Advice please

[PeteJ50]

Im in need of some please and yes i know I am stupid.
Ok I meet with an escort yesterday and did something really silly. The meet was going really well, we were getting on really well and i obviously got over exicted and penatrated her very briefly for maybe 10 second unprotected.
I know i need to get tested and i will but do I need to take pep as a
precaution. Please I know I should not have, so please be nice.

[RandomGuy99]

No, just wait the appropriate amount of time and then get STI tested.

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[Watts.E.Dunn]

Well overall i dont think you need to get your dick chopped off! Course she has to be carrying, now an establisehed escort like the ladies hereon will take very good care of themselves but some others could be anywhere along the spectrum of infections. I wouldnt worry just don't do anything unproteced with a partner for a while.

And if you did pick up anythig that in turn has to devleop which will take time.

So what did she have to say about the matter then?..

[alabama1]

Why are you willing to seek advice from total strangers on here, but not from a medical professional 

[GoodLookinGuy]

So the escort invited you to penetrate her unprotected or you just slipped it in ?

[LLPunting]

If you are genuinely worried go to your nearest sexual health clinic and seek professional advice based on what you know/suspect about the sp and her risk profile, like if it states on her ad or profile that she provides bareback or you read a review here or wherever and it stated she does or the maid/pimp indicated it was available or you asked and they said yes. 

If it's not listed or reported as a service she provides then you should reveal who it is and others here might be able to confirm they either also bb'd her or they didn't or that they strongly recommend you go to clinic whilst not accusing her of being an sti risk.

Hopefully you have been previously fully tested and are sure you weren't a risk before you saw her because you've accidentally been slipping it in with other sex partners in recent weeks.  If you are promiscuous and prone to accidents then hopefully you are being at least as open as you have been here with your regular partner(s) who can then at least also decide  to seek a consult and testing.

[Jonestown]

Perhaps contact the SP and ask if / when she last had a test, maybe confide to her when you last had a test too. Failing that assume the worst and go to a clinic and tell them what happened and see what they recommend.

[PeteJ50]

I did speak to her and she gets tested monthly

Perhaps contact the SP and ask if / when she last had a test, maybe confide to her when you last had a test too. Failing that assume the worst and go to a clinic and tell them what happened and see what they recommend.

[scouting]

First time I had a condom break (not accidental slip in, but condom ripped), I went straight down to get tested. The upshot was twofold;

1. They said to go away and come back after 4 weeks when the gestation period for most infections had reached fruition.
2. Their opinion was that as it was a WG the risk was much lower than a casual pick-up because of the way SPs tend to look after their sexual health. They also wanted to know the ethnicity of the encounter, I believe to assess the danger of HIV.

Of course we read on here many times where things go a little too far in a non-FS environment. I'm thinking of primarily oriental rub n tug places. In such cases you should consider that it is standard practice that the masseuse offers unprotected sex to total strangers and so line 2 is actually reversed. I would say these situations are more dangerous rather than less.

Incidentally 4 weeks later I tested negative, as thankfully I have done on all 3 occasions this has happened. I have become more careful with my pounding. 

[PeteJ50]

She had been playing, rubbing herself on me and then i did the idiotic thing ethier of us could have said no.

So the escort invited you to penetrate her unprotected or you just slipped it in ?

[PeteJ50]

I certanly wont be doing it again, i just wanted to know if i needed to take anything like pepquote author=scouting link=topic=451438.msg4429983#msg4429983 date=1773184425]
First time I had a condom break (not accidental slip in, but condom ripped), I went straight down to get tested. The upshot was twofold;

1. They said to go away and come back after 4 weeks when the gestation period for most infections had reached fruition.
2. Their opinion was that as it was a WG the risk was much lower than a casual pick-up because of the way SPs tend to look after their sexual health. They also wanted to know the ethnicity of the encounter, I believe to assess the danger of HIV.

