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Author Topic: Advice on getting a booking with Holly - please?  (Read 7947 times)

Offline Owwhatanight

J122 have you been with Holly or tried to communicate with her ?

Online j122

I saw her last July, not been in contact since. Why do you ask?

Offline Owwhatanight

Just asking because your reply to Turtle was empty with a  :thumbsdown: ?

What he is saying is his opinion and makes a lot of Sence
Her blogs use to be fun, now there geared at shutting us all up, be good little boys even on here.
Ignoring emails shows lack of respect by Holly but it's her choice.

Online j122

That wasn't a thumbsdown it was a blush that was a result of this:

Only gift reference I can see is in the interview section with the answer "any thing bought with a thought"

Perhaps try reading her blog more carefully then guys :dash: Her blog posted on Monday December 1st talks about how she'd like punters to bring her presents and that she has an  Amazon wish list for books, more books, chocolate, wine or cake.


Offline Owwhatanight

   :blush: :thumbsdown:

I stand corrected J122 on the blush did not see those roses cheeks.  :D

Online j122

No worries.

I had no probs with comms at the time the only thing I was a little worried about was that she didn't confirm the AW booking, but it went ahead with no problems. It was during the time when Holly had some feedback which had reviled so personal info and might of left it because she didn't want risk it happening again.

Offline Taggart

Having seen Holly twice, because it's easy to develop a rapport with her, it can be all to easy to get EAS. 

Because she's an articulate, intelligent English girl, conversation flows and there's now pregnant pauses, so I know how some guys fall into the 'girlfriend' trap, and  I too could fall into the trap, but it takes strength to treat each meeting as business - fuck and run as Holly says.

Having missed out on her as Rosie20 due to a nutter, like many I am concerned that Holly could be freaked out again by someone clearly not in control and not recognising it's a commercial transaction, and muddy the waters for us all.

Hopefully, those who know who they are, will read her blog and heed the words of advice.

And guys, dont forget Holly can see who she likes, and if you are getting nowhere in a bid for an appointment, please move on and find another WG.

Offline Turtle Z


And guys, dont forget Holly can see who she likes, and if you are getting nowhere in a bid for an appointment, please move on and find another WG.

Yes, spot on Taggart. I don't understand all this talk about Holly pissing punters off because she isn't responding to emails or texts. So fucking what! Girls on AW fail to respond to emails or texts all the time but I wouldn't get pissed off about it, I just move on and find someone that does respond. If you're getting pissed off that a certain WG doesn't respond then it shows that your mindset and motivation is all wrong. Even if that girl has been a regular for 12 months, if she chooses not to respond then move on. They don't owe you anything, you paid your money and had your fun, end of story. Your only legitimate cause for complaint would be if she accepted a booking then failed to respond to emails or texts.
« Last Edit: April 12, 2015, 11:10:01 PM by Turtle Z »

Offline steveinbox

Which of her blogs is about you? How do you know it's about you and why do you not have the right of reply?  :unknown:
Her last blog, dated 10 April, is about me.  I know from the email she sent me to tell me she wouldn't see me again. I have no right of reply because I suspect she has blocked me.
Its not fair on Holly for me to go into the full details because she has every right to not see someone, but I'll explain one part of it to clarify.  I don't blame her in the slightest and I don't think she leads punters on, she is just very friendly.  My regret is that she has taken what I said to her out of context, but I totally understand why. I have seen her several times and we met 3 weeks ago on a non-sexual basis.  We then agreed another meeting for just 3 days later,  but having had several recent meetings with Holly cancelled, I was keen to only book it if Holly was as sure as she could be that we were going to meet this time, as I needed to concoct a more elaborate story as to why I would be away for the evening.  On the day in question I text Holly to say I was setting off. 20 minutes into my journey I got a reply telling me she had already cancelled.  I was left a little shocked as I had told my wife I'd be out all night, but anyway Holly and I then chatted by text to the point where we almost agreed another meeting for the following week, but I would need to book time off work.  She then didn't confirm either way and around 5 days passed. I then noticed she had started logging back onto AW, so I emailed her saying I spotted her on AW (my wording was atrocious - she took it to mean I didn't agree with her seeing other punters) and I was wanting to clarify what was happening. At this point, I was a little frustrated and confused and I wrote my email quickly, to avoid prying eyes.  My email, when I read it back a couple of days later, was poorly written. My frustration and confusion in that email has come across to Holly as anger (I don't think I have been angry this millennium!) and if Holly thinks any client is showing any form of aggression towards her then she has to call it a day with that person.  All in all my cock up, or not as the case may be from now on.  There's plenty more that is unwritten and as I say I won't go into it as it does nobody any favours.
I've learnt a fair bit about myself through it.

