Learnt a valuable lesson this evening

[Inabox]

Hey guys, lurker here, made an account to post this.

Learnt a valuable lesson this evening, had a 30 min session with a new girl. She wasn't what I was expecting but she was good looking so I went ahead anyway and everything went well, was a good time.

Afterwards she offered for me to use the shower facilities which I gratefully accepted, I usually shower at home but she used a massage oil for a massage. It didn't cross my mind until I got out of the shower but I left my clothing in the bedroom, with my wallet, keys, phone etc.

Safe to say my money was gone, I took a little extra incase of the usual additional extras offered. I am not too bothered about this but my wallet also contained my driving licence, work ID, business cards, debit cards etc.

I feel stupid for leaving it now. Hopefully no damage is done, I can't see anything noticeably missing besides my cash.

Opinions?

[CatBBW]

I'm sorry this has happened to you. I'm guessing she just wanted the cash.

If you really want to be extra careful, cancel the cards. Apart from that, do you use a punting phone or SIM? If not, make that your priority to get ASAP.

Naming and shaming will help everyone else here, so please post a link to the thief.

[galcom666]

Live and learn...

Oh and name and shame too.

[Krystyna]

So at wot  point did you notice your money had gone ? I take it this was an in call as the wg offered a  shower .
Where was the wg when you came out of the shower and when did you discover this atrocity ?

[Krystyna]

I'm sorry this has happened to you. I'm guessing she just wanted the cash.

If you really want to be extra careful, cancel the cards. Apart from that, do you use a punting phone or SIM? If not, make that your priority to get ASAP.

Naming and shaming will help everyone else here, so please post a link to the thief.

He said only cash was missing

[CatBBW]

He said only cash was missing

Yes, but you can clone cards within seconds, or take the details including the security code within a few seconds more. I didn't want to add to the OP's shit-stack, but if he was THAT worried (that it wasn't just the cash she wanted), the cards need to be reported as lost/stolen and replacements sent ASAP.

[Inabox]

So at wot  point did you notice your money had gone ? I take it this was an in call as the wg offered a  shower .
Where was the wg when you came out of the shower and when did you discover this atrocity ?

She was in the bedroom when I came out, she then went in the shower after me leaving me alone in the room which is when I checked my belongings. I would have confronted her if anything else was missing but I didn't confront her about the cash as I didn't want to cause a scene.. I can only imagine how that might have gone. It was only £20. I did have a nosey perk around to see if I could thief it back hah. But you know they never leave cash in the room they work in.

[Krystyna]

Im just a bit wary about it being his first post Cat to be honest and a very negative one at that , hence my question about where was the wg when he came out of the shower .

[fredpunter]

Sounds like Bollox to me, but I've had a drink so maybe a bit harsh

[Krystyna]

Il 2nd that

[tbrad]

Well, working girls do have a lot of tricks up their sleeves, but stealing from a punters wallet doesn't tend to be one of them, not saying it doesn't happen, but it just doesn't really fit with the scenario.

You have her address, you have her telephone number, there is risk of getting caught by you plus the risk of causing a scene at her address if you went back demanding your money, it just wouldn't be worth it from her perspective... that is unless she is crazy, and there are quite a lot of crazy women out there.

[Inabox]

Not sure why you think I'd bother to create an account to lie to you, I wasn't trying to bad mouth anyone, warn anyone or collect Internet points. I was just documenting my experience and seeking opinions on the safety regarding my identity. CAT, your response was helpful thank you.

[Inabox]

Well, working girls do have a lot of tricks up their sleeves, but stealing from a punters wallet doesn't tend to be one of them, not saying it doesn't happen, but it just doesn't really fit with the scenario.

You have her address, you have her telephone number, there is risk of getting caught by you plus the risk of causing a scene at her address if you went back demanding your money, it just wouldn't be worth it from her perspective... that is unless she is crazy, and there are quite a lot of crazy women out there.

For the record it was a Romanian girl, so probably not her permanent residence. That's usually a red flag for me but her profile had good feedback and I booked short notice so the regulars weren't available.

[akauya]

Inabox, if what you said it's true then we of course feel sorry for you. What it has been asked of you is to name and shame the thieving prossie so other punters can avoid her. So far no link.

So, who was the thieving prossie? Please name and shame.

[Krystyna]

You lose 20 quid and register on here at ten to midnight to ask advice ?
For 20 quid ?
What a load of bobbins !
Some may swallow this others may not . Im of the latter . Obviously .

[Sailormack]

After all these years of punting it still amazes my that some of you boys still take along keys, credit cards, watches, smartphones and other shit to the appointment.

