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Offline AnthG

Walk into a parlour / brothel is probably easier still as you don't have to interact with the booking staff at an agency, in a parlour they just smile usher you into a room then show you the Pro$$ies on offer, nod at the one you want, pay her, rinse your cock while she goes and hides the money (takes ages) then shag her / him   :cool:

Are there any parlours in newcastle?

Offline sacredrealm

I guess I just don't really fit into this straight forward black or white cold way that society seems to be at the minute in some ways to me haha.

If I come across as a "schoolkid" by saying haha. Thats OK I guess. I'll live with whatever rejection it brings.....(haha)

If I dont have anyone in person to discuss these things with. What is wrong with exploring ideas and options on the internet, and letting my creative nature take over when writing messages rather than having to be a robot just saying I want "this". I want it "then. Or I just want to know "this" now. (in general, not just tlking about AW. I mean forums too. I understand that maybe Its not good to do that on AW as they are busy).
 
I'm probabaly over reacting here. And will probabaly feel different about it when I calm down and look dfferently haha.

I dont see why just because its the internet it means people have to treat people as non people haha.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 02:30:25 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline James999

There are parlours / brothels in most large towns  :cool:

Offline AnthG

I guess I just don't really fit into this straight forward black or white cold way that society seems to be at the minute in some ways to me haha.

I dont see why just because its the internet it means people have to treat people as non people haha.

All people are doing is suggesting the best way to book an Escort.

Once you are in the appointment you can chat as much as you want. Its your paid time, some guys think paying a fit 20 something girl to chat with you at £100 / hour is a rip off. I find it the funnest part of the appointment. (my favourite Escorts have been those with a fun sense of humour as opposed to robots)

You just have to be weary at first you don't come across as prying. So talk about favourite movies and the like.

Offline James999

I guess I just don't really fit into this straight forward black or white cold way that society seems to be

It has nothing to do with Black or white, the question was why do you want to see a pro$$ie? if you can't answer that (even to yourself) then you are never going to achieve your goal.

 You seem to be hiding behind telling people how you are what type of person you are etc, when in reality it is not relevant, Pro$$ies won't gve a shit as long as you are polite, clean, pay the money, finish and fuck off  :D

If you suffer from premature ejaculation most pro$$ies will see that as a bonus  :D
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 02:32:44 PM by James999 »

I used to hate talking on the phone to people in general but talking to a wg is easy. It's just time to man up and get er done  :cool:

Offline sacredrealm

All people are doing is suggesting the best way to book an Escort.

Once you are in the appointment you can chat as much as you want. Its your paid time, some guys think paying a fit 20 something girl to chat with you at £100 / hour is a rip off. I find it the funnest part of the appointment.

You just have to be weary at first you don't come across as prying. So talk about favourite movies and the like.

Yes I understand. I wasn't talking about the thread in particular. Just a feeling in general. Probabaly wasn't necessary to put, in this context.

That is true. And I cuold just pay to talk.

I guess I was just trying to find out if its someone I want to do that with. Sounds strange but when they have a blurred face in pictures I can find that harder to tell haha.

I see.
I guess I'm jus still not sure its the thing for me to do yet anyway. At some times I think it is, no question.  If I want to have sex/intimacy anytime soon with someone I find attractive hah. And sometimes not sure. The elemtens that I guess woud put my off to imagine, would be the woman not really wanting to be doing it. I know they would probabaly act even then. But just say I knew for sure they didn't want to. I'd not be able to do it.
Or the fact that some may do it so much tht it really becomes like "right.....next.....right.....next.....next and so it wears them down and they cant put much thought into each individual other than wanting it done and going home haha.
I know its not this way with all. But I guss I was trying to find out more about them just to try and get an idea of this.

And I know I should phone them in that case. I just find that really difficult.


Offline James999


 And I cuold just pay to talk.


Ring the Samaritains then, they probably won't talk as much shit as a pro$$ie and won't charge you for it  :D

Offline sacredrealm

It has nothing to do with Black or white, the question was why do you want to see a pro$$ie? if you can't answer that (even to yourself) then you are never going to achieve your goal.

 You seem to be hiding behind telling people how you are what type of person you are etc, when in reality it is not relevant, Pro$$ies won't gve a shit as long as you are polite, clean, pay the money, finish and fuck off  :D

If you suffer from premature ejaculation most pro$$ies will see that as a bonus  :D

Yep fair enough. I was just over reacting with a fairly abstract thougt, sorry.



