I appreciate the comments guys. Most of it, I didn't want to hear, but needed to (probably already knew it, tbh)
I haven't a clue how to insert a quote, but in reply to Dani, she did not lead me on and was just doing her job so all of this was entirely of my doing and I blame no one else. I don't think it would be sensible to return there as I'd just prolong the depression I feel.
I posted simply because, although I'm reasonably intelligent in the real world, I'm capable of stupid behaviour. I just needed to talk about it a little and to try to get it out of my system.