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Author Topic: Do you believe the bollocks about loving being an escort?  (Read 3980 times)

Offline NelsonH

I had a small business and earned half as much as I did later on in an overpaid Corporate job.

But working for myself I could piss off if it was a nice day, punt when it suited, look after kids etc

Nobody argued or ordered me about. No managers, time sheets, HR etc.

I would guess these are the things that make WGs say they love the job.

Offline Malvolio

I can imagine several love the pay and hours compared to the mundane minimum-wage jobs they'd previously been doing.  That's not the same thing as loving the job; being realistic, there's not much to love about sucking off random blokes to make a living.

Spot on, the drunk girl in the City Center on a Friday night will choose who fucks her, a prostitute has very little choice, of course she can turn munters away but she won't earn much money.    :hi:

Bit like a cabby getting stuck with a fare he knows is going to be a pain in the arse or the choice of diving off and not earning!

Offline RedKettle

Girls find shagging punters and cocksucking, far easier than you think. The punters may be crappy looking, but so are their partners, most men are crappy looking, have you not noticed?

every time I use a mirror!! :D :lol:

Offline Denholm

There's only 3 ladies I've ever punted with who I've got chatting to about why they escorted. Their answers were quite interesting.
One seemed to see it from a very businesses minded perspective. She realised that sex is big business, that she had a valuable commodity (her looks) and wanted to capitalise. She had ambitions of eventually running her own agency, organising swinging nights etc.
The second admitted that part of it was that it's an ego boost for her. Said she got married very young to a guy who wasn't particularly affectionate and as a result had never seen herself as being attractive. Admitted she started escorting simply because she was in dire financial straits at one point but claimed that what kept her at it was being lusted after by men. She has a cadre of regular punters and apparently they all treat her very well, make her feel like she's hot stuff and she gets off on that.
The last one said she just like cock and cash lol. This one genuinely did seem to really enjoy sex tbf and I've no doubt about the money part.

Offline DG

For those of you have read some of my posts will know I prefer part time escorts with a day job. They definitely seem to enjoy their second occupation. Two in particular, one single and one attached, have both told me that they really do enjoy the sex. I'm guessing that's not the case with every punt as Dani discussed earlier, but you can spot a fake smile or orgasm a mile off. These girls are definitely into it and their faces don't lie! I actually had a conversation on this very subject during my last visit, specifically asking if she got fed up seeing the same guys again and again (that was my 8th visit). She replied "well I have great sex and get to buy a new dress". Fair play I say, everyone's a winner.
« Last Edit: February 09, 2015, 10:01:15 PM by DG »
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Offline SUMO61

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  :hi: they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?

Look, loads of women marry right knobheads because they either want the money or don't want to be left on the shelf. Lots of married women wiuld rather have sex with George Clooney, but  don't stand a chance.

Plenty of married women turn off the sex tap, once married. Hence, why most of us punt.

Sex for many women is either liked or a necessary chore. So, WGs are just the same. They can act out the sex, or really enjoy it, just liked civvy women.




IMO they enjoy the money...If they could make the same amount of money doing anything else they would do that faster than a heartbeat.

Cheers!

Offline XTC2

Surely this goes for just about any job. I once met a guy who absolutely loved (and I really mean LOVED) working at McDonald's, like it was the best job on earth. I knew another who worked in a mental health ward where the patients would regularly try to assault him and each other in a variety of different ways, and he loved that so much you couldn't make him shut up about it. Some people are fortunate enough to find their forte and actually enjoy it, even if you or I can't quite wrap our heads around why that is.
« Last Edit: February 09, 2015, 10:17:58 PM by XTC2 »

I also don't believe a prostitute wakes up in the morning and says "Ahh, what a lovely day to suck cock"   :lol: ........But then again I could be completely wrong  :unknown:
Are nymphos actually real??
It shall remain one of life's greatest mysteries  :D

Cheers!

Offline itk

Surely must be it's the easiest way to earn a stack of cash tax free. Some may enjoy the ocassional punt, but there aren't too many jobs that pay in excess of £100p.h.

Surely this goes for just about any job. I once met a guy who absolutely loved (and I really mean LOVED) working at McDonald's, like it was the best job on earth. I knew another who worked in a mental health ward where the patients would regularly try to assault him and each other in a variety of different ways, and he loved that so much you couldn't make him shut up about it. Some people are fortunate enough to find their forte and actually enjoy it, even if you or I can't quite wrap our heads around why that is.

Ironic really I punt as it's one of my few pleasures to help me through the fact I hate my job  :cry:

Offline Marmalade

1. How many of you would say you love your job, ie you would do it even if you weren't paid?

2. How many of you can say that it's an attitude of mind?

But to put the whole thing in a punters' context, the only thing that is relevant is when the prossie says it in a way that convinces you she 'means' it. When a check-out assistant at the supermarket engages me with a smile says she "quite enjoys" the job I take it at face value. She might be a studying full-time, very intelligent, and finding pleasure in the psychological interaction or just the break from reading legal turning points on mens rea . Or she might be thick as shit but such a warm loving character that she can find joy in everything she does. I doubt that anyone is thinking, "I love sitting here all day, mindlessly scanning groceries, so some nameless fat oligarchs can put my sister's grocery store out of business."

All this crap about sucking old cocks and liking not liking it is silly mind games and totally pointless. What's more, not really any of our business if she chooses to do it. Presumably she loves doing it more than the alternative. She either has a good attitude or doesn't.  If she says she loves the job but acts like a miserable cunt it's fair to think of her as a lying cow.
« Last Edit: February 09, 2015, 10:27:17 PM by Marmalade »

Offline Qwerty

If someone truly loved sucking strangers' cocks they'd do it for free. Since escorts don't do it for free the "loving being an escort" bit must mean, not unreasonably, that they like BEING PAID to suck cock.