But your second to last point is the main element that puts me off the idea TBH, when I am thinking about it. Not because they should be botheredabout what kind of person I am when they don't know me. But Because I can't do it if I knew/thought they didn't want to do it and atleast had SOME level of understanding.

And I would aim to not ejaculate for as long as possible. If they were wishing I wold and just get it over with I wouldnt want to be there to begin with hah.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 02:46:53 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline AnthG

Ring the Samaritains then, they probably won't talk as much shit as a pro$$ie and won't charge you for it  :D
Yes but an old granny saying she wants to own a hairdressing salon as her dream job does not have the same feel to it as a gorgeous 20 year old lying there naked next to you saying it while playing with you down below.

Offline sacredrealm

Yes but an old granny saying she wants to own a hairdressing salon as her dream job does not have the same feel to it as a gorgeous 20 year old lying there naked next to you saying it while playing with you down below.

Exactly!

I could find a good "councellor" to talk with. Ive spoken to 2 before. One was very understanding, and nice, and I felr brilliant after. The other was very businss like, lesss and unserdtanding and just seemed to be going through trained procedures. I didn' feel nice. And I'd rather an experiencewith an escort didn't give me that feeling too much. (Although yes  know it is very differentand escorts are not councellors haha)

NOW and would NOT book an escort escort as some sort of councellor. I know it is not FOR THAT haha. But it would just be nice to have a nice vibe with it! And I'm not talking "eveything perfect" or anything. Jut so i didnt feel i was forcing something she didnt want to do I guess.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 02:58:43 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline smiths

My advice is forget about wasting your time emailing and pick the phone up. Write out the questions you want answered and ask them, if the WG is not willing to answer or doesnt make an effort to be friendly move on. That always tells me if she is like this BEFORE she has my money how bad might she be AFTER she has it. If i miss out on a gem my bad luck. ;)


Offline sacredrealm

OK, thanks!

Its just I find tha very difficult. So was just exploring the optio or writing.

If this isn't possible in this way. Fine. I'll have to think about it.

And whoever said it before I don't even desire to "man up". I don't feel like a "man" is expected to be/feel. And thats fine with me hah.

It's up to you when you want to cum, you're paying. If she's a girl who tries to make you cum really fast when you don't want too and then says the session is over when you do she's a shit pro$$ie. Do your research. I can empathize that you want to feel some sort of connection because you are both humans, you don't want to enter a robotic production line. I say to you, that you won't. When you feel you are ready you should go for it. Don't expect too much of a connection on the phone, wait for the actual punt. Trust me when i say it's not hard to call a wg you fancy.

Just say, Hi is that Bigtitsbarbie? She'll say yes, if she answers. Then say, I was looking at your aw profile and was wondering if you're available for a one hour incall on Friday the 5th. You'll sort out when she is available. Then you need to clarify any services or requests you have for her to dress up or do roleplay. She'll then probably say I'll text you my address. Goodbye. Sorted. You'll go to the place and call her and she'll tell you the house/flat number. You'll go in and stick your penis in her vagina [ after payment ofcourse  ;) ] and all will be well.  :thumbsup:
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 03:03:10 PM by Thepacifist »

Offline sacredrealm

Sacred, are you a virgin?

If wer'e going by labels/implanted beleifs in this area, as generally we do, then yes.

But to me personally virginty doesn't exist. Its definition is too subjective for a start and I am still the same me weater or not I have had "sex", with a person or not yet.

But thats another subject. And I answered what you wanted to know haha.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 03:07:27 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline James999

If wer'e going by labels/implanted beleifs in this area, as generally we do, yes.

Stop trying to over complicate things, the answer is either yes or no it's not labels, it's a basic question, if you try and deflect questions with "I don't like labels etc" then you will find you frustrate pro$$ies.

What if one says do you want your cock sucked, what will you say, "ah well it depends how one views the art of felation and the giving or receiving and its implications", Thus confusing the fuck out of her and her assuming you're weird, or just say yes please and she sucks your cock and thinks you're normal

Offline sacredrealm

Stop trying to over complicate things, the answer is either yes or no it's not labels, it's a basic question, if you try and deflect questions with "I don't like labels etc" then you will find you frustrate pro$$ies.

What if one says do you want your cock sucked, what will you say, "ah well it depends how one views the art of felation and the giving or receiving and its implications", Thus confusing the fuck out of her and her assuming you're weird, or just say yes please and she sucks your cock and thinks you're normal

No but I find it diffucult to answer the question you asked in a defnite way because I don'teven know what counts as virgin and non virgin anyway.