Of course we read on here many times where things go a little too far in a non-FS environment. I'm thinking of primarily oriental rub n tug places. In such cases you should consider that it is standard practice that the masseuse offers unprotected sex to total strangers and so line 2 is actually reversed. I would say these situations are more dangerous rather than less.

Incidentally 4 weeks later I tested negative, as thankfully I have done on all 3 occasions this has happened. I have become more careful with my pounding. 
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[scutty brown]

Have you got any cuts or sores or rough skin on your dick?
If you haven't, your chances of infection from a ten second contact is negligible.

[Strawberry]

First time I had a condom break (not accidental slip in, but condom ripped), I went straight down to get tested. The upshot was twofold;

1. They said to go away and come back after 4 weeks when the gestation period for most infections had reached fruition.
2. Their opinion was that as it was a WG the risk was much lower than a casual pick-up because of the way SPs tend to look after their sexual health. They also wanted to know the ethnicity of the encounter, I believe to assess the danger of HIV.

Of course we read on here many times where things go a little too far in a non-FS environment. I'm thinking of primarily oriental rub n tug places. In such cases you should consider that it is standard practice that the masseuse offers unprotected sex to total strangers and so line 2 is actually reversed. I would say these situations are more dangerous rather than less.

Incidentally 4 weeks later I tested negative, as thankfully I have done on all 3 occasions this has happened. I have become more careful with my pounding. 

In my opinon the associated worry a break induces makes stopping  to check, using lube, making sure the condom is applied correctly worth the potential few seconds of awkwardness worth it.

[LLPunting]

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2. Their opinion was that as it was a WG the risk was much lower than a casual pick-up because of the way SPs tend to look after their sexual health. They also wanted to know the ethnicity of the encounter, I believe to assess the danger of HIV.
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This seems highly presumptive on their part.  I wouldn't trust the Rom bbers to be so conscientious nor many of the Thais girls plying their trade in the sex-tourist traps of Thailand, even a few here whether escorts or in parlours, particluarly the transplants from Soi whatever and Walking st.  Similarly there have been some ropey Chinese gaffs here in London.

[Doc Holliday]

This seems highly presumptive on their part. 

I am often surprised at some of the information apparently given by some staff at GUM clinics.

The baseline 'assumption' is that sex workers are at a higher risk overall than the general population, but that risk is highly variable and covers a wide spectrum within the sex worker cohort.

As a result some sex workers will be at lower risk than in general, while others will be much higher. Risks are based on many factors, but frequency of exposure usually becomes a much higher consideration within sex work.

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In practice the taking of an accurate history at the clinic is paramount in deciding the specific risk to any individual, though that is not always straight forward .... not least because of the 'honesty' element and that there are so many third party 'unknowns'.

[scouting]

This seems highly presumptive on their part.  I wouldn't trust the Rom bbers to be so conscientious nor many of the Thais girls plying their trade in the sex-tourist traps of Thailand, even a few here whether escorts or in parlours, particluarly the transplants from Soi whatever and Walking st.  Similarly there have been some ropey Chinese gaffs here in London.

I think you are probably correct. I just reported what the doc said. I also said I thought the opposite would apply in eg oriental RnT places where SPs sometimes make a habit of slipping it in.

[JontyR]

Why are people bothering to answer this thread?

As sure as eggs is eggs the OP will, by now, be dead in a pool of his own filth with his organ necrotised and his face being eaten by rats.

Such is the infective power of the vadge spladge of your average SP. 

[PeteJ50]

Ok thanks for all the advice, I got tested today and have a test booked for 2 weeks time and then another booked in 3 months.

[MissWolf]

She had been playing, rubbing herself on me and then i did the idiotic thing ethier of us could have said no.

Hotdogging is what you are describing,  the act of rubbing over the penis bare to achieve pleasure without penetrative sex.

Please tell me how you think this differs from full sex?

Your moist genitalia are already in contact,  the mucus membranes are already touching and fluid exchange is already happening,  any escort participating in this and or initiating it may as well be giving it out bare IMO because its no real difference.

