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Author Topic: After youve handed over the money  (Read 1894 times)

Offline Toshiba


So youve entered the incall, paid and then get down to the action

She undresses and you look at her and change ya mind, or something you dont like about her etc etc happens.....can you or is it right to ask for your money back and how likely are you to get it?

Has anyone experience of this?

Offline jackdaw

Question is a bit vague... if WG has not mislead you in any way... then I think you've got a pretty weak case for asking for your money back.

How likely is it you'll get it back? Not very likely, if you do my own guess would be that it may well be because WG feels intimidated, rather than necessarily thinking its the right thing to do.

Usual rule... of course...is that if there are clear grounds for walking, walk before you hand money over.

I have asked for money back a couple of times, when it became clear that promised services were not on offer. Did not get money back on either occasion... but it did substantially improve service for remainder of punt in one case.. not something that I really expected.
« Last Edit: December 31, 2014, 06:23:04 AM by jackdaw »

Offline doc14

I think you have normally made your mind up as soon as you see her.  If you pay then she strips and something does not look right (ie she has a cock or strange green slime slipping out) I think you have every right to ask for your money back.
I've been briefly examined (cock inspected and wet wiped) more than once and I'm sure if it wasn't right I would be asked to leave (and I wouldn't leave without my cash)

Are you referring to a specific incident or "general enquiry"?

Offline cueball

In my mind you've paid, you're either staying for the duration our your walking early. Getting your money back would prove very difficult. I just put it down to experience, never return and now put a negative review on here

Offline CBPaul

If it's simply because you don't like the look of her then I'd say you are going to have a tough job getting a refund. You need to make your mind up before handing over the cash.

If it's because something is wrong downstairs or agreed activities aren't really on offer then you could argue over it. I have done it once and got some money back, did a review earlier this year in the East section - on my iphone and struggling at the moment, if I try adding a link it will only go wrong.

Offline Quesadilla

My one really negative punt was with a WG who turned up and facially did not look like her pics - there were no clear front on face pics and once she arrived I understood why.  However her bod pics had been so good I decided to go ahead with the punt and hope that once I undressed her things would improve. So I handed over the cash. 

Sadly undressing her really didn't improve things and at that point I would have walked if I hadn't already handed over the cash.  As stated here I think I would have had a tough time asking for a refund - it was an outcall to my place and she had a driver waiting who I suspect was there for "protection" as much as transport - I really didn't want the hassle.

So I agree with CBPaul - you need to make your mind up before handing over the cash. Lesson learned the hard way.  My approach now is simply never to see someone without first seeing clear pics of bod and face but there's still always the case where the pics are out of date or a b&s.  You pay's your money you takes your chances.
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Offline Ben4454

You want to do the preliminaries beforehand. Never focus on what she is saying but look at her body language. Is she agreeing to Owo with her head down? Looking away from you?  chances are she will not do it even if she says yes. Look at her energy levels when she agrees to services if it drops chances are she wont either. Any bad instincts then tell her you left wallet in car and quickly leave to your plan b c d e f   etc
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Offline pianodave

I once got my entire fee back on an outcall, after we'd been shagging for about  5 minutes and the girl decided she had changed her mind and started crying, and said she didn't want to be a prostitute after all. She gave me the whole lot back then asked if she could keep any as we had started to have sex. I gave her a tenner and she left  :)

Offline Toshiba

I think you have normally made your mind up as soon as you see her.  If you pay then she strips and something does not look right (ie she has a cock or strange green slime slipping out) I think you have every right to ask for your money back.
I've been briefly examined (cock inspected and wet wiped) more than once and I'm sure if it wasn't right I would be asked to leave (and I wouldn't leave without my cash)

Are you referring to a specific incident or "general enquiry"?

just general, its not loaded. :hi:
 

Offline Toshiba


i guess im asking as i feel i hand over the loot a bit quick , usually ive entered the hall via the front/back door and hand it over as i get near to the room.............maybe i should always wait until im completely happy

this is just for future reference  :thumbsup:


Offline pierrot

Being 60 years old Im at an age where pretty much anything under 35 with a pulse and not overweight looks hot.