Oh and yes, I've bought Holly presents in the past as she is so generous with her time, but I haven't felt that entitles me to anything more.  I don't see that as being a problem, plenty of other girls do it.

Offline 306

if holly is super popular she WILL pick and choice
or just  clear her back log of e/mails and start afresh
its that simple
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Offline Turtle Z

Her last blog, dated 10 April, is about me.  I know from the email she sent me to tell me she wouldn't see me again. I have no right of reply because I suspect she has blocked me.
Its not fair on Holly for me to go into the full details because she has every right to not see someone, but I'll explain one part of it to clarify.  I don't blame her in the slightest and I don't think she leads punters on, she is just very friendly.  My regret is that she has taken what I said to her out of context, but I totally understand why. I have seen her several times and we met 3 weeks ago on a non-sexual basis.  We then agreed another meeting for just 3 days later,  but having had several recent meetings with Holly cancelled, I was keen to only book it if Holly was as sure as she could be that we were going to meet this time, as I needed to concoct a more elaborate story as to why I would be away for the evening.  On the day in question I text Holly to say I was setting off. 20 minutes into my journey I got a reply telling me she had already cancelled.  I was left a little shocked as I had told my wife I'd be out all night, but anyway Holly and I then chatted by text to the point where we almost agreed another meeting for the following week, but I would need to book time off work.  She then didn't confirm either way and around 5 days passed. I then noticed she had started logging back onto AW, so I emailed her saying I spotted her on AW (my wording was atrocious - she took it to mean I didn't agree with her seeing other punters) and I was wanting to clarify what was happening. At this point, I was a little frustrated and confused and I wrote my email quickly, to avoid prying eyes.  My email, when I read it back a couple of days later, was poorly written. My frustration and confusion in that email has come across to Holly as anger (I don't think I have been angry this millennium!) and if Holly thinks any client is showing any form of aggression towards her then she has to call it a day with that person.  All in all my cock up, or not as the case may be from now on.  There's plenty more that is unwritten and as I say I won't go into it as it does nobody any favours.
I've learnt a fair bit about myself through it.

Oh and yes, I've bought Holly presents in the past as she is so generous with her time, but I haven't felt that entitles me to anything more.  I don't see that as being a problem, plenty of other girls do it.
Interesting and thanks for the honest response Steve. The whole explanation confirms yet again that Holly also has major issues with boundaries. Being 'generous with her time' may be another one of them. But for all your honesty you clearly see this as something more or why have 'non-sexual' meetings? Plenty of other girls do accept and encourage gifts but they're usually the worst ones in my opinion, the type of girls who are just a small step away from seeking mug punters as financial slaves. The more I read, the more I think that Holly is courting trouble. There seem to be far too many punters who think they are just that bit more special than the next one where Holly is concerned and then they get all pissed off when they realise that they aren't. This can't all be down to to the fact that Holly is a pretty girl. I also do not believe any punter who says they bought a WG gifts for purely altruistic reasons. You wanted something in exchange for those gifts, whether it be a more grateful fuck on the evening in question or to simply ingratiate yourself to be seen as a cut above other punters in the WG's eyes. For all your honesty Steve I don't think you're being completely honest with yourself.

Offline steveinbox

I'm being as honest as I can be and I'm certainly not trying to be anything but that. Just to clarify, Holly never asked me for a gift, it was my choice. On one occasion, for instance, a 1 hour meeting lasted over 3 hours as I recall.  A small gift to say thank you to me is simply that.  I'm showing appreciation, because she gave me much more of her time than she needed to and I think we genuinely got on whenever we met.  I didn't see the relationship as anything beyond a punter/client, it never could be and Holly knew I was married, I just enjoyed spending time with her.  You go out for a meal with someone and chat and buy drinks and spend money, I saw it as something like that.  Just a nice time spent chatting and having fun.  I must admit that I definitely hoped Holly would keep seeing me and see me regularly so I get your point about ingratiating yourself.  She did also once say to me that she had seen ex-punters socially and so yes I wondered if that might happen over time, but maybe I misinterpreted what she meant by her comment.

The ultimate outcome has made me think about things more though, as has your email because you've given a rationale response.  Ultimately though, I still see it simply as a case of me being frustrated and then sending an ill-thought email which upset Holly.  There's other things I could mention that add to the overall picture but they are between me and Holly and don't change the overall context. I was an idiot, Holly in my eyes did nothing wrong and just because she is the sort of girl who puts the effort in with punters I don't think its fair to suggest she is the cause of what has happened, not in my experience at least.  I accept the blame and have to move on.  Surely we can't have it both ways, if a girl kicks you out bang on time but just before your finest moment, we'd complain.  I genuinely don't know if there is any other punter involved who her blog is aimed at, but if its me then she's entitled to say what she has said and its fair to say that every grumble she has could be about me.  I don't agree with her final analysis of what happened between us, hence my comment about having no right of reply, but reading my email could easily have lead her to those thoughts.

