Unanswered questions on Escorting?

[gentlemantoyou]

I'm not expecting answers from you punters, maybe these questions might make you think. I've done a lot of reading about escorts but there are still questions that have not been answered.

1. How do these escorts, or working girls, deal with the fact that ANYBODY can walk through their door? I mean, the guy could be a psycho or even a rapist or just downright unattractive.

2. What happens if the guy gets aggressive, refuses to pay and attempts to rape the girl? Where is the security for girls that work from agencies? I watched a mini documentary about escorting and one escort said she was raped on two occasions. I felt so angry inside.....

Now these are some of my own questions, simply because I'm new to escorting:

1. Do you punters ever wonder about the possible risks of incalls? I've always left my valuables at home before venturing to an incall. The only items I take is obviously the money and my phone. Do you ever wonder when you knock on her door and she takes you to the bedroom, you pay the cash, she then tells you to undress and goes to another room to put the money away or something, but in the next room there's like 5 guys waiting to rob you and leave you for dead? No matter how 'brave' you are, it's always a possibility right?

2. What happens during long encounters? Like 3-5 hours or even an overnight stay? How do you comfortably pass the long hours with a stranger?

[SmackmaBitchUp]

I'm not expecting answers from you punters, maybe these questions might make you think. I've done a lot of reading about escorts but there are still questions that have not been answered.

1. How do these escorts, or working girls, deal with the fact that ANYBODY can walk through their door? I mean, the guy could be a psycho or even a rapist or just downright unattractive.

2. What happens if the guy gets aggressive, refuses to pay and attempts to rape the girl? Where is the security for girls that work from agencies? I watched a mini documentary about escorting and one escort said she was raped on two occasions. I felt so angry inside.....

Now these are some of my own questions, simply because I'm new to escorting:

1. Do you punters ever wonder about the possible risks of incalls? I've always left my valuables at home before venturing to an incall. The only items I take is obviously the money and my phone. Do you ever wonder when you knock on her door and she takes you to the bedroom, you pay the cash, she then tells you to undress and goes to another room to put the money away or something, but in the next room there's like 5 guys waiting to rob you and leave you for dead? No matter how 'brave' you are, it's always a possibility right?

2. What happens during long encounters? Like 3-5 hours or even an overnight stay? How do you comfortably pass the long hours with a stranger?

I suggest you look at a site called SAAFE to eliviate your concerns for the WG,s with questions 1&2...
With regards to getting fucked over as with punting I'm sure the best way is to always keep your marbles about you but there will always be an element of risk !
Never stayed with a girl for more than an hour and didn't give a cock about getting to know how many siblings she had, I was there for 1 thing! 

[StevenS]

1) minimise the risk by reading reviews here and seeing reputable girls

2) no idea. Longest booking I have done is 2 hours.

[hendrix]

1) No, never worried about it, never had a problem. Sure, it's possible, but unlikely with basic research and common sense.

2) Never with a stranger. Only with regulars I know well. How do you spend the time? That's down to your imagination. I've had overnights and trips abroad with regs. Great fun, loads can be done, it's your money, you choose what happens in the time and find a girl that's up for it.

[Sugarbabe]

How the girls deal with that first question is a tricky one, but mostly it’s all down to experience and having a good back up plan.  None of the girls we work with and represent are without contingencies believe me… Fortunately aggressive incidents are incredibly few and far between and there are support networks in place that allow agencies and independent girls to identify and block/blacklist punters all over the globe; granted, this could be made better, but it’s a long and arduous process.

As far as punters worrying about incidents in incall bookings, this is mostly unfounded when it comes to evidence.  These are usually very desperate or “controlled” girls that perpetrate the sort of actions you mention.  And of course, all the more reason to go to a well-known and respected agency!

I hope your concerns don’t put you off what is ordinarily a very exciting and appealing hobby for both punter and WG… haha!

[berksboy]

"And of course, all the more reason to go to a well-known and respected agency!"

  You can not mean your one ? 

[socks]

2. What happens during long encounters? Like 3-5 hours or even an overnight stay? How do you comfortably pass the long hours with a stranger?

