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Offline shagmore


Do you give compliments to WGs, say for their photos (normal and private gallery), profile etc, this is prior to meeting,

Also what are WGs perspective on this, I know its another text that they have to look at so could be construed as time wasting but interesting to know.

If I see what appears to be a good profile with some good pictures then I will compliment the WG on this in the text to ask for a booking.

Offline Freddie121

Everyone likes a compliment - it's human nature to want to feel valued and respected and compliments in any context help people feel good about themselves. Sometimes fake compliments go a long way too.

Offline RandomGuy99

I think most SPs would find it annoying. They want contact about sales either PG or bookings.

Offline DastardlyDick

I think most SPs would find it annoying. They want contact about sales either PG or bookings.

If he means as part of the booking call " Saw your pics on AW and you look stunning - are you available for an hour at 4pm this Tuesday" I can't see an SP objecting. Calling just to say the pics are good would indeed be annoying, and would probably get you blocked.

Offline RandomGuy99

If he means as part of the booking call " Saw your pics on AW and you look stunning - are you available for an hour at 4pm this Tuesday" I can't see an SP objecting. Calling just to say the pics are good would indeed be annoying, and would probably get you blocked.
Well that's precisely what the photos are there for. Advertising.

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never offer compliments, they'll use it as justification to raise prices!!!  :lol: :lol: :lol:

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As an SP I do not mind compliments, but what can be confusing are compliments mixed in with difficulties. I would rather someone read my profile or be really clear in their contact, than shower me with compliments. Same for kisses in texts and or emails. Some of the easiest clients to make arrangements with do not include compliments (or very few) in their messages or calls, they are straight to the point - can I have an appointment on this date at this time. On the other hand I receive enquiries asking how I am, call me beautiful, then go on to be really rude whilst still calling me 'sexy, beautiful, you look amazing'.

Offline Mr Garmin

Not during the booking stage but certainly while shagging them.  If I have a young attractive girl with a fabulous body underneath me I can't help myself and I have to tell them how sexy they look.  And if I say it, it's not just an empty compliment, I really mean it.

After all, who doesn't like being told that they look good/have a massive cock/smell nice etc.  Particularly if feels real.

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I got told in a rather surprised voice the other day...oh are you really 59 you look good for your age  :lol: :lol:

I wasn't sure if that was a compliment or not  :lol:

I don't mind a compliment as long as its in the context of a booking like......hi loved you profile and pictures,  can I please have a booking at 6pm for an hour this Friday evening.....etc

Less keen when I get texts saying...omg you are stunning, baby you are so sexy, fantastic tit's baby cant wait to suck them etc

For me the best compliment anyone can give is after a booking in regards to how they enjoyed themselves and by making a return visit.

Offline Stevelondon

Everybody likes a compliment.

As long as they are honest I mean.

I get a lot from Thai and Chinese massage places,
“Oh you very big boy”

Wonderfully honest these lasses. 😂

Offline shagmore

I think most SPs would find it annoying. They want contact about sales either PG or bookings.
Read the text, I said part of a booking, not just a random comment

Offline I like natural boobs

I've used the I like your pictures and would like a booking line in the past but I don't say that as often now. Better to just get to the point I feel. I do compliment them in person though if I find them attractive. Most respond well to it. A small minority don't seem to like it. Maybe they think it's a bit creepy? I don't know.

Offline RogerHealey

Everybody likes a compliment.

As long as they are honest I mean.

I get a lot from Thai and Chinese massage places,
“Oh you very big boy”

Wonderfully honest these lasses. 😂

Steve, did you not know all Oriental girls are myopic  :D

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Initial Comms not even a name or time and trying to get the booking information across to set something up I got 3/4 overly sexualised compliments
I interrupt the guy say sorry you can say all that in the booking when I meet you this is a booking line not a sex talk line

 I am initially thinking wanking over pictures while talking and wanting to not pay for it free chit chat is not an appointment or booking makes me irritated I could be answering a guy who respects my time and wants to book to actually fuck

There are plenty of Premium £2 per minute you can sex talk all you like while I'm paid



Offline RandomGuy99

I mean it's not actually a case of "I saw your photos and I thought you were feckin' ugly, so can I book you?"

