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Author Topic: Redemption for cancelling - can a negative be converted to a positive?  (Read 3504 times)

Offline Turtle Z

Plenty of punters book and don't turn up ------------------ I suppose that's OK.      :rolleyes:

That's an interesting perspective you have JRC, defending unreliable prossies on the basis that some punters are equally unreliable but WTF has one issue got to do with the other? Life isn't fair, tough shit, but we're not here to review the reliability of punters. Lets expand your perspective and also stop reviewing shit service providers because some punters are also shit in the sack. Punters occasionally get cold feet or are themselves unreliable but I'm not interested in that and if I was I'd read SAAFE.

Offline berksboy

          She may have gived one punter a carp punt ------------------------------ were do you draw the line ?

          To the guys who travel a long way to a punt or have trouble finding the time for a punt being let down at the last min is a big deal !

Offline SamLP

An apology if I am at the punt or on my way is too late so not acceptable to me Sam if the WG is a newbie to me, if a regular I would give them the benefit of the doubt if its an isolated occurrence. ;)

Understandable. We all have our different levels of tolerance I suppose.

Offline Qwerty

Personally, I would never accept a discount, a free extension/free time or chargeable 'extras' at no cost.

But what I would accept is a simple apology and a seriously positive attitude during the subsequent meeting.

Why not accept such a thing?

I had one of those experiences: after much comms trying to work out a time that would work for me and a girl-girl combo who were advertising, come the day there's no answer to their phone, even when in the street where they live. They appear to be apologetic, and blame a faulty phone. However the apology only appears when I mention negative reviews, and is accompanied by a threat of legal action (!) should I do so.

They offer a rebook, and I say that in view of the fact that I've already driven an hour each way to see them, they should offer a discount or extra time. They say they have a strict no-discount policy, but that they'll be especially nice if I rebook.

I didn't book again - to me, a discount or extra time is a proof of sincerity: without _something like that, what's there to suggest that the exact same thing won't happen again?

In the end I didn't make a separate neg review (should have though for the review count! :) ), just posted the story as a comment to one of their existing reviews.

Offline DG

Just remembered this did happen to me. I had arranged a punt, albeit on the morning of the punt. She confirmed the booking via AW but had not given me her address. I headed off towards her town, messaging her via AW to say I had left and would be there in about half an hour. No reply. Messaged a couple more times, last time from a street in the town. Still nothing.

Following my negative review due to poor comms, she responded by saying her Internet was down and she couldn't recover my number to text me the address. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and rebooked, even brought her a bottle of fizz as it was christmas. Nothing offered by way of apology, recompense or good service.
Banning reason: White-knight

Offline kenw1

I had a text from some 4 years ago about 10 mins before the punt due time saying"sorri cant make it" ( her spelling ) she is no longer escorting which is just as well as no reason given. Not acceptable.  :diablo:

I had a text this year saying the she could not make it but gave 5 hours notice, Acceptable

Ken

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I had a call on a booking that was due the next day from the WG as she had a personal issue that she needed to sort out very quickly - she said sorry and gave me the full reason - I took what she said as genuine and said not a problem we can book another day or the end of the week -

No discussions about extended time or a discount during the initial conversation with the girl - I re booked a few days later and my 1 hour was extended to nearly 2 hours by the lady - she just said that it was very nice that I had not made a fuss when she cancelled and she wanted to make up for it with free extended time

Great service and even better attitude - nearly 2 hours and paid for an hour - It does happen maybe a lot more than people realise

Offline Sedlmayer

Admin has set the rules on here, a punter might well travel to a WGs area only for her to cancel or turn her phone off, he might of incurred a travel cost quite apart from having had his time wasted so in my view its good a review can be done.

When a prostitute cancels at very short notice, or lets you get to the street and has her phone going straight to voicemail, she deserves a negative every time.
Some punters only get the opportunity to punt once in a while, and this behaviour means a rare chance to punt has been wasted.
Plus the time wasted. Plus the travelling costs etc etc.

Online The_Don

What get me is getting: (short notice cancellation)

bath or shower, punting bag ready, cash , travel time and costs, waiting, let down, then having phone plan B/C/D, for later


I've had W/G cancel on me, as long as its in good time with good comms, not a problem. Some lack this basic thing of comm's and think its ok to waste your time.

nearly 2 hours and paid for an hour - It does happen maybe a lot more than people realise

Happened to me a few times. Best was 1 hour booking that turned in to 2+ (and no she not been reviewed by me, little gem  :kissgirl: )
« Last Edit: February 08, 2015, 10:47:32 AM by The_Don »

Offline smiths

When a prostitute cancels at very short notice, or lets you get to the street and has her phone going straight to voicemail, she deserves a negative every time.
Some punters only get the opportunity to punt once in a while, and this behaviour means a rare chance to punt has been wasted.
Plus the time wasted. Plus the travelling costs etc etc.

