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Offline Scoobs

Just let it happen naturally.  It may not happen next week or next month but it'll happen at some point.

Seems to me that you've got so hung up about it that you're putting a ridiculous amount of pressure on yourself.

Have a coke and a smile and just relax.

Edit:  And if it does take a while just remember the old saying - You can beat an egg but you can't beat a wank  :)

Offline sacredrealm

Just let it happen naturally.  It may not happen next week or next month but it'll happen at some point.

Seems to me that you've got so hung up about it that you're putting a ridiculous amount of pressure on yourself.

Have a coke and a smile and just relax.

Edit:  And if it does take a while just remember the old saying - You can beat an egg but you can't beat a wank  :)

This is the whole dilema in my head though I guess.

At times I think I'll do what you're saying. Then I might get horny and just want the real thing more. Then I might go back to thinking I can easily go without for now. And its back and forth haha.

I'm not putting any pressure on myelf so I can just say "ive done it". Thats pointless to me. To me its just wanting the feeling cause i might enjoy it i guess hah.

I always imagine its easier for girls in gneral to just let it be.
Maybe I should try and be more like that.
Although I guess its easier for them to get sex whenever they want (generally).
But maybe I'm wron about that initial statement before the latter anyway
« Last Edit: November 02, 2011, 11:48:13 PM by sacredrealm »

Offline Joe Blob

Sacred, consider breaking your duck with a sensual massage instead of a full blooded punt. An hours massage with a hand job at the end will give you time to chat to the girl before hand (HaHa)

After that you may feel more relaxed about approaching a girl for sex.

Offline sacredrealm

Sacred, consider breaking your duck with a sensual massage instead of a full blooded punt. An hours massage with a hand job at the end will give you time to chat to the girl before hand (HaHa)

After that you may feel more relaxed about approaching a girl for sex.

Thats a good idea. I would consider having an open mind as to what was going to happen during it. I'd rather make things happen in it based on what felt right at the time.

And those 2 things would get the "virgin/non virgin" labelling people (virtually everyone) confused hah. Nah just kidding.

But however, I wouldn't do this to somehow "help" me approach regular girls for that. I don't think it would TBH. I am the way I am. And many people have said that things like this,with an escort especially, not even sex itself will suddenly make you be able to get girls normally. I dont see the connection.
Its not like Ive had chances and turne them down due to nerves. I havent had the chances. And going to an escort in itself won't make these happen hah.
And I will be nver want to go "out" and try to initiate it with girls in a club. It just doesnt feel right to me, the idea. nd would still be difficult anyway.
But thats fine with me I on' want to do things that way.

If anything was to ever happen with a civi girl, she would have to show interest and initiate!
« Last Edit: November 03, 2011, 02:50:52 AM by sacredrealm »


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