Ghosted at location

[Fush]

Went to see a lady yesterday, not close by. I was ghosted at the location, despite her sending a text 30 minutes before, having good AW and one review here. More details in the negative review I will leave shortly, but does this happen a lot to you?

Her profile mentions something about any timewasters will be blocked. Ok what about SPs wasting your time? It's ok for them they are at the location already. Ok they might be losing out on a slot if someone is a no-show, but they are still earning good money. What about us, wasted time, petrol, opportunity? Super frustrating.

It hasn't happened to me before and now the meet hasn't happened twice in two meets (ok the first was different circumstances - but same result).

Now if this was my first punt then I might have never done another, thinking are they are all like this? Did I do something wrong?

I've now booked to see someone I've seen before hoping everything goes right this time!

[scutty brown]

name and shame, write a review

[southcoastpunter]

As scutty says and indeed as you yourself say - formal review!

If you read reviews ( as I do for my region) you will see that it does happen on a reasonably regular basis !

[runner in the woods]

yes, it happens, most annoying , especially if you have travelled a fair way and had a good conversation, your knackers anticipate being emptied and the disappointment is real.
I had that just over 3 weeks ago, (due to im thinking me being a few minutes late, )
but do write a review so our members can bear that in mind when she booked that it may go belly up.

[Paul9144]

Went to see a lady yesterday, not close by. I was ghosted at the location, despite her sending a text 30 minutes before, having good AW and one review here. More details in the negative review I will leave shortly, but does this happen a lot to you?

Her profile mentions something about any timewasters will be blocked. Ok what about SPs wasting your time? It's ok for them they are at the location already. Ok they might be losing out on a slot if someone is a no-show, but they are still earning good money. What about us, wasted time, petrol, opportunity? Super frustrating.

It hasn't happened to me before and now the meet hasn't happened twice in two meets (ok the first was different circumstances - but same result).

Now if this was my first punt then I might have never done another, thinking are they are all like this? Did I do something wrong?

I've now booked to see someone I've seen before hoping everything goes right this time!

Bluntly put - that's shit.

It just again shows that AW ratings alone can't be trusted as much as our reviews on here.

And yes, you're certainly not alone as it's happened to me on many occasions.

It again shows the value of this website and our community of members as it's essentially our version of Client Eye to them.

name and shame, write a review

I agree with scutty, name, shame & get a review in about her.

[Fush]

I will do the review a little later today as did email her and thought I would wait 24 hours just in case. After the initial disappointment, I thought perhaps she ran out of credit on her phone, or maybe there was bad service where she was, who knows. So thought I would just hold off for a moment, but so far no reply.

[lewisjones23]

I will do the review a little later today as did email her and thought I would wait 24 hours just in case. After the initial disappointment, I thought perhaps she ran out of credit on her phone, or maybe there was bad service where she was, who knows. So thought I would just hold off for a moment, but so far no reply.

Why make excuses for them? 🤦🏻

She ghosted you, most probably for a better offer or had double booked

Instant red, don't listen to any shit excuses like landlord turned up, boiler broke or a relative in hospital, it is always a load of shit to try and cover for the real reason

[hairdownthere]

Why make excuses for them? 🤦🏻

She ghosted you, most probably for a better offer or had double booked

Instant red, don't listen to any shit excuses like landlord turned up, boiler broke or a relative in hospital, it is always a load of shit to try and cover for the real reason

100% agree

Any delay in posting a neg review means other guys can ghosted too.  No real excuse for not doing it straight away

[PilotMan]

So thought I would just hold off for a moment, but so far no reply.

If she replies, and you do actually get to see her, will you then give her a positive for this "past" event? IMO it stands alone as a neg.

However, like you, if I really wanted to punt her, I'd wait for events to unfold, then give her whatever rating she deserves for the "new" meeting, but also an additional review and a neg for this past event.

