struggling to cum twice in a punt

[bod666]

When i first started punting i would pop quite quickly during round 1, then last longer in round 2 and have no trouble cumming the second time. I had an hour punt tuesday night with a girl who is my idea of physical perfection - amazingly round 1 lasted for what felt like ages and i was so knackered after it that i only really felt capable of round 2 when the hour was up (so it didn't happen). Had another hour punt this morning with a different girl. Round 1 took a while but not over long, got round 2 but knew that i wasn't going to cum through sex. Knackered myself trying, girl tried to finish me off by hand until her arm gave up so i finished myself.

So can anyone advise whether:
A) its my age catching up with me (40 this year)?;
B) i've been having too much sex and my wee man is getting less sensitive?;
C) my general lack of fitness means i don't have the required stamina to shag for a long time?

I wonder whether time of day makes a difference?

Thankfully (?) both of my favourite girls are going away for a while so i'm going to try abstaining from punting to see if taking a break helps. I have been punting twice a week for the last few weeks and i may just not be physically up to it anymore

Anyone else had similar probs?

[johnny34]

Probably a combination of all 3 reasons that you have posted above. I tend to cum once in a booking but manage to last most of an hour booking before i cum. Tend to stick to 30min bookings therefore but punt more often.

[expletivedeleted]

It could be anything tbh, I found sex with one girl is great, I'm able to cum multiple times (not a girl I punt with though), and with other girls (again not ones I punt with), I struggle to hold my load. Maybe switch to different girls (I find younger are better for me, also gives me that ego boost ).

[fredpunter]

Maybe another factor is that the more you punt the more the novelty and excitement wears off ... in my first punt my problem was avoiding coming in the first 30 seconds, but I did manage three pops over about three hours ... now I rarely cum more than once ... but cumming isn't the be all and end all of a punt, there's plenty of fun to be had on the way there.

[akauya]

It could be a combinations of the points you mention plus other things like watching too much porn and too much wanking which can desensitise you so when it comes to sex it will be difficult to achieve orgasm.

Abstaining from porn and too much masturbation would help, if not total abstention least try to avoid it as much as possible and certainly don't watch porn before a punt, at least a few days before. You can do all that when you're young - 20s or 30s - but when you reach 40s and 50s they take a toll on your body. Eat healthily, sleep well, reduce alcohol and do exercise. Drink lots of water, most men forget to hydrate, if you are dehydrated it will be harder to cum.

Are you taking Viagra for your punts? Sometimes Viagra prevents you from reaching orgasm (it does to me sometimes) so maybe don't punt as often. Choose fewer but better quality punts and try not to worry about it. Go with the flow and don't expect too much of your body, enjoy the sex for what it is rather than the quantity of cums.

[Trevor12]

Is your first cum within half an hour? If it is have you thought about doing 2 half hour punts spaced a few hours apart? Something I've started doing now and again. It takes me longer than half hour to cum when on the blue pill, but an adequate warm-up before setting off each time maximises my chances of 2 happy endings with different lucky ladies.

[bod666]

Thanks guys, completely agree that cumming isn't the be all and end all. I had alot of fun in both of my punts this week but definitely feel like i need to take a break.

It was only a few months ago that i saw what was at that point the hottest girl (imho) i'd punted with - came 3 times in the hour but each time on a but of a hair trigger. Tuesday i was with a girl i consider even hotter and lasted ages. Ah think i worked it out - the 3x hair trigger i wasn't punting that often and got completely over excited. With the most recent hotty i'm more chilled about the whole experience and even though i'm even more into the new girl i was more relaxed hence no hair trigger. Well what do you know - how we're feeling at the time makes a difference to us guys during sex too! 

[bod666]

Abstaining from porn and masturbation. Damn. I've been guilty of not abstaining there.

