Miss Adrianna- Tower Hill

[macdart]

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After a hiatus of the punting scene due to being back in a relationship, which has now ended. I decided to come back with a visit to this well reviewed girl.
I was a little hesitant as people have mentioned how hard she is to get hold of. But I tried my luck and recieved a response about half hour later.
A time was agreed for a few days time for a 1 hour booking. A "look forward to meeting you" message from myself was given a thumbs up from her.
So the day comes and I excitedly travel up to the big smoke looking forward to getting my face in between them big knockers.
I get to the pub on the corner of the road 30mins before the booking and send a WhatsApp letting her know I'm here.
10mins later I recieved a message saying that she wasn't at the hotel and wasn't going to be there for at least another hour or so, when she had a couple of hours booking with someone. She said as I hadn't confirmed she thought I wasn't showing up.
Now in our first exchange of texts she never mentioned about having to confirm otherwise I would've.
She was apologetic and offered another times lot. But I was unable to do so due to work.
I then asked about other possible dates to meet and radio silence. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and left it a few days and messaged again. Once again no response at all.
I don't like leaving negative reviews but I feel that it was a massive piss take from her and messed my day up quite a bit.
Luckily it meant that I got to see an amazing girl instead with that review to follow shortly

[Snipper]

I think you are being unfair by giving a negative. You didn't confirm on the morning of the booking. In my experience the SP is expecting that confirmation from the client. Many make that clear during comms. Without it she will write him off as a no - show.

[macdart]

In my experience in the past the girl would always ask for confirmation on the day if they wanted it.
As I said she never asked me to confirm otherwise I of course would've. So she didn't make it clear that she wanted confirmation

[last_days_of_logan]

In my experience in the past the girl would always ask for confirmation on the day if they wanted it.
As I said she never asked me to confirm otherwise I of course would've. So she didn't make it clear that she wanted confirmation

Thanks for the review mate

how can you be sure your booking is still valid?

[macdart]

I would assume the booking was still valid untill I heard otherwise from the girl

[moonlight_lad]

I would assume the booking was still valid untill I heard otherwise from the girl

I have 'booked' a girl 3 days in advance, I get a response saying that she takes booking only 1 day in advance. So I need to confirm a day before and in all likelihood on the day of the session. I would definitely ask 'are you still ok to meet up today?". this helps me not waste my time or look for alternative.

[Mr Garmin]

I think that if a time and day were agreed a day or two before, that should be firm unless the girl states that you need to confirm on the day.

However, in that situation, I'd definitely send a message before setting off just to say I was on my way.  In fact I had exactly this situation recently where I booked the day before and the girl requested I message on the day, which I did and then set-off.  I was ghosted on arrival and the girl later came up with some cock and bull story about having overslept.  Negative review to follow when the dust has settled.

[patelprat]

Definitely always confirm on the day, before you set off.

Possible exception to this might be if she had confirmed a booking request for you in AW, but even then I'd personally still always reconfirm on the day.

I'm sure she gets her fair share of time wasters like many other escorts do, so she was likely expecting a follow-up on the day or at least the evening before. And for discretion reasons, many SPs won't want to be the ones reaching out first.

[Heph]

damned if we do; damned if we don't.

I'm with the reviewer on this: if a secondary confirmation is required after confirming the booking, it ought to be signposted by the advertiser or in their correspondence - otherwise the initial confirmation remains the confirmation. Further comms, however brief can be subject to all manner of arseyness from the SP.

[Fuzzyduck]

Seems a fair neg to me at given the circumstances. That said, I personally think it's good (even essential) practice to confirm on the day (even if I haven't been asked to) to avoid such episodes. Similarly, I confirm services and price. Whilst a punter might feel to be in the right and it was her fault, he still ends up wasting his time.

Given how she operates (phone is only on for comms on the days she works), she should have asked for confirmation on the day given OP booked a few days in advance.

@macdart - was this a morning punt? It seems a little odd that she wasn't at the hotel. If she thought you weren't coming, I would have expected her to fill your slot.

[jamiekinkxxx]

damned if we do; damned if we don't.

I'm with the reviewer on this: if a secondary confirmation is required after confirming the booking, it ought to be signposted by the advertiser or in their correspondence - otherwise the initial confirmation remains the confirmation. Further comms, however brief can be subject to all manner of arseyness from the SP.

+1

[stayer]

As a matter of routine I always send a text message such as 'On my way' when I set out, that way there is no uncertainty.

[PilotMan]

As a matter of routine I always send a text message such as 'On my way' when I set out, that way there is no uncertainty.

Same here. Whether or not the SP asked for it, I don't want to waste my time.

Also, when booking in advance I always tell them that I will confirm earlier on the actual day, and ask they do the same.

[Heph]

Yes, I often do similar, and if the SP is well-organised, it's a sensible precaution, but it's very far from a failsafe. I recently did 45 minutes out from ETA, and was lucky that I got a near-instant reply to the effect that, because I hadn't sent a confirmation by 07:30, my booking was now cancelled (NB: there had been no prior advice this would be necessary). In many cases, unless we're first of the day, or happen to message during a quiet time, there's a very good chance that the message won't be answered because she's working. And of course, unless we know them well, it's rare that we might know when she rises for the day and considers business-hours to have commenced.

It's hard for me to escape the conclusion that this ultimately should be signposted and guided by the SP.