Absolutely, I stopped doing reviews on another forum as I disagreed with the money must change hands rule, the no reports list and at the time you could only do 1 review per party provider EVER, doing more than one was superfluous I was told. Absolute bollocks as my experience with GP Parties showed. They firstly offered me good service and I did a positive review as a result but within 3 months that service had turned VERY bad but I couldn't do a negative review to reflect that change. All the above works against the punter and to the advantage of bad WGs in my view.

Thankfully no such restrictions exist on here. ;)

Offline Sedlmayer

Absolutely, I stopped doing reviews on another forum as I disagreed with the money must change hands rule, the no reports list and at the time you could only do 1 review per party provider EVER, doing more than one was superfluous I was told. Absolute bollocks as my experience with GP Parties showed. They firstly offered me good service and I did a positive review as a result but within 3 months that service had turned VERY bad but I couldn't do a negative review to reflect that change. All the above works against the punter and to the advantage of bad WGs in my view.

Thankfully no such restrictions exist on here. ;)

Yes and you could only do one FR per prostitute ever too -meaning that if a girl got jaded and stopped providing good service you couldn't alert members to this fact. Ridiculous.

Online Jimmyredcab

A review on a girl you have not got round to meeting is as useful as a cup of cold piss.

This is the sort of thing I am talking about.

Michelle Independant has 34 reviews on here, the only negative is from someone who never actually met her.   :dash: :dash:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=15964.0

Offline smiths

Yes and you could only do one FR per prostitute ever too -meaning that if a girl got jaded and stopped providing good service you couldn't alert members to this fact. Ridiculous.

After lobbying for a long time it was changed to a new review every 6 months, no idea if that's still the case.

And of course if a punter does a review on an A/W WG he cant give a link to her profile, not helpful to say the least. UKP is simply so far ahead of the game and i praise admin on here for being so.

This is the sort of thing I am talking about.

Michelle Independant has 34 reviews on here, the only negative is from someone who never actually met her.   :dash: :dash:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=15964.0

Crikey! I just started reading the 1st page of that!

I think most punters could make a rational judgement on what happened (back in 2013!) and draw their own conclusions, without reading 6 pages!! I agree in this example, a review should not have been a review.

In general, many misunderstandings would simply be avoided by better communications, clarifying that the wg understands that this is now a definite booking and any future confirmations are simply reminding her that you are still coming/on your way.

Bad communications resulting in a confirmed punt being aborted after the punter has set off, DOES deserve a negative review whether he actually meets her, or not.

Online Jimmyredcab

Crikey! I just started reading the 1st page of that!

I think most punters could make a rational judgement on what happened (back in 2013!) and draw their own conclusions, without reading 6 pages!! I agree in this example, a review should not have been a review.


Had punters took notice of this arsewipe they would have missed out on a good experience with a quality lady.

You will have noticed he is banned anyway.     :bomb:

Offline KennyMilkshake

A review on a girl you have not got round to meeting is as useful as a cup of cold piss

I had a booking for last Tuesday, escort changed the hotel and time on the morning, I tried to work round these things and said yes its okay, and I had set off to see her and was on a train when she cancelled, reason she said was she had a tooth out at the dentist, maybe she should have informed me that she had a bad tooth and a dental appointment was due two hours before we met.

Gave a review of the non booking, and someone else said he had been messed about also by her, she had 11 positive reviews on AW, so yes I did think there is some justification in reviewing someone you have been messed about by, if I knew she had messed other guys I would have been pre-paired more.
Banning reason: Requested account termination. Banned for second and last time. Some people never change.

Online Jimmyredcab

I had a booking for last Tuesday, escort changed the hotel and time on the morning, I tried to work round these things and said yes its okay, and I had set off to see her and was on a train when she cancelled, reason she said was she had a tooth out at the dentist, maybe she should have informed me that she had a bad tooth and a dental appointment was due two hours before we met.

Gave a review of the non booking, and someone else said he had been messed about also by her, she had 11 positive reviews on AW, so yes I did think there is some justification in reviewing someone you have been messed about by, if I knew she had messed other guys I would have been pre-paired more.

Over the years I have been let down numerous times and I have also walked numerous times  ----------- never felt the need to do a review about it, I thought that most experienced punters had a "plan B" in place.
One punter on here gave a girl a negative review because he could not understand her on the phone, that led to a change in the rules, you now have to actually book the girl before you can do a review. 

Offline KennyMilkshake

The meeting I had was booked, she had replied to my Reverse Booking, so I felt put out by the fact she bud for it but did not cancel till I was on my way to see her.
Maybe more reviews of those who cancel within a set time of the booking should be reported more to let others know they are untrustworthy.
Plan B was put in place and followed up, but crazy booking system of parlour resulted in me walking away, and report of said parlour.
Banning reason: Requested account termination. Banned for second and last time. Some people never change.