I had a guy try and insist on this on an outcall last week,  with the reasoning that hes clean and its a guaranteed way to get him rock hard. My answer was the same as always NO and my hand fully covers the wet bits.

[hunkybc]

Okay so you need to wait a few weeks and go get tested. Do not have any more unprotected sex.

Questions from me. Does the SP offer unprotected sex? What does her profile say?
Probably worth sharing the profile…so people can avoid.

[DastardlyDick]

Okay so you need to wait a few weeks and go get tested. Do not have any more unprotected sex.

Questions from me. Does the SP offer unprotected sex? What does her profile say?
Probably worth sharing the profile…so people can avoid.

Shouldn't that wait until after the OP has a positive result from the tests?

[scutty brown]

Shouldn't that wait until after the OP has a positive result from the tests?

1) If he has a positive test he can't name her due to the site rules
2) Naming her as a "barebacker" after a ten second error which was probably the OP's error rather than hers would be grossly unfair. There is no evidence that this was anything other than a stupid momentary mistake

[RandomGuy99]

1) If he has a positive test he can't name her due to the site rules
2) Naming her as a "barebacker" after a ten second error which was probably the OP's error rather than hers would be grossly unfair. There is no evidence that this was anything other than a stupid momentary mistake

She wasn't a barebacker. The OP popped his willy in the SP for 10 seconds and put on a condom and continued so it was really the OP at fault not the SP.

[scutty brown]

She wasn't a barebacker. The OP popped his willy in the SP for 10 seconds and put on a condom and continued so it was really the OP at fault not the SP.

Exactly my point. So naming her here would be rather unfair

[pythondan]

Dettol and a wire brush then scrub it until the top layer of skin is removed then repeat twice a day for six months!

Seriously though I cannot see how any WG who is concerned about barebacking would let herself get into the situation described. Most girls who are not up for bb will insist on a condom well before a cock gets anywhere near their pussy.

I am curious about who initiated the "pull out". If it was the WG then it may be that it was a one off where she had got a bit carried away. If it was the punter and the WG had seemed happy to carry on then I would think she is a regular barebacker.

My level of conern about STI's would be higher for the second case.

[MissWolf]

Exactly my point. So naming her here would be rather unfair

It would indeed....

However remember this reply.....She had been playing, rubbing herself on me and then i did the idiotic thing ethier of us could have said no.

Then sit down and count to 10 seconds, its actually quite long in reality and in the context of non consensual penetration, I for 1 would have stopped him before hed got as far as halfway on the 1st stroke

Maybe he needs to backtrack and reconsider how long he was bare inside her for?
Who suggested they stop and put a condom on might be useful information
Or he could just come clean and admit they went all the way, cos after '10 seconds' I highly suspect that either of them stopped 

[Jonestown]

She had been playing, rubbing herself on me and then i did the idiotic thing ethier of us could have said no.

Then sit down and count to 10 seconds, its actually quite long in reality and in the context of non consensual penetration, I for 1 would have stopped him before hed got as far as halfway on the 1st stroke

Maybe he needs to backtrack and reconsider how long he was bare inside her for?
Who suggested they stop and put a condom on might be useful information
Or he could just come clean and admit they went all the way, cos after '10 seconds' I highly suspect that either of them stopped 

Wow, we’re really getting into it now, I wasn’t going to punt today but I’m a bit hot and bothered after reading this a few times. Young people enjoying each others bodies is a wonderful thing, I think there is even a line in a song, “We’ve come too far to turn back now” , know that feeling well. The thing is, as has been said before, when it comes to stranger sex, never mind what they have done five minutes ago, or yesterday, just make sure that what YOU are doing now doesn’t put you at risk for what your going to want to do in the future.

Now, where can I slot myself in today ………..

[GreyDave]

First time I had a condom break (not accidental slip in, but condom ripped), I went straight down to get tested. The upshot was twofold;

1. They said to go away and come back after 4 weeks when the gestation period for most infections had reached fruition.
2. Their opinion was that as it was a WG the risk was much lower than a casual pick-up because of the way SPs tend to look after their sexual health. They also wanted to know the ethnicity of the encounter, I believe to assess the danger of HIV.