Not necessarily: for example there are many musicians, perhaps most,who love playing music, but they need to make a living and are paid for it. Likewise, as per a later post there are some people who like working at MacDonalds, but we don't expect them to do it for free.

No reason you shouldn't do something you love doing, and as an added bonus get paid for it.

Talked about this with 2 WGs recently, both quite young, they're not as worried about the stigma, seems like among younger people this is less of a thing than it used to be. They both do other things, but for them it's a convenient way to have lots of sex without the hassle of a boyfriend, and get paid into the bargain. One of them did say that it only suits certain kinds of people, but she clearly felt it was right up her....


...street  :)

Offline Jimmyredcab



All this crap about sucking old cocks and liking not liking it is silly mind games and totally pointless.

That is easy for you to say, you are not the one sucking on some old grandad's cock.      :hi:

Offline Marmalade

That is easy for you to say, you are not the one sucking on some old grandad's cock.      :hi:

Exactly: and rightly so. It's a game for prossies to play.

Offline Marmalade

Not necessarily: for example there are many musicians, perhaps most,who love playing music, but they need to make a living and are paid for it. Likewise, as per a later post there are some people who like working at MacDonalds, but we don't expect them to do it for free.

No reason you shouldn't do something you love doing, and as an added bonus get paid for it.


Simple confusion of the playing field since any 'musician' can say that, including manufactured x-factor tossers.

A true musician loves making music and will do that, and for the benefit of others, even without pay. When (and only when) that is the case can he say that getting paid is incidental. It doesn't take a genius to work out the difference between the band that has toured in clubs, performed for nothing in pubs, and finally made it by the grit of their teeth; and some hard luck story wanker who "loves" singing and is "discovered" (ie manufactured and marketed) by Simon Cowell pimpman.

Surely must be it's the easiest way to earn a stack of cash tax free.

Apparently, banking at HSBC can be 'a way to earn a stack of cash tax free' too.  :hi:

I imagine you can love all the trappings of the work, such as good money, work when it suits, sexual stimulation sometimes, being lusted after.  The GFE performance is clearly an act, but that doesn't mean the friendliness isn't genuine.  I do think that if a girl hated the job it would show and she wouldn't last long.

Offline bensonhedges20

I have found escorts who don't count the cash in front of you or go to a room to hide it - better fucks. They seem to like their and aren't miserable or insecure or robots.

The ones that do count it are in it for the money and your just a new pair of heels, a dress, an earring or a holiday


Dunno about you guys but a working girl who doesn't count the money is generally a much better fuck!!!
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Offline west8

Surely must be it's the easiest way to earn a stack of cash tax free. Some may enjoy the ocassional punt, but there aren't too many jobs that pay in excess of £100p.h.

Let's put that theory to the test. I will gladly pay you £500 if you agree to fuck a 70-year-old woman that a 'reasonable man' would say is far from attractive. You will also need to clear the cobwebs from her geriatric gash before a spot of DATY. Then you will need to stay hard whilst she removes her false teeth to perform gums-only OWO. Finally you will need to finish over her saggy, deflated bosom.

Then you can come back on here and tell us it was 'easy'.

Deal?

Offline maxxblue

Let's put that theory to the test. I will gladly pay you £500 if you agree to fuck a 70-year-old woman that a 'reasonable man' would say is far from attractive. You will also need to clear the cobwebs from her geriatric gash before a spot of DATY. Then you will need to stay hard whilst she removes her false teeth to perform gums-only OWO. Finally you will need to finish over her saggy, deflated bosom.

Then you can come back on here and tell us it was 'easy'.

Deal?

You mean with this one?

https://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=2845264

Offline shrewsmale

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  :hi: they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?


Interesting post. I genuinely believe some do enjoy it. To me it is important to at least get the impression they are enjoying it as otherwise the moment is gone for me. I know it sounds stupid but it turns me off otherwise.

I do try to pick girls who also swing but not always easy to determine that from a profile. The reason I do is because it demonstrates they enjoy sex with strangers and are quite open minded. I have been able to use this rule a few times including with Sienna Bronze (if that is the girl from telford).

For every one girl who enjoys it, I think there are ten more who don't know.

Anyone agree you can make some distinction between indies and parlour girls? I get the impression more unhappy parlour girls than unhappy Indies.

Offline DG


Interesting post. I genuinely believe some do enjoy it. To me it is important to at least get the impression they are enjoying it as otherwise the moment is gone for me. I know it sounds stupid but it turns me off otherwise.

I do try to pick girls who also swing but not always easy to determine that from a profile. The reason I do is because it demonstrates they enjoy sex with strangers and are quite open minded. I have been able to use this rule a few times including with Sienna Bronze (if that is the girl from telford).

For every one girl who enjoys it, I think there are ten more who don't know.

Anyone agree you can make some distinction between indies and parlour girls? I get the impression more unhappy parlour girls than unhappy Indies.

Entirely agree, if she doesn't, at least appear to enjoy it, it's a turn off for me. That said it's pretty easy to spot the fakers. I've also met a swinger and she really does enjoy the sex. Never been to a parlour but I think your point fits with my view about part time WGs, the farther away they are from being a full time 'pro' the better the experience for me and her.
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Offline RedKettle

Some really interesting responses - I started the thread somewhat tongue in cheek but the replies have got me thinking.

I agree with the overall thrust that they probably enjoy/hate it in the same way that most of us feel about work and like us some will have more of the hate it and some will have more of the enjoy it.

I guess what grated on me was the over the top (and unprompted) statements about how much they love the work from a couple of girls, almost "they protest too much" and it seemed just to be playing to the customers.  Different if you are chatting and the conversation turns to their views on their work.

Cheers  :hi:


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