Lip service

[zezima56]

First off I don’t know if this is the right place for this post but I couldn’t find any other suitable place

I know it’s just lip service but I keep getting “you’re handsome” “your hair is so nice” “you have nice features” etc unprovoked when I see these girls

I’ve been walking around the past 15 years as if I’m the ugliest person on the planet, so I don’t really believe them

My question is does anyone else get this unprovoked? My guess is they just wanna set up the next punt, gain a regular

I always go self pity mode and deny it and they start pointing out each feature etc

I’m not making this to big myself up I know I’m ugly, just wanna know is this a normal thing, I’ve never been told by a normal woman that I’m handsome etc

I’ve even asked some of them after the punt has ended that if what they said was just work talk or genuine and they swear they are being serious. Even one who was touring so I wasn’t going to be a repeat customer anyway

So my question is does anyone else you guys get this unprovoked from working girls too? Is it a normal thing? Unprovoked being a big part as it’s not like we’re flirting and I’m calling them pretty and they’re returning the favour..

I know it’s such a loser thing to ask and thinks about but it’s weird having never been complimented in my life to being complimented by these girls

[RandomGuy99]

It's about making you feel good about yourself. It's all part of the service. Don't overthink it and enjoy it and then come back to reality.

[Jonestown]

You mean, “Oh you’re so handsome, and such a big wallet too” ?

[zezima56]

You mean, “Oh you’re so handsome, and such a big wallet too” ?

Yeah you’re right idk why I started overthinking it

[mr.bluesky]

A certain Chinese lady in Coventry always say's " strong boy" after she has made you cum 

[Andywb]

A certain Chinese lady in Coventry always say's " strong boy" after she has made you cum 

Or tiger man 

[koshkaj]

OP, this is something i have often wondered myself. my default mode is that it is all just lip service, but i have difficulty keeping the disbelief off my face, which usually leads to the SP asking if i do not believe her, and quite a few get offended when i answer in the negative as i assume they say the same thing to everyone else if that makes you feel like you are a loser, you are in good company

An SP told me once that an unprompted compliment from an SP is likely to be genuine. If you give her RO and she compliments you on it, she means it. if you ask her first, she does not. if she thinks you are shit at RO, she won't say anything about it at all, et cetera. Others i have asked, seem to be in agreement with this.

Escorts are providing a service, and like most service providers they want repeat business, especially if you are a good customer, so why would they not attempt to entice you back with some honeyed words?

That aside, handsomeness/beauty is in the eye of the beholder. you are doing yourself no favours by going into self pity mode whether that is inside or outside punting. the vast majority of SPs do not care about your looks, they just want you to turn up and leave on time, pay promptly, don't stink and clean your arse. Take that from someone who is definitely not a 10, but is a fantastic 5

[zezima56]

OP, this is something i have often wondered myself. my default mode is that it is all just lip service, but i have difficulty keeping the disbelief off my face, which usually leads to the SP asking if i do not believe her, and quite a few get offended when i answer in the negative as i assume they say the same thing to everyone else if that makes you feel like you are a loser, you are in good company

An SP told me once that an unprompted compliment from an SP is likely to be genuine. If you give her RO and she compliments you on it, she means it. if you ask her first, she does not. if she thinks you are shit at RO, she won't say anything about it at all, et cetera. Others i have asked, seem to be in agreement with this.

Escorts are providing a service, and like most service providers they want repeat business, especially if you are a good customer, so why would they not attempt to entice you back with some honeyed words?

