Yes its a punters forum, and we show respect, and manners to all. There is a difference between plain speaking and puerile vulgarity.
That's a judgement call Willie.
To quote the rules (much as I hate to):
- Abuse towards other members:
Discord must be kept civil. Excessive abuse / swearing is not acceptable. "You're acting like a twat" is not excessive, however "you're a fucking inbred cunt" is excessive and is not acceptable.
Is she even a member? Even if she were, I don't think the comment was against the rules. It was not one I made but I am keen not to see the forum go down the road of calling prostitutes ladies of the night and having to couch every phrase in prossie-acceptable terms.
If someone had made a racist remark against a prossie for instance, I would have objected. I don't know that she herself would object to such plain language as in the comment you objected to, which means you are objecting on her behalf and not necessarily to her advantage, just your own sensibilities. Now I might not have made the remark, especially as I can't remember if I have ever fucked her, but I think the poster had a perfect right to put it in such terms. I do not think they were 'abusive.' Just my opinion.