speechless

[toon972]

Was having a few pints on local high street last night and bumped into a mate I had not seen for a few years.Was talking for a while and eventually the subject came round to sex,as you do.He said that did I realise that there were two escorts working not far from here.I actually did but not the ones he was talking about,I replied that I did not.I asked him how he knew and he replied that it was on two websites Viva Street and Adultwork.I did not know what to say so I just let him talk.He explained everything about AW,students,likes list etc. and that he wanted to try it out.He had really done his homework because he was talking about walking,verification pics etc.He also recognised the area a pic was taken,a local beauty spot.He also mentioned a couple of lads he knows who see escorts.
.                I felt like a right cunt,here he was trusting me and I was playing the innocent.We are having a few pints next week again,so I might say I have been doing some research and found ukp and see what he does.He would actually crap himself if he knew about me.I have known him for 30 years and told him I was a bit interested.What I was wondering was if anyone had any mates who knew what they were doing and if they punted as well or is it all hush hush.

[AnthG]

I asked him how he knew and he replied that it was on two websites Viva Street and Adultwork.I did not know what to say so I just let him talk.He explained everything about AW,students,likes list etc. and that he wanted to try it out
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.                I felt like a right cunt,here he was trusting me and I was playing the innocent.

When I read your post the first thing I though was different to you, and that was it may be the case he suspects you are doing this and he was seeing what you said to all of this fishing expedition.

I wouldn't say anything. If he knows of Adultwork and all the info he does then its odds on he knows about here too as its really only here he could have learned it. There are no books on how to be a good punter. And this is really the only website.

[Quesadilla]

Was having a few pints on local high street last night and bumped into a mate I had not seen for a few years.Was talking for a while and eventually the subject came round to sex,as you do.He said that did I realise that there were two escorts working not far from here.I actually did but not the ones he was talking about,I replied that I did not.I asked him how he knew and he replied that it was on two websites Viva Street and Adultwork.I did not know what to say so I just let him talk.He explained everything about AW,students,likes list etc. and that he wanted to try it out.He had really done his homework because he was talking about walking,verification pics etc.He also recognised the area a pic was taken,a local beauty spot.He also mentioned a couple of lads he knows who see escorts.
.                I felt like a right cunt,here he was trusting me and I was playing the innocent.We are having a few pints next week again,so I might say I have been doing some research and found ukp and see what he does.He would actually crap himself if he knew about me.I have known him for 30 years and told him I was a bit interested.What I was wondering was if anyone had any mates who knew what they were doing and if they punted as well or is it all hush hush.

Well duh! If you tell him about UKP and he reads this thread won't the details all feel a bit familiar!  Or if he just finds it by himself!! 

[FLYING BLUE]

I have 2 mates, both are married & they punt on a regular basis - we discuss it over pints

They also know that I do but, since Mrs FB passed on, I have no-one to please other than myself (although I would hate for FB juniors to find out) & I would rather spend my cash on the simple pleasures of life, including sexual, rather than even consider getting into the dating game again

Not much call for an old, fat, balding, goggle eyed bore like me really

[toon972]

Anth,no I do not think he knows about me.
Quesid,yeh you are right I meant to put it on main board,but he would probs read that as well.So I have two possibilities,not to tell him about ukp or tell him and see what happens.
FB-thank you for that.

[maxxblue]

Was having a few pints on local high street last night and bumped into a mate I had not seen for a few years.Was talking for a while and eventually the subject came round to sex,as you do.He said that did I realise that there were two escorts working not far from here.I actually did but not the ones he was talking about,I replied that I did not.I asked him how he knew and he replied that it was on two websites Viva Street and Adultwork.I did not know what to say so I just let him talk.He explained everything about AW,students,likes list etc. and that he wanted to try it out.He had really done his homework because he was talking about walking,verification pics etc.He also recognised the area a pic was taken,a local beauty spot.He also mentioned a couple of lads he knows who see escorts.
.                I felt like a right cunt,here he was trusting me and I was playing the innocent.We are having a few pints next week again,so I might say I have been doing some research and found ukp and see what he does.He would actually crap himself if he knew about me.I have known him for 30 years and told him I was a bit interested.What I was wondering was if anyone had any mates who knew what they were doing and if they punted as well or is it all hush hush.

Is he reading your post right now? 

[portable]

Would it honestly be that wrong to just say you already knew about AW but were, as you say, speechless at the time?

If he was that honest you must know each other well enough. It doesn't sound like you've done anything wrong at all. Just slow on the draw, which could happen to anyone when you're in one state of mind (not wanting to tell people you see escorts) and suddenly being confronted by a friend (out of the blue no less) who's just the opposite, and blurts out "Have you heard of Adult Work?"

[toon972]

Portable-yeh we are very close.We are both separated now,but in the day we went out as 4some.Even went to Amsterdam as 4some on his exes 40th birthday.I thought as the night went on my tongue might have been a bit looser,but it was not.Must be the survival instinct kicking in
. Maxblue-I will ask him.Are you reading this now?

[Boundless]

Personally I would say fuck all to anyone, even if asked.

A good mate I work with was telling me all about a massage place in town, asking if I knew about it and telling me the prices etc, I told him I didn't.

I've been there a few times this year (and he'd got the prices wrong!) but discretion and total secrecy is the name of the game for me.

[NotTooOld4It]

Not much call for an old, fat, balding, goggle eyed bore like me really

PHEW! What a relief it is to know i'm not alone

[NotTooOld4It]

Personally I would say fuck all to anyone, even if asked.

A good mate I work with was telling me all about a massage place in town, asking if I knew about it and telling me the prices etc, I told him I didn't.

I've been there a few times this year (and he'd got the prices wrong!) but discretion and total secrecy is the name of the game for me.

You might bump into him one of these days.

[iceraider]

And if he does find this place you've pretty much outed yourself.

[Dino]

And if he does find this place you've pretty much outed yourself.

That's basically what I thought too...

Why post such opinions/comments on an open forum, when your trying to keep it under wraps?

Seems a bit crazy, especially as the OP also explained all the situation leading up to mate mentioning it, and, other things besides.

Personally I think the thread should of simply been a question as to whether any of us have had any close encounters between our Civvy & secret lives.