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Author Topic: Do you believe the bollocks about loving being an escort?  (Read 3979 times)

Offline RedKettle

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  :hi: they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?

I think our female friends on here .... Danni & Miss Bronze would be best placed to give there thoughts on this ?  :hi:

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I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

I know I am a cynical old bastard but it just makes me cringe as each time I just think they are lying to me.  Surely aside from a way to earn some cash they cannot really love sucking any cock that appears and getting up close and personal with some unpleasant specimens?  Whilst of course all UKP members are fine physical specimens in great shape, always clean and very polite  :hi: they must see quite a few pretty awful blokes.

Or is that just like any job where you take the rough with the smooth?

Its a way of making money of course first and foremost but I think some WGs can enjoy it sometimes depending on the punter. The thing is obviously in most cases with newbie punters to them they have no idea if the punter is old, fat, smelly or young, slim and good looking.

A good WG will offer a good service to ALL her punters assuming they have done the basics, arrived clean with the right money. I certainly don't believe a WG who says to me i really enjoyed that, highly unlikely with my sexual technique, as ever i take it with a huge pinch of salt. The flattery or old  flannel as i consider it to be is in the hope of getting my return custom which they may get if they offer me a good service.

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I think our female friends on here .... Danni & Miss Bronze would be best placed to give there thoughts on this ?  :hi:

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Offline maxxblue

If you check SAAFE it is quite clear that some WG's do enjoy their work.

However, it is also clear from SAAFE that for others it is a means to an end.


Offline Ben4454


Biggest motivator is that it is easy money.

I believe a portion do enjoy their job and the sex as well.
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Offline Dani

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This job has its good points and bad points.  I enjoy my work for the most part.  Obviously some clients are better than others and make the time enjoyable.  At the end of the day its a job  that is done mainly for the money but it doesn't mean you cant make the most of the situation and take pleasure from doing your work well or enjoying the company of some of your clients. 
Obviously we get some clients that we really don't want to see again so we don't (if we are sensible).  However we get some clients we look forward to seeing as they are genuinely nice men and we enjoy our time with them. 
Its like any job, some parts you love, some parts you like and some parts you never want to repeat.

Truthfully I enjoy meeting new people so that part of the job I love, I enjoy sex with well over half my clients so that part of the job I like.  some clients make having sexual contact with them seem hard and unnatural so I dislike that part.  I have met some clients that are not very nice for one reason or another and that part of the job I dislike especially if they try to book again as some people don't take refusal well.  I don't like the stupid texts or calls as its timewasting and annoying after a while (thank god for iphone block function).  we cant love every aspect of this job and anyone who says they do is lying as we cant possibly enjoy every person we meet as the odds are there will always be someone we dislike for some reason.  Its human nature not to like everyone. 
However as a whole we can love our work as the good does outweigh the bad.  For the most part it is actually a fairly good job to have once you learn how to spot the idiots and timewasters and those you wouldn't want to see. 
However to enjoy this work I feel you have to look at sex differently to most people.  You have to see it as a fun past time rather than a big issue. 

they key word here is : WORK

If i were shagging birds for money i would pull through the fat and ugly ones and enjoy the odd pretty one that needs to punt :D

Not sure what kind of answer do you expect. You may love playing tennis for free but there will be a day where you just don't give a fuck and would rather be doing something else.

I rather hear them saying: "your cock is huge, you were great and i love my job" as oppose to: "your dick is nonexistent, you're and awkward son of a bitch and i can't wait till you get the fuck out of my flat."

Personally i think it would be great if everyone would be doing something they like for a living but that's just not how world works :D
If you're a female and have right attitude you can earn 100ph. If on top of that there's one that loves getting fucked ALL the time than good for her :D

Offline cueball




I rather hear them saying: "your cock is huge, you were great and i love my job" as oppose to: "your dick is nonexistent, you're and awkward son of a bitch and i can't wait till you get the fuck out of my flat."



Good point,

 I think some over think the prossie punter thing, as long as you're clean, polite and on time there should be very little problem.

Good points made by dani too, it's a job, we all have good and bad parts to our jobs

Offline Trevor12

I have had a few WGs telling me that they love escorting - not for the money, I could understand that, but because of the nature of the "job".

My collegues and clients believe I love the nature of my job. If my clients thought I didn't, they'd go elsewhere. I think whether a prossie loves the nature of her job or not, telling us that she does is good business sense.

Offline unclesweetheart

Good post from Dani which mirrors my experience. Before a punt I wash/ shower, pay especial care to the obvious bits, shave the day before etc etc. I wish I looked like George Clooney but I don't: however I'm old enough and have read/thought enough to be a reasonably sensible, empathetic and genuine bloke. On this basis - i.e. of not being a complete fuck-up, of being pretty ordinary - I have a few regulars who are prepared to see me again and who I believe enjoy my company. If they didn't, they wouldn't let me book them again. "Enjoy" might be pitching it a bit high: but at the very least my company is tolerable. And by "company" I mean that they are ok with my being, as Homer Simpson says, "intamate" with them. They would obviously prefer it was George Clooney presenting them with a cock to suck rather than me, but given that I've washed said cock and am not (quite) Quasimodo, the bottom line for them must be that I've given them c £100 and am not a fuck-up so they will go ahead and suck my cock and think it fair exchange.

