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Offline belamy85

I saw one of my regulars this week and she told me she was retiring to go back to her civvie job with the NHS. She's a nurse, she must be brave! Despite this she'll continue to see a few of her favourite clients on an ad hoc basis, myself included.

After lockdown another regular didn't come back to work but said I could always text her and if she was free we could meet up as before. Punts required a lot of advanced planning but I got to see her for another couple of years before she finally retired for good.

So now I'm on to my second regular who doesn't officially work ie no AW profile, no advertising, but still makes cash on the side from sex. I guess I'm interested how common this is. Do others out there continue to see SPs who have 'retired'?

Offline Paul9144

I saw one of my regulars this week and she told me she was retiring to go back to her civvie job with the NHS. She's a nurse, she must be brave! Despite this she'll continue to see a few of her favourite clients on an ad hoc basis, myself included.

After lockdown another regular didn't come back to work but said I could always text her and if she was free we could meet up as before. Punts required a lot of advanced planning but I got to see her for another couple of years before she finally retired for good.

So now I'm on to my second regular who doesn't officially work ie no AW profile, no advertising, but still makes cash on the side from sex. I guess I'm interested how common this is. Do others out there continue to see SPs who have 'retired'?

I've not experienced this to date.

And tbh, I think it's more so unlikely for me with me being a reviewer on here with my responsibilities to our community. Aside from my reviewing responsibilities to UKP, I do personally prefer and enjoy the excitement of meeting new SP's these days.

That's not to say that I haven't got trusted regulars and past regulars, but it's just something that's never happened to date.

Never say never though...one or two may suggest this to me when they retire in the future, who knows...? :unknown:

Offline Mr Sinister

Do others out there continue to see SPs who have 'retired'?

From what I've seen over the years yes song punters still do.

Count yourself lucky to be 1 of the few she'll still see post l retirement

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I have had that with an Escort! I had seen her one a week ( and sometimes more) for about two and a half years - she moved from one town to another and started working at the local hospital and retired as an Escort - but continued to see just three regulars!
She said she liked us and would continue to see us as it provided a little bit of additional financial support!

So I guess it is not too unusual!

Offline Thephoenix

Do others out there continue to see SPs who have 'retired'?

Not only see them but in some cases live happily in LTR with retired SP.

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What the hell is it with the nursing profession 🤷🏼

Yonks back I used to see a Brummie lass who semi retired as she had gone back to doing nursing in the private sector. She would come down to London every so often and see some of the chosen few 😂

Then she eventually packed up the game altogether.

I’ve seen some pro doms over the years who have stopped seeing new clients as ‘Their Stable’ so to speak … of regulars was more than enough for them to cease advertising etc.

The wonderful Sidonia did this I think. As her interests went more into her kink site. But I did hear she still sees a favoured few. 🤷🏼

Offline Nomerzypuntr

I saw one of my regulars this week and she told me she was retiring to go back to her civvie job with the NHS. She's a nurse, she must be brave! Despite this she'll continue to see a few of her favourite clients on an ad hoc basis, myself included.

After lockdown another regular didn't come back to work but said I could always text her and if she was free we could meet up as before. Punts required a lot of advanced planning but I got to see her for another couple of years before she finally retired for good.

So now I'm on to my second regular who doesn't officially work ie no AW profile, no advertising, but still makes cash on the side from sex. I guess I'm interested how common this is. Do others out there continue to see SPs who have 'retired'?

I don’t think punters do that as per their reviews here. You are lucky to have 2 regular SPs, they are okay to see you, chat with you even after in retirement. Actually SPs don’t give a shit about their clients..

Offline jamiekinkxxx

I guess I'm interested how common this is. Do others out there continue to see SPs who have 'retired'?

Yes

Offline Thephoenix

Actually SPs don’t give a shit about their clients..
All of them?

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Offline allroadboy

In my experience it is not unique for SP's to take all their marketing down and just see a handful or so of regulars. It is almost a transition period into retirement. I have had this type of deal with three different escorts over the years.

Offline lewisjones23

One particular girl was really good and I wanted to see her again despite being retired for a couple of years, I still had a number for her as she originally started out using her personal mobile.

I sent a discreet message saying something like

" I am looking to get a message to ' working name ' , can you help? "

She came back asking what I wanted to say, to which I made an offer well above her old rates. That was enough to tempt her back in for a good few sessions, which were agreed at a more reasonable rate.

