So basically OWO is alot safer then BB in terms of all possible "diseases"?
It still makes me wonder why some would not offer it but offer it with a condom though, if it is safe. Or can we not say for sure, it IS safe! haha. And therefore they just dont wnt to run any risk.
Like everything else in life, it's a pleasure vs risk thing.
The most dangerous is blood play, followed by BB anal, followed by BB vaginal, followed by OWO+CIM, followed by OWO no CIM and then pretty much nil risk for normal kissing or touching. Obviously the more vigorous the sex, the higher the risk. The receptive partner (in punting, this is the woman) is always at more risk than the 'insertive' partner.
A person's general health is also of HUGE importance here. Anyone with underlying diseases such as diabetes, hepatitis etc or general poor health caused by anything from a common virus to a drug addiction, are more at risk. But just because you are healthy does not mean you are not at risk.
The above applies to all STIs. HIV is actually a pretty fragile virus which pretty much dies instantly outwith the right conditions so it's actually not that
easily transmitted,but it's obviously the one most people are most worried about considering it's incurable.
Other common problems are Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Genital Herpes type 1 or 2. All of these are much, much more easily transmitted than HIV but obviously less long-term implications (easily treated with antibiotics), although still nasty. Gonorrhea in the throat is becoming more prevalent and harder to treat (but still treatable). Obviously an escort offering OWO is going to be at a much higher risk of getting gonorrhea in the throat due to the number of oral sex partners compared with a non-escort and could transmit it to a punter via OWO. It's worth bearing in mind for those married/attached punters, that a case of STI can have devastating consequences for the relationship and in the case of chlamydia, potentially destroying fertility in his partner and also harmful to newborn babies causing blindness.
Genital Herpes is something not usually mentioned much (wonder why lol
), but is very common, especially in North America. You get the virus from genital-genital contact or mouth-to-genital contact and it stays in your system forever. You can never get rid of it, you can get outbreaks frequently or only once, but it stays in your system forever. The good news is that it's not serious / life-threatening but can be very embarrassing to explain to sex partners and pretty painful. It's mainly just infectious when you can see the sores (ie coldsores on mouth or bigger coldsores on genital area) so can largely be avoided by looking at the other person's genitals and mouth.
I'm not condemning anyone for offering or partaking in whatever they want, they can weigh up the risk vs benefit for themselves. I've heard punters and WGs saying I've never caught a thing in years and years of offering or receiving OWO and I've heard some saying they caught gonorrhea in the throat after 2 weeks of working.
I think OWO feels
better for the man,or so I have heard! However there are some risks involved. HIV transmission is a very minimal risk though for oral sex, CIM is riskier obviously.
All in all, there are risks involved in everything in life. Some people I know won't shake hands with anyone in case they catch a cold or scabies! Other people (I don't personally know,but not hard to find on AW) offer BB anal gangbangs! As long as they are informed, it's up to them I guess, but if I offered OWO I wouldn't offer it to anyone on the feedback list of a BB provider.As an extra precaution.
Personally, I don't offer OWO for the reason that I'm in a long-term relationship and don't feel it's fair to expose my partner to diseases just because of my job. And I suffer from the dreaded wisdom-teeth-causing-mouth-problems issue,so I feel it too risky for me
. If I didn't have those factors I would probably offer OWO if I was considering doing this as a long-term job.