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a lot of scottish people use the word 'wee'
it will be one of the sad wierdos who been banned from here already.  i would bet heavily on it !

Offline ParisB

it just dosnt strike me as the sort of a thing a woman would do when she has just found out her husband has been paying for sex with a hooker
   go over to mumsnet website and put in the word prostitutes, one thread went to over 1000 +++ post   99 percent of them ready to kill and cut of the guys balls for sleeping with a hooker and the wife wasnt even 100 percent sure that he had done the deed but the guy was slaughtered anyway

Or the thread about a wife finding on her husbands credit card an unknown payments and googling and finding out its for adultwork  the reaction on those post are far ( imo) more typical of how most women would react  to something like this 
most women will cut of a guys balls for even thinking about it let alone actually doing it
 
maybe the op is in the one percent that really truly dosnt mind but i find it weird tbh     

This is the most convincing rebuttal I've seen.

If I'd found a vicious dog had savaged my three year old daughter, I'd hardly spend days on a chat group dedicated to pit bulls and how to find the best deals. This is the point where a joker on another site crows about the fun they've had winding UKP members up. It was nice to have a little fantasy where we imagine the other half's wounded ego and how to soothe it with ear nibbles and sexy dancing, but we know it's just entertaining bollocks.

I thought a cartoon of a man getting shagged up the arse by a WG with a strap-on, while shocked wifey exclaims, "But I would have done that for you dear!" would be quite amusing.

Fatpro$$ie

I too have been called by many a wife and while most were ranting and screaming at me for stealing their husbands (I only borrowed them for an hour but hey) a few have actually been very polite and wanted to know why. Me being me denied all knowledge as I am unlikely to know which 'steve, bob or phil' it actually was. One woman just wanted to know her hubby had practised safe sex as she was 8 months pregnant and worried about the effects of STI's on her unborn child.
Not all women will shout and scream at others.  Some do try to find other avenues to persue whilst trying to understand why.  It does not mean she does not want to rip his balls off but that she is keeping her anger to herself at the moment.

I would be the same if my partner cheated behind my back.  If he did not tell me, I would bide my time and drop it on him when he least expected it.  Thankfully I dont have that worry as we have an open relationship and have no need to lie to each other about it.

Offline Ali Katt

It's better a man sees an escort than someone who is his lover. At least it's unlikely to turn into a full blown relationship.

Offline Jacob

It's better a man sees an escort than someone who is his lover. At least it's unlikely to turn into a full blown relationship.

I was married for many years and can't recall ever being fully blown.  :(

Offline ParisB

there is that side tha not all women would go mad but i think t a pretty high percentage would get pretty angry when finding out
   i was just posting on my experience of talking ( well not really talking ) being shouted or talked at by the wives and partners
but in the 10 years + that i have been working in this business  i dont ever remember a wife or girlfriend joining up a forum to find out more info

 
I too have been called by many a wife and while most were ranting and screaming at me for stealing their husbands (I only borrowed them for an hour but hey) a few have actually been very polite and wanted to know why. Me being me denied all knowledge as I am unlikely to know which 'steve, bob or phil' it actually was. One woman just wanted to know her hubby had practised safe sex as she was 8 months pregnant and worried about the effects of STI's on her unborn child.
Not all women will shout and scream at others.  Some do try to find other avenues to persue whilst trying to understand why.  It does not mean she does not want to rip his balls off but that she is keeping her anger to herself at the moment.

I would be the same if my partner cheated behind my back.  If he did not tell me, I would bide my time and drop it on him when he least expected it.  Thankfully I dont have that worry as we have an open relationship and have no need to lie to each other about it.

Offline Mr XL

there is that side tha not all women would go mad but i think t a pretty high percentage would get pretty angry when finding out
   i was just posting on my experience of talking ( well not really talking ) being shouted or talked at by the wives and partners
but in the 10 years + that i have been working in this business  i dont ever remember a wife or girlfriend joining up a forum to find out more info

Add in the fact that she more or less admitted to being a forum user.......and I got the impression someone with experience of message boards..............it doesn't make sense.

This forum would be the last place a wronged wife would come to.