I've had two overnighters. What I did on one was a variety of foreplay followed by fucking her several times, several different ways, arsehole, cunt and mouth, until I fell asleep. In the morning she wanked me off before we checked out. The other was pretty similar except we enjoyed some alcohol too and in the morning I fucked her one more time and came on her face.

[Ali Katt]

1. How do these escorts, or working girls, deal with the fact that ANYBODY can walk through their door? I mean, the guy could be a psycho or even a rapist or just downright unattractive.
Call me a cunt if you want, but it's not my concern. Prossies are paid generously, sometimes for doing very little, all know the risks before going on the game and despite what people think I'm sure the ones forced into are in the minority especially amongst British girls. How does a bailiff deal with the fact he\she doesn't know whose behind the door or what about the police and they earn a tenth of what the average prossie earns?
2. What happens if the guy gets aggressive, refuses to pay and attempts to rape the girl? Where is the security for girls that work from agencies? I watched a mini documentary about escorting and one escort said she was raped on two occasions. I felt so angry inside.....
As above

Now these are some of my own questions, simply because I'm new to escorting:

1. Do you punters ever wonder about the possible risks of incalls? I've always left my valuables at home before venturing to an incall. The only items I take is obviously the money and my phone. Do you ever wonder when you knock on her door and she takes you to the bedroom, you pay the cash, she then tells you to undress and goes to another room to put the money away or something, but in the next room there's like 5 guys waiting to rob you and leave you for dead? No matter how 'brave' you are, it's always a possibility right?
See established prossies, avoid shit areas, avoid junkies, use your spidey sense, don't get left in a room without the girl.

2. What happens during long encounters? Like 3-5 hours or even an overnight stay? How do you comfortably pass the long hours with a stranger?
Most men have sex or sex activity multiple times and chat abit, some go for dinner or watch TV or a film. If it's someone they know, enjoy the company of why not? Personally, I think men who see agirl for an allnighter or 4 hour booking without meeting her first are fucking stupid or naive just because it appears cheaper per hour, they can actually lose more financially.

[jcdmj12]

1. How do these escorts, or working girls, deal with the fact that ANYBODY can walk through their door? I mean, the guy could be a psycho or even a rapist or just downright unattractive.

I don't know. I'm not a prostitute. Not something I'd do personally, but then I couldn't cope with working in a shop either (I'd get fired/arrested for punching the idiots you have to deal with).

2. What happens if the guy gets aggressive, refuses to pay and attempts to rape the girl? Where is the security for girls that work from agencies? I watched a mini documentary about escorting and one escort said she was raped on two occasions. I felt so angry inside.....

The sensible ones have security arrangements. Saafe tells them all about that. The non-sensible ones don't, until somethnig goes wrong, and they they either quit, or get security arrangements.


Now these are some of my own questions, simply because I'm new to escorting:

1. Do you punters ever wonder about the possible risks of incalls? I've always left my valuables at home before venturing to an incall. The only items I take is obviously the money and my phone. Do you ever wonder when you knock on her door and she takes you to the bedroom, you pay the cash, she then tells you to undress and goes to another room to put the money away or something, but in the next room there's like 5 guys waiting to rob you and leave you for dead? No matter how 'brave' you are, it's always a possibility right?

Not really.  Buying drugs as a youf was far dodgier, and I only got done over a couple of times then, never seriously.  Resources like UKP take a lot of this kind of risk out of things. You also develop a nose for dodgy situations with experience.

2. What happens during long encounters? Like 3-5 hours or even an overnight stay? How do you comfortably pass the long hours with a stranger?

I dunno about you, but sex/sexually related activities is my preference.  If you don't limit yourself just to the old in-out, you can fill up a lot of time with a suitable imaginative prossie.  You could always try talking to them, I suppose, but I often regret that.  3 hours is my upper limit.

[James999]

What's with all the "haha" shit, or are you just trying to tout your "agency"

… haha!

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[cueball]

  And of course, all the more reason to go to a well-known and respected agency!

Well sugarbabes...
I found your post all heart warming and reassuring for the wg's until I read the above, then the cynic in me thought "oh bollox, they're trying to plug their bloody agency"

[James999]

And of course, all the more reason to go to a well-known and respected agency!