Offline SUMO61

So youve entered the incall, paid and then get down to the action

She undresses and you look at her and change ya mind, or something you dont like about her etc etc happens.....can you or is it right to ask for your money back and how likely are you to get it?

Has anyone experience of this?

Yep, been there, done that. I just pay her and elect to wank on her tits, if she looks mingy.  Or, I don't get it up and I make a bit of chat and leave.

I think there is a chance of her getting very uppity and fuck knows how that might pan out. Just pay up and put it down to experience, for me..

Offline Ali Katt

So youve entered the incall, paid and then get down to the action

She undresses and you look at her and change ya mind, or something you dont like about her etc etc happens.....can you or is it right to ask for your money back and how likely are you to get it?

Has anyone experience of this?
I've usually gone through with it or walked before cash changes hands. From what I've read if cash changes hands expect to take a loss, the prossie will probably give you back half for the "inconvenience" which is total BS because we all know Suzy Winklepicker is so busy she can't possibly be watching Jeremy Kyle and eating a Big Mac before you called. Worse case scenario is you have to fight a pimp, but how likely is that really, if the girls are here illegally or Sergei is they won't want police or any dramas from neighbours and don't forget loads of prossies take coke and smoke weed. As has been said loads of times prossies mentally spend the money before you even turn up; which is why it is hard to get back. Trust your instincts if it's going to be a shit punt you know the second you enter, you just think what if? and that's why punters don't walk.
« Last Edit: December 31, 2014, 02:55:52 PM by Ali Katt »

Offline smiths

So youve entered the incall, paid and then get down to the action

She undresses and you look at her and change ya mind, or something you dont like about her etc etc happens.....can you or is it right to ask for your money back and how likely are you to get it?

Has anyone experience of this?

Yes i have. The WG looked ok dressed but undressed she had terrible deep stretchmarks all over her belly, a total and for me terminal turn-off. I said i didnt want to continue and wanted my money back, her reply was no chance.

No chance has been the usual reply when i have asked for my money back over the years. As i am not prepared to assault a WG to take it back by force i leave and chalk it down to experience. I could stand there arguing but choose not to, preferring to inform punters on here.

Offline Ali Katt

Yes i have. The WG looked ok dressed but undressed she had terrible deep stretchmarks all over her belly, a total and for me terminal turn-off. I said i didnt want to continue and wanted my money back, her reply was no chance.

No chance has been the usual reply when i have asked for my money back over the years. As i am not prepared to assault a WG to take it back by force i leave and chalk it down to experience. I could stand there arguing but choose not to, preferring to inform punters on here.
Wouldn't you have been better off shagging that way she has to work for her money. I would feel like I was giving it away in that situation.

Offline smiths

Wouldn't you have been better off shagging that way she has to work for her money. I would feel like I was giving it away in that situation.

I wouldnt of been able to get a hard-on Ali, long gone are the days where i could with a WG i dont fancy. And in any case i really dont want to be in the same room as such WGs let alone punt with them.

Offline Diehard

Ask politely once, if she says no, leave it at that. There is nothing to gain by getting into a row with a girl, for the sake of getting your money back the long term problems she could cause by false accusations could be problematic. Unfortunately SAAFE in my view does nothing to discourage escorts making up false accusations against punters and too many are willing to create problems by lying.

Part of punting is that their is the risk of money down the drain. Write it off and come here and write a negative review. Safest option and ultimately she is the loser.

Offline Dodo

I once got my entire fee back on an outcall, after we'd been shagging for about  5 minutes and the girl decided she had changed her mind and started crying, and said she didn't want to be a prostitute after all. She gave me the whole lot back then asked if she could keep any as we had started to have sex. I gave her a tenner and she left  :)
Fuck me....thats a good un.       Were you her first and last??
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