Punters - do you give custom requests?

[unknownking123]

So I feel like I find regular punts quite vanilla and I've got a bunch of 'kinks' and things I want to try so I was considering seeing a WG, at least a few times to break the ice and then ask them if they would consider doing some of the things on my list of things to try e.g. specific clothing as well as using specific toys e.g. dog collar and receiving a blowjob in a shower etc. If she declines, no hard feelings I completely respect that. I was wondering others also do something similar and if so, how have WGs taken your suggestions?

[Stevelondon]

Over the years I’ve had loads of punts where I’ve asked the SP if she is ok with a particular kink or roleplay etc.

It’s called communication. 😀


Obviously there will be those SP’s out there who are only too happy to say yes to anything you might ask for……. Then fail to deliver. So it’s best to do your research and look for those who maybe advertise fetish/kink stuff.

I had some wonderful sessions of sorts with a lovely lass who only ever advertised massage services. Turned out she was kink friendly 

[unknownking123]

Yes, true.

I was thinking more about have you asked 'vanilla' WGs who haven't explicitly mentioned the kinks that you're interested in. I'm guessing most would see the meets as transactional and would add numerous fees to requests however hopefully some people could prove me wrong.

[Jonestown]

Yes, true.

I was thinking more about have you asked 'vanilla' WGs who haven't explicitly mentioned the kinks that you're interested in. I'm guessing most would see the meets as transactional and would add numerous fees to requests however hopefully some people could prove me wrong.

I’d have thought hat the three things you mention wanting to try are all nearer vanilla than kink, so why not ask among your regulars to see if they’d go along with your request ?

[Bhamguy]

Just ask them either say yes or no
I've rand some who on there profile say they do  domination  waterworks etc but when you ask them for it they say that they don't do it  so just ask on phone read there reviews  etc you will find some

[Naughtyboyuk]

My experience is that a good regular is willing to try new things as much as I am...just needed to start the discussion.

It has led to enjoying vanilla kinks (very very oily massage, blowjob in the shower, footjobs etc) upto some PSE kinks (deepthroat to puking, serious face fucking and throat fucking with very large dildos etc).

Just need to discuss beforehand and be respectful.

[Stevelondon]

I think Jonestown got it right when he said the OP kinks seem fairly vanilla really. 🤔

[webpunter]

I think Jonestown got it right when he said the OP kinks seem fairly vanilla really. 🤔

Yep

BJ in the shower, is the SP ok getting her hair wet ?
Can see this being declined not coz its kink rather they dont want to spend however long it is drying their hair
Op as a tip you could buy a shower cap for the SP however this may detract from the roll out & she might think you are weird [rather than kinky]

As for the dog collar time for the OP to get himself down to Pets At Home
& measure his neck at home rather than trying on in-store which will get some strange looks
OP don't forget to buy a lead too
& if you wanna go all out hows about buying a bowl too
I have a dog & remember seeing that McAdams do wet food where the founder eats it to prove how tasty it supposedly is
You could try dry kibble but you will need to drink some water
& i'd suggest taking a tooth brush & toothpaste if you want a remote chance of kissing being on the menu, dog breath etc ... 
Woof woof 

PS do not buy Chappie dog food for your kink adventure
The reason being is that people who like to support urban foxes buy this for gardens as most dogs & deffo cats apparently won't eat it as its soo gross
So you don't wanna go anywhere near it
Just sayin

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[Chazz]

PS do not buy Chappie dog food for your kink adventure
The reason being is that people who like to support urban foxes buy this for gardens as most dogs & deffo cats apparently won't eat it as its soo gross
So you don't wanna go anywhere near it
Just sayin

You sound like you speak from experience Webby! Is there anything you'd like to share with the group? 
(I once watched a mate eat Pedigree Chum straight from the can with a fork for a bet - I almost puked, and I was only watching! 

[The Vicar of Dibley]

You sound like you speak from experience Webby! Is there anything you'd like to share with the group? 
(I once watched a mate eat Pedigree Chum straight from the can with a fork for a bet - I almost puked, and I was only watching! 

I ate some Pedigree Chum once and ended up in hospital. I ran out in the road to smell a dogs arse and got hit by a car.
I'll get my coat...

[webpunter]

You sound like you speak from experience Webby! Is there anything you'd like to share with the group? 
(I once watched a mate eat Pedigree Chum straight from the can with a fork for a bet - I almost puked, and I was only watching! 

I saw some mention of the McAdams founder eating their dog food
Turns out he does:  External Link/Members Only

So [i'm guessing] pissed up bloke(s) eating dog food for a bet isn't an urban myth
I now never buy my dog tinned food coz it stinks [did this once when at a garage & nowt else available] no surprises you nearly 
Your mate must have had an interesting next shit

Dont want to disappoint you however nothing to share

[Stevelondon]

I chipped a tooth on a feckin dog biscuit.
Hey, don’t judge me. Times were hard back in the day.

The dog collar thing is not so unusual in the kink world. I knew a bloke who was collared to his mistress. Wore a chastity cage too.
One of the nicest, intelligent guys you could possibly meet.
Hard for some to take in I know. But not everybody’s idea of sexual play is as straightforward as a P&D 🤷🏼

[unknownking123]

Yes, I appreciate my examples are pretty vanilla but they were just examples. And yes I appreciate there's no harm in asking however I was wondering what kind of responses have people received e.g. is it only a minority that are open to the suggestions, were they open only after seeing them for a good few months etc.