Good Advice, what's your VAT registration number?

[vt]

Good Advice, what's your VAT registration number?

Haha!! 

[smiths]

How the girls deal with that first question is a tricky one, but mostly it’s all down to experience and having a good back up plan.  None of the girls we work with and represent are without contingencies believe me… Fortunately aggressive incidents are incredibly few and far between and there are support networks in place that allow agencies and independent girls to identify and block/blacklist punters all over the globe; granted, this could be made better, but it’s a long and arduous process.

As far as punters worrying about incidents in incall bookings, this is mostly unfounded when it comes to evidence.  These are usually very desperate or “controlled” girls that perpetrate the sort of actions you mention.  And of course, all the more reason to go to a well-known and respected agency!

I hope your concerns don’t put you off what is ordinarily a very exciting and appealing hobby for both punter and WG… haha!

There is NO reason for me to punt through an Agency, all they do is ensure the price i pay is more than i pay for Indies in the same areas so the pimp gets his or her cut. In London they are thieving pricks in my opinion.

[NelsonH]

Chatting to a nice local WG once, she told me that whilst shopping, some scrote tried to steal her bag.
"He thought I was a stupid blonde not a savy working-girl", she said.

"What did you do", I asked.
"I'm self-defence trained and broke two of his fingers", came the reply.

Another time I asked a girl "how do you keep so fit?".
"kick-boxing", she said.

[Levenik]

In my opinion, these WG's make enough money to not bother about robbing or scamming. If you go with 10K cash then there are 99% chances that she will try to ease the load, and it's not a matter that a WG will rob you as it is that anyone will try to do so. Stay safe don't carry a lot of valuables with you when punting and ALWAYS wear a rubber i.e. avoid bareback cunts !

[azrael]

This is the second post you posted, and each one gets weirder. i have two questions 1) are you a wg? 2) or are you looking to set up an escort agency?

[James999]

Another time I asked a girl "how do you keep so fit?".
"kick-boxing", she said.

When a pro$$ie says kick boxing she means kicking her Pimps X box to get him to go down the off licence for a few more cans, tha amount of Fat pro$$ies that also claim they do kick boxing is a joke, they get out of breath climing onto the bed 

[CBPaul]

I'm not expecting answers from you punters, maybe these questions might make you think. I've done a lot of reading about escorts but there are still questions that have not been answered.

1. How do these escorts, or working girls, deal with the fact that ANYBODY can walk through their door? I mean, the guy could be a psycho or even a rapist or just downright unattractive.

2. What happens if the guy gets aggressive, refuses to pay and attempts to rape the girl? Where is the security for girls that work from agencies? I watched a mini documentary about escorting and one escort said she was raped on two occasions. I felt so angry inside.....

Why on earth would a punter be concerned with any of this unless of course he considers himself a danger or a man moose  Assuming (hoping) the OP doesn't, it's a case of over thinking things. I concentrate on myself, hygiene, being respectful etc and getting the best out of my punt.

Now these are some of my own questions, simply because I'm new to escorting:

1. Do you punters ever wonder about the possible risks of incalls? I've always left my valuables at home before venturing to an incall. The only items I take is obviously the money and my phone. Do you ever wonder when you knock on her door and she takes you to the bedroom, you pay the cash, she then tells you to undress and goes to another room to put the money away or something, but in the next room there's like 5 guys waiting to rob you and leave you for dead? No matter how 'brave' you are, it's always a possibility right?

2. What happens during long encounters? Like 3-5 hours or even an overnight stay? How do you comfortably pass the long hours with a stranger?

Instances of punters being robbed and beaten are very rare so no I don't worry about it but I do keep my wits about me. As for long bookings, don't do it with a stranger, book an hour at most first to see if you'll be likely to spend hours watching some crappy TV channel in total silence in an ice cold atmosphere - personally I can stay at home and do that for free 

Looking at some of the OP's questions, are you sure punting is the right thing for you, you should spend time enjoying the activities, not worrying about things.

Also have you been here before ? Just got a funny feeling I've read this stuff before and typed the same replies.