Offline sandyclaws

Hello all,

I hope it ok to resurrect an old thread.

I have occasionally browsed this site and other similar sites with some friends

Our thoughts range from that of bemusement to sometimes shock.

Until faiRly recently we didn't know such sites existed. Once you know you can't 'unknow'! A female colleague showed us and it has been quite an eye opener.

Now none of us have partners who see prostitutes(that we know of of course) but that isn't to say that we are naïve. Please don't think that women outside of the punting arena don't know of sites like this are around.Most youngish or middle aged women are more computer literate than u may think! I reckon women under the age of 55 at least, are very savvy.

I would know exactly how to trip up my husband up if I were suspicions. Reading up on sites like this gives women more tips and ammunition you know!

I guess my point is, don't get too complacent folks or think your wife is a computer phobeor doesn't know that you like variety/younger womenm a lot of us are actually very clued. We can work our way around the net and know how men work.

All the women I know read stuff on forums like this with a element of amusement.

Just be careful:)

Offline 1234



 We .......... know how men work.



This post made me laugh.

No love, you don't.

You think you women are sly and know if your man lies in your face.

 :sarcastic:

Well, believe me, when it comes to punting men are the fucking James Bonds of deception.


Bond never loses.  :dance: :D :drinks: :thumbsup:

Man walks in the house, immediately washes the smell of fanny off his hands, his wife says suspisciously 'what ya doing that for'?
'Just put fuel in the car, got it all over mi hands luv' says bond
'ok luv' says the bint  :dash:


Offline Matium

Hello all,

I hope it ok to resurrect an old thread.

I have occasionally browsed this site and other similar sites with some friends

Our thoughts range from that of bemusement to sometimes shock.

Until faiRly recently we didn't know such sites existed. Once you know you can't 'unknow'! A female colleague showed us and it has been quite an eye opener.

Now none of us have partners who see prostitutes(that we know of of course) but that isn't to say that we are naïve. Please don't think that women outside of the punting arena don't know of sites like this are around.Most youngish or middle aged women are more computer literate than u may think! I reckon women under the age of 55 at least, are very savvy.

I would know exactly how to trip up my husband up if I were suspicions. Reading up on sites like this gives women more tips and ammunition you know!

I guess my point is, don't get too complacent folks or think your wife is a computer phobeor doesn't know that you like variety/younger womenm a lot of us are actually very clued. We can work our way around the net and know how men work.

All the women I know read stuff on forums like this with a element of amusement.

Just be careful:)

Shouldn't you be grateful to WGs?

Think about it.

If you've been married for 20 - 25 years and have had a couple of children, do you really want to be bothered when your husband's libido starts stirring?

Why not let a WG take care of the little man, while you look the other way?

Ignorance is bliss.

Offline yumyum3

"Man walks in the house, immediately washes the smell of fanny off his hands, his wife says suspisciously 'what ya doing that for'?
'Just put fuel in the car, got it all over mi hands luv' says bond"

Are you sure you're not confusing James Bond with Arthur Mullard from Yus My Dear? :)
If you're James Bond you make love with women when and where you want; and they know you're doing that; and they still come back for more :cool:

Offline Matium

Two men out drinking late, well past midnight. One says to the other:

"My wife is going to kill me when I get home."

The other guy replies:

"Do what I do.

I rev the engine as I park the car, slam the the front door, run up the stairs, slap my wife's bottom and shout:

"Get up and give me a blow job!"

She manages to sleep through it all."

Offline Matium

In other words, a wife sees, hears and knows only what she wants to see, hear and know.

As long as the husbands are discreet, wives are happy not to know.

:)

Offline sandyclaws

Interesting but perhaps predictable replies. I am not here for a row guys!

Thanks to posts on sites like this, I for one, know some of the tricks employed to deceive women. Know all about separate phones/SiM, seeing escorts during day when meant to be at work to as not to arouse suspicion. Read it all. I am quite surpised to see the length some men go at times.

As for comments regarding womens libido flagging after many yrs/children, well that is a bit of a myth for many of us. Unless I'm blind my husband still fancies the pants off me.

