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Offline Asian Playboy

Probably easier to find a girl that will let you cum twice in 30 mins. But I cant always be assed to go all the way to London for a punt.

Is there anyway to last longer in 30 mins for 1 cum? Normally takes me about 10 minutes lol.

Google has been terrible as hell.

Offline Brumish

Wish I had the same problem!
I always need more than 30 mins and it costs me more in the long run.

Offline Happylad

You follow the victorian mothers` advice to their daughters - "Lie back, close your eyes, and think of England"

LL

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I've spent my whole punting career trying to master this. It doesn't always go to plan but I can usually hold out right til the end of the booking unless I get a bitch who wants to rush me or behaves in some other way that messes up my routine!

Here are my tips.
* Start fucking very very slowly, only once you've gotten used to the feeling can you gradually speed up, and then slow down again when you feel like you're near cumming.
* change positions if you feel the urge to cum.
* squeezing the end of my cock under the helmet between finger and thumb for a couple of seconds often makes me lose the desire to cum if I'm close. If you practise lasting longer you won't get this close in 30 mins.
* focus on something else to last longer. E.g I sometimes think about what I had for breakfast or plan my post-punt snack whilst I'm getting sucked off to avoid cumming too early.
* be the clock-watcher. Divide your session up into slots to ensure you get everything you're after in the limited time and that you don't spend too much time in an activity which you know from your own experience will make you cum.
* I like to be in control of the fucking so I can control the pace. I'll only let the WG ride me if it's near the end of the session. This position is tricky to hold out for long since the girl can easily switch up the pace. Even in doggy you can control the speed by staying pressed against her when you feel like you're close - in this position she won't be able to create much friction between you to bring you off, no matter how much work she puts in.
* lastly, perhaps the most important. Viagra or other ED drugs will make most people last longer!

GeeWiz

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Empty your tubes before the punt.

Offline seeker

Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. .
Kegal exercise I think it's called ...
They really do work ...
Shag like a stallion   :cool:

Offline regenmeister

Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. .
Kegal exercise I think it's called ...
They really do work ...
Shag like a stallion   :cool:
Ive been doing kegels and REVERse kegels for the last few months because I was a 10 min wonder like the OP.
Reverse kegels make me last way longer than I used to and I hardly have to stop because I can control my arousal much better than I used to.
They are weird exercise and take a little while to get the hang of but perseverance will yield results.

Dodo

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I can hold out forever with a mac on so I tend to start with a mutual sensual massage, then a bit of muff diving, OWO, penetration in various ways and finish of with OWO or a HJ and if all has gone to plan a little chat at the end ........simples ;)


Offline anyfucker

drugs,  you could try Dapoxetine and see if/how it works for you.
Like many other drugs your reaction may vary.

Offline HappyandLucky

For me the point of punting is to blow your load in the most enjoyable way .  If you think too must about lasting you will not really enjoy yourself.  If you can recover quickly enough why not tell the girl you want a come twice service in 30 mins and cover all bases. If not take the lead, let her give you oral, calm down by giving her some in return. Then move onto the main act  :thumbsup:


Offline BillGoldberg

Probably easier to find a girl that will let you cum twice in 30 mins. But I cant always be assed to go all the way to London for a punt.

Is there anyway to last longer in 30 mins for 1 cum? Normally takes me about 10 minutes lol.

Google has been terrible as hell.

Masturbate to porn, then when you sense youre about to cum stop all stimulation until the feeling subsides, then start up again, get close to cumming, stop, start again - try and do this cycle around 4/5 times, youll also find the orgasm once you finally allow it is particularly intense and this increased intensity of orgasm translates over when youre having actual sex with a partner

Over time this really improves your control and staying power

Its worked wonders for me

Offline Clicktocollect

Probably easier to find a girl that will let you cum twice in 30 mins. But I cant always be assed to go all the way to London for a punt.

Is there anyway to last longer in 30 mins for 1 cum? Normally takes me about 10 minutes lol.

Google has been terrible as hell.