Offline belamy85

An interesting selection of responses. Thanks all for sharing. And, yes, what is it about nursing and SPs? Over the years I've seen numerous SPs who said they'd been nurses.

Offline alabama1

Of course they do OP. Don't go thinking that you are special. :)

Offline alabama1

One particular girl was really good and I wanted to see her again despite being retired for a couple of years, I still had a number for her as she originally started out using her personal mobile.

I sent a discreet message saying something like

" I am looking to get a message to ' working name ' , can you help? "

She came back asking what I wanted to say, to which I made an offer well above her old rates. That was enough to tempt her back in for a good few sessions, which were agreed at a more reasonable rate.
That sounds a bit cringy.

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Yes. Don't think it's that unusual tbh.

Offline SOSPunter

As with us all, I can only speak about my personal experience but I've been seeing a local lady who has been off AW for a couple of years. We meet about once a month. She's decided to go back on AW but only to sell content. Apparently I'm the chosen one 🤔  😂😂

Offline DastardlyDick

An interesting selection of responses. Thanks all for sharing. And, yes, what is it about nursing and SPs? Over the years I've seen numerous SPs who said they'd been nurses.
The basic pay for an NHS Nurse (according to AI) is not brilliant at around £32000 (about £15 ph) in the first year compared to over £100 - 130 ph average as an SP.

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An interesting selection of responses. Thanks all for sharing. And, yes, what is it about nursing and SPs? Over the years I've seen numerous SPs who said they'd been nurses.

I've punted a few SPs who said they were still working as nurses and enjoyed the extra income. It's not just nursing I've found. Many SPs have said they went into sex work because of relatively low pay elsewhere (receptionists, cleaners, housewives).

Offline jamiekinkxxx

The basic pay for an NHS Nurse (according to AI) is not brilliant at around £32000 (about £15 ph) in the first year compared to over £100 - 130 ph average as an SP.

You are close to the mark according to AI:

The average earnings for sex workers in the UK typically range from £27,000 to £42,000 per year (averaging roughly £33,000).

However, this varies drastically based on hours worked, location, and whether they are independent or agency-affiliated. Because sex work is largely freelance and the industry is decentralized, earnings are often measured by hourly or per-client rates rather than a traditional salary.

Hourly and Per-Client Rates
- Average Rates: Services typically range between £78 and £150+ per hour for standard in-calls. Independent workers who set their own rates often command much higher figures based on experience.
- Volume: Earnings are highly dependent on client volume. Historically, surveys indicate that an average sex worker sees roughly 15 to 25 clients per week.
Geographic Discrepancies
- London: Earnings are significantly higher in the capital to account for the elevated cost of living. Workers in London report average salaries closer to £39,000 per year, with top earners in premium areas making considerably more.
- Regional: Workers in other parts of the UK generally report lower average revenues and smaller client bases due to regional economic differences.
Important Considerations: Net vs. Gross
- High Overhead Costs: The figures above generally represent gross income. Sex workers must cover substantial expenses, including marketing (such as advertising on Adultwork), room or flat rentals, and personal safety/security costs.
- Hours Worked: Many sex workers operate part-time. While "pro-rata" (hourly) rates are relatively high, over half of online sex workers work 10 hours or fewer per week, which pulls their total annual earnings below the national average.

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Yes. Don't think it's that unusual tbh.

I would agree although I wouldn't want to try and quantify how common it is? It makes perfect sense as a business model for some providers.




Offline Thephoenix

An interesting selection of responses. Thanks all for sharing. And, yes, what is it about nursing and SPs? Over the years I've seen numerous SPs who said they'd been nurses.

I actually punted with a young TS, who also worked as a nursing assistant in a nursing home.
She even showed me a photo of herself in her uniform.