The photos are advertising, so if you contact an SP they assume their photos did the trick and now you want to book them. Just get to the point and book them.

Offline ik8133

Personally I think compliments are fine face to face, when making a booking probably not, as it's a business transaction.   

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No you just come across as a timewaster. Save the compliments for the booking. And obviously we wouldn't post photos that we don't think look good would we?

I think the more unnecessary chit chat the less genuine you seem. Remember the majority of people that contact us are not genuine.
« Last Edit: February 24, 2026, 10:04:32 am by LauraHoD »

Offline RandomGuy99

It's not like you have to charm them into bed with your amazing chat up lines and compliments.

It's

"£150 for 1 hr at 8pm. Ok?"

"Ok, see you at 8pm. My post code is TW11 9NG."

Done

Thank God for that or I'd never get a shag.
« Last Edit: February 24, 2026, 10:34:19 am by RandomGuy99 »

Offline Chris1990mcr

I never really compliment any WG on her looks.

I always think she must hear you are beautiful, your ass is lovely multiple times a day.

I'll occasionally compliment on something about the personality if I like them but never on looks.

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 :hi: I do complement after the deed if she warents it  :cool: Funnily some are really nice about reciving it back as with Steve I am always told "You Big Strong " by the Chinese girls I remarked to one that I liked Chinese girls as they made me feel like DannyD "Who he ?"

I showed her on her phone I said lots of young English Lads either do body building with weights or exercise to make a bigger cock she looked surprized  how big DannyD is I said Id seen lads at parties like him often maybe you will see one soon  " Oh my God" was her  reply  :D :D :D

Offline TrampZ

Credit where credit is due. 

I always compliment.  On an initial inquiry i tell the ladies what caught my eye and why I would really like to meet them.  I always get a reply thanking me for the nice mail with further details.

On the meet I shower them with compliments also.   I think sometimes they must hear it a zillion times, but I think most ladies enjoy compliments on their looks etc.

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Credit where credit is due. 

I always compliment.  On an initial inquiry i tell the ladies what caught my eye and why I would really like to meet them.  I always get a reply thanking me for the nice mail with further details.

On the meet I shower them with compliments also.   I think sometimes they must hear it a zillion times, but I think most ladies enjoy compliments on their looks etc.

I remember a lovely young WG with fantastic tits who complained to me that punters just keep complimenting her tits!   Fortunately she did not know I was Redkettle and had reviewed her with a comment about her great tits.

Offline RandomGuy99

Credit where credit is due. 

I always compliment.  On an initial inquiry i tell the ladies what caught my eye and why I would really like to meet them.  I always get a reply thanking me for the nice mail with further details.

On the meet I shower them with compliments also.   I think sometimes they must hear it a zillion times, but I think most ladies enjoy compliments on their looks etc.
I think some can find receiving compliments uncomfortable or difficult, so it is best not to shower them with compliments. I've been told I try too hard with compliments. I didn't think I was and I thought the SP liked compliments, but it turned out that they didn't, so I had to apologise for complimenting the SP.
« Last Edit: February 24, 2026, 03:17:23 pm by RandomGuy99 »

Offline TrampZ

I think some can find receiving compliments uncomfortable or difficult, so it is best not to shower them with compliments.

In your personal opinion, I have never had a complaint yet :rolleyes:

Offline RandomGuy99

In your personal opinion, I have never had a complaint yet :rolleyes:
Yes, we all have our different experiences and that's the good thing about this site - we get to share these experiences.

Offline TrampZ

Yes, we all have our different experiences and that's the good thing about this site - we get to share these experiences.
:thumbsup:

Offline TrampZ

I remember a lovely young WG with fantastic tits who complained to me that punters just keep complimenting her tits!   Fortunately she did not know I was Redkettle and had reviewed her with a comment about her great tits.

Just out of curiosity, who was the young lady with the fantastic tits.  :)

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No you just come across as a timewaster. Save the compliments for the booking. And obviously we wouldn't post photos that we don't think look good would we?

I think the more unnecessary chit chat the less genuine you seem. Remember the majority of people that contact us are not genuine.


