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Offline Dani

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You done mention if she is leading you on or just doing her job. Has she borrowed money etc. If not then I wont blame her in anyway as her job is to be nice to you. She doesn't know if you can afford to see her as much as you do. As an adult it is up to you to be careful of how you spend your money. It's up to you not to cross the feelings boundary unless she has been making promises of a future together. She may be unaware of how you feel as not everyone is mentally mature enough to see other peoples feelings
See a few other girls. If the one you are seeing is still the best for you then still see her as well but set a budget and do not go over it. Sticking with one girl can be great for those who want someone they are comfy with but bloody awful idea for those who tend to get emotionally involved

Always remember if you are paying then it is a business arrangement and nothing else. Even if she says different it is just business if money is involved.
If you do plan on still seeing her DONT tell her how you feel as you will find you either can't get her to answer phone or she will think she can play the he will give me money card and constantly moan she needs extra money

Offline dork

I appreciate the comments guys. Most of it, I didn't want to hear, but needed to (probably already knew it, tbh)

I haven't a clue how to insert a quote, but in reply to Dani, she did not lead me on and was just doing her job so all of this was entirely of my doing and I blame no one else. I don't think it would be sensible to return there as I'd just prolong the depression I feel.

I posted simply because, although I'm reasonably intelligent in the real world, I'm capable of stupid behaviour. I just needed to talk about it a little and to try to get it out of my system.
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Offline Hardpipe

Personally like to get a bit of variety. :lol:

Offline dilettante

I don't think "stupid behaviour" comes into it, mate (except maybe in the literal sense of "in a stupor" ;) ) - it's all a learning curve and might bring a massive benefit into your life or have avoided something much worse.

EDIT: And 10k!!!! Fuck me, I like to think that even if I was caught out by EAS I'd have it cured before I dropped that kind of money on a girl.

It does make you wonder whether marrying her would have been less expensive :unknown:

tcm

Offline dork

tcm

she never asked, but rest assured, if she did you'd be my first choice for best man. Do you charge for that service by the way? I'm a little broke right now
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Offline SirFrank

You won't be the first or last to suffer from EAS. I'd move on if I were you - go see someone else for a change (take a look at the regional boards for a girl who offers a 5* service) or better yet - have a wank. I don't know about you but when my dicks in my hand I can theoretically have sex with anyone. As I often say -I like sex but you can't beat the real thing!
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Offline dork

Done SirFrank. Having now placed a reverse booking request on AW and got several responses I'm now  anticipating a case of multiple EAS. As a positive note, I expect to go bankrupt much more quickly than before and get the pain over with :cool:
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Online OakTree

I know the general advice so far has been to see other girls and not stick to one but personally I really don't think this game is for you. You fell for the first one you met and that makes me feel that this behaviour is in your nature. You may see a number more but I believe that sooner or later you will fall for another. You really need to look at yourself and ask why you are partaking in this game.  If it is anything more than frivolous fucking then back out and find some other less expensive pastime.

tcm

she never asked, but rest assured, if she did you'd be my first choice for best man. Do you charge for that service by the way? I'm a little broke right now

Accepted, with one condition. You can pay for me to punt with 'your girl' whilst you sit and watch. You'll see as I fuck her how she 'performs' just the same for me as she does for you. I can hear it now "Oh! Oh! tcm, you're the best!'

Or just insert any other punters name where I've put tcm

It'll soon cure you of EAS!!

tcm

Offline cueball

Accepted, with one condition. You can pay for me to punt with 'your girl' whilst you sit and watch. You'll see as I fuck her how she 'performs' just the same for me as she does for you. I can hear it now "Oh! Oh! tcm, you're the best!'

Or just insert any other punters name where I've put tcm

It'll soon cure you of EAS!!

tcm

That's twenty pound extra cueball

Offline JohnEv

£10K/year is less than some of my girlfriends and hugely less than my wife cost me, if you're happy stick with it, if you can't afford it then cut back a bit.  When/if you get bored then move on, just don't get married whatever you do.

Offline doc14

It does make you wonder whether marrying her would have been less expensive :unknown:

tcm
Isn't marrying them cheaper than getting rid of them, ie divorce?

Offline anyfucker

Isn't marrying them cheaper than getting rid of them, ie divorce?
Getting married is the cheap part unless you/she wants a stupidly expensive wedding.
The UK is known as the divorce capital because the laws give a woman a higher part of the assets than most placesd in the world.
So for example the wife of a foreign oligarch will seek to have a divorce in London if she can establish some sort of connection, e.g. owning a flat and spending time here.
Of course if you're skint then it doesn't matter as you will always be skint.
Remember the old adage, if it flies, floats or fucks better to rent it   :hi:

Offline ATMIV

I would say to the OP that the best way to get EAS out if your head or stop it developing if you suspect it is would be to indulge in an LMP (now known as Pheonix parties) or a Hush party

You'll get to enjoy the pleasures of some fit enthusiastic WG who are friendly and great to fuck and be sucked by with no EAS attached

Invariably you get some 1 on 1 action with one or two of the girls who will make you feel you are the special one

Minutes you'll be nuts deep in another watching the one that made you feel so special depth roaring another party goer or seeing her with another with her legs over another blokes shoulders watching his cock pound in and out of her as she makes him feel he is actually the special one