Let me give it to you as simple as possible.

Take only the cash and maybe a few quid extra for any unexpected extras in the room.

Everything else stays at home and your house keys and punting only phone stays in the car which is parked somewhere public like a supermarket car park so all you should have on you is the cash for your appointment and your car key. if  someone steals your car key they would have to find your motor.

It goes without saying you should not leave anything valuable unattended and you should keep your wits about you at all times.

How hard is that 

[tbrad]

Naming and shaming would be meaningless, anyone can create an account here and make up a story, especially a brand new account like his.

This sounds like bollox to me too.

[CatBBW]

Im just a bit wary about it being his first post Cat to be honest and a very negative one at that , hence my question about where was the wg when he came out of the shower .

Indeed

But if my post helps just one (other) person then I haven't wasted my time posting (hopefully) helpful info

[CatBBW]

Not sure why you think I'd bother to create an account to lie to you, I wasn't trying to bad mouth anyone, warn anyone or collect Internet points. I was just documenting my experience and seeking opinions on the safety regarding my identity. CAT, your response was helpful thank you.

No problem

Please name and shame, you will help your fellow punters avoid a thief

[akauya]

For the record it was a Romanian girl, so probably not her permanent residence. That's usually a red flag for me but her profile had good feedback and I booked short notice so the regulars weren't available.

How convenient to say the thieving prossie is Romanian - were you hoping to drum up support from the anti-Romanian brigade?

Why are you still not naming and shaming?

[OldAdmin]

I don't see the reason for suspicions here, I've always been careful enough to take my belongings with me to the shower, and always leaving all my personal items like credit cards in the car, even for hotel outcalls.

Prossies are strangers. Why should they be immediately trusted?

[valdishere]

Yes Inabox you took too fuckin long in the shower mate!
Meantime I managed a quickie punt blowjob and dipped a jacket in the room for £20 when she left to spit, she wouldn't swallow.

Yes its as believable as your post bud.

[fredpunter]

they shouldn't be immediately trusted and anyone meeting them for the first time would be a fool to leave his valuables unattended.

But op has still not named and shamed the thief, and she must be completely fucking stupid if he only had £20 left in his wallet and she took the lot - if I have £100 in my wallet and someone nicked 20, or even 40, I may not notice until I'd left the flat, but if they take the lot it's a bit bleedin obvious. and there's no way the prossie could predict how the punter may react.

and if she was a thief why bother shagging him, why not just rip him off from the outset?

I first registered on this site for a similar reason to the op - cos I felt I'd been ripped off by a cheating cow. Never crossed my mind not to name her. I then left the site for several months and returned only because I'd been ripped off again by another lying cheating cow who it turned out was already reported as such in two separate threads on here - and I added my experience to both of them. Why anyone would be reluctant to name a thieving cow is beyond me, unless maybe it's bollox. I will be only too happy to eat my words if proved wrong.   

[valdishere]

From OP comments I assumed it was only £20 he had stolen - Not being left with only£20 in wallet and the rest gone?

[fredpunter]

From OP comments I assumed it was only £20 he had stolen - Not being left with only£20 in wallet and the rest gone?

maybe I wasn't clear - I understood the same as you - my point was that if some-one empties a wallet it's obvious, if they just lift a bit out, it isn't so obvious.

[smiths]

Hey guys, lurker here, made an account to post this.

Learnt a valuable lesson this evening, had a 30 min session with a new girl. She wasn't what I was expecting but she was good looking so I went ahead anyway and everything went well, was a good time.

Afterwards she offered for me to use the shower facilities which I gratefully accepted, I usually shower at home but she used a massage oil for a massage. It didn't cross my mind until I got out of the shower but I left my clothing in the bedroom, with my wallet, keys, phone etc.

Safe to say my money was gone, I took a little extra incase of the usual additional extras offered. I am not too bothered about this but my wallet also contained my driving licence, work ID, business cards, debit cards etc.

I feel stupid for leaving it now. Hopefully no damage is done, I can't see anything noticeably missing besides my cash.

Opinions?

My opinion is if this is genuine please name and shame this low life thief, and in future follow the mountains of advice about safety and security on here that you somehow missed as a lurker.

Do you really need to be advised to only take what you need in to a punt and NEVER leave your things alone with a complete stranger, basic common sense to me.

[CatBBW]

Do you really need to be advised to only take what you need in to a punt and NEVER leave your things alone with a complete stranger, basic common sense to me.

Sadly, YES. Many many MANY punters and potential punters are too trusting and have no idea that there are thieves, scammers, con artists and scumbags in this industry

(I speak from experience - professional AND personal)

[Johny Stone]

He can name and shame any romanian prossie, that's why he choosed to say it was a romanian.
Bollocks.