If someone truly loved sucking strangers' cocks they'd do it for free. Since escorts don't do it for free the "loving being an escort" bit must mean, not unreasonably, that they like BEING PAID to suck cock. Dani must be right - that successful escorts see sex differently to most people, who link it to desire/love etc. There surely will always be people - currently the minority - who can separate sex from feelings and who would therefore love being/ using an escort. So I think it's very possible that escorts love escorting: what this doesn't mean is that they actually love sucking your cock (in and of itself). They like, not unreasonably, being paid very well for sucking your cock.
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Offline cueball

Good post from Dani which mirrors my experience. Before a punt I wash/ shower, pay especial care to the obvious bits, shave the day before etc etc. I wish I looked like George Clooney but I don't: however I'm old enough and have read/thought enough to be a reasonably sensible, empathetic and genuine bloke. On this basis - i.e. of not being a complete fuck-up, of being pretty ordinary - I have a few regulars who are prepared to see me again and who I believe enjoy my company. If they didn't, they wouldn't let me book them again. "Enjoy" might be pitching it a bit high: but at the very least my company is tolerable. And by "company" I mean that they are ok with my being, as Homer Simpson says, "intamate" with them. They would obviously prefer it was George Clooney presenting them with a cock to suck rather than me, but given that I've washed said cock and am not (quite) Quasimodo, the bottom line for them must be that I've given them c £100 and am not a fuck-up so they will go ahead and suck my cock and think it fair exchange.

If someone truly loved sucking strangers' cocks they'd do it for free. Since escorts don't do it for free the "loving being an escort" bit must mean, not unreasonably, that they like BEING PAID to suck cock. Dani must be right - that successful escorts see sex differently to most people, who link it to desire/love etc. There surely will always be people - currently the minority - who can separate sex from feelings and who would therefore love being/ using an escort. So I think it's very possible that escorts love escorting: what this doesn't mean is that they actually love sucking your cock (in and of itself). They like, not unreasonably, being paid very well for sucking your cock.

Good, accurate post uncle


Offline Jimmyredcab

Prostitutes love the money, how can they love being fucked by fat, old and ugly men, they simply prefer it to stacking shelves for minimum wage.   :hi:

Girls find shagging punters and cocksucking, far easier than you think. The punters may be crappy looking, but so are their partners, most men are crappy looking, have you not noticed?

Offline Turtle Z

Well lets turn the question on its head... do i love being a punter? Yes, on the rare occasion I meet a new girl who is fun, attractive and tries to provide a good service. Or obviously when I see my regulars who are a known quantity. Then there the times I've seen the bait and switches, the girls who are significantly older or significantly fatter than their profiles suggest, the girls who don't even enjoy sex but just want the money, the girls who cut short your appointments, the girls who wipe your cock with a wet wipe like you're some diseased object... Bottom line is that I don't really want to be a punter but it serves a purpose; similarly I don't believe that most WG's really want to be WG's but it serves a purpose. Not that different really is it.

Offline unclesweetheart

Prostitutes love the money, how can they love being fucked by fat, old and ugly men, they simply prefer it to stacking shelves for minimum wage.   :hi:

Yes but it's only the minority of women who escort. Everyone loves money. Everyone would get as much of it for as little effort as possible if they could. In order to escort you have to be able to separate sex from emotions in a way that the majority of people find difficult or objectionable. We've all been with girls who have thrown themselves into the session and have been aroused. In order to do this job you have to view sex differently to most people. The best escorts really do seem to "love" their job in the way the OP addresses, but I think the key thing is to see that in order to be a good escort you need to both love or need money in the way that everyone does AND to have a non-sentimental attitude to sex.
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Yes but it's only the minority of women who escort. Everyone loves money. Everyone would get as much of it for as little effort as possible if they could. In order to escort you have to be able to separate sex from emotions in a way that the majority of people find difficult or objectionable. We've all been with girls who have thrown themselves into the session and have been aroused. In order to do this job you have to view sex differently to most people. The best escorts really do seem to "love" their job in the way the OP addresses, but I think the key thing is to see that in order to be a good escort you need to both love or need money in the way that everyone does AND to have a non-sentimental attitude to sex.

Or are good at acting they are enjoying it which is good enough for me. WGs have a lot of time punting to refine their act to get it really convincing, that's not to say some don't really enjoy being WGs at least some of the time though of course.

The idea that woman have to be emotionally engaged to enjoy sex, who still believes that? Ever been in  the city centre at the week-end?

If a girl genuinely loves sex for sex rather than sex with someone they love or find attractive then I don't see why they wouldn't enjoy it, some people swing for nothing and can't fancy all the guys they have sex with but still do it so why not get paid well for doing your hobby?

The girls I've seen who volunteered to tell me how much they loved escorting always gave me a really good service which tends to suggest they were not only happy to have sex but enjoyed it.
OK so maybe some of those girls were good actresses / liars but one thing is for sure you can tell a girl who really doesn't like her job

Offline GreyDave

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Yep I think as others have said I have met a few who say they love it and the lifestyle it gives them...
Not one they can share with their famillys though :unknown:
Some are really into it on a numbers way weather its cash or at parties I have seen girls compete with others  :cool:
Been at swingers events and been turned down by working girls "just doing bbc`s today lv its my hobby :dash:
one said to me...

Offline Jimmyredcab

If a girl genuinely loves sex for sex rather than sex with someone they love or find attractive then I don't see why they wouldn't enjoy it.

You haven't seen the state of me.      :hi: :hi:

Offline unclesweetheart

The idea that woman have to be emotionally engaged to enjoy sex, who still believes that? Ever been in  the city centre at the week-end?

Yes you're right. But the girls who are fucking in the street are, though drunk, doing it for free with someone they fancy. Escorts don't choose who will come through the door - on the first visit, anyway.
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Offline Jimmyredcab

Yes you're right. But the girls who are fucking in the street are, though drunk, doing it for free with someone they fancy. Escorts don't choose who will come through the door - on the first visit, anyway.

Spot on, the drunk girl in the City Center on a Friday night will choose who fucks her, a prostitute has very little choice, of course she can turn munters away but she won't earn much money.    :hi:


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