Is that meant literally Laura?  I realise independents receive calls from a lot of timewasters but what proportion would you say it is?
Presumably working out of parlours reduces this, though I guess you'll still have no shows.

There are some FBSM providers I see who tend not to advertise but rely on regulars. If things are a bit slow, if they have taken a break etc they will put out an ad to get things moving but complain about timewasters when they do.

I think most of us on here are reliable, we are invested in our pastime. It's difficult to comprehend why prats waste their own time in order to waste yours.

Offline myothernameis

Only complement I might give, nice pussy and it tastes nice  :lol:

Online simon07

Everybody likes a compliment.

As long as they are honest I mean.

I get a lot from Thai and Chinese massage places,
“Oh you very big boy”

Wonderfully honest these lasses. 😂

They say I am a Han sum man 👨

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Is that meant literally Laura?  I realise independents receive calls from a lot of timewasters but what proportion would you say it is?
Presumably working out of parlours reduces this, though I guess you'll still have no shows.

There are some FBSM providers I see who tend not to advertise but rely on regulars. If things are a bit slow, if they have taken a break etc they will put out an ad to get things moving but complain about timewasters when they do.

I think most of us on here are reliable, we are invested in our pastime. It's difficult to comprehend why prats waste their own time in order to waste yours.

I would probably say when independent about 90% are timewasters especially when you first put your phone number up.  Some might be genuine but come across as timewasters but its not exactly rocket science. Most SP put specific instructions on what information they want on their profile so its not hard. Although like I said it id just mostly common sense.

I do work for agencies/parlours most of the time and most bookings do show up. But then the maid/receptionist will be dealing with the timewasters on the phone. The ones that are just having a wank and that kind of thing. But most of the timewasters just get blocked by all the parlours so its easier to target independents. Since there are always new profiles coming up

Yes indeed I presume if you are on here you are a genuine punter but honestly the amount of sad people out there who seem to want free chat/pictures/make fake bookings etc. I didn't believe it until I experienced it myself!
« Last Edit: February 24, 2026, 06:01:50 pm by LauraHoD »

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Just out of curiosity, who was the young lady with the fantastic tits.  :)

It was over 10 years ago!  Steffifirstclass.

Offline whiskyfan

Not during the booking stage but certainly while shagging them.  If I have a young attractive girl with a fabulous body underneath me I can't help myself and I have to tell them how sexy they look.  And if I say it, it's not just an empty compliment, I really mean it.

After all, who doesn't like being told that they look good/have a massive cock/smell nice etc.  Particularly if feels real.

I once told a WG that she was gorgeous. Had to spend the next 5 min explaining why that wasn't an insult. Language barriers can be a bastard. :lol:

Online Heph

I'm very sympathetic to the timewaster plague, but it's often surprisingly challenging to be concisely straightforward in response to spare, incomplete or contradictory information given on the ads. For example, our availability and inclination to spend x hours on a booking on a given date are often conditional by the advertisers own availability, which often as not, isn't present. This and other considerations often require some preamble, and a few times, despite being entirely serious in intention, this has been misinterpreted as time-wasting. We also have to weigh this against those that would have us be a little more courtly in our enquiries: it takes good judgment and perhaps luck on the day.

And obviously we wouldn't post photos that we don't think look good would we?

One might suppose this to be so, be we've all seen the gasp-worthy stuff that gets put on profiles without, apparently, a second thought.

The 'worst escort picture thread challenge' thread is currently 195 pages long, and is not for the fainthearted

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=10615.9700


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I once told a WG that she was gorgeous. Had to spend the next 5 min explaining why that wasn't an insult. Language barriers can be a bastard. :lol:

I told a WG that she was rubbish as I got up off the bed to leave 15 minutes after the punt started, she started throwing things at me and trying to batter my head. You just can’t win, there’s no middle ground.

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The 'worst escort picture thread challenge' thread is currently 195 pages long, and is not for the fainthearted

I miss the days when one member here used to post collections of the AW validation / certification photos, they were very revealing, both good and (very) bad.

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I miss the days when one member here used to post collections of the AW validation / certification photos, they were very revealing, both good and (very) bad.

Indeed they were. On balance they were a good and confidence-inspiring thing... for punters.