[Jimmyredcab]

I'm not expecting answers from you punters, maybe these questions might make you think. I've done a lot of reading about escorts but there are still questions that have not been answered.

1. How do these escorts, or working girls, deal with the fact that ANYBODY can walk through their door? I mean, the guy could be a psycho or even a rapist or just downright unattractive.

2. What happens if the guy gets aggressive, refuses to pay and attempts to rape the girl? Where is the security for girls that work from agencies? I watched a mini documentary about escorting and one escort said she was raped on two occasions. I felt so angry inside.....

Girls will sometimes say that they have some sort of security in place, she may actually have none or she may have her pimp sitting in the next room, if you attempt to rape or rob her you could come face to face with Sergei holding a baseball bat.

Prostitution is a dangerous business, that is why they earn more than a brain surgeon.   

[smiths]

Why on earth would a punter be concerned with any of this unless of course he considers himself a danger or a man moose  Assuming (hoping) the OP doesn't, it's a case of over thinking things. I concentrate on myself, hygiene, being respectful etc and getting the best out of my punt.

Instances of punters being robbed and beaten are very rare so no I don't worry about it but I do keep my wits about me. As for long bookings, don't do it with a stranger, book an hour at most first to see if you'll be likely to spend hours watching some crappy TV channel in total silence in an ice cold atmosphere - personally I can stay at home and do that for free 

Looking at some of the OP's questions, are you sure punting is the right thing for you, you should spend time enjoying the activities, not worrying about things.

Also have you been here before ? Just got a funny feeling I've read this stuff before and typed the same replies.

Good post. Having read punting forums for years now you are right that reported robberies/being attacked is a rare occurence. Obviously the problem is it COULD happen the next time you punt so taking as little of value is a wise thing to do in my view.

[Riyjay13]

Ref. the risks to punters.

All the comments above about risk are spot on. I was once trapped in a bedroom by the pimp of a girl who'd taken flight down the stairs with my money in hand. I knew something was wrong when I heard the sound of the door latch. I kept my clothes on and stood up while I awaited the bloke who, as it turned out, was considerably shorter than me. I cut my loses with the money I'd given the girl and made it clear to the chap that I would be leaving without parting with any more of my hard earned cash.

The lesson learnt was - don't go back to a house with a street girl (this was before the days of the internet).

To be honest, that experience made me as careful as you can be to check out the punt before hand with as much info as you can obtain. AW isn't much good for this, but this forum and other websites are. This is particularly important to me as I have a fetish for being tied up, bound, gagged, spanked, whipped and generally tormented by a rather fabulous Mistress that I've recently started seeing. Tucking your phone and car key in to your shoe and hiding it with a pushed in sock will do you no good whatsoever while you're strapped to a bondage table with a gas mask around your face if the girl in question decided to 'do one' with your valuables that you left behind in the car.

It'll never be risk free, but at least use what info is available to be as safe as possible and have a stress-free punt.

[smiths]

Ref. the risks to punters.

All the comments above about risk are spot on. I was once trapped in a bedroom by the pimp of a girl who'd taken flight down the stairs with my money in hand. I knew something was wrong when I heard the sound of the door latch. I kept my clothes on and stood up while I awaited the bloke who, as it turned out, was considerably shorter than me. I cut my loses with the money I'd given the girl and made it clear to the chap that I would be leaving without parting with any more of my hard earned cash.

The lesson learnt was - don't go back to a house with a street girl (this was before the days of the internet).

To be honest, that experience made me as careful as you can be to check out the punt before hand with as much info as you can obtain. AW isn't much good for this, but this forum and other websites are. This is particularly important to me as I have a fetish for being tied up, bound, gagged, spanked, whipped and generally tormented by a rather fabulous Mistress that I've recently started seeing. Tucking your phone and car key in to your shoe and hiding it with a pushed in sock will do you no good whatsoever while you're strapped to a bondage table with a gas mask around your face if the girl in question decided to 'do one' with your valuables that you left behind in the car.

It'll never be risk free, but at least use what info is available to be as safe as possible and have a stress-free punt.

