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Offline Quesadilla

   Unfortunately this superior attitude wont help her in the long run and usually overflows into the punt itself. She'll start to get bad reviews. No one finds a god complex attractive.
Said it before and I'll say it again - some punters take the view "I punt to suit me not the WG" and yet are unable to respect when a WG takes the same view.  It's her body she is not a piece of meat, she can pick and choose who she sees, when, where, what she does with them and for how much.  That's hardly a god complex in my view, it's having some self-respect.

Having met Katie I can say she has not the slightest hint of arrogance about her.  At the end of the day different punters look for different qualities and I find her quiet self-confidence extremely attractive, she has a real life which takes priority over escorting which I also find attractive.  Good comms are always a plus to be sure but for me they fall way, way down the list of qualities I am particularly looking for in a WG.

But to each their own.  Plenty of WG's out there who no doubt will be more reliable on comms! :hi:
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

I suspect some wgs don't want to reply too promptly in case it makes them appear not busy/desperate.

Doesn't work for me though. When planning a punt, I will usually contact 2 or 3 from my hotlist, and the first to reply will ususally be the one that gets my cash.

Offline a10

I suspect some wgs don't want to reply too promptly in case it makes them appear not busy/desperate.

Doesn't work for me though. When planning a punt, I will usually contact 2 or 3 from my hotlist, and the first to reply will ususally be the one that gets my cash.

Most pro$$ies are so useless at replying, I only email them if it's for a long-term planned punt. If it's on the day hooking, I only go for ones with phone numbers displayed - tends to get better results.

Offline KennyMilkshake

I wish I had seen this a few days ago when I posted a thread with the title Bad Manners, as I was annoyed at having a few pms sent to escorts and none of them bothered replying, despite I said a time and a date and it was over 24 hours before the booking I wanted.

I even named the escorts as to me they are getting those who do reply a bad name, so for the time being if I don't get a reply I just post their name as not being worth while contacting, and will continue to do so.

Today I went to two parlours and got satisfaction, and have posted a reverse booking which has got a few escorts replying to me about their availability, it might not be ideal but for me its a better way to go than to just wait and hope that a chosen escort will bother replying, some escorts are worth while trying to sort a booking out as they do care, sadly some others deserve to be named as "cant be arsed escorts".
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Offline Ben4454

Said it before and I'll say it again - some punters take the view "I punt to suit me not the WG" and yet are unable to respect when a WG takes the same view.  It's her body she is not a piece of meat, she can pick and choose who she sees, when, where, what she does with them and for how much.  That's hardly a god complex in my view, it's having some self-respect.

Having met Katie I can say she has not the slightest hint of arrogance about her.  At the end of the day different punters look for different qualities and I find her quiet self-confidence extremely attractive, she has a real life which takes priority over escorting which I also find attractive.  Good comms are always a plus to be sure but for me they fall way, way down the list of qualities I am particularly looking for in a WG.

But to each their own.  Plenty of WG's out there who no doubt will be more reliable on comms! :hi:

It is not about a lack of respect it is about choosing not to jump through unnecessary 'hoops' to be vetted. She can choose to see anyone she wants this is true - but if i see a profile with a lot of do's and don'ts then I find this off putting and so do many other punters.
« Last Edit: January 15, 2015, 09:54:44 PM by Ben4454 »
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Offline KennyMilkshake

Good comms are always a plus to be sure but for me they fall way, way down the list of qualities I am particularly looking for in a WG.

But to each their own.  Plenty of WG's out there who no doubt will be more reliable on comms! :hi:

Escorting is a business, and for many escorts its their main method of income, so if they are dependant upon the work they can attract then it should be one of the first things they care about when they advertise, and a well written pm asking for a booking is an opening gambit in the act of making a booking.
To be forgotten about, or ignored, does not make the escort appear to care about the service she provides, she might be great at anal, or OWO, but if she does not reply then as its been said before "punters vote with their feet".
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Offline Quesadilla

It is not about a lack of respect it is about choosing not to jump through unnecessary 'hoops' to be vetted. She can choose to see anyone she wants this is true - but if i see a profile with a lot of do's and don'ts then I find this off putting and so do many other punters.
Fair enough Ben - as I've said before there are different types of punters looking for different things. You prefer someone low maintenance and available to book on your terms.  I don't care about that at all and am quite willing to jump through hoops to get what I want.  To me a "genuine GFE" requires you to actually get to know a bit about the WG first so a profile with a bit of information, do's and don't etc tells me a lot.  Sometimes the do's and don'ts genuinely do not suit me and come across as someone totally up their own arsehole - in which case I happily move on, but as long as she offers the services I'm after and there are no show stoppers it's not a problem for me at all.