Its almost as bad as when i had a brief period of 'thunderclap' headaches. A bastard migraine that appeared right at the point of orgasm. That (briefly thank god) ruined my life. It was the worst thing ever. Hoping it had gone away, enjoy a bit of quality time with mrs palm, everything is great then agonising pain at orgasm. The advice from the doc then was "don't have sex for a couple of weeks and in the meantime lose weight and do more exercise" abstaining was one of the hardest things i've ever done

[charming_red]

Thing is you're fighting against nature. All males go through the post-orgasm refractory period and while the length varies from man to man, once you're in that phase its always going to be a struggle to cum again within such short time. Popping the blue pills won't help here, it will just give you another hard on but you're fighting against nature - it won't stop the hormones involved in the refractory period.

Only you will know your body and what arouses and excites you so go with the quality girls that deliver or try changing as variety may help.

[cueball]

If I go for an hour punt with intended two pops I make sure I'm bagged up ready, no sex and no wanking for about 5 days prior, seems to help with the second pop

[bod666]

"Post orgasm refractory period" - is that a real biological thing? Like x period of time your balls need to generate something to spurt? Interesting...

[expletivedeleted]

One thing I find really helps is not pulling out.  More of a problem when wearing a condom of course but for me I find the consistent feeling of the pussy around my dick makes me horny enough to go for it again and pump out a second.  And btw bid I'm older than you, although the girls I'm talking about are a lot younger - that may also be another factor.

[Ralph]

Clock watching don't help either if you have ten mins left and feel far from the finish line.  If I were you i'd either go with the two spaced apart 30 min punts or get an extra 30-60 mins and enjoy the longer time and less pressure.

Is when you get to the end of two hours and second load not coming you wanna worry.....

[mr small]

Abstaining from porn and masturbation. Damn. I've been guilty of not abstaining there.

Its almost as bad as when i had a brief period of 'thunderclap' headaches. A bastard migraine that appeared right at the point of orgasm. That (briefly thank god) ruined my life. It was the worst thing ever. Hoping it had gone away, enjoy a bit of quality time with mrs palm, everything is great then agonising pain at orgasm. The advice from the doc then was "don't have sex for a couple of weeks and in the meantime lose weight and do more exercise" abstaining was one of the hardest things i've ever done

these headaches can be brought on by high blood pressure 

[GeeWiz]

Double pop at your age need to abstain for a couple of days beforehand.  Or extend to 90 minutes?

I prefer two different activities for round one and two.  For example just a BJ or TW first.  If all else fails, prone bone should get you over the finishing line the second time around.

[bod666]

these headaches can be brought on by high blood pressure 

Spot on mr small! It was high blood pressure with me too 

[Tony Montana]

Double pop at your age need to abstain for a couple of days beforehand.  Or extend to 90 minutes?

I prefer two different activities for round one and two.  For example just a BJ or TW first.  If all else fails, prone bone should get you over the finishing line the second time around.

prone bone?

I had the same issue this week with the same girl as bod, despite her being very sexy and friendly.  Like bod I put it down to age, lack of fitness etc so I try not to too bothered about it and put pressure on myself to cum twice.

[akauya]

prone bone?

"The sex position in which the girl is laying flat (emphasis on laying completely flat) on her belly with penis entry from behind. This position often enables the female to work the muscles in the region resulting most likely in an overpleasurable time for the man involved, thus causing premature ejaculation. "

It may work for some but not for me - not that I tried this position much anyway.

I added it to the glossary now.

[CBPaul]

I've never really figured this one out, I guess there is so many factors that come into it.

Like the OP in my 30's I could easily cum twice in an hour, first one quite quickly, followed by recharging and then longer for round 2. Suited me perfectly. But as I hit my 40's, got heavier, more bone idle and less fit I found I was cumming quicker. Two prossies last year got 2 loads out of me in well under an hour and I couldn't hold on for any of them. Pissed me off as the doggy with one of them was sublime as was reverse CG with the other and I wanted to last longer to appreciate it.

