As a new person to this site, I wanted to add my experiences, as far back as I can remember, for my specific kink to hopefully help anyone else. I was actually hoping for more nuggets of wisdom when I joined, but there was less content on my interests than I hoped. This is OK and not the fault of the site of course, but I would be remiss if I didn't create what I hoped to find. If anyone has experiences that they have not shared on this site, I would love to hear them.
I enjoy CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) and BallBusting primarily, but I prefer a sexual element to it with a degree of intimacy. I don’t usually go to pro-dommes for a few reasons. I find that they often project inferiority onto me which I don’t like. It is often their way or the highway, and I have somewhat specific requirements. The sexual element is often non-present, and otherwise usually at arms-length. They also often don’t do roleplay. They have their genuine role - a dominatrix - which is a presentation to which I’m not particularly attracted. So I prefer kinky SWs.
My meets are mostly in Birmingham but not always. I live in London but travel a few days a month for work - mostly to the Midlands and sometimes farther North. I enjoy doing meets on these days as it gives me something nice to look forward to on otherwise dull trips, and the rates are generally less than the equivalent in London.
Feedback notes:
I am REALLY conservative in my out of ten ratings. So be aware that something has to be 3 or below for me to consider bad. 5/10 for me is decent. 7/10 is very good. A 9 is extraordinary. A 10 is a rarity.
I don’t request penetrative sex - the only times it’s occurred is when they have wanted to. So I can’t comment on this part of a service.
I will always try to give pros and cons. If the overall rating is high, you can consider the cons minor.
I will note in the headline whether they are a Kinky SW, Dominatrix, Kinky Masseuse, or something else.
When I rate the CBT of a Kinky SW / Masseuse, I’m being mindful that they are not experts, so it would be unreasonable of me to rate them so. It’s my decision to sacrifice expertise for the overall experience. Pro-dommes and those that have strong claims to CBT expertise are rated with more scrutiny.
The service rating is for everything else around the CBT.
Note of bias - My general type is slim, petite women with the atypical yoga body look. I also like gym-fit type athletic women. There are of course exceptions. Strong preference for no fake breasts / lips or overt cosmetic surgery. The natural / girl-next-door look is my thing, as well as gothy / alt. My attraction ratings will be purely my subjective opinion.
I don’t visit anyone who offers bareback sex.
All meets are incall.
Meet activities:
CBT & BallBusting - being kicked, punched, squeezed, and whatever other forms of making my cock and balls hurt. ProDommes are better at methods with more finesse, and it’s unusual to find an expert outside them. Sad but understandable.
Post-orgasm torment - overstimulation after orgasm.
Forced multiple orgasms.
Edging.
Being tied up.
Roleplay.
Sexual elements are mostly part of the tease. Pain only doesn’t do it for me, it’s the pain / pleasure balance
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So, below is my list of short reviews for all SWs I’ve visited for CBT & BallBusting (that I can remember and are still online and discoverable) in rough date descending order (most recent first). For the ones within the last six months I will do a full review that I will link here.
Luna Sparkle - Kinky SW - Birmingham - Positive (x2) - Seen twice on 20/09/2025 and 12/11/2025. Both 1 hour at £250.
External Link/Members OnlyA mix of mostly striking and squeezing techniques. Builds up the intensity well, however she doesn’t go as hard as I like, but that’s not unusual for SWs. I think she will be happy to go harder over sessions.
Pros:
Beautiful woman
Very dedicated to creating a convincing roleplay
Great comms
Great location
Cons:
I am not a lover of fake breasts, and that she has them was not noted on her AW profile
She’s doesn’t go as hard as I like
CBT: 7/10, Service: 8/10, Face: 8/10, Figure: 8/10 (excluding fake breast preference)
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luna_petite - Kinky SW - Bank, London - Autumn 2025 - 1 hour at £250
External Link/Members OnlyNot great CBT skills, not great roleplay skills, but incredibly sweet, talkative, and lovely. I took a risk in messaging someone with only fetish rather than domination or BDSM as likes, but their photos were just too good not to ask the question. She was happy to give it a go, but sadly it wasn’t something she naturally took to.
Pros:
Stunning figure
Utterly adorable in a very happy, goofy way
Eager to please
Cons:
Not a good ability of the kink I was there for, but I can’t complain as I accepted that was a possibility
Not amazingly skilled in pleasuring either
CBT: 4/10, Service: 5/10, Face: 8/10, Figure: 10/10-----------------------------------
Petite Isabella (Trans escort) - Kinky SW - Birmingham - Negative - Summer 2025 - 1 hour at £200
External Link/Members OnlyNot a good meet. I didn't find them very attractive. Took a risk with no face pictures and was disappointed. 3” - 4” cock that stayed hard. The pain level went from zero to too hard very quickly, and she didn’t find a good balance at all. I had to tap out for a pause quite a few times. Also kept trying to force other BDSM elements that I’m not into when I’d been clear that it was this one kink. Made everything awkward.