That aside, handsomeness/beauty is in the eye of the beholder. you are doing yourself no favours by going into self pity mode whether that is inside or outside punting. the vast majority of SPs do not care about your looks, they just want you to turn up and leave on time, pay promptly, don't stink and clean your arse. Take that from someone who is definitely not a 10, but is a fantastic 5

the last chinese girl i saw said i have nice features and that our baby together would look so cute, i got so scared i made sure i didnt nut

but yeah it seems many guys get unprovoked compliments on their appearance so probably just a thing to get repeat customers, thought i was special for a sec lol

[Paul9144]

First off I don’t know if this is the right place for this post but I couldn’t find any other suitable place

I know it’s just lip service but I keep getting “you’re handsome” “your hair is so nice” “you have nice features” etc unprovoked when I see these girls

I’ve been walking around the past 15 years as if I’m the ugliest person on the planet, so I don’t really believe them

My question is does anyone else get this unprovoked? My guess is they just wanna set up the next punt, gain a regular

I always go self pity mode and deny it and they start pointing out each feature etc

I’m not making this to big myself up I know I’m ugly, just wanna know is this a normal thing, I’ve never been told by a normal woman that I’m handsome etc

I’ve even asked some of them after the punt has ended that if what they said was just work talk or genuine and they swear they are being serious. Even one who was touring so I wasn’t going to be a repeat customer anyway

So my question is does anyone else you guys get this unprovoked from working girls too? Is it a normal thing? Unprovoked being a big part as it’s not like we’re flirting and I’m calling them pretty and they’re returning the favour..

I know it’s such a loser thing to ask and thinks about but it’s weird having never been complimented in my life to being complimented by these girls

As you've mentioned. SP's keep saying to you that you're handsome, then you obviously are handsome.

I've been punting for many years. I can confirm that I certainly don't get called handsome. I do get compliments on other things such as my cock size and RO skills but certainly not my looks, which I'm perfectly ok and comfortable with it because it's reality and it's the truth that I'm not the greatest of looking guys out there. For me, I tend to focus and work on things that I can control, such as my fitness, being dressed smart/well presented on bookings etc. So, in summary. Don't be too concerned about your looks.

you are doing yourself no favours by going into self pity mode whether that is inside or outside punting. the vast majority of SPs do not care about your looks, they just want you to turn up and leave on time, pay promptly, don't stink and clean your arse. Take that from someone who is definitely not a 10, but is a fantastic 5

Totally agree with this

[Smeagol.FX]

I know it’s such a loser thing to ask and thinks about but it’s weird having never been complimented in my life to being complimented by these girls

I have some girls talk about my physique unprompted. A particularly active one really went into detail about my legs for example. They talk size. But none of the girls I’ve seen have ever mentioned my face unprovoked so unasked compliments being more “real” tracks for me .

You might just be a handsome fella. I say take those compliments with you, doesn’t have to be deep and cherished but hopefully you can start seeing yourself just that little better.

[Vince]

First off I don’t know if this is the right place for this post but I couldn’t find any other suitable place

I know it’s just lip service but I keep getting “you’re handsome” “your hair is so nice” “you have nice features” etc unprovoked when I see these girls

I’ve been walking around the past 15 years as if I’m the ugliest person on the planet, so I don’t really believe them

My question is does anyone else get this unprovoked? My guess is they just wanna set up the next punt, gain a regular

I always go self pity mode and deny it and they start pointing out each feature etc

I’m not making this to big myself up I know I’m ugly, just wanna know is this a normal thing, I’ve never been told by a normal woman that I’m handsome etc

I’ve even asked some of them after the punt has ended that if what they said was just work talk or genuine and they swear they are being serious. Even one who was touring so I wasn’t going to be a repeat customer anyway

So my question is does anyone else you guys get this unprovoked from working girls too? Is it a normal thing? Unprovoked being a big part as it’s not like we’re flirting and I’m calling them pretty and they’re returning the favour..