What I have learned is it has nothing to do with how attractive I find the prossie but is does have a lot to do with recharge time. If the prossie starts getting down to round 2 too soon after round 1 then no matter how long we go at it there will be no cum. I've also tried varying the porn - used to abstain for a day or so before a 1 hr punt and have a quick wank an hour before a 30 minute punt. Worked OK for a while but when I found myself cumming too quickly I tried stroking one out and hour before the punt and we were back to the good old days. Being relaxed helps too, the more the prossie goes through the motions and tries to hurry things along the less likely I am to cum during round 2.

Basically I still haven't got a fucking clue what will happen during a punt and have come to accept that it's good fun finding out. The priority is shagging, not setting a new personal best for the amount of ejaculate collected in an hour.

[azrael]

As the op said cumming twice in an hour is a problem, up until wednesday gone normally this wouldnt bother me. I had sn hour punt with this lovely leggy blonde, the loveliest snatch you'd see or taste whilst doing a 69 i popped for the the fist time ever recieving a bj, im thinking we're on if this happens then the remainder of my hour should be fun. Alas it wasnt to be my little freind went to sleep (first time this has happens to me

[azrael]

I stayed away from watching porn or playing with my self for a few days prior to the event, any advice would be apreciated, as for wht the op said about popping twice in a punt i came to the coonclusion that it might just be mental rather than physical

[anyfucker]

"Post orgasm refractory period" - is that a real biological thing? Like x period of time your balls need to generate something to spurt? Interesting...

yes it is a real thingy, not to do with your balls though i think.
i remember reading there is a drug that blocks this but not something you can easily get - after all why should this be easily available on the NHS?
Like many things the refractory period will (usually?) vary with your age, when i was in my teens and early twenties i sometimes remained hard after a pop so maybe could come 4/5 times in an hour. Now in my 60s i find i just don't usually have the same urge to come for a second time and am not the least bothered.
Will have to try a controlled experiment to see if i can force myself, who will be the lucky girl :-)

[anyfucker]

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It was only a few months ago that i saw what was at that point the hottest girl (imho) i'd punted with - came 3 times in the hour but each time on a but of a hair trigger. Tuesday i was with a girl i consider even hotter and lasted ages. ... 

links to these hotties? just for scientific purposes of course.

[expletivedeleted]

I found this a little while back, may be of interest (or not, but anyway…): External Link/Members Only

[Tony Montana]

"Post orgasm refractory period" - is that a real biological thing? Like x period of time your balls need to generate something to spurt? Interesting...

I guess that massage that the girl offers between pops is a good thing after all

[Bond]

I think that for a guy, to cum again within 15 - 20 minutes, is a bit unnatural.

I prefer to stretch the 'action' part of a punt as much as possible and have one great orgasm. And since I love to indulge in RO I have no problems in doing that.

I also appreciate the lady giving me a massage if I finish a bit early. I certainly prefer that, than a mad rush to come again within 10 minutes!

[expletivedeleted]

I think that for a guy, to cum again within 15 - 20 minutes, is a bit unnatural.

I'm not sure, I think it depends on the guy, the situation, and the girl.

[CBPaul]

I guess that massage that the girl offers between pops is a good thing after all

It can be if she has limited English, only has crap on the telly or has the conversational skills of a 2 year old

But ONLY between rounds, otherwise it is a time wasting tactic at the start of the punt.

[GeeWiz]

prone bone?

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I prefer the lady to prop herself up on elbows so you can play with tits.  The sensation of her arse around your genital area is quite different to doggy and - for me at least - quite immense.

[bod666]

I love prone bone. Never realised that is what it's called. Its also good when the girl puts a pillow under her hips so you can go deeper. Happy memories 

[SamLP]

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I prefer the lady to prop herself up on elbows so you can play with tits.  The sensation of her arse around your genital area is quite different to doggy and - for me at least - quite immense.

