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Author Topic: And there was me thinking that me and my regular had a special thing going  (Read 5867 times)

Offline Andre 3000

i just  read this thread from SAAFE. and i am quite shock what i read its the first time i come come across the saafe fourm .

SAAFE is recommended reading especially for men who post and lurk on here and who verge into the fluffier side.

A short sharp shock of seeing how WG's talk among themselves about punters, usually removes the blinkers about being 'special'

Punting is fun,but always remember, it's a business transaction.

Offline Corus Boy

The trouble with links to SAAFE is that you end up looking at other threads and find lovely gems like;

"...With each year I'm in this business I hate men a little bit more..."

My advice;

Get Out Of It!

Offline greychap

The trouble with links to SAAFE is that you end up looking at other threads and find lovely gems like;

"...With each year I'm in this business I hate men a little bit more..."

My advice;

Get Out Of It!

This is nothing new a lot of the workers probably dislike men a lot and are wishing them dead in the middles of action. The thing about reading SAAFE is it opens up your eyes to what the escorts go through, constant nut jobs stalking and threats of violence towards the workers, not knowing what nut jobs are going to turn up on an incall.

Also you can see why a lot of escorts insist on you washing when you arrive even when you say you have, some describe the guy has thick cream cheese down below and shit all round there arse and pretending they have washed.

Having to see these type of punters they deserve every penny and more.
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This is nothing new a lot of the workers probably dislike men a lot and are wishing them dead in the middles of action. The thing about reading SAAFE is it opens up your eyes to what the escorts go through, constant nut jobs stalking and threats of violence towards the workers, not knowing what nut jobs are going to turn up on an incall.

Also you can see why a lot of escorts insist on you washing when you arrive even when you say you have, some describe the guy has thick cream cheese down below and shit all round there arse and pretending they have washed.

Having to see these type of punters they deserve every penny and more.

+1

Turn it the other way and have more of the WG's reading some of the posts on this forum. Most is really useful common sense and informative but there are a few posters that are disrespectful at best or misogynistic in reality.

I enjoy reading the SAAFE forum, like this one, it's an eye opener.

Offline greychap

+1

Turn it the other way and have more of the WG's reading some of the posts on this forum. Most is really useful common sense and informative but there are a few posters that are disrespectful at best or misogynistic in reality.

I enjoy reading the SAAFE forum, like this one, it's an eye opener.

Yes I agree its a good read I only came across it when being on here.

And like I said when you read some of the horror stories that the escorts can be faced with it is not always as easy when some punters say all they do is open there legs, I don't think it is like that, there is a lot of risks involved keeping safe.

There is bad apples on both sides punters have been set up and robbed seeing girls and the escorts have had there fair share of violent nasty punters. There is bad punters out there and bad escorts out there.
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Offline LL

No big egos here LL. I just have this weird thing that makes me want to fuck as many different women as possible. Hardly ever see the same prossie twice (except perhaps in Soho but that's just because it's all so hit and miss there). The fact that I don't have regulars saves me from EAS, plus I always treat punting as a very pleasurable business transaction.
Yes sorry for my sweeping statement. Made sense when I wrote it last night on a late train home after a few beers! Now it doesn't read so well. Some of us, not all, have had an EAS episode at some point. I guess this thread struck a chord with me as my incident is something that I regret and feel stupid about. Also whilst newbie punters are most suseptical to EAS - I believe it could happen to anyone, even the guys who don't believe it would ever happen to themselves.

I think we all go through similar to this, but in time you work out that the relationship between punter and WG is monetary and nothing more.

WG = gold digging / money grabbing whore. They sell there body and sex for MONEY. End of.

Sure they can be nice, pleasant, funny - but it never goes beyond that. They are 99.9% in it SOLELY for the money.

So never, ever, ever have EAS !

PS - avoid Romanians too.


Offline akauya

Yes sorry for my sweeping statement. Made sense when I wrote it last night on a late train home after a few beers! Now it doesn't read so well. Some of us, not all, have had an EAS episode at some point. I guess this thread struck a chord with me as my incident is something that I regret and feel stupid about. Also whilst newbie punters are most suseptical to EAS - I believe it could happen to anyone, even the guys who don't believe it would ever happen to themselves.

No need to apologise LL; I completely understand. Also about the bit I highlighted... it could indeed happen to anyone. I know myself, if I were to have a regular with whom I connect really well I could easily become infatuated with her, which would be nothing but trouble. So, I stick to seeing different girls all the time. Of course there are some prossies I would love to see more often but I do force myself not to.

Offline Dani

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I think we all go through similar to this, but in time you work out that the relationship between punter and WG is monetary and nothing more.

