wow did not expect such a reaction! Thanks for the feedback, I understand I might very likely be being naive and have only been punting for 12 months so have never experienced this "EAS" before however do intend to find out within the next few months if there is anything to it.
She has not simply given herself to me, partly due to the job she has to have a barrier to separate personal life and business otherwise it will be a disaster especially when keeping it hidden it from family, she has already trusted me with her name but that is obviously not the same as saying "i do"
To answer some of the questions, she has only been in the business 6 months and is looking for a way out, so there is no issue of making her leave the job and her resenting it, she hates it and is looking for other jobs. I could live with what she has been doing as I know she is a good person and is just looking for a quick financial boost. She has not met me outside work as she is quite disorganised/lazy and part of the reason she has possibly gone into this job…but as i said i have only been seeing her few months so not had many chances.
She does not refuse sex just does not initiate it, and I am too busy getting to know her (my choice) so forget about the sex and then time runs out, she has on a few occasions asked if I want to do anything towards the end.
I will keep everyone updated in the coming weeks/months..