Of course we read on here many times where things go a little too far in a non-FS environment. I'm thinking of primarily oriental rub n tug places. In such cases you should consider that it is standard practice that the masseuse offers unprotected sex to total strangers and so line 2 is actually reversed. I would say these situations are more dangerous rather than less.

Incidentally 4 weeks later I tested negative, as thankfully I have done on all 3 occasions this has happened. I have become more careful with my pounding. 

Over the 40 plus years of my punting  Ive have had lots of condoms break on me  mostly the extended end which is meant to keep the cum in . These have gone when the WG has put it on too tightlypulling it right over bell end not holding the little catch area on tip and unrolling...its something ive remembered each time this has happened when the skilled girls put on they do check and pull the ring end down to base to be sure the highly skilled do it with their mouths. I have not got anything on any of thes occasions and the WG douched with the shower attachment and complained about quaity of the " bloody thing" the other thing I would say is these events have been when going hard in doggy with very slim tight girls who havent used much lube . I only found that the end was off when pulling out after cumming or changeing postions ( when this happened the WG s have just put a fresh on on me) 
The WGs are more careful about their play than some of the "up fer it gals"    you might find on hoilday or in a club mates have horror stories after their easy pulls.

How`d that song go ................." And when I pee it stings this foolish thing reminds me of you"

 

[Thephoenix]

Over the 40 plus years of my punting  Ive have had lots of condoms break on me  mostly the extended end which is meant to keep the cum in . These have gone when the WG has put it on too tightlypulling it right over bell end not holding the little catch area on tip and unrolling...its something ive remembered each time this has happened when the skilled girls put on they do check and pull the ring end down to base to be sure the highly skilled do it with their mouths. I have not got anything on any of thes occasions and the WG douched with the shower attachment and complained about quaity of the " bloody thing" the other thing I would say is these events have been when going hard in doggy with very slim tight girls who havent used much lube . I only found that the end was off when pulling out after cumming or changeing postions ( when this happened the WG s have just put a fresh on on me) 
The WGs are more careful about their play than some of the "up fer it gals"    you might find on hoilday or in a club mates have horror stories after their easy pulls.

How`d that song go ................." And when I pee it stings this foolish thing reminds me of you"

 

2nd verse:  'Oh when the smell of you clings, these foolish things remind me of you'.

[RandomGuy99]

Don't do it again.

[PeteJ50]

You say 10 seconds is a long time, if anything it wasn't inside her for even half that time before I came to my senses and pulled out. Im not trying to blame any one I just want to know the best thing for me to do to prevent any issues for me.
I was also the one that pulled out and asked for a condom. At the end before I left she said she gets tested every  month and is clean and said don't worry I'm fine.
I am happy to name her and do a review.
 
It would indeed....

However remember this reply.....She had been playing, rubbing herself on me and then i did the idiotic thing ethier of us could have said no.

Then sit down and count to 10 seconds, its actually quite long in reality and in the context of non consensual penetration, I for 1 would have stopped him before hed got as far as halfway on the 1st stroke

Maybe he needs to backtrack and reconsider how long he was bare inside her for?
Who suggested they stop and put a condom on might be useful information
Or he could just come clean and admit they went all the way, cos after '10 seconds' I highly suspect that either of them stopped 
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[RandomGuy99]

This should stop it

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[hunkybc]

The fact you you say you ate the one who pulled out raises concerns. Would she have allowed you to continue bare inside her?  It sounds like it wasn’t a thing for her to worry about.
How may other pints has she got carried away in?

[starman]

The fact you you say you ate the one who pulled out raises concerns. Would she have allowed you to continue bare inside her?  It sounds like it wasn’t a thing for her to worry about.
How may other pints has she got carried away in?

Feeling hungry. Another pint please. You’re not the French policeman from Allo, Allo are you?