Missing the signs

[mh]

So last night I was watching TV with my missus. After one episode of the thing finished I said "shall we get a drink and watch the next part right away?", but she said no, another time. She started making ready to go to bed, much earlier than usual but we did both have an early start today.

So I says, "OK, I'll watch this other thing instead". She paused briefly and then carried on.

About 20 minutes later the penny dropped for me - she wanted a fuck! Why didn't she say something? Anything...

I sighed to myself and carried on watching my show because with the excellent punt I'd had a couple of days earlier with a hot fittie (review to follow when i have more) I wasn't in any desperate rush for a late night fumble and me wanking myself off after she'd come.

So, yes, I was dumb and missed the signs, but she also missed out through (a) not making it clear she was in the mood for once and (b) so very rarely wanting a fuck that I make my own plans for that...

 

[PilotMan]

If only OH's had green lights 

[mh]

If only OH's had green lights 

Nice idea, but could you trust them any more than the AW ones? Ghosted by your OH when you try to book… 

[PilotMan]

Nice idea, but could you trust them any more than the AW ones? Ghosted by your OH when you try to book… 

Maybe the only time when you actually hope for a B&S 

[Vince]

So last night I was watching TV with my missus. After one episode of the thing finished I said "shall we get a drink and watch the next part right away?", but she said no, another time. She started making ready to go to bed, much earlier than usual but we did both have an early start today.

So I says, "OK, I'll watch this other thing instead". She paused briefly and then carried on.

About 20 minutes later the penny dropped for me - she wanted a fuck! Why didn't she say something? Anything...

I sighed to myself and carried on watching my show because with the excellent punt I'd had a couple of days earlier with a hot fittie (review to follow when i have more) I wasn't in any desperate rush for a late night fumble and me wanking myself off after she'd come.

So, yes, I was dumb and missed the signs, but she also missed out through (a) not making it clear she was in the mood for once and (b) so very rarely wanting a fuck that I make my own plans for that...

 

My first girlfriend, she was such a catch that I took things super slow. I was punching up 3 weight classes and couldn't imagine "THIS woman wants MY pale worm inside of her?!"
6 weeks in - I am wining and dining her, excursions, gifts, deep philosophical calls into the wee hours...
We finally had sex when we went to a hotel together - I didn't bring condoms because I thought that would be presumptuous!
I went to bed after taking a shower and when I noticed she's naked under the sheets - it hit me!

It has been my experience that even rather libidinous women aren't overt about their intentions, except for every now and then.

[mh]

Maybe the only time when you actually hope for a B&S 

Now that really would be the definition of "hope over expectation"... 

[mh]

We finally had sex when we went to a hotel together - I didn't bring condoms because I thought that would be presumptuous!

Good god, man! Knowing you'd be sharing a bed with a hot girlfriend of some 6 weeks and you didn't, er, "come prepared". 

When I was in my 'dating' years I had a condom in my jacket pocket whether I thought I was in line for a lucky break or (as was more usual) not...

[Stevelondon]

Yep…….. always carry a condom my friends.
Always was prepared when in my youth.

It was in those formative years I found out condoms had “use before” dates. 

[mh]

Yep…….. always carry a condom my friends.
Always was prepared when in my youth.

It was in those formative years I found out condoms had “use before” dates. 

It was more wear on the packaging being an issue for me, after I once opened one to find a dry, crispy bit of old latex due to a small tear where the corner had folded over. I put them in an outer bag after that to keep it totally flat.

[shagmore]

Know what you mean with missing the signs,I have never been one for knowing when a lass is hot to trot.
Was always on the look out but couldn't score in my earlier years.
Remember one lass, very hot, liked her to hell and flirted with her, saw her about 5 years afterwards, she recognised me, came over to say hi, and said I really fancied you, was expecting you to ask me out 
If only I had picked up on it

[Doc Holliday]

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[RyanM92]

I sighed to myself and carried on watching my show because with the excellent punt I'd had a couple of days earlier with a hot fittie (review to follow when i have more) I wasn't in any desperate rush for a late night fumble and me wanking myself off after she'd come.

