Your dick's not broken, you watch too much porn.

[Juno]

What would be the one piece of advice you would give men who are addicted to porn?

I'd like to help some people, but I'm not sure how. It's not an easy topic, understandably, and they'd feel too vulnerable and exposed.

I'm hoping a community of men will be the best place for advice.

Thank you

[Andywb]

This recent story may provide some pointers:

BBC News - How a former GB Olympian curbed his porn problem - and the signs and steps to recovery
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Who are the people you want to help by the way? Is this why you joined UKP?

[Dark Vader]

I'm hoping a community of men will be the best place for advice.

Surely this community of men is more concerned with the real thing. 

[Colston36]

This recent story may provide some pointers:

BBC News - How a former GB Olympian curbed his porn problem - and the signs and steps to recovery
External Link/Members Only

Who are the people you want to help by the way? Is this why you joined UKP?

This porn problem puzzles me. I was first aroused by pics of girls in swimsuits nigh on 80 years ago. This got me more and more keen on sex with real girls - my greatest pleasure ever since. I can't imagine why anyone can prefer photos or videos to the real thing.

[Vice Admiral]

What would be the one piece of advice you would give men who are addicted to porn?

I'd like to help some people, but I'm not sure how. It's not an easy topic, understandably, and they'd feel too vulnerable and exposed.

I'm hoping a community of men will be the best place for advice.

Thank you

I infer that you're asking for a friend? 

[Vice Admiral]

This porn problem puzzles me. I was first aroused by pics of girls in swimsuits nigh on 80 years ago. This got me more and more keen on sex with real girls - my greatest pleasure ever since. I can't imagine why anyone can prefer photos or videos to the real thing.

I agree.  I stay well clear (not least because I have an addictive / OCD personality). 

And it is of course hugely disruptive for the personal development of adolescent males.  A time-bomb, arguably.  See: www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=461657.msg4507603#msg4507603

[Juno]

This recent story may provide some pointers:

BBC News - How a former GB Olympian curbed his porn problem - and the signs and steps to recovery
External Link/Members Only

Who are the people you want to help by the way? Is this why you joined UKP?

Thank you for the article, that was really insightful. It's probably easier to send something like that than try a face to face approach.

They're unnamed close clients, though I joined UKP because I'm a nosey bastard  I figured might as well utilize the resources!

[Juno]

Surely this community of men is more concerned with the real thing. 

It's safe to assume half of you are dealing with it in fairness. It can't be coincidence that I just attract a lot of porn addicts   

It's hard to imagine it unless you see the signs over and over. Once you're that deep in porn, not even SWers can get you hard!

[Juno]

I infer that you're asking for a friend?

Yes, several friends 

[Juno]

This porn problem puzzles me. I was first aroused by pics of girls in swimsuits nigh on 80 years ago. This got me more and more keen on sex with real girls - my greatest pleasure ever since. I can't imagine why anyone can prefer photos or videos to the real thing.

I would consider yourself lucky that it puzzles you, it's ruining some mens' lives.

To clarify, I watch porn daily. It'll do in a pinch and it's free. It becomes a problem when you're spending hours a day scouring the sites.

[Juno]

I agree.  I stay well clear (not least because I have an addictive / OCD personality). 

And it is of course hugely disruptive for the personal development of adolescent males.  A time-bomb, arguably.  See: www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=461657.msg4507603#msg4507603

Very interesting. There's undoubtedly a link between it.

I wonder if there's a connection with stress levels in youths and sexual withdrawal. Sex is not optional for men. It is the only form of therapy that they haven't convinced each other is gay or weak or whatever else to be involved in.

My rule of thumb, if they've gone longer than 5 years, they've likely descended into insanity and best to be someone else's problem.

[daviemac]

They're unnamed close clients, though I joined UKP because I'm a nosey bastard  I figured might as well utilize the resources!

Not what the site's about mate, we are here so members can share experiences by way of reviews in order to be able to make informed decisions on sexual services.

You come across as either a journalist or researcher and neither last long, which are you?

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[Trex]

This porn problem puzzles me. I was first aroused by pics of girls in swimsuits nigh on 80 years ago. This got me more and more keen on sex with real girls - my greatest pleasure ever since. I can't imagine why anyone can prefer photos or videos to the real thing.

We have more porn than ever and it’s easy to access them now, we have a big 4k TV’s and iPad. That enhance watching porn now if you have those two.

[Norwichwood]

I'll have £10 on journalist please - even the name Juno sounds like the abbreviation of journalist

@Colston36 Colston36 - well done at still going strong at 89! To take the topic in a slightly different slight - do you ever go for cuddles with the 'girls' - for a SP its expensive - paying over £100 an hour for a cuddle is expensive. But I always thought there was a market for this - come round to my house for just a cuddle in PJs - £30 an hour or so....... £50 or so if we are both nude no sex - better than working in retail etc on minimum wage and can stay home in PJs no boss - I think for very elderly chaps who can't do fs this would be good. Even a massage place is over £100 ph if you want b2b.....

[Norwichwood]

We have more porn than ever and it’s easy to access them now, we have a big 4k TV’s and iPad. That enhance watching porn now if you have those two.

And yet you (I!) often see films online that you have seen before....

Prefer a nice massage now a days - with a happy ending.... Thai lady texted me today £160 nuru with owo he - not done nuru maybe need to tick it off the list.....

[Juno]

Not what the site's about mate, we are here so members can share experiences by way of reviews in order to be able to make informed decisions on sexual services.

You come across as either a journalist or researcher and neither last long, which are you?

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I'm neither buddy, just your everyday whore trying to get some advice.

[Juno]

I'll have £10 on journalist please - even the name Juno sounds like the abbreviation of journalist

@Colston36 Colston36 - well done at still going strong at 89! To take the topic in a slightly different slight - do you ever go for cuddles with the 'girls' - for a SP its expensive - paying over £100 an hour for a cuddle is expensive. But I always thought there was a market for this - come round to my house for just a cuddle in PJs - £30 an hour or so....... £50 or so if we are both nude no sex - better than working in retail etc on minimum wage and can stay home in PJs no boss - I think for very elderly chaps who can't do fs this would be good. Even a massage place is over £100 ph if you want b2b.....

I'll have the tenner then, as the name is just something ChatGPT suggested when I asked for "decent hooker names."

[Juno]

We have more porn than ever and it’s easy to access them now, we have a big 4k TV’s and iPad. That enhance watching porn now if you have those two.

Don't forget virtual reality porn. There's more extreme hardcore porn available now as well, which is hard to attain in reality.

I feel like I'm in an endless loop stuck between wanting to help and wanting to back away. There's very little that's harder than trying to compete with the fantasies, but it's also hard to just abandon them.

[Doc Holliday]

You come across as either a journalist or researcher and neither last long, which are you?

They're unnamed close clients, though I joined UKP because I'm a nosey bastard 

It can't be coincidence that I just attract a lot of porn addicts   

I would think she is a service provider?

[daviemac]

I'm neither buddy, just your everyday whore trying to get some advice.

So you're a service provider then?   

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Ive sent you a PM so you can reveal your working name.

[GreyDave]

This porn problem puzzles me. I was first aroused by pics of girls in swimsuits nigh on 80 years ago. This got me more and more keen on sex with real girls - my greatest pleasure ever since. I can't imagine why anyone can prefer photos or videos to the real thing.

   50 years ago for me 1st year of secondary school the class used our brief cases to cover our stiffies as we left our Maths lesson Miss Pxxxxxxxn a mid 20s freshly qualified teacher, we thought she was gorgeous.