Pros:
They were well presented, willing, enthusiastic
Cons:
Went brutally hard and didn’t have the basic intuition to let up
Not very attractive
CBT: 2/10, Service: 4/10, Face: 4/10, Figure: 5/10-----------------------------------
Masquerade Baddie - Kinky SW - Derby - Negative - Summer 2025
External Link/Members OnlyI made the booking a few days before. I confirmed it on the day and didn’t hear anything. I started the journey anyway and got on the train. She messaged shortly after saying that she didn’t think she could make it on time. I said I’d already started my journey, to which she replied that she’d make sure she was on time, or only be slightly delayed. So I carried on my journey rather than getting off the train and going back. Got off the train, into a taxi, got halfway there only for her to cancel altogether. Waste of time and money.
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Gigi Antonelli (Trans escort) - Kinky SW - Nottingham - Positive - Summer 2025 - 1 hour at £200 (not sure) plus £50 for cum
External Link/Members OnlyDecent Ballbusting, very willing. Very feminine trans woman. About 6” cock and quite thick.
Pros:
Really hot and cute. Petite with good quality fake breasts
Stayed mostly hard, only going to semi if cock not being paid attention
Cons:
The session started late as she had forgotten. Nearly went home after not hearing from her, then had to wait while she got ready
She said she had a heavy one the evening before, and you could see she was fighting through the hangover a bit
CBT: 5/10, Service: 5/10, Face: 8/10, Figure: 9/10-----------------------------------
Bestmassageservice - Kinky Masseuse - Derby - Negative - Summer 2025
External Link/Members OnlyI made the booking a few days before. I confirmed it on the day, just before I got on the train. I got a taxi there from the station, messaged on time… and nothing. Waited half an hour, got a taxi back to the station. About three-quarters of an hour after the meet time she messaged back to say she was ready. She initially apologised then seemed annoyed that I had left. Waste of time and money.
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MIA___ - Kinky SW - London - Positive - May 2025 - 1.5 hours at £300
External Link/Members OnlyVery good CBT & Ballbusting for someone with limited experience. Rode the pleasure / pain barrier really well. Took a little coaching but it was done really nicely and intelligently.
Pros:
Beautiful woman - very classical good looks
Good English and comms
Lovely place
Great aftercare, chat, and chill
Cons:
None, really, This is not to say it was the best or my favourite session, but it is very hard to pick fault
CBT: 7/10, Service: 8/10, Face: 8/10, Figure: 7/10-----------------------------------
AhegaoMei - Primarily Kinky SW, also Dominatrix - London - Positive - April 2025. 1 hour at £180
External Link/Members OnlyGood CBT & Ballbusting - used a range of techniques and tools. Limited on the space as it was a large bed in a small room and quite cluttered.
Pros:
Very cute, petite and sweet
Great comms, did pre-session video call for free (her request) which I really appreciate
Excellent value for London, decent location
Cons:
Messy and cluttered house
The meeting start was delayed, apparently due to cleanup from the previous client. However this was well communicated and apologies made. Perhaps the bookings were too close together. However, these things happen
CBT: 7/10, Service: 5/10, Face: 7/10, Figure: 7/10-----------------------------------
Miss_Lilith - Kinky SW & Dominatrix - Birmingham - Positive (x1) Neutral (x1) - February 2024, Spring 2025, both 1 hour at £150 (not sure)
External Link/Members OnlyThe first time was good, the second time less so. Average CBT skills for a domme, good edging skills. The second meeting was because I had a last minute cancellation from another SW.
Pros:
Very reasonable rates
Confident, dramatic presence
Very sexual - wanted penetrative sex even though not part of brief
Cons:
The second time I was once again clear in that I wasn’t looking for a dominatrix-like session, but this is still the style she took. Not sure whether it was purposeful or lack of preparation / interest
CBT: 6/10, Service: 5/10, Face: 5/10, Figure: 6/10-----------------------------------
Cleo Isabella - Kinky SW - Manchester - Neutral - January 2025. 1 hour at £250 (not sure), is currently £300
External Link/Members OnlyOK CBT & Ballbusting - felt inexperienced somehow. The roleplay was a bit stilted.
Pros:
Petite, cute, pretty
Cons:
The roleplay wasn’t great and didn’t quite fit the request
She refused nudity under the banner of ‘next time if you’re good’ which wasn’t part of the agreed session, and I feel I missed out
Felt a bit cold
Poor value for money
CBT: 5/10, Service: 4/10, Face: 6/10, Figure: 7/10-----------------------------------
MissPixieRosexx - Kinky Masseuse - Nottingham - Positive (x3) - Seen three times on 19/04/2024, 14/08/2024, 09/11/2024. All 1 hour at £130.