WG = gold digging / money grabbing whore. They sell there body and sex for MONEY. End of.

Sure they can be nice, pleasant, funny - but it never goes beyond that. They are 99.9% in it SOLELY for the money.


why are people so surprised the relationship is purely financial.  You don't expect other service providers such as a barber or plumber to do his job for anything other than the money so why should it be different for us?
We sell a fantasy.  Its our job.  Of course we work for money.  Do any of you do your job for free?  No you do it for the money the same as everyone else who works.  Yet somehow prossies are not supposed to be in it for the money and as above the word money because overstated to prove that point.
As for getting involved with clients why would we?.  It just does not make sense to move from a business arrangement to a free arrangement and again none of you expect a hairdresser or any other type of female provider to do that

So yes like everyone else on the planet who works we do it for the money (or we would give it away for free wouldn't we) and most of us don't get involved with clients as like any other business it doesn't make sense to go from being paid to not getting paid by a client

I was saying it pretty much as you did Dani. I wasn't arguing the point - I was saying it IS purely for money.
We are saying the same thing aren't we?
I have no issue with that WG's selling sex and it being their job, but some folk seem to think it is more than that.....
I think your counter argument isn't with me and what i said.
Although, you have commented on other postings I've made and seem to have some sort of axe to grind with me? Not sure why?

Offline Dani

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I was saying it pretty much as you did Dani. I wasn't arguing the point - I was saying it IS purely for money.
We are saying the same thing aren't we?
I have no issue with that WG's selling sex and it being their job, but some folk seem to think it is more than that.....
I think your counter argument isn't with me and what i said.
Although, you have commented on other postings I've made and seem to have some sort of axe to grind with me? Not sure why?

I quoted your post mainly as it had emphasised the word money as if that was somehow wrong and it shouldn't be all about the money a all.  I did that so it would explain what I was saying about how some highlight the word money as if it is so wrong to work for it.
I have no quarrel with you as have no idea who you are and if I have answered some of your posts before it is probably because I didn't agree with them

Although, you have commented on other postings I've made and seem to have some sort of axe to grind with me? Not sure why?

Most likely because of the money grabbing gold digging whore comment.

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Offline greychap

Most likely because of the money grabbing gold digging whore comment.

 :music:

Yes I agree, but in all fairness its not fair to call of them gold digging whores, they are doing a job for money like we all do. A gold digging whore is someone that  is using them as a boyfriend trying to rip the guy off and take him for a ride and don't like the guy usually. The escorts are up front charging for services, well at least most of them are apart from the scammers and thiefs out there.

A lot of the escorts work hard for there money and they have to deal with punters that sometimes turn on them. They would also see a lot of guys that maybe cannot get a girlfriend or are disabled and without them they would never come near to a girl.

I respect an escort who works hard, does not claim benefits and gives themselves or even there children a better life then what they could have.
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Offline Quesadilla

Yes I agree, but in all fairness its not fair to call of them gold digging whores, they are doing a job for money like we all do. A gold digging whore is someone that  is using them as a boyfriend trying to rip the guy off and take him for a ride and don't like the guy usually. The escorts are up front charging for services, well at least most of them are apart from the scammers and thiefs out there.

A lot of the escorts work hard for there money and they have to deal with punters that sometimes turn on them. They would also see a lot of guys that maybe cannot get a girlfriend or are disabled and without them they would never come near to a girl.

I respect an escort who works hard, does not claim benefits and gives themselves or even there children a better life then what they could have.
+1 great post! Give credit where it's due many WG'S (actually most in my personal experience) do a fucking fantastic job!  :thumbsup:
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

Offline sam55

A couple of points come to mind after reading that on Saafe.

I wish I could turn down a grand a month, fuck me she must be on some sort of income.

I didn't realise that WG's had such a highly developed moral compass re not lying to the hubby, it doesn't seem to be quite so evident when they feed us a total load of bullshit though does it?

Lastly, why the fuck would you spend a grand a month on the same bird, either she's gotta be one hell of a shag or he's got a terminal case of EAS.


Offline sam55

Yes I agree, but in all fairness its not fair to call of them gold digging whores, they are doing a job for money like we all do. A gold digging whore is someone that  is using them as a boyfriend trying to rip the guy off and take him for a ride and don't like the guy usually. The escorts are up front charging for services, well at least most of them are apart from the scammers and thiefs out there.

A lot of the escorts work hard for there money and they have to deal with punters that sometimes turn on them. They would also see a lot of guys that maybe cannot get a girlfriend or are disabled and without them they would never come near to a girl.