This is literally the situation I'm currently in OP.

There has been times more recently when I've actually picked up the signs that the OH wants to fuck. However, I normally plan my punts in-advance and the thought of woman that's going to treat my cock like it's the last one on earth and potentially drain my balls with her mouth that week is WAY more appealing than the OH just about going past the tip and a lacklustre cowgirl I just end up dismissing them.

Which got me thinking that there are some men that will go their whole life without knowing what it feels like to look down and see a hottie deepthroating you and taking her in doggy with a crazy hip to waist ratio etc. 

[Stevelondon]

This is literally the situation I'm currently in OP.

There has been times more recently when I've actually picked up the signs that the OH wants to fuck. However, I normally plan my punts in-advance and the thought of woman that's going to treat my cock like it's the last one on earth and potentially drain my balls with her mouth that week is WAY more appealing than the OH just about going past the tip and a lacklustre cowgirl I just end up dismissing them.

Which got me thinking that there are some men that will go their whole life without knowing what it feels like to look down and see a hottie deepthroating you and taking her in doggy with a crazy hip to waist ratio etc. 

Just as there will be some men looking down at that hottie and fucking that girl with the crazy hip to waist ratio……. For free. 🤷🏼

Such is life.

[RyanM92]

Just as there will be some men looking down at that hottie and fucking that girl with the crazy hip to waist ratio……. For free. 🤷🏼

Such is life.

Well that goes without saying. I was more mentioning the average joe who doesn’t get to experience it.

Whether it’s free or you’re paying for it doesn’t matter much as the experience is the experience imo.

[shagmore]

Just as there will be some men looking down at that hottie and fucking that girl with the crazy hip to waist ratio……. For free. 🤷🏼

Such is life.

And I must say i was the first camp in my previous 6yr relationship,  now in the latter and my God it is absolutely amazing,  and all for free. Happy days

[mh]

And I must say i was the first camp in my previous 6yr relationship,  now in the latter and my God it is absolutely amazing,  and all for free. Happy days

So are you saying you now get to ... shag more?

[mh]

This is literally the situation I'm currently in OP.

Lordy I remember the early days with my OH to be, experimenting with skills, techniques and positions, choosing sexy lingerie together, reading books on sex together, watching porn together...

It wasn't the wedding ring that killed it, it was having kids. No sex to speak of for perhaps a decade and a half... It took a lot for me to start punting and I am nearing the end of that career too, I think. Glad I did it but would have preferred home dining, for free.

[RyanM92]

Lordy I remember the early days with my OH to be, experimenting with skills, techniques and positions, choosing sexy lingerie together, reading books on sex together, watching porn together...

It wasn't the wedding ring that killed it, it was having kids. No sex to speak of for perhaps a decade and a half... It took a lot for me to start punting and I am nearing the end of that career too, I think. Glad I did it but would have preferred home dining, for free.

Oh don’t get me wrong the early days with the OH was fun! Similar to the things you mentioned there. Haven’t had any kids yet but looking to in the next 2 years.

It’s just after 4 years the flame dies a little bit and as I had a few punts before marriage (most of them pretty bad) the temptation started creeping back in. Walking around Knightsbridge area with your mrs in the summer and you just see the talent of WGs walking about.  I remember a work colleague saying “there is nothing better than some new pussy!” and he isn’t wrong. Once you take a dip it’s hard to go back to the old not saying it can’t be done.

[Vince]

To me, they both have their place.

OH
+ Emotional connection
+ Free
+ Safe
- "I am a feminist so I don't do that"
- Depreciating asset

WG
+ Pussy variety
+ Pick any age, any shape, any race
+ Other than childbearing, everything's on the menu
- Daily wage gone in one hour
- Pimps
- VD's
- Indiscretion

The correct answer is:
Have the option.

[mh]

Well a week is a long time in fuckaboutery. Let's just say it was a different story 7 days later. 

[Frostingthebowl]

Just as there will be some men looking down at that hottie and fucking that girl with the crazy hip to waist ratio……. For free. 🤷🏼

Such is life.

Nothing is ever free lol 🤣