Crikey guys -- I don't consult UKP to see who I want to fuck. I make a hotlist based on standard checks on attractive profiles. I narrow it down to who is available for when I want to see them. Then I have a quick look at the reviews of the women I'm about to try to pin down in case I've overlooked something about them and quickly cross them off the shortlist.
So it is quite a small factor really. When I have a flick through the forum I may come across someone that somehow I've missed but it's not my source book.
1. I use the free email alerts for my area. Most of them are deleted after 2 seconds or less (eg I don't need to do research anyone called "HotFuckTodai" to know with pretty high certainty that she would be shite). Maybe one in 20 is worth clicking on the link and if she looks a "good possibility" she goes on my "good possibility" hotlist which takes another 5 seconds.
2. Once every few months when I have not much else to do I use a "saved search." I've got 3 saved "saved searches" bookmarked on my AW homepage that are a click away. I click the first and it searches according to my strictest criteria (something like 18-21, English first language, within two miles, max price). If I don't see much worth pursuing, I go to the second saved search that has slightly less strict criteria etc.
3. When I want a punt, I have a flick thru my pre-checked "good now" hotlist. If I am not getting a fast enough satisfactory result, I go to the "good possibility" list. Here's the pre-check, something like this (not this order):
a) right click tineye on the best looking photo
b) cut+paste quick google search her phone number
c) drop down click her area see how far away she is
d) check her prices, age, dress size are within my acceptable requirements yes/no
e) check she's not Romanian or has any alarm-bell idiocies on her profile
f) click the rating button make sure it's not hidden or horrific
g) note her likes list to compare her to anyone else on my shortlist.
At that point I've hopefully more or less chosen. I've got three possibles for this afternoon and put their names in order of preference into the UKP search form. Anyone negged them? Skim down any unfamiliar names in the 'positives' list and see if they are believable enough and relative to my needs enough to hotlist.
Fucking is a very personal business. If you were hanging out in a singles bar you probably wouldn't have in depth conversations with everyone there about who would be suitable for you. You'd probably narrow it down and keep an eye out for signals if you were going for someone and were getting eye signals from other people there that suggested she was a fucking headcase.
My choices are often confirmed by someone or other on UKP afterwards, but the idea, as I say, of quantifying everybody else's opinion on who I fuck sounds like lobotomy. I appreciate your input, thanks. But I thankfully still have a functioning mind and functioning cock and sex-drive and that is primary for me as it is mine.
Reviews are icing on the cake.