The fact that a particular WG is actually a bit more discerning about who she sees makes her much more interesting to me than a WG who'll see any tom dick or harry. 

Someone like e.g. Little Katie who has bad comms and doesn't always reply I know it's simply because she's so damned popular - and I really wanted to find out if everything I'd read about her were true so I hung in there despite patchy comms.

In the end she far exceeded my expectations and was one of my punts of the year.  I could have just said "nah it's not worth it" and then missed out on one of my best punts.

Her comms have been even worse since but now I know how good she is I'm more than happy to be patient and work around her schedule.  :yahoo:

For me it's a two way street but to each their own.  :hi:
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Offline Quesadilla

Escorting is a business, and for many escorts its their main method of income, so if they are dependant upon the work they can attract then it should be one of the first things they care about when they advertise, and a well written pm asking for a booking is an opening gambit in the act of making a booking.
To be forgotten about, or ignored, does not make the escort appear to care about the service she provides, she might be great at anal, or OWO, but if she does not reply then as its been said before "punters vote with their feet".
Yes they do and mine have not let me down yet. 

Many of the WG's I've come across who have really bad comms are the ones that are the most popular and simply haven't the time to answer e-mails.  Answering e-mails does not pay bills, seeing punters does - so if you can fill your diary for weeks ahead without any problem then keeping on top of e-mails becomes a lower priority. 

As you say, many punters will vote with their feet - if you think about it - for a WG who is flat out busy weeks or months ahead that's all to the good! It's natural selection!! She already has too many customers so if the ones who are impatient simply drop out that's made her life easier.

She knows that the ones who are still interested and waiting are genuinely very serious about meeting her which means less chance of cancellations etc. 
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Offline KennyMilkshake


She knows that the ones who are still interested and waiting are genuinely very serious about meeting her which means less chance of cancellations etc.

I cant speak for anyone else, but when I try to book an escort, and suggest a time and date that suits me a few days ahead, I am being serious about a meeting, and would never cancel unless something drastic happened. I can understand why some escorts will reply more to regulars than others who are just a one off booking, but its from the one off bookings that we get regulars.

As someone else said, if an escort gets 50 requests a day, how long does it take to reply to them all even a few words is enough to show some respect, to just ignore someone is not good practice.
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Offline Aspen

She knows that the ones who are still interested and waiting are genuinely very serious about meeting her which means less chance of cancellations etc.

Who's going to be serious about meeting someone who pisses around like most of them do?

I laugh when I see all the stuff they write about no-shows and time wasters. That must be the case to a certain extent, but as a group they are a lot worse and they are the ones making the money out of all this, and a handsome amount as well.
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Offline Quesadilla

Who's going to be serious about meeting someone who pisses around like most of them do?

I laugh when I see all the stuff they write about no-shows and time wasters. That must be the case to a certain extent, but as a group they are a lot worse and they are the ones making the money out of all this, and a handsome amount as well.
I've cancelled WG's a few times myself due to illness / work commitments but I've only had one WG cancel on me in something like 40 punts - and with a very legit reason.

Never been messed around other than having to wait to see someone I really wanted to see - purely because she is too popular which is quite understandable.   :unknown:
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Offline smiths

It is not about a lack of respect it is about choosing not to jump through unnecessary 'hoops' to be vetted. She can choose to see anyone she wants this is true - but if i see a profile with a lot of do's and don'ts then I find this off putting and so do many other punters.

Absolutely right. :thumbsup: To ME a WG is the service seller and as i am the one paying its my way or no way. What WGs choose to do is their business of course, they just wont get my business unless its by my way.

Offline KennyMilkshake

It would be interesting if a WG was to answer and say roughly how many booking requests she gets per day ( actual bookings with time and dates) and how long it can take to reply to them!.

I send out 2-3 every 2 weeks and am lucky if I get one reply from that.
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Offline greychap

There is a lot of timewasters on Adultwork and some escorts obviously decide which emails to respond to and which ones they wont waste there time with depending what is wrote.

Saying that though, those are usually the more professional escorts that make a point of saying on there profile that they wont respond to silly emails or ones where they know there messers and the rest of them are just ones where they cannot be bothered to respond as maybe they have money for that day/week and don't need you...so plain rude in a lot of cases.
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Offline KennyMilkshake

There is a lot of timewasters on Adultwork and some escorts obviously decide which emails to respond to and which ones they wont waste there time with depending what is wrote.