External Link/Members OnlyMostly striking techniques. Has no problems going hard. Sessions are initiated with a wonderful massage, body to body. This is a lovely way to relax into the session.
Pros:
Extremely pretty - very much my type. Petite, and well self-described as slinky
Happy to experiment - she is a masseuse primarily
Seems to take genuine joy in what she’s doing
Very reasonable rates if you’re looking for a non-sex meet
Cons:
Location moves (this may no longer be the case)
Has been cautious about noise in one of the locations
The last time I contacted her, she said she was going to confirm the next day then didn’t
CBT: 8/10, Service: 8/10, Face: 10/10, Figure: 10/10-----------------------------------
Aeva / Mistress Ae - Dominatrix (Primarily but also Kinky SW) - Tottenham, London - Positive - 07/10/2024. 1 hour at £300
External Link/Members OnlyExternal Link/Members OnlyA rare pro-domme meet, chosen because they advertise on London Kinky Escorts, and have an online presence that displays a range of approaches and styles of play. If I had to choose the most advanced and skillful CBT practitioner I’ve ever encountered, this is the one. Exceptional skill in layering types of pain and edging towards a final, extreme orgasm.
Pros:
Striking looks - alt and gothy with amazing tattoos. Incredible butt
Radiates raw, primal energy
Incredibly skilled
Cons:
Used an anal electric insertable when not discussed and I wasn’t prepared for anal play
CBT: 10/10, Service: 9/10, Face: 9/10, Figure: 9/10-----------------------------------
xMADISON DOLLx - Kinky SW - Birmingham - Negative - July 2024. 1 hour at £180 (not sure)
External Link/Members OnlyA last minute stand-in from a cancellation. A bit of a disappointment in looks, but this is largely my fault. I did not predict quite how fake Barbie-ish she was going to be, despite the clear signs. She was very eager and happy to CBT / Ballbusting but the scene was constantly peppered with sudden pauses with questions of ‘is this ok’, ‘am I doing this right’, ‘ooh are you ok’. I welcome gauging tolerance, especially on the first meet, but these were really frequent, intrusive and ruined the whole thing. She was very willing and sweet about it, but a complete flop at taking the lead and making it immersive.
Pros:
Very chatty, bubbly, eager to please
Great comms
Aside from the unnatural parts of appearance, was slim, toned and obviously takes care of herself
Cons:
Unnatural appearance, but this is only a con because it’s not my thing and I should have chosen a SW more carefully, or not taken one if I was rushed. My bad
Indecisive, couldn’t maintain good flow of the session
CBT: 2/10, Service: 4/10, Attractiveness: N/A for above reasons-----------------------------------
Selena Pearl - Kinky SW - Birmingham - Positive - May 2024. 1 hour, can’t remember rate, but I think less than her current £250
External Link/Members OnlyA good combination of striking and squeezing techniques. Good at edging, being generally mean and taking charge.
Pros:
Gorgeous figure
Seems to really enjoy her work
Smelled fantastic
Experimental and intuitive CBT for a non-expert
Cons:
Fake breasts, but very good ones
CBT: 7/10, Service: 8/10, Face: 7/10, Figure: 8/10-----------------------------------
I_Am_Miss_Poison - Dominatrix - Birmingham - Neutral - Autumn 2023. 1 hour at £180 (not sure)
External Link/Members OnlyA very average dominatrix visit. Just OK. Felt somewhat lacking but also not awful. So featureless either way that I can’t give pros / cons.
CBT: 5/10, Service: 5/10, Face: 5/10, Figure: 6/10-----------------------------------
**Megan** - Kinky SW - Midlands - Neutral - September 2023. 1 hour at £150
External Link/Members OnlyNot an awful meet, but not one that I was overjoyed with. She was nice enough, but I took a risk that didn’t pay off with her photos and I didn’t find her very attractive. She claims Ballbusting on her profile but this felt a bit rigid and lacking in practice or skill. Not going to go into pros / cons as I don’t remember much details apart from being somewhat underwhelmed.
CBT: 4/10, Service: 4/10, Face: 4/10, Figure: 5/10-----------------------------------
InControlNicole - Dominatrix (soft-dom) - Sheffield - Positive - August 2023. 1 hour at £150 (not sure)
External Link/Members OnlyA rare pro-domme meet, chosen because they specify that they do sessions not as a ‘hardcore mistress’, and that their default play style is ‘sensual and loving’. Play style was very measured with gentle guidance, breath control and excellent edging.
Pros:
Pretty, very natural looks
Confident, skilled, nurturing, passionate, warm
Lovely place
Cons:
Was over-reserved on my pain tolerance. I understand the need to not go to the edge for a first time meeting, but I felt this was too far under. Still very enjoyable though
CBT: 7/10, Service: 8/10, Face: 8/10, Figure: 8/10