[raylondoner]

I don't even leave my wallet, phone, etc in my coat when I hang it up at the barbers shop, even though it's usually in view. 

[CBPaul]

Without a link to the prossie this has zero credibility. With link at least we would be able to make a more informed decision about the prossie.

I can believe this happens, prossies on the make will be able to sum up a punter and decide if he is likely to make a fuss or crawl away licking his wounds. If it's the latter then they'll see what they can steal, if they are touring around then they don't give a shit, tomorrow they'll be at the other end of the country and Bogdan the pimp / Audi driver isn't exactly famed for his customer service. 

If this is true OP then your options are

1. Go to the police and tell them a scabbing Romanian prossie nicked 20 quid off you.
2. Forget the 20 quid, learn from your mistake and don't leave valuables unattended - that's if you really have to take them along.

[James999]

Opinions?

If it actually happened, then my opinion is you're a twat, why take a wallet and additional money & ID into a punt, were you trying to impress her, just leave it in the glovebox of the car or under the seat out of sight.

WHo was the pro$$ie, or have you not made that bit up yet?

[cockneybstrd]

If this has taken place

I would cancel the cards because if she has dipped for the 20 notes. (Probably only got 30 quid out of what you paid her anyway).

She will have probably put the long number and three digit code from the back and given them to Sergei who is probably ordering a new tractor this morning for his parents back home

And to the OP if you are long term lurker you would have probably seen numerous threads on safety tips for punters

[Toshiba]

Never ever take ya wallet to a punt

I take not a penny mire than i need to, ive never extended ever and never intend to

Trust no one, ever

[Toshiba]

And yes, if you've "lurked" then ive no sympathy like others who should know better

Tough titty im afraid, its your own daft fault

[greychap]

Hey guys, lurker here, made an account to post this.

Learnt a valuable lesson this evening, had a 30 min session with a new girl. She wasn't what I was expecting but she was good looking so I went ahead anyway and everything went well, was a good time.

Afterwards she offered for me to use the shower facilities which I gratefully accepted, I usually shower at home but she used a massage oil for a massage. It didn't cross my mind until I got out of the shower but I left my clothing in the bedroom, with my wallet, keys, phone etc.

Safe to say my money was gone, I took a little extra incase of the usual additional extras offered. I am not too bothered about this but my wallet also contained my driving licence, work ID, business cards, debit cards etc.

I feel stupid for leaving it now. Hopefully no damage is done, I can't see anything noticeably missing besides my cash.

Opinions?

Why would you take a load of i.d with you to a punt, I never carry my driving licence it is always left in the house.

[cunnyhunt]

Why would you take a load of i.d with you to a punt

To prove he was not a Romainian ? 

[greychap]

To prove he was not a Romainian ? 

Any stranger could be a thief look how many girls are on the blacklist.

Nobody should leave money, bank cards in any room alone with anyone you don't know.

That goes for escorts as well, I used to see a escort that saw a punter that extended in the room gave her an extra £150 which she did not take out the room, put it on top of wardrobe at the end she went in to the bathroom come back punter took the money back and done a runner, she was shocked as he seemed so nice and mentioned another booking the next day. She said that mistake would never happen again.

[potato]

I can quite believe it happened for a number of reasons. The first one, which no one has picked up on, is that the OP mentioned that the girl wasn't as he expected but carried on anyway as she was pretty. That suggests that the first "crime" was a Bait & Switch and the OP should have walked there and then. It may be that more than one girl worked out of the same address and the other was busy - or it could have being the standard "rotating girl same profile" typical of  our Romanian brethren..  Either way the B&S should have put the OP on maximum alert.

As for knicking £20, maybe it was her last day over here and she was out for all she could get. Who's going to kick up a fuss over £20 anyway? Do you risk a heated argument over it potentially ending up in Police involvement which would not be good  If the OP is married or has a GF.

The answer is to name and shame on here to warn others that could visit via that profile - especially if there are group of girls doing the same thing from that address.   

[Ramone78]

Its Bollocks
No one in their right mind would take a Wallet on a Punt let alone leave a Romanian Whore alone with it while taking a shower

[tantric talents]

Why would you take a load of i.d with you to a punt, I never carry my driving licence it is always left in the house.

Not carrying the driving license is a very good point. The driving licence is the main item likely to carry the punters home address. I know that some people believe that the details on the chip and pin credit cards are generally not that much use to an amateur thief these days even if the card is cloned, without the pin or the correct cards address. However the punters address could possibly be found by a clever Sergei googling around the name on the card. Otherwise of course the card details could be sold on to a rather more sophisticated criminal organisation leading to who knows what!