[Nomerzypuntr]

I also been ghosted by a SP same like this, good reviews on AW, UKP. It was crazy, she texted me to come a time, then said she’s not there going out for dinner, then said can you come at this time. Then she texted me text message saying her excuses. After she texted me WhatsApp, sending her private part pics, she’s so crazy.. I waited for couple of days, then decided to see her. She again do some drama on that meet also. I kept all this my mind, fucked her so hard, even made her cum( RO ) deliberately pressed her boobs the time she cum, she was making sound, banging the bed to wall. Then we talked about her ghosting, I told her, “ I will do the same if you ghost me in future”. Then I left..

For OP, if there is VFM escort near you, seer her, don’t go for ghosting SPs. I went this SP becoz of VFM

[GreyDave]

  Ive been ghosted more times than Ive needed more lube 

Ive had the door shut on me when theyve opened it , been told to "F,,,off" and been chased when ive walked as they were not in anyway like what the ad said...

Mind you Ive had some amazng sessions which were bait and switch when ive almost walked  as you get older you get used to it 

[Coriniumstud]

 I had that happen to me once, I even made it to the front door but she never answered it

[Upsndowns79]

Happened to me once with a well reviewed girl. I was booked in at her starting time and she asked me to confirm on the morning. I did and didn’t get a response but set off anyway.

I messaged and called on arrival. It was at a venue I was familiar with as I’d seen other tourers at the apartment. I waited for maybe 15-20 minutes but no answer and importantly nobody entering or exciting the door.

Eventually I left and didn’t immediately review. Later that day I got a very apologetic message saying she was ill so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I’m glad I did as I’ve seen her since and had an incredible booking.

Sometimes shit just happens.

[Stevelondon]

Glad you did the review mate. As others say…….. it’s always good with these kind of experiences to post quickly ……. So your fellow punters don’t fall foul etc.


Good man.

[contentguy]

Not sure this needs debate, she let you down, review or don’t 

You chose to review  thank you.

[texmex]

Went to see a lady yesterday, not close by. I was ghosted at the location, despite her sending a text 30 minutes before, having good AW and one review here. More details in the negative review I will leave shortly, but does this happen a lot to you?

Her profile mentions something about any timewasters will be blocked. Ok what about SPs wasting your time? It's ok for them they are at the location already. Ok they might be losing out on a slot if someone is a no-show, but they are still earning good money. What about us, wasted time, petrol, opportunity? Super frustrating.

It hasn't happened to me before and now the meet hasn't happened twice in two meets (ok the first was different circumstances - but same result).

Now if this was my first punt then I might have never done another, thinking are they are all like this? Did I do something wrong?

I've now booked to see someone I've seen before hoping everything goes right this time!

Happened a few times, yes, sadly.
Realised that this is more common with ladies who frequently double book or may be even triple book! They are banking on the later arrival hanging around for a waiting for response while they short change earlier arrival with making them cum early and then coming up with, "One shot only baby". That's one reason I mostly punt with agency girls now or those that are well reviewed here.

[Fush]

If she replies, and you do actually get to see her, will you then give her a positive for this "past" event? IMO it stands alone as a neg.

However, like you, if I really wanted to punt her, I'd wait for events to unfold, then give her whatever rating she deserves for the "new" meeting, but also an additional review and a neg for this past event.

Good point, and the review is in now.

Ive been ghosted more times than Ive needed more lube 

Ive had the door shut on me when theyve opened it , been told to "F,,,off" and been chased when ive walked as they were not in anyway like what the ad said...

I had that happen to me once, I even made it to the front door but she never answered it

Now both of those are harsh!

Sometimes shit just happens.

I suppose so, but I received no email response so guess she blocked me.

[Upsndowns79]

If you got complete radio silence and no explanation I agree it’s a warranted red card

[PilotMan]

Glad you did the review mate. As others say…….. it’s always good with these kind of experiences to post quickly ……. So your fellow punters don’t fall foul etc.


Good man.

+1

I vary the time span from visit to reviewing, except when there is situation that fellow punters should be made aware of ASAP.

I've often seen posts from others where they chip in on a negative review and say, "oh yeah, she did the same to me too". But don't bother to review themselves.