I suppose my final point is, if its aimed just at me and she has decided to make her blog sound more generic, then there's hope for everyone else out there, as its unlikely you'll do what I did and in my view I can't see that there's another girl out there who will give you a better meeting.

Offline Owwhatanight

You are not alone Steve as Holly has also stopped talking to me since the blog because of an email I thought was ok to send and now feel an idiot too because she will be a big loss.

After receiving  a txt from Holly to say she would be free on certain days. I replied the following day to say when I was free too, a week later sent another txt as I had heard nothing and this was very unusual for her as a lot of regs will agree. I sent a polite email via Aw that was unread and deleted. It so easy to get frustrated and my case I was thinking what have I done, I had done nothing like Steve, I am not aggressive nor an angry person or harassed her like the nutter in the past but I could not hold back and sent the email that has ended my wonderful time I had with her.
My last message sent was headed so to get her attention " How sad deleting my message without reading " but being a very intelligent lady she reads into things so different to me or maybe she was stressed out from Steve's part, leaving her job or my comments on here, whatever it's done now ...she does read & enjoy UKP.
I was taken aback with her reply  " The fact you just sent me messages which can be read as being offensive has contradicted any niceties you,ve put Forth "
It's sad to end a nice working relationship over a couple of inocent emails but she will be missed by me.
Steve pointed out in an earlier email that she will not tolerate any hint of anger even the slightest hint.

I too move on and feel lucky to have seen her three times...but will miss those sexy eyes & red lips.



Offline 306

hi last posters from quote
(I was an idiot, Holly in my eyes did nothing wrong and just because she is the sort of girl who puts the effort in with punters I don't think its fair to suggest she is the cause of what has happened, not in my experience at least.  I accept the blame and have to move on. )

i see the trend of some one with bipolar DISORDER
that you can not make any sense of their thinking
and the smallest thing
 so very small can have a massive effect on them
where some one else it would not effect at all
don't blame yourself s
read up on bipolar and move on
here is some good info
look up
topix   do all bipolar relationships end in disaster
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Offline Owwhatanight

Hi Doctor 306,

I am blaming no one but myself and not looking for any argument.

I move on,its life.

Offline Owwhatanight

Ps
Have you been watching too much Eastenders?

Offline Owwhatanight


Hi Doctor 360,

Look up Gynaecologist ! Because I think you mouth bleeds every 28 days

Online j122

My last message sent was headed so to get her attention " How sad deleting my message without reading "

Yeah not the best heading for an email. The "How sad" bit when read in my mind comes off like its a message that's having a go.

Offline 306

fellows
 just tring to help as 5% of the population have bipolar disorder
and it seem no one knows anything about it .
so read and learn and things can make sense
 or just blame your self which s ever is easier for you ?
the sad thing is there is no fix
apart from no contact
been there done that.
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Offline Owwhatanight

True and I see that now,
but hey it's done now and you learn by your mistakes.


Online j122

Yep & there's plenty of girls with positive reviews on here to fill the void.

Offline RedKettle

She has been on my wish list for ages - hence I started this thread when I was actively trying to see her.

I think my view now is changing and I will give her a miss, no great change as I have not tried to meet her for some time. 

All the positive feedback has made her seem like a goddess and I suspect no body could live up to that impression so I would be disappointed.  Also she seems a temperamental soul (and that may be for good reason) and I don't want to be walking on egg shells. 

I also need to ration time and money as I am building up a good few regulars and I am struggling to service them all enough.......
 

Online j122


All the positive feedback has made her seem like a goddess and I suspect no body could live up to that impression so I would be disappointed.

Yeah I was expecting to be blown out of the water when I went....

You're right. I usually do RB outcalls. This was the first time doing an incall at the asking price, because of the hype on here, but I think I'll go back to my usual routine.

She did provide a good service, easy to talk to, no clock watching, good deepthroat but nothing I hadn't already experienced from previous punts (maybe I've just been lucky so far!).

Actually tell a lie, the thing she does with her tongue when kissing was a first & pretty good.

Offline RedKettle

Yeah better to go in expecting a first punt with a girl to be shit and generally (now thanks to UKP) they are a pleasant surprise.  With Holly I think now that I would be disappointed however good she was.

Offline Owwhatanight

Cheers guys but just hope Steveinthebox can get over it, he seems heart broken.




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