Thanks West8 - Yes, I do agree, I was annoyed when I wrote it perhaps I should have left it. Oh well, what's done is done. I have reviewed over on the "other" site in the past where things are left alone so still getting used to the community here.
Anyway, I guess I had this next part coming. I'm now receiving abusive calls and texts at all hours. And then at 1.30am received a text saying "sorry I missed you're call"