I didn't know this position was called prone bone. One of my favourite positions which I use in most of my punts, usually start with her in cowgirl, move into doggy, give her a good pounding, then when my legs get a bit tired I move them in the prone bone position while still inside. From experience most of them love this position and it's pleasurable for the man too, the sensations are great and it's made even better if she twists her head to dfk you while you slip your hand underneath to play with her clit. A lot of the girls clench their pillow or if you're fluffy link hands while in this position. It's tough to move on so sometimes I give in and pop while in this position but mostly I will switch to mish and finish off there.

As for two pops, I don't have a problem getting hard for a second round but on many occasions I've left frustrated by not being able to pop a second time. It's all good and well pumping for ages but if there's no release it's damned frustrating which is why I stick to half hour punts most of the time. If I haven't had sex for several days then it's easier to cum twice but no guarantee for me.

[charming_red]

Never tried prone bone before. Looks interesting. If it helps knocking another one off during round 2, then I'll definately give it a try.

[monstar]

Never tried prone bone before. Looks interesting. If it helps knocking another one off during round 2, then I'll definately give it a try.

Ditto - it looks fun, I will be giving it a go next punt. 

[Trevor12]

I love prone bone. Never realised that is what it's called.

+1, always thought of it as a doggy variant.

[bod666]

well somewhat by accident today i took everyone's advice and had two separate 30 min punts an hour or so apart. i'd gone to see the first girl with money for an hour in my pocket but had only booked 30 mins (i hadn't seen her before so always book 30 mins with a view to extend on a first meeting).

anyway she wasn't what i hoped for from the aw pics so stuck to the 30 mins - pop 1 completed with sufficient time left for a bit of a massage.

got back to my car and checked aw - one of my back up regulars was available today so gave her a ring and arranged to go and see her when she was settled in. that second punt was great and went on for ages in many different positions having that break in between really helped with stamina and enthusiasm

so that really was some good advice guys - thanks

[RNinePunter]

I am weird. I go for 40 minutes including 10-15 minutes of oral and messing about when I am with someone I find really attractive/got the sex vibes hormones spillin' out of my body but with a girl I do not find so attractive or if they are not very good with the service I last for maybe 20 minutes in total, making one hour bookings absolutely a waste. It's a shame I always end up going for 1 hour sessions and taking a naive punt. 

[HorizontalFoxtrotLover]

I think that for a guy, to cum again within 15 - 20 minutes, is a bit unnatural.

I prefer to stretch the 'action' part of a punt as much as possible and have one great orgasm. And since I love to indulge in RO I have no problems in doing that.

I also appreciate the lady giving me a massage if I finish a bit early. I certainly prefer that, than a mad rush to come again within 10 minutes!

+1
My sentiments, exactly

[akauya]

I think that for a guy, to cum again within 15 - 20 minutes, is a bit unnatural.

I prefer to stretch the 'action' part of a punt as much as possible and have one great orgasm. And since I love to indulge in RO I have no problems in doing that.

I also appreciate the lady giving me a massage if I finish a bit early. I certainly prefer that, than a mad rush to come again within 10 minutes!

There's nothing unnatural about it. Some guys can others can't. Some guys are tall others are short. Some guys have big cocks others have small ones. We are all different and respond/react differently.

Depending on the situation and how hot the prossie is I can still cum twice in half an hour. Admittedly it was much easier when I was younger and I know there will be a time when 2 pops in half an hour will be a thing of the past for me but there's nothing unnatural about multiple pops in a short time. Strangely enough sometimes youth has nothing to do with it, I've seen some young men (at parties) who needed more than half an hour to just cum once.

As I said we are all different, calling it unnatural is nonsense. Each punter has to find what works for him and stick to it. I know of a punter who hardly ever cums with prossies but he still enjoys fucking them.

[cueball]

I find I pop twice easier with new girls, it's the excitement of a new body to play with, once they go on the regular rota then two pops can take some work, maybe that's telling me something though, struggling to pop twice with a regular may mean is time to take her off the rota for a while.

[Punting Valley]

I am relatively young and still I struggle to cum once in an hour  that's why I usually do longer booking, no rush

[goingstrong68]

I struggle to come just once these days, sometimes