20 years ago I never thought I'd enjoy going for a massage without FS. 10 years ago I laughed at people paying £50 for a HJ, then I got it.
Now I have a lot more massage, HJ, RO but still if able like a BJ. I'm also finding a lot more civvie women in their 60s/70s/80s who don't want penetrative sex but enjoy FK, RO (they love RO) and maybe give a BJ.
I volunteer in a few places - Driving miss daisy, food banks, community kitchens, stables, community Library, village shop, preserved railway
Advice - don't volunteer to close to where you live as that French kiss with the glamorous grandmother will be all around the neighbourhood on the local social media groups and won't be forgotten for a long time.