Offline Nomerzypuntr

£ 33,000 per year?? Salary threshold for Working Professionals is now £ 38,000😂
SPs earn more than it, Touring SPs (Brazilians) need to pay high rent in hotels, and those who don’t have British passport. But they charge lot for extras. They have connections in every cities in UK (parlours).
Coming to British or those who have British passport, they have their own accommodation, it’s cheap compared to hotels. Most of them have regular clients, we can see in their Aw and here UKP. After groceries, makeup, waxing, hair, advertisement, rent, tax, medical they still have money compared to women doing other professions (not celebrities, porno, models).
Working hours depends on them, like some do morning to evening no nights, some start from evening to midnight, some overnights.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

£ 33,000 per year?? Salary threshold for Working Professionals is now £ 38,000😂
SPs earn more than it, Touring SPs (Brazilians) need to pay high rent in hotels, and those who don’t have British passport. But they charge lot for extras. They have connections in every cities in UK (parlours).
Coming to British or those who have British passport, they have their own accommodation, it’s cheap compared to hotels. Most of them have regular clients, we can see in their Aw and here UKP. After groceries, makeup, waxing, hair, advertisement, rent, tax, medical they still have money compared to women doing other professions (not celebrities, porno, models).
Working hours depends on them, like some do morning to evening no nights, some start from evening to midnight, some overnights.

Yes that is what it came back with.


Offline mr.bluesky

I saw one of my regulars this week and she told me she was retiring to go back to her civvie job with the NHS. She's a nurse, she must be brave! Despite this she'll continue to see a few of her favourite clients on an ad hoc basis, myself included.

After lockdown another regular didn't come back to work but said I could always text her and if she was free we could meet up as before. Punts required a lot of advanced planning but I got to see her for another couple of years before she finally retired for good.

So now I'm on to my second regular who doesn't officially work ie no AW profile, no advertising, but still makes cash on the side from sex. I guess I'm interested how common this is. Do others out there continue to see SPs who have 'retired'?

Yes

Offline wristjob

I've kinda got 3 rn.

One is retired apart from about 3 clients. One works at an agency and hasn't been on the rota for a good 2 years but will take bookings with regs. The final one is also at an agency and does about 6 days a year.

I think it's about avoiding the 1 in 10 who is trouble and ruins your day. Escort money is amazing by the standards of most jobs and if you can limit it to just a few people who are discrete, you have some chemistry, don't push boundaries, you feel safe with, know how a shower works etc...

Offline MLawro93

They aren't really retired if they are still seeing clients, even if its just a few select regulars. They have just stopped seeing new clients for now or forever. They are only retired if they are gone for good.

There are plenty of SPs who operate like this, just depends on their situation really.

Offline Markc

About 16 years ago l had a regular who worked in a parlour in a nearby town to me while she was at university there.
I saw her at the parlour for about a year and then saw her at her flat for about 2 years after that. She had about 20
guys who she had met at the parlour who she saw over that 2 year period.

She then returned home which is on the other side of the country full time to get a job in the trade she had studied for.
I was staying in a nearby town about 6 months later for a couple of days so l thought l texted her and she if she was free
to meet up. To my surprise she replied and would love to meet up. We went shopping in the afternoon, then to the cinema
and then for an evening meal. We then went back to my hotel where she stayed the night with me.

We did that about 3 times when l was staying nearby but we stopped when she got a boyfriend, went onto to get married and have kids. It was great while it lasted.

Offline Nomerzypuntr

About 16 years ago l had a regular who worked in a parlour in a nearby town to me while she was at university there.
I saw her at the parlour for about a year and then saw her at her flat for about 2 years after that. She had about 20
guys who she had met at the parlour who she saw over that 2 year period.

She then returned home which is on the other side of the country full time to get a job in the trade she had studied for.
I was staying in a nearby town about 6 months later for a couple of days so l thought l texted her and she if she was free
to meet up. To my surprise she replied and would love to meet up. We went shopping in the afternoon, then to the cinema
and then for an evening meal. We then went back to my hotel where she stayed the night with me.

We did that about 3 times when l was staying nearby but we stopped when she got a boyfriend, went onto to get married and have kids. It was great while it lasted.

Indeed a retired regular story mate, good luck both of you

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Actually SPs don’t give a shit about their clients..
That's a bold statement. And I'm just wondering how many SPs you've surveyed to come to this conclusion?
My take is. Some do. Some don't.

Offline MLawro93

That's a bold statement. And I'm just wondering how many SPs you've surveyed to come to this conclusion?
My take is. Some do. Some don't.

Yeah it would be odd if true. I don't see a SP lasting long if they didn't care about their clients in some manner.

Offline Nomerzypuntr

mills and Mlaw, pls read all I wrote on that comment, not just a sentence.