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Offline Little Katie

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I think the delays you have mentioned between sending a message and receiving a reply is very much dependent on the escorts popularity and demand. Some girls may get 2 or 3 messages a day where others may receive 50+.. Clearly the girls receiving the latter will be unable to communicate as efficiently so I think the individual circumstances of the WG should be taken into account before any final conclusion is made.
How are you guys writing to the girls in question???
For those that can afford to be slightly more discerning to which men they see, it really is the little things in your email that make a big difference..
This list may or may not help you but could be worth a try..

1. Addressing the WG as a person is always a good start.. Start the message with her name and end it with yours.
2. Read her profile properly and use your common sense.. If she says she is unavailable then don't message her asking if she is available tonight. What is it about her profile that attracted you to contact her? A picture? Her vital stats? Her feedback? A mutual 'Like'?.. Tell her.. In doing so you are proving intellectual competence and genuine interest which instantly makes your message stand apart from the ones sent to her by time-wasters. Most women respond well to flattery.
3. Tell her a little about yourself.. There's no need to write pages but a brief description of who you are and what you enjoy breaks the ice, gives her an idea of what to expect/how best to satisfy you and prompts her to decide whether or not your proposition is of mutual interest.
4. It's all about the details.. The more detail you put into your email, the less time is spent "to-ing" and "fro-ing".. What day is best for you? What time? How long for? It's your booking so make your preferences your priority. If you can be flexible.. mention that too. This way she really has no excuse to decline your offer if she is serious about escorting.

If she still doesn't respond to said efforts then I would agree.. The profile is more than likely a scam or a simple case of an idle WG.. Neither of which deserve a moments more of your consideration.
Good Luck! xxx
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Not always scammers sometimes I'm sure they just can't be fucking bothered. These days I never bother chasing up. If they can't be fucked to reply fuck em

Agreed and Well Said!

I think the delays you have mentioned between sending a message and receiving a reply is very much dependent on the escorts popularity and demand. Some girls may get 2 or 3 messages a day where others may receive 50+.. Clearly the girls receiving the latter will be unable to communicate as efficiently so I think the individual circumstances of the WG should be taken into account before any final conclusion is made.

How are you guys writing to the girls in question???
For those that can afford to be slightly more discerning to which men they see, it really is the little things in your email that make a big difference..
This list may or may not help you but could be worth a try..

1. Addressing the WG as a person is always a good start.. Start the message with her name and end it with yours.
2. Read her profile properly and use your common sense.. If she says she is unavailable then don't message her asking if she is available tonight. What is it about her profile that attracted you to contact her? A picture? Her vital stats? Her feedback? A mutual 'Like'?.. Tell her.. In doing so you are proving intellectual competence and genuine interest which instantly makes your message stand apart from the ones sent to her by time-wasters. Most women respond well to flattery.
3. Tell her a little about yourself.. There's no need to write pages but a brief description of who you are and what you enjoy breaks the ice, gives her an idea of what to expect/how best to satisfy you and prompts her to decide whether or not your proposition is of mutual interest.
4. It's all about the details.. The more detail you put into your email, the less time is spent "to-ing" and "fro-ing".. What day is best for you? What time? How long for? It's your booking so make your preferences your priority. If you can be flexible.. mention that too. This way she really has no excuse to decline your offer if she is serious about escorting.

If she still doesn't respond to said efforts then I would agree.. The profile is more than likely a scam or a simple case of an idle WG.. Neither of which deserve a moments more of your consideration.
Good Luck! xxx

I would think that may be a little OTT for a first email. The other stuff you said is okay, but more detail of preferences, maybe role play, could be discussed when a booking date/time is agreed.

Don't get me wrong. if you're receiving 50+ emails a day, some from reg's or newer clients, then I understand a delay in reply of a few days. Some on this thread just get read and deleted without a bye or leave.  :unknown:

Offline Dodo

I would think that may be a little OTT for a first email. The other stuff you said is okay, but more detail of preferences, maybe role play, could be discussed when a booking date/time is agreed.