[JonasG]

It happens to the best of us!

Only thing that would make me feel a bit better is to write a negative review straight away.

And then the next day you're over it and then onto visiting a good WG!

[signy]

You're not a proper punter until you have been ghosted. It happens to everyone at some point(s).

I also agree with the OP giving the SP a day or so to explain herself. It happened once to me where I was ghosted, sent an email asking what was the issue and got an apologetic reply. There was a miscommunication, which was mostly her fault. We re-booked for the following week, and I had a great punt with some extras thrown in. People should be given the chance to make amends.  Although, I have been ghosted a few times, and this is the only time I got a positive reply; I suspect it is pretty rare.

[pythondan]

Was there really any need to start a separate thread?

It looks like you wanted comments from people on here immediately but also were hoping the girl would contact you with a plausible explantion.

The best thing to have done would be to wait for a couple of days, publish your negative review and then ask for feedback about ghosting in that.

Publishing in the main forum will reach a bigger audience than a regional review but, if you have spent much time readings reviews on here, you would know that ghosting is a (shitty) thing.

As has been said before do not get too emotionally invested - it is a hobby and there will be ups and downs!

[Fush]

Was there really any need to start a separate thread?

Possibly not, but as it was the first real time of being ghosted just wanted some advice. Hopefully it won't happen again, but if it does it will just be in the review.

[southcoastpunter]

Possibly not, but as it was the first real time of being ghosted just wanted some advice. Hopefully it won't happen again, but if it does it will just be in the review.

Even an occasional reader of the forums will know it happens to guys fairly regularly!
Maybe do a search or just read back a little first!

[luv2kiss54]

Possibly not, but as it was the first real time of being ghosted just wanted some advice. Hopefully it won't happen again, but if it does it will just be in the review.

It will happen again sadly, its part and parcel of the industry happened to me plenty of times.

Always have a back up plan. I even do that now with Seeking. Had a meeting booked this week, she gave me no reason to think she was not going to show but had a 2nd meet lined up just in case (with suitable time between). Sure enough 1st one flaked so luckily the 2nd one showed and the hotel booking wasnt wasted.

[Stevelondon]

It will happen again sadly, its part and parcel of the industry happened to me plenty of times.

Always have a back up plan. I even do that now with Seeking. Had a meeting booked this week, she gave me no reason to think she was not going to show but had a 2nd meet lined up just in case (with suitable time between). Sure enough 1st one flaked so luckily the 2nd one showed and the hotel booking wasnt wasted.

If the 1st one had shown. What would you have done about the 2nd. 🤷🏼

[JonasG]

Only way to limit your chances is if you stick to well reviewed WGs.

Obviously there's still a chance but it does decrease your chances massively.

But i know some punters like the thrill of seeing WGs not reviewed much/TOFTTs.

[Massage Bloke]

If the 1st one had shown. What would you have done about the 2nd. 🤷🏼

I thought that perhaps he was going to go on to the other one after he'd finished with the first! 

But I don't know anything about Sugar Babe sites and how it all works.

But he says the hotel booking wasn't wasted as the second one showed. So if the first one had showed, would the second one be wandering around the Hotel reception. Or would he contact her and say don't bother coming? And how would he contact the second girl, if he was in the company of the first?

It doesn't make any sense to me. 

[PilotMan]

If the 1st one had shown. What would you have done about the 2nd. 🤷🏼

MFF 

[paul_tall_]

If the 1st one had shown. What would you have done about the 2nd. 🤷🏼

Wonder if he had a 3rd lined up in case the second was a no show.
It’s hard enough at times firming up an exact date and time with one let alone to coincide with another .
Often they don’t flake as such more things come up and they need to move date
, time

[luv2kiss54]

If the 1st one had shown. What would you have done about the 2nd. 🤷🏼

As mentioned above i left a nice time gap between 1st and 2nd. I would have seen them both (separately) if they had turned up. I had a 8 hour Day Use booking so plenty of time. Had a good time with the 2nd one so worked out well !