Don't forget as well, all you men who reckon you are great at hiding stuff, remember, us women are even better at snooping and sussing men out. Even if you have a middle ages women who doesn't use the net or suspect anything when her husband jets off for a business trip, I bet she has friends who do have a clue. Us girls like to talk you know!

Tony Montana

Well sandyclaws, you claim to speak for all women and that you know all about men.

You are certainly arrogant and presumptuous enough to be somebodys wife  :)

Offline sandyclaws

Honestly, do any of you have any intelligent replies!

Lex, I am arrogant and presumptious? I only claim to understand my own man but I am very good at reading posts of forums. The lengths and tricks men go to. Its not difficult. Doesn't make me arrogant just because I am om the ball so to speak.

I'm just trying to illustrate not all women are dafts bints. Isn't it arrogant the the male ppsters have said that ignorance is bliss or that women should be grateful that men see prostitutes and therefore stop pestering their poor wives who think sex is yuck!

I don't know a single woman with this old fashioned view.

Offline philuk1uk

Don't presume all of us are deceiving some poor woman at home, some of us are single and enjoy not having the complication of female relations, and you can't deny that women are not complicated lol!

Offline sandyclaws

Oh I seem to have come across all wrong.

I am absolutely not trying to trip up my husband.  I trust him, we have a great relationship. Certainly no concerns fidelity wise.

The point I was making is the original person who started this thread was doubted and made fun of. I was trying to point out that yes, regular women like me do know sites like this exist. We aren't all ignorant. Whilst we might have a gape or giggle at some posts is does also make you think. Make you think and perhaps make you aware that if you did have doubts(I don't)then it would be quite easy to get some evidence:)

Tony Montana


Lex, I am arrogant and presumptious? I only claim to understand my own man


In your first post you said "We can work our way around the net and know how men work."

Claiming that you, or women in general, "know how men work" is as arrogant as a man claiming that he knows how women work, but we would never claim that.


I'm just trying to illustrate not all women are dafts bints. Isn't it arrogant the the male ppsters have said that ignorance is bliss or that women should be grateful that men see prostitutes and therefore stop pestering their poor wives who think sex is yuck!


Where has it been said that women, specifically wives, are daft bints?  The term "ignorant" used here simply means that you don't know something i.e. that a wife is ignorant of her husband's use of prostitutes.  No one has said that women are generally ignorant.

You also said that "Until faiRly recently we didn't know such sites existed" and then in the next paragraph "All the women I know read stuff on forums like this ..." contradicting yourself.

But thanks for the warning about being careful. :)
« Last Edit: November 07, 2011, 10:36:41 PM by Tony Montana »


Offline NIK

Interesting but perhaps predictable replies. I am not here for a row guys!Thanks to posts on sites like this, I for one, know some of the tricks employed to deceive women. Know all about separate phones/SiM, seeing escorts during day when meant to be at work to as not to arouse suspicion. Read it all. I am quite surpised to see the length some men go at times.

As for comments regarding womens libido flagging after many yrs/children, well that is a bit of a myth for many of us. Unless I'm blind my husband still fancies the pants off me.

Don't forget as well, all you men who reckon you are great at hiding stuff, remember, us women are even better at snooping and sussing men out. Even if you have a middle ages women who doesn't use the net or suspect anything when her husband jets off for a business trip, I bet she has friends who do have a clue. Us girls like to talk you know!

No you aren't.  :cool:

Offline sandyclaws

I found this thread when my friends and I typed in 'maaried men'.  No need to try and trip me up here.

I understand what ignorant means in the context ofthis forum. Wives that are unaware. I pposted on this particular thread because a 'wife' started it, which I imagine is unusual.

Plus a few posters suggested that normal women wouldn't know this existed. I know of at least 4 other forums related to prostitution.

I have a friend who has male friends who go to brothels. Its often regualr topic of conversation! Again, don't presume the average woman couldn't figure out what some men get up to.

Tony Montana

And she's banned.  :scare:  Awww it was just getting interesting too.  :cry:

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Ahhh Sandy Claws!! Fond memories

*goes off to pop on DVD of Nightmare Before Christmas*  :cool:


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