I respect an escort who works hard, does not claim benefits and gives themselves or even there children a better life then what they could have.

I agree to a certain extent but they're not working for minimum wage like thousands of poor cunts are. They get paid per hour more than the Prime Minister!!

I have this with my regular at the moment and need to remember not to get attached and avoid seeing the same girl

But she always claims to love my company (think shes lonely at times) and i have paid for 1hr appointments and stayed 3hrs, we dont have sex all this time 90% just "hanging out".  But on a few occasions she has kicked me out due to other bookings so its a company thing

But I did for a while start buying her gifts and thinking of her too much as we really connected on. Personal level and she is open with me about her life.  She also bought me dinner once!

I quoted your post mainly as it had emphasised the word money as if that was somehow wrong and it shouldn't be all about the money a all.  I did that so it would explain what I was saying about how some highlight the word money as if it is so wrong to work for it.
I have no quarrel with you as have no idea who you are and if I have answered some of your posts before it is probably because I didn't agree with them

I am not sure all girls are no hardened maybe the majority.  But i have a regular who enjoys spending time with me and I owe her manyy hours due to over running appointments.  You cant generalise

Offline CBPaul



Lastly, why the fuck would you spend a grand a month on the same bird, either she's gotta be one hell of a shag or he's got a terminal case of EAS.

My thoughts exactly - one serious case of EAS I think.

I wonder if the bf can cope with being 12K a year worse off though. Doubt it somehow.

Offline Aspen

Lastly, why the fuck would you spend a grand a month on the same bird, either she's gotta be one hell of a shag or he's got a terminal case of EAS.

And for two years!!!

It reminds me of a girl I saw a while back who was really good, and has a similar name and I wonder if it's the same one. Spooky if it is.
Banning reason: Secret barebacker who used the name "Loneranger" to slag off UKP and spread malicious claims against admin + Previously banned as "overhead". Also known as "Warwick"

Yes I agree, but in all fairness its not fair to call of them gold digging whores, they are doing a job for money like we all do. A gold digging whore is someone that  is using them as a boyfriend trying to rip the guy off and take him for a ride and don't like the guy usually. The escorts are up front charging for services, well at least most of them are apart from the scammers and thiefs out there.

A lot of the escorts work hard for there money and they have to deal with punters that sometimes turn on them. They would also see a lot of guys that maybe cannot get a girlfriend or are disabled and without them they would never come near to a girl.

I respect an escort who works hard, does not claim benefits and gives themselves or even there children a better life then what they could have.

+ 1

Best post I have read and I am not a spring chicken at this game.

I suffer from EAS - every time I am with a WG.

In my mind, as a punter (what else am I?),  I have a role to play apart from being a ATM. I enjoy being civil, chatty as well as much fun as I can muster. if a WG responds then EAS - if we do not click then so be it!

If EAS threatens then it is all about the money and how much I am prepared to give away - a lot depends on the WG and their ability to read the situation - IMHO

Offline Quesadilla

I didn't realise that WG's had such a highly developed moral compass re not lying to the hubby, it doesn't seem to be quite so evident when they feed us a total load of bullshit though does it?
If you want honesty get a girlfriend, you're paying WG's to bullshit you - "oh Sam, just like that you're amazing!".  :D

Lastly, why the fuck would you spend a grand a month on the same bird, either she's gotta be one hell of a shag or he's got a terminal case of EAS.
Personally spent over £1k on one regular last month.  Why? Because she's the best bullshitter.  :lol: 

Like MeesterNeek says I am paying for a girlfriend I could never possibly have in real life and for me if there's no emotional attachment it doesn't feel like a proper GFE.  I alternate with others so I don't get too EAS'd but not always easy. Fortunately she's heading back to the home country for Christmas so will wean myself off a bit.
Banning reason: Obnoxious and arrogant + Veiled threat of outing punter on UKE

I can understand why EAS happens.  I've seen hundreds of girls. Didn't think twice about most of them but occasionally you just click. They let you in a bit and before you know it you are sucked in and both start blurring the lines. Messy situation.

It sounds like the guy has a case if he has been spending a grand a month on her for years

Offline willbred

If a guy is a prossie's boyfriend,or whatever he should realise that it may not always be just "wham, bam...." either way. Jealousy and prossies is a toxic mixture-whether from a client's or BF's perspective IMHO
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If a guy is a prossie's boyfriend,or whatever he should realise that it may not always be just "wham, bam...." either way. Jealousy and prossies is a toxic mixture-whether from a client's or BF's perspective IMHO

As a punter I think sex & love are different.

I don't think I would find the job difficult to deal with if she was happy.


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