You are wide of the mark somewhat, Sam.
After arriving back home in London and getting some shut eye, I messaged Porsha that evening simply to check she was okay. I had made the decision whilst in Kent that it was done and dusted. To be honest, I should have walked when I arrvied at the hotel and she told me she was ‘busy’. But I liked the girl as I made clear in my opening statement.
I think the issue was that Porsha wanted more than I could give. I told her that from day one. Her constant demands to be ‘put first’ are what first irked me somewhat, but I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt. That was clearly my mistake. She simply reacts badly to kindness.
An early example being the ‘Taste London’ food festival. Porsha asked me to take her and I agreed. But then it transpired that tickets had to be booked online and would be sent to the billing address of the card holder – no chance. There was no option to print online or collect at the venue. I told Porsha that and suggested she book the tickets. I got an earful for that and a major sulk for a few days as she felt I should have ‘put her first’. Subsequent evenings out were a million miles from the ‘paid’ evenings in, I can tell you that.
Let me clarify the jacuzzi BB part a little:
I had arrived at Porsha’s apartment at around 10pm and we were continually distracted through the evening as my phone kept ringing. So I switched it off and we were drinking and talking. At around 2am, my other phone started ringing – constantly. As it was one of my friends, I answered it and apologised to Porsha that I needed to talk with him about a foreign trip the following day. After 15 minutes on the phone, Porsha vanished with our glasses into the bathroom. About 10 minutes later, profusely apologising for the interruption, I joined her in the jacuzzi.
There was no discussion of ‘should we/shouldn’t we’. It was 100% spontaneous and we got seriously carried away – both in the jacuzzi and then in the bedroom. I do not blame Porsha for that. I should have insisted on protection. I freely admit it.
In terms of EAS/whatever, I have –never- stuck to a single girl in my entire punting career. Moreover, as my Adultwork feedback clearly demonstrates, I prefer variety to returning to the same girl. I simply don’t ‘do’ EAS and have no qualms with being in a ‘relationship’ with a WG. I couldn’t care less how many guys she might have fucked that day. I’m not the jealous/envious/possessive type and never have been.
I fear, however, that Porsha might be. That said, I never promised her more than I was willing to give.
You might want to consider a career change Jimmy. It would appear you know more about legal manoeuvre than Mishcon de Reya. Any money hungry solicitor will gladly tangle up a litigant for years given sufficient financial motive to do so.