Have you considered the fifteen minute quickie if it is substantially less than the thirty mins? Although I wouldn't do fifteen on the irrational thought it might be shite service

Offline Juankerr

Masturbate to porn, then when you sense youre about to cum stop all stimulation until the feeling subsides, then start up again, get close to cumming, stop, start again - try and do this cycle around 4/5 times, youll also find the orgasm once you finally allow it is particularly intense and this increased intensity of orgasm translates over when youre having actual sex with a partner

Over time this really improves your control and staying power

Its worked wonders for me
+1  :thumbsup:

I found that like Bill, once I had 'trained' myself I could go for age's without getting close to popping and I have had a pretty good success rate thank's to this method.
« Last Edit: December 01, 2014, 08:44:09 pm by Juankerr »

Offline regenmeister

Masturbate to porn, then when you sense youre about to cum stop all stimulation until the feeling subsides, then start up again, get close to cumming, stop, start again - try and do this cycle around 4/5 times, youll also find the orgasm once you finally allow it is particularly intense and this increased intensity of orgasm translates over when youre having actual sex with a partner

Over time this really improves your control and staying power

Its worked wonders for me

How often do you stop or how long before you have to stop?

Offline Juankerr

How often do you stop or how long before you have to stop?
Can't believe I'm actually going to post regarding my wanking ( or should that be Juanking  :D ) habit's but here go's...

I personally watch the late night phone wank channel's ( and still do ) and set myself a time target to wank for whilst varying the speed at which I 'work' , if at any time during this I felt like I was getting close I would just slow down or stop for a minute and then continue. As Bill said, I found that over time that both my stamina and control improved greatly.

It has made a big difference to my punting.
« Last Edit: December 01, 2014, 09:11:03 pm by Juankerr »

UberX

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Probably easier to find a girl that will let you cum twice in 30 mins. But I cant always be assed to go all the way to London for a punt.

Is there anyway to last longer in 30 mins for 1 cum? Normally takes me about 10 minutes lol.

Google has been terrible as hell.

actually if you can manage to cum two times in 30 mins that is fine  rather than staying longer . try some natural method according to Bill's post and do not take any drugs or tablets, Viagra or any type of herbal chinese  tablets which will increase your orgasm but there are side effects and not recommended if your erection process is normal.

Offline regenmeister

Can't believe I'm actually going to post regarding my wanking ( or should that be Juanking  :D ) habit's but here go's...

I personally watch the late night phone wank channel's ( and still do ) and set myself a time target to wank for whilst varying the speed at which I 'work' , if at any time during this I felt like I was getting close I would just slow down or stop for a minute and then continue. As Bill said, I found that over time that both my stamina and control improved greatly.

It has made a big difference to my punting.

I felt weird asking the question, so thanks for answering. I used to have to stop for a minute as well, but now i might only stop 2 or 3 times for 20s or so over a 30-40 session since i started reverse kegels. If i've had a few beers it's much longer.

Offline BillGoldberg

How often do you stop or how long before you have to stop?

Thats individual, but for me I only have to stop for perhaps on average 1/4 of a minute, it varies, depending on how horny I am or how attracted I am to the girl I'm with or how good the sex feels, how tired I am etc etc

If I'm really turned on and the sex is great, probably a minute or so, or if Im jerking off and particularly horny, around 1/2 a minute at a rough guess

Its up to you to discover these things, eventually you'll get to know your own body far better and be able to guage for yourself, it pays dividends when youre actually having sex with a partner

Dont expect instant results but if you stick with it, after a week or 2 you should really start to notice a big improvement in staying power and control in terms of delaying your orgasm
« Last Edit: December 03, 2014, 12:49:40 am by BillGoldberg »

Jayda

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I'm not a guy but in terms of cumming I don't think it's an issue when you can cum be it it 30 seconds or 30 minutes. Some guys can't cum at all for various reasons and it's not from lack of want or  trying that's when it's more of an issue be that due to age, medication, illness.nerves guilt or simply if the girl doesn't float your boat.

Some clients I've seen assume unless their performance is that of a pornstars then they are doing something wrong and are not normal. In most cases there's a misconception amongst men with regards to performance. In some cases this stems from drawing comparison s to what they see in porn. Porn is for arousal/entertainment purposes not something to live up to and/or measure your self against. I think this is the male equivalent to females who aspire or believe they should look like size zero models etc. I have come across a lot of men that have unrealistic idea of what the norm is. For example I'm not big enough or I come too quick are two of the biggest things men worry about in the bedroom department.  Just go in enjoy yourself and perhaps being able to last longer will  come naturally. The reality is not many men last for ages and ages then again what is ages?

Here's my observation the first time you have sex with someone generally you will cum quick however if you have been having sex with that same person for say the last 20 years or whatever then you will generally last longer. As time passes the excitement goes. With new encounters ie one night stands, punting or your first time with a new partner the excitement is generally at it's peak. I've also noticed circumcised men come slightly quicker in comparison to non circumcised men maybe that might be a contributary factor perhaps it's more sensitive.