[blackburnian]

Yes, I appreciate my examples are pretty vanilla but they were just examples. And yes I appreciate there's no harm in asking however I was wondering what kind of responses have people received e.g. is it only a minority that are open to the suggestions, were they open only after seeing them for a good few months etc.

Try a reverse booking OP , state what you fancy trying and you’d be amazed what offers you get off people who you’d consider totally strait laced.

Bb

[maybe]

So I feel like I find regular punts quite vanilla and I've got a bunch of 'kinks' and things I want to try so I was considering seeing a WG, at least a few times to break the ice and then ask them if they would consider doing some of the things on my list of things to try e.g. specific clothing as well as using specific toys e.g. dog collar and receiving a blowjob in a shower etc. If she declines, no hard feelings I completely respect that. I was wondering others also do something similar and if so, how have WGs taken your suggestions?

Nothing too out of the ordinary here. I feel like most Thai women may be equipped and up for this.

[Strawberry]

Yep

BJ in the shower, is the SP ok getting her hair wet ?
Can see this being declined not coz its kink rather they dont want to spend however long it is drying their hair
Op as a tip you could buy a shower cap for the SP however this may detract from the roll out & she might think you are weird [rather than kinky]

As for the dog collar time for the OP to get himself down to Pets At Home
& measure his neck at home rather than trying on in-store which will get some strange looks
OP don't forget to buy a lead too
& if you wanna go all out hows about buying a bowl too
I have a dog & remember seeing that McAdams do wet food where the founder eats it to prove how tasty it supposedly is
You could try dry kibble but you will need to drink some water
& i'd suggest taking a tooth brush & toothpaste if you want a remote chance of kissing being on the menu, dog breath etc ... 
Woof woof 

PS do not buy Chappie dog food for your kink adventure
The reason being is that people who like to support urban foxes buy this for gardens as most dogs & deffo cats apparently won't eat it as its soo gross
So you don't wanna go anywhere near it
Just sayin

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One of the problems with oral sex in the shower can be water in eyes, nose etc, plus the more obvious ruined make up, soaking wet hair. I personally do not like water in my nose and eyes, also water in eyes, showering, water over the head can be contraindicated for contact lens wearers. There is a difference between a quick head of out shower before or after a booking, and giving a blow job in the shower.

Necks can vary greatly so can help if you provide your measurement or bring your own.

[Markc]

If you see a regular SP you can build up trust and they maybe ask for the extra things you like.
It’s probably things she already does with other clients anyway.
For me l have been seeing one escort between 3 and 4 times a year for about 17 years.

When l first meet her it was in a parlour and our meets were quite vanilla. She now is independent and has a profile on AW and over the years he has become a mixture of a cute girlfriend service and PSE. She has introduced me to some kinks l never tried but now love doing with her. I can choose anything l want her to wear, she fucks me up the ass with her strap-on,
l always cum in her mouth and recently we have to started to snowball my cum.

[Bhamguy]

Most of my punts now are kink ones
I had this woman once she handcuffed  me asked if OK with what she was going to do I use to cringe  at the thought of it before but said yes go on then I will try it and yes was OK lol yell you what it was
She held my cock and put a  thin metal bar down my l cock is a name for it but forgot
Also love having hot candle wax over my cock n balls  n balls slapped lol

[therichardrichard]

Never be afraid to ask, the worst they can say is "no". From my experience I've often asked for specific outfits (which you'll often find are listed on their profile anyway, or you can ask for something from a specific gallery photo) an sometimes if they've got "toys" on their list of likes then I have asked them to bring along their favourite so we can use it on them togther. As long as you ask nicely then the chances are they'll agree if it's not too unreasonable an ask.

One time I did go through a whole setup for a roleplay for a specific kink of mine and the girl was brilliant on the lead up to the meet really getting into it, but then we got to the actual meet I ended up just dropping the whole roleplay bit of it...still got to indulge my kink though and it was fantastic! That one is up there still as probably my top ever meet!

[Camargue]

She held my cock and put a  thin metal bar down my l cock is a name for it but forgot

A sounding rod.

[hamchang]

They can only say no! Maybe put a Reverse Booking up for what you are after? Or tell guys on here in the regional discussions of what you want and you will get recommendations of dead certs who will do that. The only point I would make is to be sure you are communicating with the actual girl and not an agent / pimp. The latter tend to say "Stockings? yes. Strap on? yes. Snowball you? yes." and you arrive to mother Theresa of a girl with no idea of what you asked for and shocked when you ask again. Agree what you want. When you arrive, agree again BEFORE you hand over the money.

[Bhamguy]

U are right there hamchang  they  got a list as big as your arm  on there like list and when you ask they say sorry don't  do that

[Thepegmeister]

I’ve tried a role play scenario twice, where one worked and one didn’t.

The one that did work was a lass I went to see who looked EXACTLY like a woman I used to work for. It was uncanny. So I asked her if she would pretend she was. I told her some vague work details (so what we did, but not where we worked) so that when I turned up, she used this woman’s name and acted like we were work colleagues meeting up. She played it spot on and it was fantastic.

The second time I tried role playing was with a different escort (who I had never met previously) and the scenario was that she was advertising selling a tele online and I was coming by to see it and buy it. However, we were both utter shite at it, so ended up just giggling about the whole thing. However, it ended up as a great ice breaker to being comfortable with each other and we ended up having a great session.

These were years ago and after the second one I decided I was shit at it and not to try again.