Don't get me wrong. if you're receiving 50+ emails a day, some from reg's or newer clients, then I understand a delay in reply of a few days. Some on this thread just get read and deleted without a bye or leave.  :unknown:
To be fair to LK, I took it that it was a 'menu' of suggestions that could be incorporated into the email/txt......a pick and choose if you like.
I found her post helpful as I am generally  a

                       ' Hi Gladys, are you free tomorrow mid morningish for an hour. cheers'

Had never thought about a more informative enquiry.....that said I do normally get a reply .
« Last Edit: December 30, 2014, 08:29:11 PM by Aspley »
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I had one that just deleted my email without even reading it (you can see this in your sent items on AW)!

She was offering services, seemed to be online quite regular and I sent a short email along the lines of "request to meet - what days are you free next week".

Next!

Offline Ben4454

I myself use webcam and phone services so use email a lot but no bookings.
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Offline cueball

Little Katy is correct in what she says, be articulate in your emails, describe yourself, compliments are free and go a long long way, start with the wg's name and state when you are looking for a booking rather than "can I fuck you at 10 o'clock in the morning"

There must be some truth in it as I rarely don't get a reply, even from wg's that state no feedback on aw no meet, I've never been turned away n I've no feedback on there (phone booking every time for me). Women like to be sweet talked

Offline yorkshire123

Some girls may get 2 or 3 messages a day where others may receive 50+.. Clearly the girls receiving the latter will be unable to communicate as efficiently so I think the individual circumstances of the WG should be taken into account before any final conclusion is made.

50 e-mails at what? 1 minute to reply = 50 minutes (lets call it 1 hour) for  potential income of £4k (£80/session?) Lets call it £2k with 50% fall off.
I wish I could develop suck a revenue stream with so little effort, just go to bed later you silly cows  :wackogirl:
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Offline Dani

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                    ' Hi Gladys, are you free tomorrow mid morningish for an hour. cheers'

Had never thought about a more informative enquiry.....that said I do normally get a reply .

Nothing wrong with that email at all.  You used her name and were to the point.  Some girls wont bother reading a first email from someone if it goes on and on so polite, brief and to the point email is all that is needed for first contact. 
Flattery is all well and good on a dating site but this is paid for sex, its a service so flattery is not really needed.  Nor do you need to describe what you like sexually on first contact, leave this until the 2nd contact or you will likely be seen as a fantasist who gets off on writing his fantasies and sending them to prossies.
You can tell us about yourself if you want but it is not really needed as age, looks etc are not really important to most of us as we don't need to know.


I had one that just deleted my email without even reading it (you can see this in your sent items on AW)!

Thats probably the worst - deleting our emails without even reading it!

Thats probably the worst - deleting our emails without even reading it!

If they have detailed notifications enabled, they can read the email without being logged in to AW, decide if they want to reply or not then delete when they log in already knowing the contents. It would look to you that it was deleted without being read but may have been digested and decided against......

Offline Qwerty

Well... all my mails are complimentary about the girl - I wouldn't want to book them if there wasn't something I liked about them...I  say a little bit about me - not a lot as I don't want to spend half an hour composing something that might not even get read, or bore them with an essay... and I ask if they're interested, and if so when they might be free to meet.

So as far as i can see, I'm doing everything recommended in this thread. And yet, as stated earlier, out of 10 attempts in the last few days, absolutely zilch.

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Could have hidden notes against your profile that only escorts can see......

Offline Qwerty

Could have hidden notes against your profile that only escorts can see......

I've asked about this in the past, and been told not - there's no reason why there should be.

But if any WGs are reading this who'd be prepared to look for me, I'd be grateful to be in touch via PM.

Offline cueball


So as far as i can see, I'm doing everything recommended in this thread. And yet, as stated earlier, out of 10 attempts in the last few days, absolutely zilch.

Might be your profile picture, wanna borrow mine to get you going?