I've been told a few tricks by men who can control but I daren't say as I don't if they are true

« Last Edit: December 03, 2014, 05:21:28 am by Jayda »

Offline smiths

Probably easier to find a girl that will let you cum twice in 30 mins. But I cant always be assed to go all the way to London for a punt.

Is there anyway to last longer in 30 mins for 1 cum? Normally takes me about 10 minutes lol.

Google has been terrible as hell.

Yes, have control of your own body and pop when your ready to. Always makes me chuckle when i read posts where the punter says the WG made him pop. I pop when i am ready to, not because the WG makes me.

Offline SamLP

I tend to do 30 minute punts now and have timed it to finish on time. I could last longer but it's my money and my time. Exercise and regular sex all contribute to controlling the urge to cum

Offline BillGoldberg

I'm not a guy but in terms of cumming I don't think it's an issue when you can cum be it it 30 seconds or 30 minutes. Some guys can't cum at all for various reasons and it's not from lack of want or  trying that's when it's more of an issue be that due to age, medication, illness.nerves guilt or simply if the girl doesn't float your boat.

Some clients I've seen assume unless their performance is that of a pornstars then they are doing something wrong and are not normal. In most cases there's a misconception amongst men with regards to performance. In some cases this stems from drawing comparison s to what they see in porn. Porn is for arousal/entertainment purposes not something to live up to and/or measure your self against. I think this is the male equivalent to females who aspire or believe they should look like size zero models etc. I have come across a lot of men that have unrealistic idea of what the norm is. For example I'm not big enough or I come too quick are two of the biggest things men worry about in the bedroom department.  Just go in enjoy yourself and perhaps being able to last longer will  come naturally. The reality is not many men last for ages and ages then again what is ages?

Here's my observation the first time you have sex with someone generally you will cum quick however if you have been having sex with that same person for say the last 20 years or whatever then you will generally last longer. As time passes the excitement goes. With new encounters ie one night stands, punting or your first time with a new partner the excitement is generally at it's peak. I've also noticed circumcised men come slightly quicker in comparison to non circumcised men maybe that might be a contributary factor perhaps it's more sensitive.

I've been told a few tricks by men who can control but I daren't say as I don't if they are true

The thread starter asked for advice on how to last longer during a 30 minute punt, not to be told it doesnt matter

Of course if youre a wg its great for you if the punter finishes quickly, you can get him out ASAP, you wont have him 'banging away at you for ages with no end in sight' etc etc.......... I doubt those concerns were at the forefront of his mind when he asked the original question

Jayda

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The thread starter asked for advice on how to last longer during a 30 minute punt, not to be told it doesnt matter

Of course if youre a wg its great for you if the punter finishes quickly, you can get him out ASAP, you wont have him 'banging away at you for ages with no end in sight' etc etc.......... I doubt those concerns were at the forefront of his mind when he asked the original question

No not at all as for one I only offer hour appointments and in that hour I don't have any restrictions on how many times a client can cum. If he can only manage once that's fine you just have to prolong other areas of play but if he can cum 2, 3 times that's fine too. If someone was to cum too quick that gives you plenty of time for recovery so a 2nd attempt may be possible. That's why I said it's not a major area of concern and men worry unnecessarily. Not because I want them in and out ASAP.  I've never rushed clients out unless it's their decision to leave early.  Also getting your money's worth is subject to enjoying your self in the allocated time and doesn't necessarily mean in order to do that you have to pound away for hours. All I was saying was from experience and in reality it's rare.

However il try again and try to give examples of how clients have said they control coming one that it's in the breathing try slowing down the breathing and it takes the edge of things and the other is using your pelvic muscles. One or the other and not at the same time. In early attempts you will be aware that you are doing whichever but with practice it will becomes second nature.

Is that a better attempt?

LL

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Is that a better attempt?
At veiled touting?
No, we can still see right through it.  :hi:

Offline BillGoldberg


Jayda

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I know the site rules and I'm clever enough to know people on here are not thick.  When I wrote the post my agenda was not 'veiled touting'. I suppose whatever you write on a forum is subject and open to interpretation and being a punting forum in favour of punters it's only inevitable Il be met with cynicism being a wg.



« Last Edit: December 04, 2014, 03:37:18 am by Jayda »

ATMIV

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At veiled touting?
No, we can still see right through it.  :hi:

Not touting - she was merely joining in on the thread and trying to offer advice