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Offline RandomGuy99

BBC News - 'My husband stole £600k for sex and antiques' - drug side effects tearing families apart - BBC News
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Offline allroadboy

I read this earlier, terrifying what can happen. From memory the guy was a prolific reviewer / poster on another forum at the time

Offline RandomGuy99

I read this earlier, terrifying what can happen. From memory the guy was a prolific reviewer / poster on another forum at the time
it says he spent £80,000 on sex workers in 4 months.

Terrible impact on the people she stole from, one didn't have enough money left in her estate to pay for the funeral. Very sad.
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Offline dubs

I read this earlier, terrifying what can happen. From memory the guy was a prolific reviewer / poster on another forum at the time

Are you confusing him with giraffeman?

Offline Bum Lovin Criminal

It's a given that this "Hobby"of ours can be an expensive monster if out of control, but £80,000, that's £5000 a week, it's clear he was paying for more than just

"Fanny".. there were....other issues.  That said, spending on fanny and the pursuit of, can be as addictive and Crack, Cocaine, Alcohol or Gambling, and destroy lives.

It Should come with a warning..

Offline RandomGuy99

It's a given that this "Hobby"of ours can be an expensive monster if out of control, but £80,000, that's £5000 a week, it's clear he was paying for more than just

"Fanny".. there were....other issues.  That said, spending on fanny and the pursuit of, can be as addictive and Crack, Cocaine, Alcohol or Gambling, and destroy lives.

It Should come with a warning..
but caused by medication he was taking for Parkinson's Disease.

Offline TomTank

Are you confusing him with giraffeman?

wasn't he an accountant, not a lawyer?

Offline Jonestown

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but caused by medication he was taking for Parkinson's Disease.

Sure it was caused by the medication, otherwise he might have to take responsibility for his actions.

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Sure it was caused by the medication, otherwise he might have to take responsibility for his actions.

don't be daft - in today's society, everything is somebody elses fault!!

Offline Blackpool Rock

Are you confusing him with giraffeman?
That's the name i thought of but seem to recall he stole from his employer rather than customers

Offline Thephoenix

It's a given that this "Hobby"of ours can be an expensive monster if out of control.
 That said, spending on fanny and the pursuit of, can be as addictive and Crack, Cocaine, Alcohol or Gambling, and destroy lives.

It Should come with a warning..

Fanny is a good servant but a bad mistress.

Offline simon07

He had people’s Power of Attorney forms as a Lawyer. His clients had dementia and some in nursing homes. He scammed them.

Terrible abuse of his position. Something went wrong in his dopamine satisfaction brain loops.
His family was torn apart by his actions.

The medication should never have been licensed.

Offline Stevelondon

I take various drugs. I expect a lot of us do.
All drugs, medications etc will come with information regarding their possible side effects.
In my case one of the medicines prescribed eases a particular problem greatly while advancing (albeit slowly) something else of concern 🤷🏼

Medications are also individualistic in the way they affect folk.
Like this drug in the article.
It would be impossible to say everyone taking it would go out and do what this solicitor did. Simply because they wouldn’t.

It’s a sad tale yes. But here was an intelligent bloke doing things he normally wouldn’t be doing……….   Yet ignored that and simply continued. 🤷🏼

As far as I’m concerned he knew what he was doing but as it was enjoyable. Kept on with it. 🤷🏼



Offline dubs

That's the name i thought of but seem to recall he stole from his employer rather than customers

He owned an opticians shop, and used the money from that.  The other staff lost their jobs when it folded.

Offline Doc Holliday

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He owned an opticians shop, and used the money from that.  The other staff lost their jobs when it folded.

The ownership of the company is unclear? He was an appointed a Director (Secretary/Finance) and yes it caused considerable financial difficulty and job losses.

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Despite the devastation his actions caused to the company and his family etc he has returned to punting. What is more he is openly still using his Giraffeman internet persona. No shame it would appear?

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The medication should never have been licensed.

But that would deprive Parkinson's sufferers from an effective treatment. The side effect is well recognised and only affects a relatively small proportion of those using the medication.

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But that would deprive Parkinson's sufferers from an effective treatment. The side effect is well recognised and only affects a relatively small proportion of those using the medication.

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Thanks for you valuable professional insight Doc, as always.  :hi:

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Sadly he killed himself, as did his own son as a result of mental health issues aggravated by his father's actions

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Offline Chazz

From the article:

"when he was arrested his mobile phone was found to contain the numbers of 90 different escorts."

I've just counted the contacts on my punting phone, and there's 94.  :blush:

Offline Blackpool Rock

From the article:

"when he was arrested his mobile phone was found to contain the numbers of 90 different escorts."

I've just counted the contacts on my punting phone, and there's 94.  :blush:
Yeah I tried adding a number a couple of months back only to be informed my contacts were full   :scare:

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