Yes in that scenario you really have to be careful. I wouldnt let a woman i love tie me up let alone a WG, not that its my bag anyway. The other worry i would have is what if something happened to the woman while i was tied up like an accident or sudden illness, chances are nothing would happen but that chance however small would put me off. Obviously shows why it wouldnt be for me.

[west8]

Girls will sometimes say that they have some sort of security in place, she may actually have none or she may have her pimp sitting in the next room, if you attempt to rape or rob her you could come face to face with Sergei holding a baseball bat.

Prostitution is a dangerous business, that is why they earn more than a brain surgeon.   

Last night I met a girl who is very, very new (unreviewed on UKP too). When I asked her why it was so extraordinarily quiet in her flat, she told me it was because she lives with only her cat for company.

I told her that was a sweet but naive thing to tell a complete stranger.

She then told me not to be duly concerned as she had security in place.

When she showed me the security I could see why she felt so confident.

Smart girl ...

[gentlemantoyou]

@west8 what was the security?!

[Tjkooker]

@west8 what was the security?!

Whatever answer I'd take it with a pinch of salt

[charming_red]

@west8 what was the security?!

He won't tell you. Our westie likes his mind games. He'll hold it against you making him feel superior to you in his fantasy world of greater knowledge and closeness to WGs than other punters.

[azrael]

@west8 what was the security?!

you'll never get a straight answer 

[superchamp]

My guesses are a) a baseball bat under the bed, b) a tazer under the bed, c) a revolver under the bed, d) an RPG under the bed e) an imaginary friend under the bed.

[socks]

My guesses are a) a baseball bat under the bed, b) a tazer under the bed, c) a revolver under the bed, d) an RPG under the bed e) an imaginary friend under the bed.

f) a really cocky, smug, aggressive, annoying, trolling, outwardly tough, online persona

[sarahjayneleeds]

Last night I met a girl who is very, very new (unreviewed on UKP too). When I asked her why it was so extraordinarily quiet in her flat, she told me it was because she lives with only her cat for company.

I know it wasn't a cat it was a tiger wasn't it 

Seriously though not such a smart girl really if she really did tell/ show you.  I hope you told her how naive that was too.

[gentlemantoyou]

I fucked up real bad on yesterday's punt

[Happyjose]

I fucked up real bad on yesterday's punt

Predictable. Do tell.......

[west8]

I'm not expecting answers from you punters, maybe these questions might make you think. I've done a lot of reading about escorts but there are still questions that have not been answered.

1. How do these escorts, or working girls, deal with the fact that ANYBODY can walk through their door? I mean, the guy could be a psycho or even a rapist or just downright unattractive.

2. What happens if the guy gets aggressive, refuses to pay and attempts to rape the girl? Where is the security for girls that work from agencies? I watched a mini documentary about escorting and one escort said she was raped on two occasions. I felt so angry inside.....

1. Money can often cloud the judgment of even the most sensible of girls. For others, the risk/reward ratio is sufficiently low to justify.
2. It happens, but again risk/reward ratio. I'm not sure if there has even been a study to accurately asses whether WGs are at greater risk of being raped than non-WGs.

Now these are some of my own questions, simply because I'm new to escorting:

1. Do you punters ever wonder about the possible risks of incalls? I've always left my valuables at home before venturing to an incall. The only items I take is obviously the money and my phone. Do you ever wonder when you knock on her door and she takes you to the bedroom, you pay the cash, she then tells you to undress and goes to another room to put the money away or something, but in the next room there's like 5 guys waiting to rob you and leave you for dead? No matter how 'brave' you are, it's always a possibility right?

2. What happens during long encounters? Like 3-5 hours or even an overnight stay? How do you comfortably pass the long hours with a stranger?

1. Nope. Never heard of that happening either. Realistically, are 2/3/4/5 guys going to assault you - risking a prison sentence in so doing - for £100 or £200?
2. After the first 30 minutes with a new girl it's easy to gauge your compatibility. If there's chemistry, you stay. If not, you don't.

Sometimes that chemistry can be more exhilarating than the sex part itself.

[Bobbob84]

She then told me not to be duly concerned as she had security in place.

When she showed me the security I could see why she felt so confident.

It was a cock wasn't it? 
That's why you're not telling.