I am currently 6 days into a sugar-free streak. My aim is to make it to 6 weeks without sugar. My hope is that I will be in the habit of avoiding sugar by then so the streak will either continue or at least I will only have sugar in small moderation.
When I say sugar-free, I mean refined sugar and what I would consider unnecessary sugar. I make most my own meals at home but use ingredients like honey in granola. I also have fruit, bread and pasta. When I eat out I avoid sugar. It sounds like I am being flexible with my definition of sugar-free giving me room to move goalposts, as some people say you should avoid flour and fruit also, but I think I am rigid and I am keeping true to myself.
I eat healthy in general but I definitely have a binge habit. I can eat no-shit for 5 days then fancy something sugary and end up eating a whole box of jaffa cakes so I really let myself down (I am not proud of this). I am in a dreadful habit of once getting into a binge, thinking 'sod it I've broken my healthy cycle might as well go wild'. I find that I don't even find the sugary stuff enjoyable but just do it for the hell of it.
This habit really lets me down because I eat well most of the time and exercise regularly. I am a healthy weight but I still want to shake this habit. I spoke to my doctor who did give me a referral to see a therapist. I was keen to do this, and my health cover at work covers the cost which is very fortunate, but when I emailed potential therapists their availability was appalling and it was so hard to make appointments at convenient times and locations. I still haven't completely given up on therapists but I thought I would give sobriety from additional sugar a try myself.
So far my strategy has been:
- I drew a chart on a piece of paper with a line for each day, and I split the day into 4 segments, Bedtime to breakfast, Breakfast to Lunch, Lunch to Dinner, Dinner to Lunch. I cover in a box each time I complete the segment. I keep the chart in view most the time so I can see my progress. I even take it into the office and leave it in the corner of my desk. I previously used to track in a spreadsheet but having some tangible helps.
- Every couple of days I work out what percent of my remaining target will be achieved with each hour and day. The per day % increases each day which is really satisfying (I do a similar approach when I'm running long distance and trying to track how many miles remain in the race or session)
- I downloaded an app called 'I Am Sober', it sounds like it's just an app for alcohol but you can select a number of vices like sugar and gambling. You write in why you want to do it and each day you make a pledge. I read through my pledges every morning and I think it really helps motivate myself. It's a free app with paid extras. I am using the free version, the paid stuff looks decent but think I can get by with the free stuff. If I make it a few more weeks I might upgrade to paid version to help the developer (think that's reasonable if it helps make such a big difference to my health).
The first 6 days have gone ok. First couple of days were easy as it was end of the week then weekend and I was motivated because I just started. The last couple of days were tough but I don't think I was anywhere close to considering breaking my binge. It does apparently get easier in general but am expecting some flucuations. I have drunk more decaf coffee since I started so I think that has been my main distraction.
I thought I would share this. If anyone else wants to give up something for the next 5 or 6 weeks. Respond and we can maybe check in every week or so.