No I haven't done anything that could qualify me as "non virgin", other than masterbate. But this in its self is the same ting in one way. Sex is only the same stimulation done by another person.
Yes its a different experience, but not one that makes you "loose" something. To me thats partly come from religious indoctrinaion.

Anyway, I answered the question how you want it also.

And no I wouldnt take that in depth hahaha.

But anyway....I still answered what you want to know hah.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 03:19:02 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline sacredrealm

It's up to you when you want to cum, you're paying. If she's a girl who tries to make you cum really fast when you don't want too and then says the session is over when you do she's a shit pro$$ie. Do your research. I can empathize that you want to feel some sort of connection because you are both humans, you don't want to enter a robotic production line. I say to you, that you won't. When you feel you are ready you should go for it. Don't expect too much of a connection on the phone, wait for the actual punt. Trust me when i say it's not hard to call a wg you fancy.

Just say, Hi is that Bigtitsbarbie? She'll say yes, if she answers. Then say, I was looking at your aw profile and was wondering if you're available for a one hour incall on Friday the 5th. You'll sort out when she is available. Then you need to clarify any services or requests you have for her to dress up or do roleplay. She'll then probably say I'll text you my address. Goodbye. Sorted. You'll go to the place and call her and she'll tell you the house/flat number. You'll go in and stick your penis in her vagina [ after payment ofcourse  ;) ] and all will be well.  :thumbsup:

Thanks for the input.

But still Id need to adapt to that way really. Its quite hard to me.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 03:19:23 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline AnthG

What if one says do you want your cock sucked, what will you say, "ah well it depends how one views the art of felation and the giving or receiving and its implications", Thus confusing the fuck out of her and her assuming you're weird, or just say yes please and she sucks your cock and thinks you're normal

 :lol:

@sacred; just book the girl. If you hate it you have lost a hundred pound. No biggie. You can even walk after 10 minutes if you wanted. Again you have lost your £100 though.

Talking about it is getting nowhere. You have been a member since May and you are still unsure on to book or not and never made a first booking. That has to be an all time punting forum record.

Just book any girl that might take your fancy. If she has a personality of a flea. You have lost your £100.

I have had a few poor punts with un-enjoyable girls. Its a numbers game, every punt gives closer to girls who knock you for six who you then keep as a regular.

Wanting perfection on a first punt is unrealistic unless you read reviews.

if you want a hike to Toonland the girl I saw last Friday would be who you should see.

I bet a few others can say similar for girls other regions too. Thats why we have review sections.

Just book a girl.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 03:22:48 PM by AnthG »

Offline James999

No but I find it diffucult to answer the question you asked in a defnite way because I don'teven know what counts as virgin and non virgin anyway.

In this context it meant Have you ever fucked a girl (or guy if you want to be pedantic)

So the answer is No, that's ok, so why do you want to see a pro$$ie.... in under 10 words   :D

Offline James999


Wanting perfection on a first punt is unrealistic

The reality is as he's a Virgin he will most likely Jizz over her hand as soon as she touches his cock, so a short 30 min parlour appt is ideal  :cool:

Offline sacredrealm

I know I cant get perfection the first time. Or any time maybe hah. Thats one reason why the whole "virgin" concept isn't helpful, IMO. Because it tries to make that fist time seem like something more special than any other time.

I I'm not expecting perfection. I just I guess want a replacement for the normal way people do this which hasn't happened for me yet and seems difficult, but in which the woman involved will most likley like the man and actually want to do it, but without the games, obstacles and trappings of those normal ways haa.

In another way, I guess basically  justwant to do one of the things I'm naturally driven to do (and women are too) without the stuff thats been added as an obstacle to get to it. Because I cant do that ha.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 03:56:51 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline AnthG

I just I guess want a replacement for the normal way people do this which hasn't happened for me yet and seems difficult, but in which the woman involved will most likley like the man and actually want to do it, but without the games, obstacles and trappings of those normal ways haa.

As soon as your time is up. The girl will unceremoniously kick you out. Some have better finesse about it than others though.

In that hour, if the girl is good at what she does, you will think you have hit it home big style. You will think you are John Travolta on the start of Saturday Night Fever.

If thats what you are saying you want. Book someone. Thats what seeing Escorts is like.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 04:12:45 PM by AnthG »

Offline James999

You will think you are John Travolta on the start of Saturday Night Fever.

What, working in a paint shop ?


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