cock.     

[Marmalade]

That is easy for you to say, you are not the one sucking on some old grandad's cock.     

Exactly: and rightly so. It's a game for prossies to play.

[Marmalade]

Not necessarily: for example there are many musicians, perhaps most,who love playing music, but they need to make a living and are paid for it. Likewise, as per a later post there are some people who like working at MacDonalds, but we don't expect them to do it for free.

No reason you shouldn't do something you love doing, and as an added bonus get paid for it.

Simple confusion of the playing field since any 'musician' can say that, including manufactured x-factor tossers.

A true musician loves making music and will do that, and for the benefit of others, even without pay. When (and only when) that is the case can he say that getting paid is incidental. It doesn't take a genius to work out the difference between the band that has toured in clubs, performed for nothing in pubs, and finally made it by the grit of their teeth; and some hard luck story wanker who "loves" singing and is "discovered" (ie manufactured and marketed) by Simon Cowell pimpman.

[Silver Birch]

Surely must be it's the easiest way to earn a stack of cash tax free.

Apparently, banking at HSBC can be 'a way to earn a stack of cash tax free' too. 

[Max Pleasure]

I imagine you can love all the trappings of the work, such as good money, work when it suits, sexual stimulation sometimes, being lusted after.  The GFE performance is clearly an act, but that doesn't mean the friendliness isn't genuine.  I do think that if a girl hated the job it would show and she wouldn't last long.

[bensonhedges20]

I have found escorts who don't count the cash in front of you or go to a room to hide it - better fucks. They seem to like their and aren't miserable or insecure or robots.

The ones that do count it are in it for the money and your just a new pair of heels, a dress, an earring or a holiday


Dunno about you guys but a working girl who doesn't count the money is generally a much better fuck!!!

[west8]

Surely must be it's the easiest way to earn a stack of cash tax free. Some may enjoy the ocassional punt, but there aren't too many jobs that pay in excess of £100p.h.

Let's put that theory to the test. I will gladly pay you £500 if you agree to fuck a 70-year-old woman that a 'reasonable man' would say is far from attractive. You will also need to clear the cobwebs from her geriatric gash before a spot of DATY. Then you will need to stay hard whilst she removes her false teeth to perform gums-only OWO. Finally you will need to finish over her saggy, deflated bosom.

Then you can come back on here and tell us it was 'easy'.

Deal?

[maxxblue]

Let's put that theory to the test. I will gladly pay you £500 if you agree to fuck a 70-year-old woman that a 'reasonable man' would say is far from attractive. You will also need to clear the cobwebs from her geriatric gash before a spot of DATY. Then you will need to stay hard whilst she removes her false teeth to perform gums-only OWO. Finally you will need to finish over her saggy, deflated bosom.

Then you can come back on here and tell us it was 'easy'.

Deal?

You mean with this one?

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[shrewsmale]

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?

Interesting post. I genuinely believe some do enjoy it. To me it is important to at least get the impression they are enjoying it as otherwise the moment is gone for me. I know it sounds stupid but it turns me off otherwise.

I do try to pick girls who also swing but not always easy to determine that from a profile. The reason I do is because it demonstrates they enjoy sex with strangers and are quite open minded. I have been able to use this rule a few times including with Sienna Bronze (if that is the girl from telford).

For every one girl who enjoys it, I think there are ten more who don't know.

Anyone agree you can make some distinction between indies and parlour girls? I get the impression more unhappy parlour girls than unhappy Indies.

[DG]

Interesting post. I genuinely believe some do enjoy it. To me it is important to at least get the impression they are enjoying it as otherwise the moment is gone for me. I know it sounds stupid but it turns me off otherwise.

I do try to pick girls who also swing but not always easy to determine that from a profile. The reason I do is because it demonstrates they enjoy sex with strangers and are quite open minded. I have been able to use this rule a few times including with Sienna Bronze (if that is the girl from telford).

For every one girl who enjoys it, I think there are ten more who don't know.

Anyone agree you can make some distinction between indies and parlour girls? I get the impression more unhappy parlour girls than unhappy Indies.

Entirely agree, if she doesn't, at least appear to enjoy it, it's a turn off for me. That said it's pretty easy to spot the fakers. I've also met a swinger and she really does enjoy the sex. Never been to a parlour but I think your point fits with my view about part time WGs, the farther away they are from being a full time 'pro' the better the experience for me and her.

[RedKettle]

Some really interesting responses - I started the thread somewhat tongue in cheek but the replies have got me thinking.

I agree with the overall thrust that they probably enjoy/hate it in the same way that most of us feel about work and like us some will have more of the hate it and some will have more of the enjoy it.

I guess what grated on me was the over the top (and unprompted) statements about how much they love the work from a couple of girls, almost "they protest too much" and it seemed just to be playing to the customers.  Different if you are chatting and the conversation turns to their views on their work.

Cheers