Having been back into the game of punting for the last two years or so I have realised, sometimes slowly, that they are all in it for the money and no matter how much you think that you have established a connection it all comes down to cold hard cash. They will make you feel like a king during the meet, promise all sorts of things and then go cold until you offer another session when money will exchange hands. It has taken a time to do it, but gradually I am starting to understand that you pay the money, fuck em and leave. I am going to play the field more in 2015 and not worry too much about establishing a relationship, or connection. Its a business deal pure and simple.