Yes that's true, that's why so many of us are polite and send a detailed pm of what service we are interested in, with a preferred date, and use the name of the escort.
I realise that the escort has a working life/social life, and cant be around to answer all the time, but neither are we punters going to just sit back and wait for a reply, if we don't hear within 24-36 hours we move on and look for another whilst remembering the name of those escorts who don't reply.
Banning reason: Requested account termination. Banned for second and last time. Some people never change.

Offline greychap

Yes that's true, that's why so many of us are polite and send a detailed pm of what service we are interested in, with a preferred date, and use the name of the escort.
I realise that the escort has a working life/social life, and cant be around to answer all the time, but neither are we punters going to just sit back and wait for a reply, if we don't hear within 24-36 hours we move on and look for another whilst remembering the name of those escorts who don't reply.

Yes very true if you know they have read the email and still not got back to you.

Some escorts I have seen on there profile that they don't want emails about what services they do as they tell you to read the likes as they wont discuss it on phone or email and if you do they block you!!!
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Offline cueball

As I've said earlier most seem to reply but I have had a couple of no replies and email deleted without being read, the second aren't worth bothering about, if she does that then she goes straight on my black list.
If they read and don't reply then hard luck on them, my money goes elsewhere. There are more than enough happy to take my money and let me have my wicked way.

It's their loss

Offline KennyMilkshake

A lot of escorts just put anything down on their do list, there is nothing wrong with saying what services you want despite reading what they say, as if they agree to a booking they know what you expect, there has been times when ive read the list of do's, only to be told that's now changed and needs bringing up to date, some profiles are 3-4 years old.

But escorts whomever they are can at least reply and say "sorry but no", id accept that. its a lkot better than reading it and not replying, or just ignoring us...it costs nothing to reply to a pm.
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Offline smiths

A lot of escorts just put anything down on their do list, there is nothing wrong with saying what services you want despite reading what they say, as if they agree to a booking they know what you expect, there has been times when ive read the list of do's, only to be told that's now changed and needs bringing up to date, some profiles are 3-4 years old.

But escorts whomever they are can at least reply and say "sorry but no", id accept that. its a lkot better than reading it and not replying, or just ignoring us...it costs nothing to reply to a pm.

Indeed, over the years i have learned to regard an enjoys list which should be called a services offered list in my view with a huge pinch of salt. Its a guide only for the WG to confirm when i speak to her on the phone. When i didnt used to seek confirmation but took the list as being correct and up to date i found some WGs saying i dont offer such and such service anymore but "forgot" to up date the list. What use is that to me if the service i require isnt actually on offer once i arrive.

 So i always seek confirmation when booking, before i leave my place for the WGs and once again in person before i hand my money over. Any WG that doesnt like this wont get my money.

Offline Ben4454


Lets be honest here - some working girls do not do themselves any favours by not including a phone number for punters to phone. Myself I would prefer to phone as it cuts out all of the unnessary e-mail ping pong that goes on. Working girls argue that they get timewaster calls and texts but in my opinion this is part of the business and something that will never change. No job is perfect but surely listing a phone number will attract the most serious punters and make the job easier without having a inbox of 50 E-mails to respond to.
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Offline KennyMilkshake

And what about the punters who have a hearing problem, who don't prefere to use a mobile for fear of missing something in the conversation, that's why some people use the e-mail system.
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Offline Quesadilla

Lets be honest here - some working girls do not do themselves any favours by not including a phone number for punters to phone. Myself I would prefer to phone as it cuts out all of the unnessary e-mail ping pong that goes on. Working girls argue that they get timewaster calls and texts but in my opinion this is part of the business and something that will never change. No job is perfect but surely listing a phone number will attract the most serious punters and make the job easier without having a inbox of 50 E-mails to respond to.
Many of the WG's I've seen are part-timers with a real day job or at uni. Not going to get very far taking calls from punters at work / in class! :)

For full time WG's who are on call all hours of the day it makes sense to publish a phone number. 
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Offline KennyMilkshake

I named 3 on another thread who didn't bother acknowledging my pms to them, if we want to change the situation we have to tell who is the main escorts who don't bother, and that way we can forget about trying to book them again, otherwise its just going to go round in a circle and nothing happening.
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Offline Vesper

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I've possibly missed this in the thread, but a lot of girls don't seem to control their AW page. So the 'other' person doesn't bother to reply.

Business is business to me and i think it is abhorrent not to acknowledge a well thought out message. You pay for the roof over my head after all! I just try to make you happy boys!

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