This is a reality check for you - this is what these girls do for a living including your special WG - they fuck and suck bloke no matter how repulsive he may be again and again until she is fed up, bored, tired and sore. But if they are a good professional you'll never know because she makes you feel you are the special one - it's all the others that's just business for her not you
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Good grief! She was either very expensive or you must have payed for many visits, you don't say just how much you were emotionally attached to the girl (probably best not to get to fluffy on here), could you not get her out of your mind for every minute of the day and did you long for the time of your next meet that sort of thing? I've had the same experience and I don't think the memory will ever leave me, I've tried other girls and whilst they are good at what they do it's not the same experience. If you spend a lot of time with the same girl and you get on well together a one sided relationship can develop but if you can break away I guess it would be the best outcome. I've spent well over a thou on my particular EMS and if she turns up again I know that if she will see me that I will spend as much as I can till the bitter end. :bomb:

Offline west8

still with only experience of one wg

Anyone on this board will tell you that is the sole reason you are in the proverbial.

The only thing you need to remember in order to keep this a healthy, happy and enjoyable hobby is this: variety

Sure, you can see the same girl 5 times in 5 days, I know I have. But always make sure that those 5 days are followed by another girl.

After all, how can you possibly know if the girl you have EAS for is actually anything special if she is the only WG you have met? !

Offline MDB72

It's very easy to be drawn in by a WG but you have to remember that it's a business transaction and nothing more. Ask them if they would like to see you on their own time. You'll find out where you stand then. Variety is the spice of life. Find a few girls who match your needs and see them when you like.

Thanks for the EAS definition - dork I think you need to get a girlfriend man - then if you still punt you won't be so vulnerable to EAS...

Offline dork

I know the general advice so far has been to see other girls and not stick to one but personally I really don't think this game is for you. You fell for the first one you met and that makes me feel that this behaviour is in your nature. You may see a number more but I believe that sooner or later you will fall for another. You really need to look at yourself and ask why you are partaking in this game.  If it is anything more than frivolous fucking then back out and find some other less expensive pastime.

Thanks for advice but I'm pretty much of the opinion that this is the best I've received so far
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EAS is easily done, I developed a soft spot for a regular girl about 4 years ago and wondered "what if" but deep down knew it would never work, she used to come and go a bit without warning and I would always feel upset when she disappeared then elated when she turned up again.
After an extended absence of about 6 months she turned up one time and when I saw her I remember thinking she was actually quite Chavvy and what did I previously see in her, the break was long enough to get over her and I'd found other girls in the meantime who gave a better service (however I made sure I left a good time between visits to these other girls).
Thinking back my EAS was partly due to having a load of other shit in my life at the time and just clinging on to the only support that was on offer, at the end of the day human emotion is a powerful force and almost everybody wants to feel loved / wanted.
My advice as above is to try other girls and vary things around, also the suggestion to make an excuse about going away for a bit may help put some distance between you.
Sounds like you already know you have an issue which is the first requirement of dealing with any addiction but FFS if your looking for an alternative don't find religion as this is how the god botherers hook people in when they are at a low ebb!   

Offline jsparky

I think the overwhelming response are you should go for the varieties, you obviously fell for the first girl who are nice to you. If you think she is the best, you obviously have no idea what how much fun we have with other WGs (probably with your favourite girl too!). There's no perfect punt, different WGs offer different things. I use to have a regular in parlour in my younger day, now looking back - it was pretty vanilla.

Offline dilettante

EAS is easily done, I developed a soft spot for a regular girl about 4 years ago and wondered "what if" but deep down knew it would never work, she used to come and go a bit without warning and I would always feel upset when she disappeared then elated when she turned up again.
After an extended absence of about 6 months she turned up one time and when I saw her I remember thinking she was actually quite Chavvy and what did I previously see in her, the break was long enough to get over her and I'd found other girls in the meantime who gave a better service (however I made sure I left a good time between visits to these other girls).
Thinking back my EAS was partly due to having a load of other shit in my life at the time and just clinging on to the only support that was on offer, at the end of the day human emotion is a powerful force and almost everybody wants to feel loved / wanted.
My advice as above is to try other girls and vary things around, also the suggestion to make an excuse about going away for a bit may help put some distance between you.
Sounds like you already know you have an issue which is the first requirement of dealing with any addiction but FFS if your looking for an alternative don't find religion as this is how the god botherers hook people in when they are at a low ebb!   
Excellent post we can all take a lesson from, takes a lot of humility to admit it too.  What the solution is I don't know, achieving peace of mind when you've been placed on this earth as a man, but I'd suggest there's a big difference between religion and spirituality - organised religion is only for the ones who haven't the nous to work it out for themselves, whereas eg the more esoteric martial arts provide something you can really focus on, address the whole human condition and you'll meet some very nice, supportive people too.

Offline cueball

Excellent post we can all take a lesson from, takes a lot of humility to admit it too.  What the solution is I don't know, achieving peace of mind when you've been placed on this earth as a man, but I'd suggest there's a big difference between religion and spirituality - organised religion is only for the ones who haven't the nous to work it out for themselves, whereas eg the more esoteric martial arts provide something you can really focus on, address the whole human condition and you'll meet some very nice, supportive people too.

Excellent, good deep explanation of age old problem, I'll take that on-board. Yes, podging more hotties prevents eas.

Offline Trevor12

Yes, podging more hotties prevents eas.

Works for me! I tend to go for GFE bookings with WGs out of my league. Particularly good bookings always lead to slight EAS, which adds to the post punt high. But as I love punting new girls, the EAS for a particular WG is only temporary, and is kept in check.


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