Offline mr.bluesky

Everybody likes a compliment.

As long as they are honest I mean.

I get a lot from Thai and Chinese massage places,
“Oh you very big boy”

Wonderfully honest these lasses. 😂

I think when they tell you " oh you very big boy" it's a polite way of saying you need to go on a diet  :D also not forgetting Thai and Chinese rub and tug service providers tend to have small hands so everything looks big in them  :lol:

Offline pythondan

In an initial booking enquiry with a new provider I normally say something like "I enjoyed reading your AW profile" before suggesting a date, time and duration for a meeting.

If a girl has a distinctive appearance I might also say something like "I really like your look" - this tends to be for girls who have distinctive qualities like being gym toned, goths etc.

During a meeting I will give girls genuine comments on their appearance and outfits especially if they have made an effort with the latter but limit them to a couple rather than a constant stream.

Occasionally I do give compliments which are quite sexual like "Your boobs are amazing" and recently to a Polish girl "Your pussy is really beautiful" which seemed to shock and delight her although that might have been the five minutes I spent licking it until she came. It was a genuinely meant complement as she had an amazing looking pussy.

It can be fun to give that type of compliment and I would not do it with a civilian. Most girls seem to accept them as they were meant - genuine compliments to express appreciation of their charms.

Offline Stevelondon

Steve, did you not know all Oriental girls are myopic  :D



My own myopic focus means I always ignore long-term sustainability 😂

Too highbrow……. I’ll get me  🧥

Offline Stevelondon

I think when they tell you " oh you very big boy" it's a polite way of saying you need to go on a diet  :D also not forgetting Thai and Chinese rub and tug service providers tend to have small hands so everything looks big in them  :lol:

I worked things out as a teenager. Always looked for the little lasses at the village hop 😂

Offline RandomGuy99

It's when they start comparing the size of your willy to their legs that you have to start worrying

Offline Stevelondon

It's when they start comparing the size of your willy to their legs that you have to start worrying

 :D.   Are you insinuating I’m a short arse  :D

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Offline Bonker

...On the other hand I receive enquiries asking how I am, call me beautiful, then go on to be really rude whilst still calling me 'sexy, beautiful, you look amazing'.

Is there a braille version of AW?

I'm sorry,  I couldn't resist the temptation.
I'm sure you're lovely. Please don't take offence.

Offline Stevelondon

Is there a braille version of AW?



There is but it’s only on subscription. They send you it through the post (unmarked packaging)…..you get it every week.
It’s a fucking big book mind you  :D :lol:

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There is but it’s only on subscription. They send you it through the post (unmarked packaging)…..you get it every week.
It’s a fucking big book mind you  :D :lol:

But the photos... Phwoarrr!  Shame they use paper rather than plastic, the issues don't last very long.

Offline Punting2022

Half the photos are edited. SO dont compliment them on fake stuff. In person then say yes, Your cute sexy etc.
But fake pics or edited ones. Dont  compliment

Offline Branny

I would probably say when independent about 90% are timewasters especially when you first put your phone number up.  Some might be genuine but come across as timewasters but its not exactly rocket science. Most SP put specific instructions on what information they want on their profile so its not hard. Although like I said it id just mostly common sense.

I do work for agencies/parlours most of the time and most bookings do show up. But then the maid/receptionist will be dealing with the timewasters on the phone. The ones that are just having a wank and that kind of thing. But most of the timewasters just get blocked by all the parlours so its easier to target independents. Since there are always new profiles coming up

Yes indeed I presume if you are on here you are a genuine punter but honestly the amount of sad people out there who seem to want free chat/pictures/make fake bookings etc. I didn't believe it until I experienced it myself!

Thanks for sharing this Laura, as I have posted about the 'plague' of timewasters. One thing I didn't mention is that both girls I asked about this said the giveaway they spotted was usually extensive compliments and requests that would clearly encourage them as wankers.

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Rarely. Either by text or even in the booking lol. Why? It's not necessary.

If she's a good WG, she'll provide a good service either way. Compliments aren't necessary either pre or post booking.

When they compliment me, it actually winds me up lol. Because it just feels fake.
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