Author Topic: Scammed in Derby  (Read 2756 times)

Offline mr.avenger

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Just been scammed by an escort in Derby, so I’m posting this as a warning for others.

Before meeting, I asked for all the service details and everything sounded genuine. When I arrived on the street, I asked for the house number. That’s when I was told I needed to pay half the amount upfront before I would be given the address and allowed in.

I was hesitant, so instead of paying the full half amount immediately, I transferred £30 first. I was told that if I couldn’t pay the remaining amount, the £30 would be refunded. That refund trick made it seem more genuine, so I ended up transferring the remaining amount to make up the half payment. In total, I transferred £65.

After that, instead of receiving the house number, I was suddenly told I needed to contact her “boss” for a verification process. Apparently, she would issue me a “passcode” that I would then need to show her before being allowed inside.

At that point, it started sounding suspicious, but I decided to see where it was going. They asked for my name, phone number, and postcode to supposedly put me into some database. Then came another demand — a £100 refundable “security deposit.”

That was the moment I realised this was most likely a scam. I asked them what kind of safety or security £100 was supposed to provide when I hadn’t even been given the house number or seen the lady in person yet. I explained that I was already there and fully willing to pay once I was inside and had actually met her.

They insisted it was “procedure” and said if I didn’t pay, the meeting would be cancelled and my money refunded. I told them to refund me because none of this felt trustworthy anymore.

I was told the refund would arrive within an hour. It’s now been several hours and I’ve been blocked completely.

So this is just a warning to others: the pictures may look attractive and convincing, but it’s not legit. It’s a scam. Thankfully I stopped at £65. If I had paid the so-called security deposit as well, I would have lost £165 instead.

A blessing in disguise, I guess. Beware.

Offline advent2016

Always useful to take a screenshot - Was it this?


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Offline Scuderia Fan

You should go to the police. 

The scammer is probably not even in the East Midlands and the pictures likely stolen. 

Offline GoldTop

You should go to the police. 

The scammer is probably not even in the East Midlands and the pictures likely stolen.

Agree. Nothing to do with Derby or that girl. Could be anywhere. Its the number thats important(ish)

Offline wantkinkyfun

I am staggered anyone would pay any deposit in these circumstances. It was immediately obviously a scam.

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I'm sorry to hear you lost money.

My brain is still trying to compute how someone who has been a member of this site for nearly 14 years, with reviews, actually fell for this.

This scam is reported on here regularly, it's a classic.

Offline Charliehutton

I hope this isn't kicking a man when he's down, Mr A, but I have to agree with WKF and Pilotman.

You no doubt feel foolish about it, so thank you and well done for sharing it as a warning to others.

Offline rnrn636

Google the iPhone number. It comes back to some Instagram and Facebook profiles of some Arabic bloke. I don't have accounts on either  though so can't view properly

Offline MaxVerstappen

You are the reason why they put "DO NOT EAT" labels on non food items. Congratulations.

Offline Magic500

Pin code!?  :D
Security deposit! :lol:

Offline Atrueyorkie

I'm sorry to hear you lost money.

My brain is still trying to compute how someone who has been a member of this site for nearly 14 years, with reviews, actually fell for this.

This scam is reported on here regularly, it's a classic.

First thing I checked, how long he’d been a member.

Respectfully that’s way too long to be duped by a scam like this.

Well done on OP for documenting it but I’m stunned reading how he fell for it. On the street and there asking you for money before giving final details. That’s laughable. Things are different in the moment and hindsight is great but this is basic.

I think if you contact your bank you might be able to get it back that way too

Offline Jasonk71

I have no sympathy for you whatsoever. You've been a member here for a very long time. Do you read other reviews? Most ops who ask for deposits are scammers.
Only a fool would pay a deposit

Offline MaxVerstappen


I think if you contact your bank you might be able to get it back that way too

 :lol:

You are as clueless as the OP. The chances of that happening is zero.

Offline Atrueyorkie

:lol:

You are as clueless as the OP. The chances of that happening is zero.

“Think”, “might”. Those are not definitive words. There wasn’t an assurance in that statement at all.


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Offline Dion88

Its a world wide scam.
I got asked to do the same abroad after arriving outside a hotel. I just told them no chance then got a load of threatening messages after I rode of. Just ignored them and blocked.

Offline advent2016

Yes, new variation on a scam as old as the hills. I saw an American in Soho many years waiting in a street. He'd paid the lady a deposit, and she had gone in a door to get a key. The door was unlocked and led to short corridor and another door exiting into another alley. This was 90s and he had paid her £50 and wasn't too bothered and admitted it was a good lesson and said Brits got scammed similarly in Vegas.

Offline gbyld87

Sorry to hear about this, and to OP: kudos for having enough about you yo post the details here for the benefit of others, despite knowing you'll get a load of super-helpful piss-taking from some quarters.