Ha ha, only kidding bro

Offline Ben4454



 I do not agree with what Katie is saying. If a working girl is serious about her escorting then you shouldn't need to pick her ego up for her with a compliment or some other fluffy introduction or bother to seperate yourself from her other clients. Lets keep that to the dating scene.

Frankly if a working girl only responds to E-mails with a compliment or some other fluffy nonsence than shes probably not worth seeing anyway.

Having good feedback and a well written message with the dates and times you wish to meet are all that is needed. Just like with any other business service. If a working girl chooses to ignore than this is her problem and not the punters.
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Offline jake_6969

Could have hidden notes against your profile that only escorts can see......

I'm pretty sure that a vindictive WG has put something in my notes. Sent a few emails out, most unread, a couple deleted, 1 reply.

I'd appreciate a friendly PM if any of the girls on here would like to check for me as I may just be paranoid!

Offline Quesadilla


 I do not agree with what Katie is saying. If a working girl is serious about her escorting then you shouldn't need to pick her ego up for her with a compliment or some other fluffy introduction or bother to seperate yourself from her other clients. Lets keep that to the dating scene.

Frankly if a working girl only responds to E-mails with a compliment or some other fluffy nonsence than shes probably not worth seeing anyway.

Having good feedback and a well written message with the dates and times you wish to meet are all that is needed. Just like with any other business service. If a working girl chooses to ignore than this is her problem and not the punters.
As in any trade if you do good work you can pick and choose the best jobs to take on. I know lots of builders who deliberately quote way over the odds with jobs that look a bit tedious, or even just customers they think they won't get on with.  There are plenty of other jobs out there if you're well rated.

Sure if a WG is desperate for the business she might well just have to deal with any punter that comes along regardless what she thinks of them. But if she has customers lining up to see her because she has a great reputation then of course she can choose to vet them however she sees fit.   Her body, her choice. All sorts of wankers and nutters out there who are best avoided.  :hi: 


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Probably a good indication that any meet would be crap anyway.

Definitely. Polite replies/comms are indicative of the customer service you'll get
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What really grips my shit is when you can see they've read them  and then don't reply. I'd have more respect even if she said "No chance , do one loser"
Typical women's behaviour - When they're uninterested in something then they won't  even acknowledge, let alone respond to it
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Just to pick up the point that we expect them on call 24/7 - that is not what I meant and I am sure most of the others.  We were talking about emails and it is hardly unreasonable that someone active on AW checks emails say once a day and sends a quick response to politely written emails requesting a meeting.

As for texts I accept that they may get loads of rubbish ones and I am more relaxed - but even so if they want business you would think they would spend some time to find the reasonable ones.

The point is not that we get annoyed about a late reply - it is we get no reply!
+ infinity!
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Offline Ben4454

As in any trade if you do good work you can pick and choose the best jobs to take on. I know lots of builders who deliberately quote way over the odds with jobs that look a bit tedious, or even just customers they think they won't get on with.  There are plenty of other jobs out there if you're well rated.

Sure if a WG is desperate for the business she might well just have to deal with any punter that comes along regardless what she thinks of them. But if she has customers lining up to see her because she has a great reputation then of course she can choose to vet them however she sees fit.   Her body, her choice. All sorts of wankers and nutters out there who are best avoided.  :hi:
   Unfortunately this superior attitude wont help her in the long run and usually overflows into the punt itself. She'll start to get bad reviews. No one finds a god complex attractive.
« Last Edit: January 14, 2015, 11:04:17 PM by Ben4454 »
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Offline marty_mcfly

Not sure if anyone else has this pet hate, but I hate it when you take the time to email a girl on AW, you check, and see she has read the email, but not bothered her arse to reply!

I'm happy with a negative reply - not working, not free then etc

Not happy with no reply, leads you to think they are scammers!

Even worse is when you reply to their reply and then they don't reply. This has happened to me several times and I then wonder whether I have said something stupid to upset them.
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Offline Ben4454

If they have a number displayed its better to call them. All of the email ping pong does my head in.
« Last Edit: January 14, 2015, 11:21:31 PM by Ben4454 »
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