I find that even if I use my old basic punting phone to arrange meets I still end up using my smartphone too, to get the postcode directions. If you are punting en route as it were and therefore being unable to have left excess money and possessions at home, I suppose the real dilemma is whether you feel it is safer to leave everything else in your car besides your car key and punt cash rather than keep it with you? Not sure if I want to leave a top range phone, house keys  cash cards etc under my car seat for an hour or two?

Only one other solution then. If you need to use the bathroom first to clean up or shower, go in at the start of the meet with all clothes on etc. Then the rule must be absolutely no showering after unless you are with the girl at all times and are absolutely certain there is no one else on the premises!

I am still at a loss to understand why the op refuses to post the girls link. Notwithstanding that, the post has brought up some useful points to consider for both the novice and the more experienced punter.

[Silver Birch]

Hey guys, lurker here, made an account to post this.

And also as a lurker, you would know that you cannot expect a post like this to have any credibility until you name and shame.

Link to profile you made the booking with please (even if you were switched when you got there).

[G-style]

Just a thought - the girl may well now know the true name of the OP and his address. If he names and shames on here then some revenge may be forth coming.
At the moment he has lost 20 quid, had a bitch about it and received some sage advice.
Naming her on here could be a world of pain 

Me! I would cancel my cards, take it on the chin as a lesson learnt and cross my fingers that thats the end of it.

[CBPaul]

Refusal to post a link is either because he's worried about comeback from Sergei and his henchmen or because it's a load of bollocks.

I take precautions about the things on me when punting, not leaving anything out of sight is the most obvious, it isn't hard to go to a bathroom clothed and undress in there for a shower. Also not flashing the contents of my wallet is an obvious one.

It is a bit extreme to leave everything in the car / at home / at work or wherever else. I got stopped by the police on route to a punt once, they were pulling over loads of motorists and checking the cars and drivers over. Question 1 was i.d., so if I only has my 120 quid cash on me I guess I would have been in for a hard time. I also had a tyre give out on the way home once, no credit card on me would have meant a long walk in the cold and pissing rain. So there is arguments for and against.

If any of the OPs story is true then the prossie was most likely an opportunist, the 20 quid was her bonus and probably all she was interested in. IMO card skimming and identity fraud, whilst possible, are far less likely.

It is a good reminder though. When you go swimming do you leave your valuables locked away or leave them lying around in the changing room ? Basic stuff really and more to do with stupidity than risking getting scammed by the prossie and her heavies.

[SmackmaBitchUp]

Maybe Father Christmas came down the chimney and took it! 

[markw]

To those in this thread saying it's very unlikely a girl would dip a wallet, the same thing happened to me a few years ago.

And she didn't take all the cash in my wallet, so I was less likely to notice the missing notes. Clever.

[Type_O_Negative]

OP is quiet now. Still no name. I think this story is just his fantasy 

[Garden69]

OP is quiet now. Still no name. I think this story is just his fantasy 

+1 else OP would name and shame. Why tell us the story otherwise !

[markw]

The fact that he didn't name the girl makes it far more likely to be true. Why put up a story like this otherwise? If he had named the girl in the OP, it would arouse suspicions that it was a malicious post, aimed at damaging the woman.

This sort of thing does happen, and I for one learned to be more careful with my belongings.

[Ben4454]

When you go to the shower or bathroom always take wallets and phones with you.

[Inabox]

Hey, for those who think I have abandoned this post, please remember it was 1am when I posted and I had work at 8am with a deadline today so I am pretty busy.

I am on the fence with name and shaming, it wasn't my original intention to do so for some of the above posted reasons and just because it's not really in my nature to do so.

Yes I am a twat and I learnt my lesson. I am relatively new to punting and I hadn't taken a shower on the premises before so it didn't cross my mind at the time, I went from the bedroom to the bathroom nude, so it didn't really occur to me to grab my clothing.

I also walked to the punt, I didn't drive as it was only 2 miles and I stopped at a cash point and had a smoke on the way. It would have been reasonable to leave some of my belongings at home but it was cold so I had my coat and I needed my wallet / card to get the cash out. It's also worth mentioning it wasn't only £20 in the wallet, she didn't lift the whole lot, just £20 of the contents.

It's not my concern if people here believe me or not, I was just sharing my experience and looking for opinions on the safety of my identity / cards. My driving licence has an old address on it as it is pretty old now and I have moved several times since then but as I mentioned it did have my cards within. I am not really concerned about losing £20, though it is annoying.