I know it’s such a loser thing to ask and thinks about but it’s weird having never been complimented in my life to being complimented by these girls

1. Of course this is part of the service. Maybe they feel your insecurity and bump you up - a lot of this punting thing is about ego (at least for me)
2. That being said, it's very possible that women may find you attractive. They are the most mysterious things! I think all men are ugly and women must be mad for wanting to spend naked time with us
3. I am short, fat, hairy, not-rich, not-funny or confident, etc... Most women don't give me the light of day but some women have thought I am attractive enough for a date and not for lack of more "sexy" suitors - I think they are just not visually stimulated like us and find beauty in things that are hard to quantify

[Stevelondon]

I’ve always been one of them blokes reliant on personality to be honest. I’m certainly no stunner, more yiur average Joe I suppose.
But I’ve done alright over the years in civvy street. Confidence don’t you know. 😂

Is it just me or is it mostly the orientals who pay these compliments 🤷🏼

As someone said. I’ve been told I’m good at licking etc.
But it’s usually some massage girl who might say things like,
“Oh you very good, stay long time”
“Big boy”

Water off a ducks back 

[Vince]

I would even try to leverage this.
Just immerse yourself and let her tell you how great you are.
Even if someone has low self esteem and rejects flattery - the act of hearing this is likely to have a boosting effect.
Like a brute-force hypnosis.

Like how it's important to finish the day thinking about things you have achieved and things your are pleased and thankful for (even small things like "I managed to put just the right amount of butter on my toast and it was decadent but not greasy").

Like how forcing a smile results in measurable instant improvement in mood markers.

[Nomerzypuntr]

Some do for purpose others don’t they mean it actually.
I have long dark thick curly hair, usually women (SP, civvies) say it’s beautiful, how you mange it, coz it’s natural.
My teeth is too white, I used braces before, so it’s well arranged n glowing, they ask what toothpaste I’m using.
I have skinny body, slim face features, some say have European face features. And no fat belly, only some decent ass I got, so dick looks big actually it’s normal size, but stills I get appreciation from SPs.
Before punts I eat some fruits, don’t smoke drink vaping, so no bad breaths. Most of them say I speak good English.

Maybe it’s Lip Service don’t blame them, l usually enjoy meets with AW SPs, till now my 2026 punts are great. Honestly I’m very ugly man by appearance, below average 

[myothernameis]

Chinese girls are always telling me, I have a really big cock, never seen one a big as mine 

[RyanM92]

I do remember meeting an SP for the first time and she mentioned twice to me that I was handsome within that punt. However, I saw her twice after that and she never mentioned it ever again.. so could have been looking for repeat business.

But I did have one interesting encounter with an SP where we was fucking in doggy and after I came and pulled out.. she said "ohh thank you!" whilst being all flustered and I replied "shouldn't I be the one thanking you?" to which she replied "no.. you made me come because your dick is so hard!" and I felt like this is something an SP doesn't need to say unless it was true. So that one did boost my ego a lot and left that hotel feeling 10 feet tall! 

[Watts.E.Dunn]

I bet these Chinese girls arent part of SAFFE, or on not allowed either!..

[Doc Holliday]

Surely, as a man, you know by looking in a mirror if you are physically attractive?

As such you will then know whether comments from SPs are genuine or not? Or am I missing something?

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Surely, as a man, you know by looking in a mirror if you are physically attractive?

As such you will then know whether comments from SPs are genuine or not? Or am I missing something?

I think that depends upon the levels of self confidence that an individual has.

[Doc Holliday]

I think that depends upon the levels of self confidence that an individual has.

I take your point, but must surely apply to just a small number?

[Vince]

Surely, as a man, you know by looking in a mirror if you are physically attractive?

As such you will then know whether comments from SPs are genuine or not? Or am I missing something?

From my experience, the only thing that shows in a mirror that women consistently find attractive is height.
I know obesity, beastly hair, skin problems can get you points off but nothing you can't make back up with the "intangibles".

Face-wise, just put thick glasses, learn a few big words and sell yourself as a nerd - definitely a market for it!

[koshkaj]

Face-wise, just put thick glasses, learn a few big words and sell yourself as a nerd - definitely a market for it!

Ssssh. That's my MO.