Offline Qwerty

Over the years I have been let down numerous times and I have also walked numerous times  ----------- never felt the need to do a review about it, I thought that most experienced punters had a "plan B" in place.
One punter on here gave a girl a negative review because he could not understand her on the phone, that led to a change in the rules, you now have to actually book the girl before you can do a review.

A Plan B in London may be relatively straightforward, with so many WGs that there's a SAAFe thread about where to move to because London's so saturated. For some of us in rural areas a isn't so easy, and for others for various reasons, e.g. a tight time window. And +1 on the point about preparation, travel time etc.

Of course not understanding the accent doesn't deserve a neg review, but wasting half of my day surely does.

Online Jimmyredcab



Of course not understanding the accent doesn't deserve a neg review, but wasting half of my day surely does.

That can't happen again as the rules were changed -------------- I did point out at the time that the review was invalid.   :hi:

Offline smiths

Over the years I have been let down numerous times and I have also walked numerous times  ----------- never felt the need to do a review about it, I thought that most experienced punters had a "plan B" in place.
One punter on here gave a girl a negative review because he could not understand her on the phone, that led to a change in the rules, you now have to actually book the girl before you can do a review.

Its up to you what you feel the need to do, the rules on here set by admin are clear, a review CAN be done as long as a WG accepts your booking, if you have a problem with that I suggest you take it up with admin. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Having a plan B doesn't change the fact the plan A fucked a punter about, so if said punter wishes to do a review if a booking was accepted its his business and most certainly not yours. You really have some front, a punter who advises a WG to raise her rates BUT keep you on her old rate has the nerve to lecture others. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Offline Marmalade

I've no argument with the rules. It's a valid point if a prossie cancels a confirmed booking. But there's not much else to be said other than it was cancelled. What is slightly more irritating is when a 'review' runs to several paragraphs and then one eventually reason the guy never saw her, he's just having a rant, and much of what he describes is heresay. All I want to know is if she cancelled. But some prossies say they cancel a booking cos the guy texted her after the booking was confirmed with some cuntish message, demanded bareback or reduced price or some such shit. I'd always take a punter's word over a prossie (being a punter, and also because a prossie has more reason to lie, whether or not she actually does): yet the wank that some guys write cos they are pissed off at someone they have never met defies belief.

There are all sorts of reasons why either prossie or punter might cancel. As it is the prossie that is offering the service, I think she has a greater obligation and I might view her as less professional and avoid her even if the reason seemed reasonable. But if it was a genuine excuse, who knows? All I could do is say she cancelled and maybe say the excuse she offered. To give a blazingly negative review would look pretty dumb if several punters then see her and got great service.

Finally there are some prossies who give amazing service if you can get hold of them, but are so flakey that only the determinedly patient bother. That's a matter of taste. It's always nice to know. But also distinguish between what a person knows first hand and what they think.

Offline Sedlmayer

Its up to you what you feel the need to do, the rules on here set by admin are clear, a review CAN be done as long as a WG accepts your booking, if you have a problem with that I suggest you take it up with admin. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Having a plan B doesn't change the fact the plan A fucked a punter about, so if said punter wishes to do a review if a booking was accepted its his business and most certainly not yours. You really have some front, a punter who advises a WG to raise her rates BUT keep you on her old rate has the nerve to lecture others. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

And there we have it - the true legend versus the soi-disant "Legend"
One is quiet and modest and really contributes pretty much every day.
The other makes lots of noise, contributes nothing and wants to tell other punters what to do.

As for front..... James (0 reviews) congratulating Smiths (100)........I'm speechless  :unknown: has the cunt got no shame???? :thumbsdown:

Offline KennyMilkshake

All I can speak of is my own case, I did a RB on AW, an escort bid and won the bid, then said she thought I had said Tuesday not Wednesday so I changed it to suit.
On the morning she changed the hotel and the booking time, saying that the hotel was full due to United playing Cambridge, but another was okay.
I was on the train when I got the cancellation, saying a tooth had been removed which she didn't expect.
Date, time, place, all had been changed, then cancelled as I was on way.    Now that I think deserves a negative.


Banning reason: Requested account termination. Banned for second and last time. Some people never change.

Offline smiths

All I can speak of is my own case, I did a RB on AW, an escort bid and won the bid, then said she thought I had said Tuesday not Wednesday so I changed it to suit.
On the morning she changed the hotel and the booking time, saying that the hotel was full due to United playing Cambridge, but another was okay.
I was on the train when I got the cancellation, saying a tooth had been removed which she didn't expect.
Date, time, place, all had been changed, then cancelled as I was on way.    Now that I think deserves a negative.

That's most certainly a negative in my view but then as i posted above i have a zero tolerance policy nowadays. If i get fucked about after a WG has accepted my booking a negative review will be the outcome.


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